>be me 18 >been with gf for 11 months >Yesterday she

Bro the term "confused" is bullshit . She wanted to see who would be better to her or who would be better in general. Trust no bitch ever.

>>723147762
post face and or nudes, then have sex with her again and don't call her back

>>723147762

Was there an exclusivity agreement during that time?

You did well. Dont be a cuck. U got two options
>toy with her for wasting ur time
(11 fucking months) and use as a sex toy.
>go NC
Once a cheater always a cheater.

post feet, cmon

Bicht... Sorry bro!

>>723147762
Stick to your guns.

She'll cheat again, as soon as she thinks the grass might just be greener.

>>723147947
yeah we were official at that point

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>>723147762
Get yourself a new girl op.

If u come back, latter she cheat again!

>>723147900
Bump

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Give her another chance, I mean why not? People are too critical about this kinda shit. I guarantee you if you found yourself in front of a hot naked chick that wasn't your GF while you and she had been dating, you would have fucked that random girl. Humans are sluts, get over it.

>>723147999
trips dont lie

You're young
There's plenty of pussy out there

>>723147999
This guy's right just carry on dude. She'll do it again.

>>723147947
This. I only got into the exclusivity arrangement with my gf after 4 months of dating.

>>723148125
fuck her again then move on

>>723147986
I can see if I have any

>>723147999
>>723148188
Trips and dubs, gotta agree Op. your gf is a cunt for sleeping with another guy. Similar shit happened with my ex

I got a dude friend who did that to his girl way in the beginning

they're like the best couple tho and the nicest people, he told her and they split for a while

anyway they got back together and have been for a year and they seem okay

>>723148188
Fucking her and then playing with her emotions is a great way to get a rape charge.

>>723147762
Don't listen to people saying that you should move on becaue she'll cheat again etc

It's understandable that you're hurt, but now she says she knows what she wants so, give it some time if you need, but try to forgive

>>723148114
Don't listen to this guy. Be strict with her and maybe she'll learn her lesson and be faithful to the next guy. This isn't something to be lenient about and if everyone were a bit more strict, girls wouldn't keep thinking they could get away with it.

>>723147762
ditch the bitch. She'll think you're weak if you get back with her because it'd literally strip you of your dignity and then she'll be able to fuck more guys since you'll be in the venus fly traps mouth.

>>723147762
Learn to appreciate it. Video her getting banged by another dude. It's hot as shit! Also, learn to appreciate the smell of another man's cum in her pussy.

>>723148391
that just make sense....wheres the rape?
that would be consensual then you don't talk to her again...thats like fucking then breaking up later, that pre breakup sex is rape then?

>>723147762

If you do anything but tell her to fuck off and block her, you will forever be a faggot and a pussy

too harsh op, she was close enough that she could up like that and she clearly felt bad

>>723148309
yea I went to visit my gf at her college, then fucked me nuts, I found pics of her with a dude on her PC, fucked her mercilessly took pics and broke up and drove home

>>723147762
Did you do the calculations to figure out if you licked the dude's jizz out of her snatch?

>>723148635
So I shouldn't be harsh on her? I think I agree with the most of the guys on here that once a cheater always a cheater.

>>723148709
This! How long between the time the other dude poked her and you ate her pussy???

>>723148567
It doesn't matter if it's true or not, all she has to do is make the accusation.

The police will arrest you and the D.A. will pick up the case and if you can't afford a good lawyer you're fucked.

>>723148755
shell cheat again, and she's getting text of dudes dicks trying to fuck her while she's texting you

>>723148755
Women cheat. Men cheat too.

Some don't though.

The problem is you know for a fact she is one. There's no going back she will cheat again. It might work out in the end but that thought will always be there.

>>723148851
Lol don't want to think about that

>>723148870
with your logic you can never have sex

>>723148709
I didn't bang until a few weeks after this.

>>723148755
post more nudes , cheater deserves it!

>>723148934
You have no choice! Did you taste his cum? And did you like it?

Dump the bitch you cunt. If you've got this hot girl you'll get another one. Maybe non-cheater one.

If you're a man this is what you'll do

>don't tell her you're hurt by her having sex
>tell her you're hurt by the lack of trust
>the fact she waited so long to tell you something that should've been talked about right when it happened
>act distant and cold for about a week and a half
>slowly let your absence consume her
>fuck tons of sluts during this period
>go back to her
>if she truly loves you she will have been loyal and will accept your decision to sleep around

Build from there

I did pretty much the same thing. Except my girl didn't really want the sex, she got way too drunk and told the guy no but he did it anyway. I'm now I'm in an open closed relationship with her. She's a real good girl

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>>723147762
>>She only did it because she was confused
Once a cheater always a cheater

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>>723147762
seems like you dated her when she wasn't ready to be in a relationship yet. People make mistakes, if you really cared about her you would respect that she was honest with you. If you guys werent really that close, then it's understandable that you dumped her. If you're ignoring her already, just keep ignoring her until she gets the idea.

>>723147762
>Give her another chance, I mean why not? People are too critical about this kinda shit. I guarantee you if you found yourself in front of a hot naked chick that wasn't your GF while you and she had been dating, you would have fucked that random girl. Humans are sluts, get over it.

This guy is 100% right. Give her a chance.

>>723147762
Did the right thing. If bitch won't be loyal the first time then she'll do it again. Lying thots be lying.

I don't have too many nudes, and her tits are pretty small anyways. You get the point though. I'm going through a pretty rough time right now, I think I am going to just not talk to her for a while after leaving her a voicemail explaining the lack of trust and how it just wont work.

Stay away from her.

>>723147762
Ask her if she has pictures of him banging her. You might actually get turned on seeing another dude's dick in her pussy. Think about it. It's pretty hot, right???

>>723149381

How much trust was she supposed to have built in 3 weeks?

Oh well, everyone has to make these decisions for themselves.

>>723148953
If you say so

Don't drop the soap

>>723149632
those titts aren't worth the fuss...

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>>723149381
i forgave an ex for cheating on me but i still broke up with her. im still friends with her but we hardly talk. sometimes it's easier to forgive than to hold a grudge.

>>723149685
Yeah that's what im thinking.

>>723149537
Do you happen to be American? This would explain your stance on this. No offense meant.

>>723149214
But she wasnt honest she told him 10 months later can you read

>>723147762
If you were exclusive and both knew that, she cheated.

Personally, I refuse to trust cheaters. They always manage to cheat again. Furthermore if you felt the need to end it, then her.chesting on you will always be in the back of your mind. move on, not worth.

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>>723149824
it's old news but all of the cards are still on the table

Thanks guys

Welp you have many options but first, did she tell you herself or did you find out about it?

Depending on this question you know what to do.

Also if you ever do get together with her why don't you ask her for a free screw card? You can fuck any girl once or how many times she's had sex with other people besides you while in your relationship.

If she says no then tell her how would she feel if you ended up just cheating on her when you guys were official. She's not going to answer honestly or say "That's completely different".

But regardless if it's the first one then you can give her another shot but maybe down the line get even and fuck someone else while your at the "broken up" stage.

If it's the 2nd one then don't bother, just dump her. Find a girl to screw and post that shit on social media saying you found a girl that's loyal and etc..

>>723148144
that's because you're a cuckold

>>723147762
Same shit happened to me. But I was a fag and continued the relationship.

End that shit or forever wear the cuck badge.

>>723150135
Yeah it's looking like I am going to end it and stay solo for a little bit.

>>723150210
But what if she was raped¿

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>>723150278
not a bad choice, sometimes it's better to just find a new relationship. go find a rebound

>>723147762
The thing we need to understand is why she told you. A woman doesn't do anything without having an ulterior motive. She either wanted to make you jealous, or she wanted to cow you into being a cuck. Either way breaking up with her is the right choice.

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anyone in this thread remember that one cuck from a few days ago?

He came on /b/ asking for advice. He found
out by accident that his wife, her friend and
her friend's husband used to fuck one another.

He only found out because said friend's
husband had let it slip, and op had pressured
his girl into telling him what happened.

I hd to leave early on that one, anyone know
what op eventually decided on? Did he cuck out?

>>723149511
Bad post

you goofed, she trusted you and it backfired on her.
you can get her back but the trust won't be there and if she hasn't moved on she probably will in a minute after your bitch fit.
people don't usually go exclusive after a few dates or even sex.
clearly you're cuckable so have fun getting cucked again and her not telling you about it.

>>723147762
You're 18, you'll fucking get over it & get over her quickly. Don't put the time and effort into a relationship that was based on her getting fucked by someone else & that not working out, so she stayed with what was comfortable. The minute you accept that & think "hey people make mistakes" is when you throw any of your personal worth out the door.

You're a man, you deserve better than a girl who isn't completely enamoured with the idea of getting to know who you are at the beginning of a relationship. She's selfish, self serving, & will make you self loathing if you ever go back.

>>723150426
It was stale pasta

>>723149700
That's some crazy definition of "forgive" you have there, son!

>>723150839

Damn. I kind of got that feeling, that's why i bounced. Thanks for letting me know

>durr i'm going to throw away a relationship because i know people on /b/ will call me names if i don't.

>>723150991
>>>/r/eddit

>>723147762
Don't be a faggot?

>>723147762
Got any more n00dz of the bitch?

>>723147762
Bro, you're 18. Don't assume you will marry her. If she's 8/10 fuck her, date her, treat her accordingly but don't fucking fall in love with her. She will wreck you if you do and vis-versa.
>you're young, fuck it.
>literally, fuck it.

>>723151299
This etc etc etc

>>723147762
fuck her get it on camera and then share it with the world

its what jessu would do anon

U got cucked hard. Save your dignity

Was in same position get the fuck out now only way you'd be okay with that is if you're a cuck get out now /b/ro I can't forgive my ex I hate her for it and never can forget . Good luck make the right choice.

>>723152799
And my fucking dubs don't lie

>>723148953
welcome to being a young male in America

>>723147866
Agree

>>723151985
getting cheated on is not getting cucked.

Only you can cuck yourself, by being okay with her cheating on you.

>>723147762
don't return her call. she deserves someone far better than you.

>>723147762
Fuck her off. Say it's over and leave it at that. Don't reply to anything, be a real cold prick about it. Cunts need to learn they can't get away with this shit.

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>>723147762
Turn her sorry into her being your bitch, Rage fuck her asshole and cum inside her and make her pregnant, then leave her. ez

>>723152799
>I can't forgive my ex I hate her for it and never can forget .

grow the fuck up.

>>723153009
>Make her pregnant
Yeah, don't take this anons advice.

>>723153111
he'll grow out of it one day

>>723147762
OP
Never forget a treason
Never... believe me

>>723147762
Yo OP, honestly.
I can't forgive cheating on someone, that person not just had sex with another guy, she fucked up your relationship trust, let me clarify, maybe you get back with her, but you'll allways have in your mind that moment when she cheated on you, imaging how they were banging. I wouldn't go back to that relationship, you didn't broke up, she did, you were a respectful boyfriend, and she failed you, shes not worth it, even if you think she is right now.
One last tip, dont talk to her for 2 weeks, if you want tell her that you need time, think about it sharply and clear.
Can you live knowing she failed your trust and she may do it again?
Can you forgive it?
Will you blame her for that (this would make the relationship super toxic)

>>723153240
forgive*

>>723153240
You're goddamn right.

>>723153170
Why

>>723149035
cuck

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If she did it once, she WILL do it again, OP.

If you get back with her, you will subconsciously never forgive her (unless you're a cuck) and that grudge will manifest itself in ways that are extremely harmful to your psyche.

Block her number, stick your dick in some other pussy, and never look back.

>>723148500
>Actual cuck
Kek

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>>723147762
Ok, here is my help to you.
I dated a bird for 3 years she then fuck my bestmate, so i continued to date her, it was a dumb idea because why the fuck would you learn to be ok and fuck her asshole and kick her in the cunt. bruh she braking ur manly hood just ditch the bitch bruz shes bad for ya, if your on here complaining then its really already pretty much said... Just ditch brus trust, its better for yourself in the long run.

>>723147762
If you got her to fuck, you can get another one to fuck. Stay away from whores

Dont be mean -- just fuck her one lastime and dump her --- dont pick calls or keep contact --- I've been there done that -- never trust a bitch

yeah.tell her you need time.2 to 3 weeks,maybe 4. think long and hard about thisif you truly love her and she loves you then give her a chance. i mean it was at the begening of the relationship. do not forgive her .let me make that clear.she has to earn that back.same with your trust.but it seems as tho she truly loves ya. just give yourself some time from her

>>723148567
Where have you been for the last 7 years? Bitches cry rape. Doesn't mean you did it, but you might be fucked anyway.

>>723147762
>>723147866
This. This This.
Confused? Did someone hit her over the head with a club like in a cartoon?
I've had girls tell me "I want to fix us"
It's a fucking scam. Run.

>>723147762
Second chances are what makes us human OP

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>>723147762
Alright man, So really it all depends on the seriousness of the relationship when you first started dating, Really if she gave a shit about you, she wouldn't have fucked another dude whilst you were dating, and she shouldn't be confused because she said yes to dating you...
If she is the type of woman to be confused at that, then imagine what your life will be like with her in the future. Plain and simple, she is a dumb bitch no matter what, There is no use going back to her because chances are your relationship will become toxic (Especially if you hold any sort of grudge about it) Also, If you show her you forgive her for making mistakes like that she will learn that you are weak and continue to make them.
Women are like dogs bro, They do what you need but if you train them wrong there cunts.
IMO Just ditch her, Tell her its not going to work out, You cant deal with what she did and tell her plain and simple that its wrong to do what she did and you deserve someone who has there head screwed on properly not someone who is a dick junkie and most likely a toxic waste of your time.

>>723147762
Ahh mate, don't worry. It's been 11 months now. Forgive her, but if she cheats again tell her to fuck off.

OP, can I see her asshole, plox?

>>723147762
Don't do anything, she's a cunt. Never talk to her again and block her, don't mention her, to you she never existed.

>>723147762
Love is only a chemical reaction that makes two individuals that wants to mate, just bang and go. I made the mistake groveling over a girl for a long time because we had something, then she left me for (((someone else))). Hit the Gym, Worked out for 2 years, banged her when she was still dating him. Now a year later, I've had sex within the past year than I did the previous 19. (22 now)

OP, this exact thing happened to me. I'd like to be able to tell you that it's worth giving her another shot, but I can't, in good conscience.

People are liars, some more than others. If a person is willing to hurt you despite the bond you both share, then they aren't worth your time, money or affections.

Yes, she told you. Yes, she claims to feel bad about what she did. She's gotten comfortable enough with you to confess, which means that for ten months, she hasn't seen you as worthy of the truth.

Do not take back a person who'd hurt you & lie about it (or withhold it). She will not respect you. She will not be faithful. She'll continue to chat with other men online, and she'll lie if confronted.

Source? I've lived it.

>>723147762
OP, Does her name start with J?

>>723149685
Reupload the tits

>>723147762
Would you enjoy the chance of fucking someone else, if given?
It's not like she's done something unimaginable.

>>723147762
Been in the same fucking situation man. It was tough to break up with her since my friends were like 'dude, she's 10/10, congrats' - did it, saved myself drama.

Move the fuck on.

>invite her over, but outline that it doesn't mean you want to get back together
>she'll fuck you in a desperate attempt to get you back
>use, rinse, repeat

She wasn't confused. She was weighing up what was on offer. You were just one of probably many choices. Don't put up with that shit anon. Finding someone that worships your cock is easy.