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Sup /b/, I have a bit of an issue. About 6 months ago I got

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Sup /b/,

I have a bit of an issue. About 6 months ago I got attached to a co-worker and we started having sex. We're both married. I have kids and have been with my wife for over 10 years. Long story short is neither of us want to give up what we have. We've been lucky enough to not have something bad happen so far, but it's only a matter of time.

The question is how do I stop fucking my mistress. Before you say, "stop fucking her" it's not that simple. It's like a cocaine addiction.

Pic related, it's my wife.
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tell your wife
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>>723161659
That, sir, sounds like a terrible idea. I told her I was struggling with an emotional attachment to my co-workers months ago, before it went physical. She asked me to stop talking to her then.
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Bump
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Something has to happen that would make it stop instantly, it's very possible to overcome cheating by working on it with your wife, your marriage doesn't have to be over
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>>723162094
Yea, the part I'm struggling with is kicking the addiction to my co-worker.
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cut your dick off
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>>723161636
You know damn well you can't have your cake and eat it too.

You'll eventually lose one or the other.

If it was me I'd break it off with the co-worker because I wouldn't want to lose my ass in the divorce.

You're wife looks like Mia Lina, very nice
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yea dude stop cheating your living in a bubble of lies man ive been there

just stop dude

your wife loves you YOU of all the sad pathetic creatures she had to choose from she chooses you.. SHE TRUSTS YOU

BUT FUCK HER OK. Dont tell her shit cause its just so YOU feel better NOT her.

Cut This bitch off and get a fucking grip man

last warning..

-your higher self
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post co worker instead
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You're a pathetic tool with no willpower. Kill yourself instead.
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>>723161636
You need to quit your job or transfer to a new location if possible. When you tell the mistress that you're breaking it off be sure she thinks that your wife found out. You don't need her thinking she has something to hold over you if and when she gets feelings about calling it off
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>>723162255
+1

Let's see what you're ruining your marriage over.
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>>723162222
I do, that's why I'm lucky thus far. I know if I don't stop it will end poorly eventually.
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>>723162229
You have? How did you stop? I don't plan on telling my wife, I agree it won't help anything.

Thanks for the advice.
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>>723162302
This, 1000 times this.

I did something similar to this whole thing. The greatest thing I did accidentally was make it would like my wife already knew and I wouldn't ever talk about it again.

Otherwise she is walking around with a grenade that can blow up your wife and kids.

Also- I told the mistress it was about a health thing with her. And I went cold fucking turkey.
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>>723161636

Do what I do, move on from one to another, don't give last name, DOB or where you live now.

Keep it simple, stupid.
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post the mistress
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>>723162255
>>723162388
Sorry, had so.eone come in my office.
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>>723161636
Only the weak-willed can't drop an addiction whenever they want.

The fact that you haven't dropped her means either you're weak willed or you don't really want to stop.
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>>723162302
The good news is my mistress loves her husband, too. She doesn't want to wreck her marriage either.
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>>723162781
Of course I don't WANT to stop. The question is what tricks do people use to stop anyhow?
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>>723162797
now i understand why, you are fucked op , ill choose the miss instead of wife
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>>723162797
Don't be a fucking moron. Your mistress is female. She doesn't even understand how and why she feels most of the time. Have some fucking sense and protect yourself
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>>723162848
No tricks. They just have a little thing called self control. It's a thing us humans have.
Sounds like you must be a nigger?
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>>723162848
אתה ישראלי ?
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>>723161636
your wife a chink?
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>>723162916
Yea, it sucks.
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>>723162702
Definite step down from the spicy Latina, dude. Just break it off, bigger tits aren't worth it.
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>>723163113
Latina
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>>723163207
Yea, I just need to focus on my wife and all she has to offer.

Thanks, bro for the reminder.
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>>723163164
can you still fuck in the side ? try to keep it just about sex and detach your feelings over time. make your miss your best friend instead and not youe emotional partner.
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>>723163164
lol

your wife is more attractive than this fat saggy titty whore

also, you're a sack of shit. just like the other anon, said, she trusts you, and you betrayed her. I almost cheated on my gf many years ago but didnt, i still feel bad about it, i never told her, but goddamn, you're married with kids. sad. i hope you get caught and i hope your life gets ruined.
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>>723163317
We have thought about that, the problem is it's more of an emotional affair over physical. Not sure how to change that. I doubt we can ever just be friends again.
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>>723163226
Wife has nicer tits and a gorgeous bush. Unless she's a total bitch, you're going in the wrong direction for sure.

In "guy" terms...I'd nut inside your wife because she's a keeper but the mistress would get it across her face because she's a whore.
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>>723161636
Move
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>>723163371
i am not trying to tell you to be less human and not feel stuff, but all the solutions /b/ has given you, requires some sort of sicrifice. You need to work it out so your children dint suffer because of your mistakes. Anyway op have a great day, i finished jerking off with the miss picks, thanks.
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>>723163513
Haha I know what you mean. My wife's not a bitch, she's pretty perfect. I'm not sure how I got in this boat. The work wife isn't a whore though, in all fairness. They're both great women.

Either way, wife's great, not her fault.
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>>723161636

when the bush hits you
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>>723163622
Thanks for the advice. Probably have to just go cold turkey. We've tried a few times without success. I've been considering telling my boss.
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>>723161636
I call BS on that being your wife, especially since you said you had kids. Not sure if you know this but very, and I mean very, few women who get pregnant get no stretch marks.
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>>723163721
no dude, dont tell this to anyone. Arent you human?humans tend to betray eachother.

later, space cowboy.
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>>723163830
Nah, she eats very clean, even during pregnancy, and hits the gym about 30 days after delivery. That's what happen when your girl takes care of herself bro.
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>>723162229
i stopped cause i told her

big mistake

we would of both been happier in ignorance but you know dont do that crime if your a litte bitz you may need to reconsider if you are here feeling bad about it
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You're clearly a dipshit.
You have a wife with a hot ass body and you'd prefer to risk your life and the life of your children over some pussy.

You're a dumb mother fucker and deserve the divorce you're going to get and the future children who will be beaten by their step father and most likely raped.
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>>723163945
He wouldn't judge me, but would help me stop. I could see it go either way.
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>>723164057
I do feel bad about it.
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Get them to meet briefly. It will scare the shit out you so much you will just stop. Profit.
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>>723163017
>nigger
>doesn't want to lose his wife and kids
Pick one
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>>723164180
They actually know each other. She and her husband came over twice for dinner a few months ago, before we were having sex. When my wife asked me to stop talking to her we stopped hanging out as couples. She and I did not.
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>>723164207
Top kek.
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>>723161636
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>>723164207
I'll stop nig-nogging
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Idk why we're all even slightly invested in this fucking prick. Dude has an office, hot wife, kids. Has more than I'm willing most of us have. He's committed himself to throwing it away and now he's desperate because he's coming to his senses. Men like this are the absolute weakest.
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>>723163673

>>723164360
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>>723164247
You are a piece of shit, but I think everyone is tempted or have done it. And you know this. But have they met again after you started fucking though? That little chance of getting found out, as well as how fucking weird it will be for you, will bring you to your senses.
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>>723161636
make a point of fucking every morning. get some limp perspective on your emotional attachment. it's a guiltless way to sabotage your office relationship
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>>723164418
They have not. My wife has no interest in seeing her. She wrote her of after I told her I was crushing months ago.
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>>723164464
Fuck who every morning? My miss?
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>>723163662
>>723163662
sweet body. awesome fucking nips.
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>>723161636
You know, OP, you come to /b/ for advice and shut down anything anyone says as impossible. You don't want to solve this problem. You're not ready to solve this problem, so get off /b/ already.

If trips, you must tell your wife and demand a threesome.
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>>723161636

when dat bush hits you yet again
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tfw your wife is banging the other husband.
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>>723164622
Exactly. He completely ignored my post. Fuck this retard
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>>723164662
That would simplify things...
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>>723161636
>>723161636
post vids of your side chick already.

I can't tell you how to stop. Wish I knew how to make good decisions. Maybe just focus on the fact that your life as you know it will end someday in the near future. It will eventually come out. always does. You might go for years, but eventually you get busted.

You can stop that from happening.
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>>723164707
>>723164662
>>723164418
>>723164415
>>723164088
>>723163721
>>723162797
>>723161837
>>723161636

when you cant get enuff of dat bush
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> It's like a cocaine addiction
Well it's not heroin.. so stop already
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>>723164707
You don't think that if we stop now we can go undetected?
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>>723161636
the only solution is to stop fucking her. if thats not an option for you than face the consequences like a man you faggot. and there are a lot of people how got away from coke cold turkey.
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>>723164556
your wife.
or just do your worst and watch the world burn
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>>723164810
Got it. Will do that. Will have to do zero contact.
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>>723163673
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>>723164821
Yea, just making sure we are on the same page.
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>>723164805
I don't know. But everyday you keep fucking it will get more and more likely. A co-worker will notice. Her husband will find out. You will get caught fucking somewhere. She will go to therapy with her husband and will admit. Or he will cheat on her and she will get back at him by telling him.

I know a dude who had a mistress for 8 years - so it can be done, but most people I know who cheated.. eventually it comes out.
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If only thinking of your kids futures in either a broken home or a happy home doesn't stop you, then you are a shit tier dad that deserves what is coming for being a greedy selfish son of a bitch.
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> It's like a cocaine addiction

Then get a new job. That is what you do when you have a drug problem. You stop hanging out with the same fucking people.

You in AZ, cuz I could use some side pussy.
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>>723164957
>>723164993
>>723165008
Thanks for the actual useful information. I'm here because I do care about the wife and kids. It's more of a "how to" question.

I'll make it happen.
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I never understood that. My friend s gf seems happy with him and doesn't seem to want to break up. Since they got together I saw her in bed with another friend of mine and once kissing some dude. Maybe I'm retarded but if I had a gf I'll feel like its enough if you get me? It seems so natural to some people to cheat to the point where it's almost normal
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>>723165115
This is my first time ever, not happy with myself. Won't do it again.
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If mistress is in same boat wanting to keep her marriage, then have an adult conversation with her, and both agree not to do it anymore. Simple.
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http://cheesespin.net/
fap this hard
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Don't stop just be really careful. Plus 2x the pussy.
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>>723165106
>Cares about wife and kids
>Regularly risks it all for sex
Right...
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>>723161636
Here's what you do. Next time your dick is in your girlfriend, remind yourself that your wife will tell the judge that you shouldn't be allowed near your kids, and the judge will "allow" you to see your kids for two day out of every two weeks - assuming you are perfect in every way except sleeping around on your wife. And the judge will also tell you that you have to give your house and home plus 25% of your paycheck for the next 12 years to the woman that now hates your guts. Your kids will grow up thinking their Dad hates them and act out in school and drop our of college to join the military to die in the middle east to build up Trump's ego.
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>>723165217
Yes, we're making the mistake of wanting to stay friends. We go no physical contact, but after a few days we slip again.

We have to go no contact.
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>>723162781
Do you even know what an addiction is
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>>723165355
>>723161636
Yeah OP make sure you seperate your economy form your wife's.
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>>723161768
Doesn't matter what you do. Wife is already looking for another cock to sit on if you told her that. Ya dun goofed.
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>>723161837
Tell her that her underwear isn't letting her pores breath, that fucking rash would go away if she wasn't wearing shit underwear.
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>>723162229
>-your higher self
Ok mum, get off the internet
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>>723165403
Yes, but never struggled with it til now.
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>>723161636
Negative association.
Every time you think about your side bitch you need to remind yourself that it WILL lead to a messy divorce and a lot of financial and emotional burden.

Do not reward yourself for thinking good about your wife. Just focus on remembering the (negative) consequences everytime you see/hear/think.

How dare she ruin your marriage, she's a dick hungry whore and you are putting her whore pussy on a pedestal above your wife.
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>>723165355
>and drop our of college to join the military to die in the middle east to build up Trump's ego.

Implying Trump will be in office when the kids are old enough. But thanks for playing Senator Warren.
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>>723166107
That is perfect advice! I get it. It doesn't matter who she is IRL, she needs to be nothing but a cock hungry fucking whore from here on out.

Thanks for the great advice anon!
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Bro honestly bang your wife more. She is hot as fuck and deserves hard fucking. Whenever you start getting that urge to hit the side ho grab your wife and break her with your dick. After you blow you won't be horny and pining for that strange. And your wife will love the attention.
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>>723166636
Thanks, will do man. Going to start going home at lunch.
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>>723161636
Tell your wife. Otherwise this thing that meant nothing will suddenly have meant something. Also, get counseling.
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As a man who "had his cake and was eating it too" for 4 years, you have to quit your job. Its the only viable option. The problems that you will have if you continue this path are unimaginable. Get transfered, find another job. You really like your job? Sorry you made the decision to fuck around with a coworker and it will ruin your life if you stay. You've already proven your not strong enough to quit fucking around, so plan B.
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I'm your boss. I'm fucking your wife. She feels so good.
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>>723167218
I can't leave, it's not that simple. But I'll imagine her as a home wrecking whore. That should help.
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>>723161837
You cheated on this?? Bruh she's got a great body wtf.
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>>723167550
Not proud of it. I got caught up emotionally.
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>>723163830
My wife is 5'1" and got no stretch marks
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>>723167922
Yep, pic?
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OP where are you from? I'll fuck your wife or your coworker so you can stay sexually satisfied with the other
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>>723167968
This is child #2, taken late december
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>>723168413
I'm in Dallas. We would consider a swap, that's why we were doing couples dinner, but my wife got cold feet.
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>>723168584
Nice, she's petite.
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>>723163047
Lol why in the world would he be?
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>>723162229
This.
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>>723168413
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Thats exactly what she is, a homewrecking whore and thats why shes so attractive to you believe it not. Good luck! Get counseling like one poster already said or you are fuuuuucked.
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>>723162797
It's the rush and exhilaration you guys get knowing that both of your SO won't find out.

Until one of you does something stupid to have them find out.

Unless you want to be in deep shit money-wise, OP, break it off with the mistress ASAP.
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>>723168599
Austin here, frequent traveler to Dallas on business. We should meet up.
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>>723168802
Yeah, hope you get it straightened out OP. Your wife is too hot to get cut off from.
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>>723161636
>Asks /b/ to help him get out from his misery.
>Didn't want to listen "MUH ADDICTION"

Seriously, you faggot. Just go to doctor and ask him to cut your dick and balls. That would me lot more easier.
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>>723163662
OP, just know, if she finds out, she will make your life an absolute shit hole to live in. Break it off with the mistress completely, because you got a bangin' hot spicy latina at home, with beautiful kids you couldn't be more proud of.
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>>723168997
>>723168894
Thanks for great posts.
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>>723161636

OP if you could tell us your wife's name and address, we could help you stop fucking your coworker permanently.

tell us, OP, we want to help
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>>723169277

dubs demand it
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>>723169076
Married or swinging gf? Pic?

>>723169115
Thanks, she is hot.
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>>723161636
stop fucking her
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>>723169366
Will do.
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>>723162208
sure fire solution, everything else is crap
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>>723161636

Oh look, another weak willed husk of a man without the willpower and strength of character to stay faithful to his wife.

Hope it all comes crashing down around you and you lose everything.
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>>723169316
Married. I don't post her publicly only privately.
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>>723161636
get wife into swinging and shit ... tell co worker to do same
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>>723161636
The sexual spark always dies in a marriage. Or at least in every case I've seen. I think it's important to date the same girl until the sexual part of the relationship dies down. To where you only bang once or twice a month, because that's how it will get. If your relationship can still survive only banging a couple times a month, then it's a good relationship and you'll probably have a good marriage. But most relationships can't survive when the sexual spark dies down and it can be anywhere from only a few weeks in to up to a couple years (if the sex is really good for you both).

Sounds like you got married before you're ready. Most people have no business getting married until their 30s, they aren't content with their "numbers" yet and still want to experiment.

Also, be very careful how you deal with this as it's very easy to ruin things with both if you break it off wrong. A classic mistake would be telling her. Your wife will end it with you and you'll think you can fall back on the mistress, also wrong. You'll find out, with women, that you have faaaaar greater value if you're already taken. Generally the kind of skanks that will bang a guy on the side are aroused at the notion that you have a woman and that she's stealing your attention away from her.

I broke it off with my side chick two years ago and told my fiance... guess what, lost both and haven't had a woman in 2 years (when prior I had many potentially interested women). Sleezy slimey women these days prefer taken guys. He who has gets.... if you have nothing, you radiate that and you'll have no interested people.
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>>723161636
Fuck it, keep it going, delete pictures though and keep evidence to as little as possible.

So you like nutting in other vaginas, who doesn't, it's fun! Probably good for your health too

I'm married and I wish I had other vaginas
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>>723169784
"It wasn't me", women will lie to themselves and be just fine with it
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>>723169784
In hindsight would you have told her? Ide guess not.
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>>723163226
I'd go balls deep in her op
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>>723170384
Thanks, I do enjoy it.
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>>723163662
Hnnnnng
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>>723163662
Dem legs
Dat ass
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>>723170150
In hindsight, I wouldn't have told the fiance obviously. But I still would have broke it off with the side chick. Truth is, side chick was hotter and the sex was better, but she was dumb as a brick, which doesn't make for good relationships or anyone who's company you can truly enjoy.

But fiance left me when I told her (or said she'd work it out originally but in less than 2 weeks of her being hyper paranoid that any time I wasn't home I was cheating, she broke it off). When trust is gone, the relationship is dead, so if someone cheats, contrary to popular belief, the best you can do is to STOP cheating and never let her know. It just works out best for everyone.
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Which one is better in the sack
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>>723170519
Yep, I'm done with the work girl, and won't tell my wife.
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>>723170582
They're both good. They both do different things, but one's not better than the other.
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>>723170582
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>>723171021
Does she ever shave or wax
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Any photos of the wife lactating?
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>>723171121
Occasionally, not often.
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Post pics of mistress.
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>>723171195
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>>723171195
More
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>>723171366
Any of her standing? Like a FF selfie
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>>723171581
I don't have them on my phone.
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>>723162917
More wisdom in this post than the rest of the thread
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>>723171765
Yea, I get that.
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>>723163662
Is this your wife anon?! if so: WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU
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>>723171833
But sure what's wrong with me. Again, not sure how I got here. Was gradual over time. I would have never guessed I'd be a cheater...
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>>723171833
This guy obviously has never been married...
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>>723171937
Haha true story.
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>>723169784
Some truth in here OP, along with sprinklings of the non-shitty bits of TRP. As a married anon (11+ years) can confirm the bit about the spark dying down and you needing to be able to handle that. We're struggling with it; I'm a high-libido and she's a practically no-libido. It's fucked up :/
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Is the OP of this thread still here?
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>>723172297
I am. May be slow, working.
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>>723172286
Yea, the wife is about 8-10 times a month.
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How many times have you fucked them both in the same day?
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>>723172536
3x for mistress, wife that night once.
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It really depends OP, if you genuinley want to stop; try to reduce the amounts of times you have sex in (for example) a month - keep going until you can stay away from each other long enough that there is no strong emotional connection.

Talk to your wife also, obviously don't tell her what's going on; but tell her that your love life has become dull.
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>>723172704
I don't think it's sexual. It was more emotional with the work girl. She and I started calling her my work wife. :/
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>>723172832
What do you see in her/feel about her that you don't with your wife?
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The real question is here, why would a sane man cheat on an obviously Sex Latina, not only marrying him but let him take tons no noods?

I mean seriously OP, what's wrong with you?
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>>723172876
Hmm, she sees my success, gives me a lot of attention my wife doesn't. My wife doesn't understand my work. Obviously my work wife does, since we work together.
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>>723172916
Yea, she is great. Her only rule is no face pics, anything else goes.
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>>723173041
How much do you earn average?
Again, talk to your wife. BUT if you are good at scheduling and have free time that your wife won't ask about then don't stop.
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>>723173041
Also OP, make sure this shit doesn't show up on your internet if your using your work PC.
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>>723173104
My base salary is about $110k, plus profit sharing.
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>>723173221
I'm on my phone.
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>>723173231
I'm guessing your in some sort of financial company? Maybe a Quant or something like that.
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>>723173283
I'm in technology. She is one of my project directors.
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>>723173041
So, if I can interpret: your wife doesn't understand your work, so maybe one of your core rationalizations for all of this is you hamstering out of "she doesn't understand my work" into "she doesn't understand how much I sacrifice to provide for our family" and that translates into you feeling like she doesn't respect you. And as any non-tard adult male knows: men first need to feel respected, while women first need to feel loved.

If this sounds even remotely plausible, then I'd dual-attack it: unwind that hamster in your brain, cause it's bullshit. And also try talking to your wife more about your work - explain that while you recognize that she doesn't "get it" and probably doesn't care to try, that it's important to you because you feel like there's a lack of appreciation rooted in her inability to grasp it, even at a high level.

But don't lie to yourself: ultimately it's just a blown-up rationalization to dip your wick elsewhere, so keep your high-n-mighty "muh respect" tamped down through all of this.
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Is your mistress dissatisfied in her marriage or husband's sex or is she just your typical ho who wants to get basted by as many guy's gravy as possible
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Better Sex with Wife or Mistress?
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>>723173434
That's dead on. And great advice, thanks.
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>>723173478
No, she's not a slut. She doesn't want to leave her husband. We emotionally stimulate each other and it evolved.
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>>723173518
Both good.
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>>723161636
>>723161653
>>723161837

dude. you're the problem.
if that was my wife i would fuck that soe long deep and often there would be zero energy or semen left to put into anyone else.
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Well, Damn OP; I don't know what to say.
If you continue then you'll fuck up your marriage.
Your getting 2 different pussy's.
It comes down to if you could choose to be with one forever who would you choose.
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>>723173781
Meh, for a while. I still do, but, life and such.
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>>723173835
My wife.
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>>723171021
Your wife reminds me of a small petite freak I used to fuck, good times
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It's really not hard to stop fucking someone you don't live with. Are you pounding her in the janitors closet at work or something? Seriously just stop renting hotel rooms. It's literally easier to not fuck her than to continue fucking her.
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>>723162848
She's hotter than your wife
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>>723174059
Yes, not the janitors closet, but something similar
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>>723169076

austin as well with freaky wife
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Hey op. Had the same issue that you have right now and I feel you. Forbidden sex is the best sex. But for your own sake just break it to her that you can't keep being with her and sex your wife instead. My marriage went to pieces cause my wife found out. I got off lucky, but it might end worse than you can manage for you, since you have kids.
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>>723174376
Pic?
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>>723169784
>Sleezy slimey women these days prefer taken guys.

It's always been like this with women.

It seems to be a competition to see if they can tempt you away or that you are a more desirable male since another woman wants you.
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>mfw some people have it all but don't deserve nothing
>mfw some people have nothing but deserve it all
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>>723174498
That's a recurring theme. Got it. Thanks for sharing.
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>>723171189

pretty little chocha
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>>723174541
Kys

>>723174563
There is always the option of trying to break your wife into the idea of swapping or having an open marriage
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>>723161636
sex her husband
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>>723171021
More pics of your wife please
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>>723174692
We have been thinking about it. Her husband is open to it. My wife was almost onboard. I've considered bringing it back up.
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>>723161768
Break up with the wife and fuck who ever you want.

Don't get married again
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>>723161636
>how do i stop doing something don't tell me to stop doing it.


what kind of fucking thread is this? guaranteed useless?? get a cock cage or start slamming tramadol you piece of garbage.
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>>723174541
>yfw no one deserves anything. Everything should be earned
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>>723161837
>>723161653
>>723161636


>married for over 10 years
>wife has the body of a 23 year old

I highly fucking doubt it, and everyone giving real advice just got the shit trolled out of them
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>>723175211
She's 28. Not my fault you're used to sloppy girls.
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>>723175311
>Married for OVER 10 years
>She's 28

Something isn't adding up here, dumb ass.
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>>723174518

>had the same kinda cooling off in our relationship
>talked with her and said lets get that spark back
>started going on dinner movie and show dates
>rent a room and get away from kids and daily stresses
>get her psyched up about having fun sex again

you can do it OP
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>>723175422
Good advice, thanks. I'll focus on us.
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>>723161636
If that's your wife after 10 years, then you are a stupid Fuck.

My gf's instagain 10 kgs before 1 year mark is over.
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Tell your wife she came onto you, nothing happened but it made you uncomfortable. You feel awkward telling your boss because it's embarrassing and you want to start looking for a new job. She will want you to quit right away, she'll be happy you told her as 'it must have been hard for you'.
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>>723175487
/thread
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>>723175507
I'm sorry to hear that...
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>>723175516
>lie

This is not a sustainable friendship model.
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When you do tell her the truth in say, a year or so you'll have already moved and you'll still be the good guy cos you made the effort to stop and even quit work to get away from it.
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>>723161768
Wtf is wrong with you? Just deny. I've cheated a few times never been caught. In college, my girlfriend at the time walked in on me about to kiss another chick. Got away with it. You guys are ridiculous. Also, all these dudes crying about not betraying you wife are clearly small dicked or single, a man has three needs: (1) Food and Water (2) a Home; and (3) new pussy.
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been there... one of you will have to leave. That's how it works.
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>>723175878
I bet you live with your parents and have never had sex
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>>723175878
too expand on #3, if you cannot understand the idea of cheating for new pussy, it because you don't have old pussy. Especially after kids, the old pussy real old.
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>>723175507
>If that's your wife after 10 years
It's not. He's already fucked up the math on this one and abandoned thread. He had a pretty good run before someone was finally smart enough to put 2 and 2 together
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>>723175992
Lol, sometime I wish that were true, I have three kids dog
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Post mistress and wife spread pussy to compare what's worth anon
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>>723168584
FUCKING MORE OF THE BRED BITCH

was that a girl or a boy? God i hope she had a daughter, a pretty daughter, somebody who will be righteously fucked the way her mother was.
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>>723176138
Mhmmmmmmmm. 3 kids and no stretch marks or wrecked pussy. You should probably stay with her because she's obviously a fucking witch.

To recap:
>Been married since before she was 18
>Has the body of a 23 year old at "28"
>Has had 3 kids without destroying her body

This is obviously a troll thread.
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>>723176023
I'm here
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>>723161636
OP, take it from someone that was in this boat. I had a work wife, and things were great for both sides. The mistress and I decided together that neither of us was willing to change our situation so we mutually stopped the affair. All was good, and two years later my gf of 8 years found a snipit of some google chats that somehow didn't get deleted. We were so careful, and very good about keepong things on the DL. Go figure this came back to bite me in the ass. Karma is a bitch my friend, I know your intentions and I've been in your shoes. You may get out unscathed, but the chances are slim to less than a snowballs chance in hell. Your situation is different obviously, but the similarity is there, and typically things don't end well for guys like us in these situations. The world is too cruel to allow us to have our cake and eat it! I wish you the best /b/ro, and would be happy to help if I can...
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>>723176820
Prove you're OP


Oh, wait, that's right, you can't because you never posted any proof of any of this.
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>>723162222
>Mia Lina
>quads

great post anon
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>>723163226
so fine
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I know what your going through OP just got out of a 6 month affair with my wife's best friend. Told me plans how once she was settled we would be together and had me distance my love from my wife. She left her husband for me and my wife and myself helped her move herself and kids to a new place. One month after it ended and now she is with a new dude leaving me to try and find the love back for my wife and being their best friends I have to hear and even try and hang around with them. Shit is fucked up and not worth it OP. Let the mistress go and focus on your wife and kids best for everyone and your sanity.
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>>723177454
Will do. Again, thanks for perspective.
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>>723161636 you need to seek help. you quite clearly have an addictive personality that requires professional help. don't ruin the lives of your family, op. I understand that once you get into something addictive, it's fucking hard to break away from it. but the next time you fuck your coworker, think about the well being of those you truly love, and tell her no more.
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>>723163226
those inch long nips would make me gag, otherwise fantastic.
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Gosh i was at one step to fall into the same problem. I've stop at just some touching and kissing but not sex. We talked about the problems that might result (same we don't want to ruin what we have). We still teasing and talking but we stop kissing and now I realize that is just a matter of time since the situation will escalate if we continue. I truly understand you OP i am 7 years married, no kids (she had 2) the coworker is not 50% of my wife but i would fuck something else like hell. I'm glad that we didn't get forward, but i still feel that I cheat and I hope that I will have the power to stop this.
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