>Be me >Fresh-eyed, innocent, 18yo out of gifted high school

tits or gtfo

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>>723155183
There's fucking tits all over this board, pick one and bust a nut on it

>Going around getting fucked (literally) and wasted
>Thinking you almost getting raped is something special
your room mates knew you are coalburner and now daddy has to prep the bull becuz they couldnt stand ur shit

>>723155261
nah cant fap, gf comin home later... its more like a conformation thing that ur story isnt just plain bullshit from a 200kg neckbeard

>>723155539
I'd actually prefer you thought that than to have to show my tits to some autistic stranger on the web

>>723155468
It's not special, but it is something that can change the a person interacts with the world around them. Just to inform you, although I'm under my parent's roof, they aren't the ones financially supporting me.
And who said anything about coals? I never fucked gorillas.

>>723155640
explain?

>>723155761
I'd prefer that you assumed I was some fat neckbeard at home pounding away at my keys and beating my meat in lonely solitude than a girl. At least then, I could keep my dignity without you pursuing "proof" by picture.

Really, tits aren't even proof, and I'm sure people here know that. You can retrieve any picture from the web, or even of women in your life (if you're slick and creepy) for tits to try to prove you're female. Tits or gtfo is just so that you get another pair in your face. It didn't even do you any good.

You are right, but I thought when you post on this board u know the rules. tits + timestamp. or just a timestamp + any picture of you for my part. shoe on arm + timestamp for instance. and ofc u dont have 2 submit BUT then u also dont have 2 expect people repying 2 you and maybe trying 2 help you.

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>>723155057

That's an unfortunate situation, OP. In the future, I would recommend you establish clear boundaries and keep to them with regards to your interpersonal relationships. These are not simply for your protection, but for public and social records that, in the event of a breach, you can avoid appearing as a culpable party in a conflict or miscommunication.

You should also consider attending therapy through your university health center (or program) if it is possible for you to do so. Depending on where you live and the nature of your school, you are likely eligible to have the fees associated with mental health counseling both sealed (as per FERPA in the States) and waived.

Given the sensitive nature of the incident, you may wish to involve people whom you consider part of your core support network in moving forward.

Does this seem like an appropriate course of action, OP?

>>723156395
I didn't expect anyone to reply. I just wanted to post it somewhere it couldn't be linked to me. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has that feeling where thoughts or feelings just bore holes into their head. Regardless of what it concerns, it's a human issue.

Posting any kind of picture on 4chan is dangerous, and I don't want to be linked. There was no positive outcome to be obtained from leaving a picture of myself with the post.

>>723155057
>>Sister and my neighbor finally come to talk about it at 3am, the day before I'm moving out
>>They blame me
FUCK THEM, you did the right thing. You're life will end up great. Stick with your goals, and maybe try and date someone more secure then your lame-ass neighbor

>>723155183
>>723155539
>>723156395
you fucking newfags don't know the rules

that rule only applies if it's some stupid cunt trying to get attention when she has nothing to offer by saying "hurr durr femanon here :-D"

op could literally swap the genders here and it'd be fine

>>723156625

I tried reaching out the the university mental health services that they offered, but they immediately told me it would be something way out of what they'd be equipped to help me with.
I talked to my normal doctor later and was prescribed medication for depression and given a referral for a therapist, but the health coverage is under my parents' name and my mother is in denial that her perfect daughter needs help.

What you suggested is a generally good course of action to take, and I thank you for that, but I'm afraid it wouldn't do much good pursuing.

>>723155640
based on this response alone you'll be fine in life. Just get better friends.

btw op that's fucked but the best you can do is accept that you can't change what has already happened, take it as a learning lesson and move on and start working on getting out of your parent's house because being stuck there like that is crippling

>>723156956
I considered doing that, but didn't want other anons to start shitposting calling me a faggot because "guys can't get raped, you must be a faggot"

>>723157052
dw about it these retarded ass 13 year olds can't do shit by chimping out over it

>>723156940
To play devils advocate, nowhere does it indicate that the neighbour was insecure. Probably just angry that it got to the point of drunkguy trying to stick it in instead of him trying to kiss her tits. I mean there was like drunk foreplay going on. Of course it's understandable that OP just froze and couldn't really process that it was actually happening - however it's also understandable that bf was angry. Just move on from the fucked up situation, OP, and find some better people to hang with that make you happy.

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>>723156983

What they told you may be factually true, but there are more elegant methods of acquiring mental health help from a university system than one might initially think.

My personal recommendation would be as follows: schedule for a triage with your university health center and mention your use of substances, get transferred to a substance abuse specialist (or counselor), and then talk to them about the effects of your incident (or incidents) in detail. By passing through the first stage of the filter, your entry into the university mental health services will first be sealed and subject to FERPA--so long as you don't present with suicidal ideation or other mandatory reporting criteria--and, more importantly, you will have access to a wider range of treatment options than a prospective patient through this counselor. The response you initially received is bureaucratic red tape designed specifically to limit both university liability in sexual assault help solicitation from students outside health services, and cuts down on the workload involved. It can be circumvented however.

It may sound daunting at first glance, but the reality of it is honestly not as difficult as it seems. Typically, substance abuse counselors treat patients who also suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder and refer them to specialized counselors who handle sexual assault work as well. Though it's a little more bureaucratic than one would like, it is a viable option.

In addition, by going through a substance abuse counselor after referral by triage, you will likely qualify for both extra-academic help and have access to emergency counseling situations (known also as "mental health emergencies") that are useful academically in case your grades begin to suffer.

>>723157193
Like every other situation, there's a lot more than this in all honesty. But I do appreciate the sentiment. It's been 7 months and still bothers me at night. Everything else is fine, I'm not a social recluse or completely unfunctionable because of it. I just can't help but wonder if that's just a stain I can never really wash out.