General feels thread. Get whatever is hurting you off your chest.

>>723467987
So what was that fight about anon?

u'll get over it.

>>723467987
Tl:dr please?

>>723468186
Her father is in the military. Straight ace man. No drinking, no smoking, no gambling. I sometimes do some of them once or twice in a month. (At most). She was OK with it at the beginning. We had 1 or 2 fights about it towards the end.
Then comes the biggest student holiday in my country. We and our mutual mutual friends (all drink way more than me) go out and I get a couple of shots, get realtively drunk, smoke a cigarette (I hate the taste, only do it when drunk). She doesnt like it, we go away from everyone and start fighting. Pretty much sums it up. She says its all we broke up for.

>>723468532
Loved a girl, we broke up, I have to see her everyday, have the feels every night.

>>723468636
And you don't think you guys can reconcile? That doesn't sound very bad, does she never drink anything at all? She can't seriously expect you to never party. How old are you guys?

>>723469101
both 20. I thought we could. The thing is.. she doesn't seem to enjoy spending time with me anymore. She hasn't sent one message since we broke up, has started conversation like 3-4 times. Small talks.
Before we started dating, she was the one who would call me more, who would laugh at my crappy jokes. Now I can just feel it is cold af.
She likes to go parties and stuff, but in different ways. She loves music, loves dancing and singing and being with people.. just no alcohol. But I dont know.. She knew that I did these things before we got together. I doubt that is the reason we broke up. You can't claim to love somebody, break up with him for a very specific reason (when we split up she claimed still lvoed me) and not talk to him ever again. I find that more as a excuse

>>723469409
Yeah I think so too wanted to gently push you toward that thought as I got the impression you believed her. Well, that sucks mate. Maybe she wasn't as great as you thought in the first place. You weren't together for so long, I know it sounds repetitive and I know it doesn't seem like it now, but you'll get over her eventually.

>>723468636
>not letting me drink once in a month
it's not love when somebody doesn't want you to have fun. Realise this and start feeling glad this never went too far

>"broke up with my girl"
>stopped reading
>at least you've had a gf

>>723470268
That was the reason we even started arguing. I told her it was not about the particular drinking thing.. It was more of her not wanting to accept me as who I am. She said she wanted to, but couldn't. I got mad, left the room. My point is.. I consider myself a rational person. I can see all your guys' points. Every time I think that it was for the better.. I go on with my life. And still there is something in the backgorund. "This activity would've been better if she was here... You went to shi place together.. You ate this burger the other day". And the burgers become shit. I know should move on, I can't. That's why I am typing useless topics on anonynomus internet site.

Oh dude, I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how much that must hurt, and it hurts just doing so. It makes it even worse that it wasn't even anything specific I guess. I mean like you said, you think about how things could have so easily been differently and that hurts so much.

Here's my outlet. It's not as dramatic as yours. I'm just lost and my mind is in a daze and I don't know what to do with myself at all. I was supposed to go to school today, to college, but I didn't go. I hate it there. I hate how alone I feel there. Being around so many people, especially all these beautiful girls makes me realise just how alone I really am. I just hate it. I'm in the bath right now and I don't want to come out. I don't know what the fuck to do with myself. I'm so fucking sick of being alone like thisC but also just feeling like this too. So hopeless and empty.