Just found out that my 6 year old might not be mine. Don't

>>722718438
Well then don't be fucking retarded in the future you nigger faggot and wear a fucking condom.

Chris Benoit.

>>722718579
If you are asking my name no that's not me someone that doesn't have the faith in my friends to not judge me

>>722718579
?

>>722718567
Has kid not faggot
Stayed to be a good dad not a nigger.

>>722718705
Plenty of faggots have kids i.e. -Michael Jackson
anon didn't use condom, has a maybe baby mama, therefore is a nigger

You have to go Full Roman Honour or you deserved it

>>722718438
Why didn't you just do a paternity test at birth you dumb fuck?

I just don't know what to do if my child isn't mine I've been in her life for 6 years leaving now would completely destroy her but staying if she's not mine will completely destroy me

>>722718438
Well... it wouldn't be the first time a bitch has lied about paternity in an effort to manipulate a guy.

Depends on what you want to do. How much do you actually care about this kid? Because if you're really that attached, you might be better off not knowing for sure whether it's yours or not. However that advice is gay. Why not get a paternity test? You'll know for sure after that and then can act accordingly.

>>722718845
I'm a poorfag didn't have a thousand bucks to spare at that time

>>722718852
who the fuck cares about a kid that isn't yours, pack your bags and never look back

>>722718567
Virgin detected

>>722718579
Fucking righteous. Kill that bitch and crippler cross face that bastard child

Dream girls are only dreams because they're in your memory; forget about her and move on. If you're only staying with the bitch because of the kid, you should have already left. If you have raised the kid for six years and like him at all you should man the fuck up and continue to be his father, he can't help that his parents are fucked. It's not hard numnuts, be kind to children and the elderly, do what makes satisfied, tell everyone else to go fuck themselves.

>>722718916
Nigger faggot detected

>>722718853
Planned on it but I'm still on the fence you hit the nail on the head with knowing vs not knowing. And I just found this info out so I'm kinda just numb and really don't know what to do

>>722718904
Bro srsly, how much have you spent on the kid in the course of 6 yrs? You could've made a plan

>>722718909
If you spent 6 years raising a child you woulent think like that

>>722719001
This.

>>722718971
Creative name calling bro, Ian taught you well

>>722718987
Believe it or not, that's actually a pretty normal reaction when like a major pillar holding up the foundation of your life gets kicked in a bit.

So, how did you find out anyway? Heated argument and she blurted it out in an effort to hurt you emotionally?

>>722719001
Well I honestly thought there was no way the kid could be anyone but mine. She's a Catholic girl and ugly as fuck at that so I didn't think someone else was porking her and she was honest with me about other shit so yeah I was young and stupid

>>722719116
Kike SJW white knight newfag detected

>>722718904
Just do 23 and me for both of you then it's 200 for each

I did 23 and me to find out that i wasnt the same race as my supposed father. I was happy to realize that I was full white like I had always felt I was. Made me hate my mother for being such a lying liberal whore and i always hated me dad and he always treated me like shit because he probably knew or suspected that i wasnt his child

But whatever, life goes on. Maybe i will find a reason to be happy one day

>>722719155
She blatantly told me when we went out to dinner the other night

>>722719030
which is why you need those of us on the outside to remind you of reality without getting emotionally involved.
If the kid isn't yours, you don't owe her anything. She only likes you because you give her food and it's like 7 years maximum until she turns into a massive spoilt cunt teenager and if you're still around for that knowing she's not yours I can see you an heroing.
Fuck the kid lad, you only owe anything to yourself.

>>722719225
Fake dad a spic or nigger?

>>722719225
Maybe i wont, we'll die anyways
I've gone this long without enjoying a second of life , so i dont care much at this point

>>722719225
I don't even know what do 23 for me means and 200 for both of them?

>>722719228
Fuck. Tell me it wasn't V-day...

>>722719228
Huh. Do you know why she did? Like what prompted her? I mean it sounds like she had a good thing going here if you didn't know, sounds odd that she'd just cast doubt on it all for no reason.

>>722718852

Nothing says that you have to stay with the cunt that lied to you to stay a presence in the life of the girl.

Have a paternity test made and if it turns out negative and you truly cannot stand to be with the mother, then have a sit down and tell her so.

Do this AFTER you have a talk with a lawyer (spring for a consultation with a GOOD one, ask around for someone with experience in family court and litigating cases of custody) and then just live your life while sharing it with the girl.

You can still go out on trips with her, be with her, show her how a father is supposed to be and give her a home, skank not required.

>>722719303
Actually it was

>>722719287
*we'll all
>>722719268
native american. fuck, i hate native americans. just an inferior race

>>722719254
>Fuck the kid lad
You mean when she's older and a spoiled cunt teenager, right?

>>722718438
You're the classical cuckold.

6 years raising another man's child.

I bet your bitch still fucks him on the side. "How's my daughter?" Your wife swallows his load, gets on her back, spreads her legs and says: "she's fine. The idiot thinks it's his daughter. Let's give her a baby brother honey".

The guy fucks your wife, fills her cunt with his cum, falls to the side and says to your wife as his cum oozes out of her, slowly: "as long as he pays to raise my kids you and I can fuck all you want!"

Enjoy your life as a side bitch.

>>722719312
I have no idea what made her tell me

>>722719300
Find out your own race, and find out your sons race with it
You just need a saliva sample and you send it to them and they tell your racial background for about 200 dollars

>>722718904

What the fuck do they charge you where you live? Over here a paternity test is 99 bucks. Jesus.

>>722719341
If only smallpox had fully eradicated the drunken casino buffalo monkeys.

>>722719381
Kek, as in pie her out your life
>>722719394
stop masturbating while you type schlomo

>>722719413
At the hospital it was 1000 buck for the DNA test

>>722719475
I would feel bad for them for being made europes bitch if they werent all insufferable cunts. I've met MANY and they all were

>>722719409
Could be guilt. 6 years of possibly deceiving someone you are supposed to love can weigh on a conscience.

>>722718438
Haha you cuck

>>722719545
The men are all stupid drunks who hate white people. Beat their children and women. Low IQ, low intelligence over all. They love anti-white politics like the lie that is ''white privilege''
and the women are all obnoxious whores

disgusting race of ''people''

>>722719613
Yea or the nice ring I just bought her. I don't believe in marriage but I figured that since I'm in for the long haul I'd buy her a ring so she's happy. She wants to get married but knows I don't so she has accepted that we never will.

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>>722719341
Was this your dad?

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>Get vasectomy
>Last GF keeps wanting to not use condoms
>"Im on the pill"
>Ya ok w/e
>3 months later shes pregnant
>"I was taking the, its just the 1 in a 100 chance they did not work properly"
>Dump her
>Tons of drama on facebook, worst person ever, she calls "friends" for info so she can take me to court for child support
>Post vasectomy order history publicly on facebook
>She stops talking, still a monster in most peoples eyes for never telling the cheating bitch
I got problems but a kid aint one of em

>>722719722
THETOPPESTKEK

>>722718438
Sucks to be you. If you're married then she'll take half and you will still pay child support even if the kid isn't yours. If you're not married you still pay child support unless she can find the real father.

>>722718567
go to bed kid

>>722719739
That would have been a good idea but I was 20 and they won't do a vasectomy till you have 2 kids or are 25 or some dumb shit

>>722719722
Kind of i guess

>>722718904
You couldn't get a $1,000 before changing your whole life and giving up a woman you did love? Couldn't borrow the money, get a title loan? You should at least have split the cost with her if she's claiming the kid is yours, that's only $500 each.
Pregnant women are constantly looking for someone to raise that baby. If the read dad is a lowlife, they look for someone good they can latch on to. She probably knew you were the type to do the "stand-up, right thing", so she told you it's yours.
I'd still do a test now, before you commit to any further actions.

>>722719832
Not married and I make the money so I could have a better lawyer then her. It's not about child support its about me not being able to abandoned this kid even if it's not mine. I wasn't raised like that and I'm kinda dad by default after 6 years.

>>722718951
Roastie detected

>>722719694
Welp, I guess that's the least she could've done is come partially clean.

>>722719901
I plan on getting the test done now still it's just I really don't want to find out its not mine cause then I will resent this child for the rest of its life

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>>722719856
Not even close, child. Let the responsible adults continue their conversations while you suck your stepdads cock, nigger offspring snowflake.

>>722720079
The truth will set you free. Either way.

>>722720098
Oh man, is that your real receipt, and not just an image you downloaded from the internet? ZOMG

>>722720057
Yeah I know. It just faking kills me that she waited this long. Had she told me that it was possible not mine from the start I would have found a way to make the money for the test then but I was young high-school drop out doing oil changes at a car dealership and got fired a week after this kid was born so I didn't really have money for anything.

>>722720079
you could always bail

>>722720098
Atm-small-1 is an odd photo file name...

>>722720115
If the child is mine tho all this shit will go away. I'm not even mad she was fucking someone at that time cause I was too we were split up but still fucking

>>722720166
>>722720239
image search dumb cucks

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>>722718438
Oh god reminds me of a situation with my neighbors
>man has blue eyes
>woman has green
>child has brown eyes
>Get invited over for wine one day and notice this, have a few glasses
>Notice the eye colors ask if they adopted
>guy says "nah, wasn't planned but it just happened ya know? lol"
>his girlfriend laughs as well
>look at her and say "ya, ok"
>suddenly tension in the air, he notices this
>make my goodbyes
>they are in the process of separating and moving out as neither can afford the place
Fucking thank god I hate wine-o people, pretty sure they invited me just to brag about their shitty vintage wine

>>722720223
I can't bail I've put so much effort into this kid. I quit seeing a girl I was madly in love with. Quit doing drugs. I still smoke weed every now and then but man even if this kid isn't mine it is by the fact I've been there since birth I was the first to hold the baby besides the doc

>>722719863
What third world shithole do you live in that has this rule? They are reversible and if im not mistaken artificial insemination still works

>>722720368
I live in a bible state buddy shit sucks

>>722720289
How many guys fall for the "I know we've been apart for a month but I'm pregnant and it's definitely yours" meme?
I feel like I'd see through it but so many guys fall for it like what am I missing here

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>>722720098
Why are you such a poor fag

>>722720471
Because we were only apart for a short time and I was pretty sure she was too depressed to be going out fucking around not to mention she is not a looker at all

>>722720186
True, but it's nothing to blame yourself over. You were kind of deceived, didn't have money, and despite it all you were willing to step up to the plate when lots of other guys would just run for the hills.

>>722720471
And when you hold that baby and see it looks exactly like you did as a baby your thought process goes to shut if you don't have the money for the test

>>722718438
I actually had a plan for this. I was going to wait till the kid in question was old enough to understand what is happening, say 16-18. Get tested and if I wasn't there dad we could still have that relationship as if I was, but they would better understand why I was disgusted and left their mother. It might help the child better understand what happened and blood screw them up so much. My kid at the moment is 5 and I plan on doing exactly what I said.

I know if I was 16 and found out my dad wasn't my real dad I'd be mad right along with the guy and probably ostracize my mother and try to keep the relationship with the guy who raised me.

>>722720698
See this is what I thought about doing if it turns out she isn't my child

>>722720551
Yeah I'm aware but idk man its just a tough call

>>722720820
That's honestly my plan, I think it would work best for the kid and punish the leech of a woman. Worse case scenario the kid doesn't want anything to do with me since we arnt blood and I get to walk away completely guilt free, knowing I did my part.

>>722721006
Yeah I agree. You are a good man. Not many people are willing to step up like us. I got a buddy who abandoned his child and all he does is play video games I don't know how he isn't dead inside

>>722721079
It's something I thought about alot just cause as a guy you never truly know. Like someone said earlier, it isn't the kids fault no one asks to be born. I wouldn't want to punish him/her for the infidelity of my wife. I may lurk a little while longer. But in 15 years, that's the best solution I ever came up with.

>>722721245
15 years as in 15 years I thought about this, not that I'm 15. I think I'm 30 or 31. Who keeps track?