>Be me >Have gf for almost 5 years >start college >gf

>>722837108
Drinking is retarded

>>722837343
yeah u dont have to say that to me, the things i wrote to her i dont ever was aware that i did this until morning when she ask why i do this why i wrote this

>>722837443
what did you write?
isnt it still in your chat history?
let time pass and find a good moment to confront her with the situation and talk about it

>>722837627
somethings about that i cant trust her, i dont want to talk to her i hate i dont even know what happend at the party that i say those thing i cant remember anything i drink too much

she's really sensitive about things with her father when she write to me that i was acting like her father when he was drunk its hurts me really bad i realized how much i hurt her

>>722838684
Tell her what you said is not really what you think, and that you decided to stop drinking and to show her you really care. Then tell her you will leave her alone until she wants to talk

>>722839115
Thanks i have no other option than this i just have to be patience

>>722837108
you are in college and crying your pussy eyes out over some cunt? ffs dude, grow up
there will be way more of them

Just tell her what you wrote here you wasnt angry about her, you were angry about yourself. Then tell her that you totally understand that she is angry and then just give her time(most important) and don't text her again until she does. Best of luck. Sorry for bad english

>>722839791
If she just wasnt so similar to me it would not be so bad i would not care but this is diffrent. i was dating other girls but it was just temporary

>>722839791
Don't listen to this guy. If you think she's worth it, fight for her. It's very hard to find someone where you feel like you are on the same level.

>>722837108
There seems to be a lot of this going on throughout society and even myself have experienced something similar. I've decided to better myself instead of meaninglessly trying to find a girlfriend who may or may not be the one I want to settle with. Focus on yourself, become determined. Obsessed with becoming a version of you that you can be proud of. For example, studying or practicing interview skills and trying to secure work placements etc. With that one-mindedness comes self respect and while it isn't easy. It is definitely worth it. It will get rid of that feeling of uselessness and help you to accept love because you feel worthy of it. Good luck, friend.

>>722840321
yeah i think she's the only one the girl i want to spend future that's why its hurts so much that i done so bad to her

Tell her: "if you write "no" one more time, you'll regret it"
Girls love danger

>>722840581
that would be risky move anyway i am not in postion to be aggressive towards her

>>722840430
What this guy said. Give her the space and time she needs currently but FOCUS ON YOURSELF now. Don't stop living your life. After she will text you again, you can start to excuse (and you should give a real good reason why you texted that stuff) but at the moment she doesn't what to hear anything from you, so show her the respect she deserves.

>>722840722
but i dont know why i text this shit i try to remember something from this night so hard, that happend 3 days ago and nothing comes into my head

>>722840846
You were angry about yourself mate and you tried it to take it out on her, so she would take a step away because you are not feeling worthy. You had success on that btw but now you regret it. understandable.

>>722840846
Oh just 3 days? Give her time dude, still way too early. I think she is into you and wants to show you that she is really hurt.

>>722841247
In a week we start new semester if she dont talk to me in the flat should i start the conversation or pretedent around roommates that everything between me and her its ok and wait until she want to talk

>>722841502
The thing is you both know that you will see each other so I am sure that she will talk to you then BUT you can't know. Don't pretend anything. And you already told her that you want to talk. She knows. So let her start the conversation when she feels like. Don't put pressure on her. Don't even talk to her, just the minimum like Hello. Nothing more until she wants to talk to you. And like I said, don't pretend anything, be honest. You should use the time now to make a good plan what you will say when she wants to talk.

>>722841966
And be friendly. But don't be cringe, you got your own life m8.

>>722842062
i will do that thanks, now i have to think what to say to her why i text this but i dont want to lie and the reason i cant remeber

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>Drinking wirhout self-control
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

>>722842567
great way to describe my situation thanks m8

>>722842331
Blame it all on you and my advice... Tell her how you feel about her. That you don't want to hurt her, you want to make her happy and the time you both had together you felt like you've never been that close to a person before(mentally).
Prepare a big excuse. After that she will probably need time again, which you will give her.(As long as its needed). No pressure.
Best of luck.

>>722842846
Also I am pretty sure that's what she wants. Make you think because she is feeling the same for you as you do for her.

>>722842846
there is one more thing when i say i want to talk about us she says that she is afraid of that talk know what might this mean ?

>>722837108
WON'T SOMEBODY SAVE THIS MAN!>!>>!?!?!?!

>>722843510
chill there is nothing to save just need a little advice

>>722843185
Hard to tell, that's what you have to find out.
Maybe she is afraid about that It will never be like it was before, she doesn't want to get hurt again because she likes you. That's what I think, I mean, why should she be afraid then?
If she will ever say this again, like..."hey anon, maybe we should really talk now but I am afraid" you will just say, "I won't say anything that will get you hurt, promise, you don't even need to say anything, just listen"

>>722837108
You shouldn't drink if you can't control yourself, she's gone.

>>722843771
i will try to drink less or at all i end up always in bad situation after i got drunk

>>722843721
All in all you can look in the mirror after it and tell yourself you did everything to save this. Rest is up to her.