Hey /b/ i need some advice. Ive been dating this girl for 3 years

Don't do it anon, stay loyal. If she finds out then no more puss. Puss is better than no puss so it's not worth it

>>723082307

Your first mistake was having a kid when you're 21

You fucked up your golden years OP, now be a real man and deal with it.

>>723082307
Be a man about it, grow a pair of balls and tell her how you feel. Tell her you just don't think it's working out for you and that you feel the best option would be to break up and see other people before either of you do something you may regret later.

That way you're honest about it, and her trust with you isn't totally shattered. Cheating leads to nothing but heartache, lying and fighting. Just avoid that situation and end it before it gets to that point.

Also, it's natural you feel that way, you're young and settled down and had a child too soon. Consequences of having unprotected sex. You can still be apart of your child's life if you play it smartly. whereas if you cheat, you're likely to lose all contact with the child until he is a young adult.

>>723082307
After 2 years of relationship I cheated the last week of my exchange.
I knew that casual sex would not be that good and I would probably feel guilty but curiosity was too strong.

And may I be damned it was incredible. The sex was just too good, that kind of chemistry you just cannot make up, no matter how hard you try.

If you feel like you're missing out sexually just adopt a more european view on cheating and do it, it's seriously not the end of the world

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>>723082307
Try and make your relationship with her interesting and full of new experiences rather than giving up and start cheating on her.
Don't be a fucking scumbag.

>>723083065
>>723083189
Thanks bros. I just dont want to make the wrong decision. Life is too fuckin complicated

Hey yeah! Maybe it'd be cool to be an emotionally irresponsible douchebag if you were only hurting one person like all the other times in your life right?

Jesus fucking Christ anon :^) Now you have a kid and it didn't change your mentality? You brought SOMEONE ELSE on this planet and you just can't emotionally connect as to why you shouldn't give that kid a reason to have a complex to provide him with crippling insecurities with an inadequate home life the rest of his existance?


I never -really- ever unironically say this, but fucking kill yourself OP; you are the scum of this species you counter-evolutionary disgusting slimeball.

>>723082307
Op here. Also just want to throw out that my girl is really sweet and a good mom but we just have nothing in common. And shes pretty dumb too. I cant talk to her about any serious issues because she just doesnt have the capability to understand it. Ive had depression for a few years now and whenever i try to talk to her about she just tells me she doesnt like to talk about it because it makes her sad. So then the whole thing flips to where i have to console her for my depression making her sad lmao

Do it anon. Listen, these feelings are normal if you do not act upon them now, you will in the future. It is normal, we are not meant to be in monogamous relationships. Just make sure she never finds out. Do not tell anyone, take it to the grave. That is how marriages work.

I will never understand why people have kids without getting married first, but that's neither here nor there.

If you do decide to cheat, make damn sure she never finds out about it. Use hookers if you have to.

You're a father now, what you want doesn't really matter anymore. You're responsible for another life.

>>723084139
Then why are you with her?

>>723083993
God damn it you are right. Idk why i even try. My dad did that shit to my mom and it really fucked me up. Idk why im so shitty.

>>723084139
Why in the fuck would you have a kid with her then? Sounds like you're the dumb one, not her.

>>723082307
white families matter. Make her an honest wioman and love her for the rest of your days. This is for the good of your nation and your race.

>>723084204
Hahahaha

Yeah man, that's how people who've been in relationships for forty+ years and the handful of individuals who've been with each other for decades deal with thoughts of infidelity right?

They just act on them without seeing it as a problem in themselves to discuss with someone they trust, I.E their other so no one gets hurt and the feelings of distance or inadequacy are dealt with....or everyone gets what they want in the relationship ends right?

Just tell you what fam, just like; make excuses as to why you're a complete pussy some more.

>>723084384
Life is a hell of an experience anon! Deal with your issues :^)


>>723084469

Here.

>>723084384
What fucked everything up was her finding out. I'm telling you your marriage will work out better if you do it and she never finds out. Personal Experience.

>>723082837
this

also, OP, sex is overrated. Just make your wife kinky or whatever,

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>>723084532
Yeah man, the real trick to solving this is to eat one potato chip; count on yourself never doing it again.... and hope your significant other is dumb enough to not even notice your emotional distance. I totally promise this will work 5+ years if even that!


God fucking Damn guys lol

Pussy ass fuck ass little boys.

>>723084469
You go ahead and think that. The relationships have been successful for decades because both parties can keep it quite.

>>723084601
Yeah this is probably the better option

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>>723084738
quiet*

Yeah, keep thinking that dawg; humans are GREAT at being a facade they aren't for a long time...especially when it involves the emotional dependence of another human!

Great ascertation dickweed~

>>723084736
Who said anything about doing it once? All I said was the other person not finding out. You can talk about your issues all you want but you cannot solve issues that are broken down to your evolutionary traits.

>>723084452
I actually have considered this as a reason for staying before

He is not ur son.

>>723084956
YEAH MAN!

IT'S SUPER REALISTIC, I was just saying!

Like, it's freaking super realistic to solve any problem in your life causing emotions stemming to cheat on your significant other by actually doing it....because you know, those feelings will never come up again man! Great job!

>>723085139
Whoah whoah. If you are talking about feelings for another person that is different mate. I'm talking simply about sexual desire. I am loving how mad you are getting over this though. Almost like you have done it and you are afraid to admit it? Guilt, maybe?

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ITT: people who have lost faith in others actually putting work forward to create long lasting relationships.


ITT: Suicides.

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>>723085302
Yeah dude! Me too!

Sexual desire!

IT ALL GOES AWAY, you will never want to cheat on your significant other if you do it just once! Solves all infidelity thoughts stemming from weakness for life!

The true trick to long lasting relationships, cheating once; solves any and all sexual desire to come.

Great job! Nailin' em out today!

>>723085302
This

its not worth it. look i aint a fag but dont do it man think of everything you would lose just to fuck a lil college slut and for some drunk puss you would give up watching you kid grow up and getting constant puss from a wife... look its your choice but think a little eh

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>>723085501
Yeah! "This"

If you ever feel like fucking someone else in a relationship, it all goes away if you actually do it once; and it'll never happen again and she'll never find out and it'll all go good!


Fucking "This" right?

hahahahaha

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>>723082307

>>723085601
I was just agreeing with how funny it was that you were getting mad. Still going

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>>723085637
Yo Dawg! This thread ain't ready for all that sense makin'! :^^)

ITT: Emotionally irresponsible puss-ass little kids.

>>723084972
Thats the reason when you decide you dont/cant care anymore, but tbh cheating really fucks with people and you should do everything you can to stay loyal to this woman. In my experience companionship is more important than "fresh pussy".

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>>723085704
Yeah dude, I'm so mad you're trying to have me believe you can solve all sexual feelings of infidelity for life by simply acting on it once...because you never will again.

You truly do know human nature, I promise I'm not having a blast making fun of your pussy ass bullshit rhetoric lol


Ahhhhhh~~

Weaklings.

>>723085448
Hey man, I already said it, it will not stop after once. Some people are more prone to different mates than others. What I am saying is, talking about this issue with your significant other will not solve the issue. A random fuck here and there will do wonders than to talk about it. You talk to a woman about this, she will eventually leave you. It will start a cancer in the relationship as she continuously questions everything. Please stay mad though.

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>>723085862
You're right dude, cheating on someone and counting on those feelings to never arise again for the duration of the lengthy(xD) relationship is totally the right answer.

I think you fail to see I'm not arguing with you, I'm making fun of your beliefs and how stupid you are for having them; I won't give you the luxury of an emotionally honest disposition to solve these issues so that you may argue with them out of your own insecurity.

Consider suicide~

>>723085990
You still sound mad

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>>723086035
I am fucking -raging-, bro.

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>>723082307
>has girl he's happy enough with to settle down and start a family with
>wants to cheat

You are a scumbag who doesn't deserve what good things he has. You are like most of /b/, a chad at heart who was too ugly/short/beta to actually be a chad.

>>723086516
This.

>>723083993


here.

>>723086516
>implying i wanted to start a family

>>723086781
Ever heard of condoms?

>>723086781
Nigga, what the fuck do you want.

Talk to your fucking S/O, and chances are you'll end up at what you want; or in the position to go fucking get it.

You have zero shit to complain about.

You want to see why fucking multiple different hot women doesn't do jack shit for your dignity, or ability to control vice to become the best version of yourself you can be?

Go join the Navy, go bang hoes in different area codes; and when you meet the monster at the end of the tunnel preventing your existance from happiness I hope you don't end up killing him. :)

>>723086857
She stopped taking her birth control without telling me

>>723086986
And you didn't just happen to convince her to abort it or slipped an abortion pill in her water?

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>>723086986
She fucked you and you can't unfuck yourself.

Best choice here is to separate and make her keep the kid. Pay the child support, and refuse to be a part of the kids life. He comes looking for you tell him he isn't your kid because his mother forced him upon you.

This will preserve your dignity.

>>723087257
I did tell her i wanted an abortion but she said she couldn't go through with it. And i didnt even know they mad otc abortion pills

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>>723086986
Oh! You're OP!

Dude, I'm going to drop the doucheyness act for a second and try my best to be real with you.

>>723083993

Here.


You have a kid.


The moment you brought another human being on this planet you negated any advice I could give you to go live a life you wanted, because anyone can have anything they want on this planet and this doesn't mean that you necessarily can't but you have a priority....

That is your child, your life....is for HIM now, any insecurities holding you back, or fears to prevent you from being the best version of yourself you want to be literally cannot exist because HE DOES.

You need to go out, and provide a life for that child to give him the tools necessary to be a self-contributing member of society that does it with a smile...and a reason, not a frown and environment of confusion....This will be UP TO YOU.

Smash your fucking video game machine, smash you fucking computer; go outside and do what you want, get good at it enough to where it impresses others and then find a way to market and sell that. You don't always get what you want, you don't always win; but you keep going man.

You have to for this kid. Success was never doing something right, definitely not doing something right the first time; success is having the courage to follow your dreams...when you connect with this emotionally and provide significance and value to your life brought on BY YOU, not a dependence of another person; your feelings to cheat will likely subside along with any inadequacy. I promise it will make sense as you live it, this isn't an answer but a lesson learned in time.

>>723082307
roll

>>723087592
Woah. Thanks bro. This legit made me tear up like a fag a bit. I think youre right man. Times have just been really confusing and i have no idea whats coming next

>>723087592
Thats really nicely written. Good on you anon

>>723086986
you should never have unprotected sex but if she stopped being on the pill can't you go to court with it?

>>723087291
Not sure whether you're being extremely sarcastic or just autistic as fuck. Hard to tell with all the edgy teenagers flooding this board.

Not worth it, it'll feel good for 5 minutes (although this is /b so maybe more like 30 seconds), and then you'll feel like shit about it afterwards. Maybe not constantly, but every once in a while you'll feel like trash. And if she finds out it'll really hurt her. There's no net positive here.

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>>723088154
Completely serious. What's the matter, /b/ro? Daddy walk out on you?