Hey /b/ I'm in following situation: >girlfriend of 4,5+

She gave me lots of compliments when I spent time with her, and always said she wanted to cuddle and wanted to be kissed by me. We were hugging and holding hands in public, I felt like I was doing great again regarding my life until she wrote that text. I can meet her soon again since we planned a new date in a week, long before she told me the truth.
I think I can handle the whole thing without developing way too many feelings towards her, but it's still not the same for me and probably never will

Bump

One of the things she also wrote afterwards was something like
"If we would've met before we could have been something amazing together"

As I said we only know eachother for like 4 days now and I haven't fallen in love with her.

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>getting attached to someone where fucking was the first major thing you do

W E W L A D

Keep it going. Keep a distance. No expectations. She may dump bf. Worked out for me. Bitches look for the next better thing.

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>>722674557
tinder didn't work out for me

okcupid is following the same trend

in a similar situation that i've been in and a mate has

FUCK THAT NOISE OP

should have made it clear before first kiss, something is afoot

>>722674557
You need to calm the fuck down and reflect on where these feelings of jealousy are coming from. Some people aren't up for hardcore monogamy, and if you can't accept that, the reason usually has more to do with you than her.

You met an awesome girl who is totally down to bang whenever and you're acting pissy about it because she has feelings for someone else at the same time. Life's messy like that, it 'ain't no Disney movie. Just be glad she's being up front about it. Don't fuck this up by being selfish homie, future you will never forgive yourself.

>>722676407
I'm not really pissy to be honest, more like confused that she just told me after our second 'date'. There have been multiple occasion where she could have at least hinted at it or something

>>722675395
Will do.

>>722676689
So you bang twice and expect a full life story? Some people are "leapers," as they say...

>>722675091
As I said I didnt get attached but probably would have if I kept dating her without knowing she's already in a relationship

>>722676805
Never expected a full life story, mate.
It's just something that in my personal opinion should be stated clearly before everything else happened.

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>>722674557
"i don't love her"
>legitimately wont shut up about her and goes out of his way to post about her

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>>722677038
Well anon tbh I came here to see what other anons would think about if I keep meeting up with her. If it's worth the whole thing or not.
Nothing more

There is absolutely no reason to continue talking to that woman. You will develop feelings that will fuck everything up for you, and you know it.
Move on, remember the good sex. A woman in an open relationship is saying through action that both you and her partner are not valuable to her. Sorry mate, but face facts. If you were meant to be a polyamorous cuck it would have come up in your 5 year relationship.

>>722675674
Whats the difference between those two anyways?

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>>722677316
I wouldnt say it is honestly but tis be anon decision.

>>722674557
>>722674598
kill yourself blogposter.

>>722677526
tinder's for fucking

okcupids for people who say they want to date but really just want to fuck instead

all dating sites are the same, still makes for a good laugh fucking with people though

>>722677452
>virgin

Don't be a cuck OP. Plenty of other pussy for you to smash.

OP here,

considering to keep seeing her for a while literally for fuck's sake.

Reading the stuff you anons write made me realize even more how I shouldn't even have thought about developing a bit of feelings towards her as we met just to fuck.

I think I'll keep seeing her until I get tired of her or find someone better.

>>722677784
Isn't her boyfriend the cuck? Anon spent valentine's day with her and they fucked twice on the same day.

>>722678114
Tell her to dump bf
Get together
Tell her you ain't a cuck
And if she really loves you

>>722674557
Just keep smashing faggot

OP if you are under 30 years old just keep fucking her and make sure to not catch feels

If over 30 move on and find a decent girl.

Open relationships are poison for all parties involved.

>>722678339
While staying in bed together she very often said how lucky she is to have met someone like me, how amazing I am, yadda yadda. I didnt expect her to be in a relationship because of said things. It just surprised me and makes me rethink if banging her is cheap or not, but it doesnt seem to be imo.

>>722678380
Will do!

>>722678569
Currently 21 y/o so doing pretty fine.
I'm not really into open relationships either, I'll just keep this as a friends with benefits thing

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>>722678704
Oh dude you are fine just make sure to not get too involved and also realize that STDs are a thing and she is getting dick from several dudes at the moment.

Have fun! Fucking the village bicycle is fun at your age you will learn a lot. When I was a bit younger than you I was fucking the town slut on the reg and it was great and I learned half my game from that slut.

>>722678887
>virgin detected

>>722678591
Cut everything with her because she is fucking others.. you just another toy for her

>>722678887
I'm always wearing condoms when I'm on a date. I may be stupid but not retarded so don't worry anon.

Funny thing to mention: she actually dropped another date she was supposed to meet on tuesday for me

>>722674557
Are you totally sure she's in an open relationship and not just cheating on her bf? Women are masters of manipulating language so that they aren't lying, but they aren't telling the truth either

>>722679045
Yeah anon the thing is I did meet up with her just to fuck on the first place. We never intended to share that much information about eachother where a basis started to create.

>>722679227
If you stick with you won't find someone much better

>>722679101
Condoms don't do shit man hate to break it to you.

>>722679045
Why would a guy who is getting stress free casual sex drop her? Honestly?

>>722679227
Damn dude you get really involved after a week. I have been fucking this FWB for three years and I couldn't care less if she got cancer and then got deported.

>>722674557
Wedge.

>>722679194
Not totally sure anon, how could I tell? I didn't even had a guess that she had a bf at all.
She went nuts for me so I don't know if that was just to satisfy her urge to cheat or because she just found someone else to bang with.

And to be honest at that point I don't really care about her bf or what she's doing privately. It's not my cup of tea, I'm there to fuck.

Also now I'm remembering that she mentioned something about a threesome yesterday morning when we showered.

Is she trying to hook me up?

>>722679393
Shit asss phone
With her, *

>>722679495
I should start doing that too. Not giving a single crap and just bang her when I want to

>>722679539
Maybe she sensed you were starting to develop feelings. Maybe they are feelings she doesn't share. Maybe she concocted the whole open relationship story to keep you at arms length. Maybe she doesn't even have a bf.

Just bang her. If she wants more than that force it to be on your terms

Also I should mention that I hadn't had actual sex since my ex left me. Just some dry humping and making out in random bars and clubs around my city so as another anon stated she's a very good source for uncomplicated sex atm

>>722680184
I see. Well I didn't drop the L-bomb a single time and never said anything more valuable than "i like you" or "you are amazing" while cuddling and/or having sex. But I get your point. As I stated before I think I will keep seeing her for my own sake as I've found someone who lives close to me who's pretty much always down to fuck.

Would be even more weird if she didn't have a bf in the first place. Don't you think so?

>>722680476
Chicks are not beyond inventing phantom boyfriends

>>722680984
Yeah I get your point but why would she have written stuff like "if we met before we could have been something amazing" if she doesnt actually have a bf?

I don't really care. Just thinking that a call or a text message is all I need to send in order for her to come around to have sex is a more than great fact to me.

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OP just to recap you have known this chick for how long?

Alright. Time for someone with experience to pitch in.

You have 2 choices, OP. Fuck buddies or nothing. If you have the slightest belief she's interested in you beyond a lay you're an idiot. Why? Because even if she dumps her current bf for you, you will be the next one she leaves for someone better. She's doing it to her current bf. You seriously think she isn't going to repeat it with you? You can't be that stupid.

So, fuck buddies or nothing. What's your choice?

>>722681423
Just met her on sunday evening. I didn't know her for even a week. The more I think about it the clearer it is for me that it's fine for me if I just stick to fucking with her without getting any feelings involved. Especially now that I now the situation and some anons gave me a better picture of the whole thing I'll make the best out of it since she said that she wanted to see me again.

I'd post the chatlogs but they're all in krautspeech

>>722681450
I'd prefer fuck buddies then. It's a new concept to me though, as my ex was my first girlfriend, and I was her first. So I didn't really explored much about the world of such relationships as I sticked to the same girl for 4,5+ years.

ALSO its very important to say that the current girl gives mindblowing bj's and the sex is amazing. My ex didn't know shit about sucking dick and most of the times even refused. I felt pretty good last night so why not.

>>722681862
option #3 is letting her know how you feel about her being in an open relationship and seeing what she says

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>>722681640
Can you post a pic? Edit it if need be but I wanna see what type of girl you after here.

Keep banging her OP just make sure you don't develop any deep feelings towards her. Enjoy the sex and keep an eye out for other potential targets

>>722681862
You made a good choice. Get your dick wet. Use her for all she's worth and then move on. Also remember this isn't a relationship. Nothing is stopping you from fucking more women other than her. Nothing is stopping you from finding a real girlfriend again. She's your cum dumpster. Nothing more.

>>722681984
Don't listen to this retard. He has no clue what he's talking about.

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>>722681984
Well I don't think we are in an open relationship, are we? If she didnt mention this whole thint we would be fuck buddies at current state. It wouldnt be a problem for me.

>>722681995
Never trusted /b/ but there you go

>>722681423
Ha ha. That Bubbles is a Sesame St. alien.

>>722682401
OP here,

I've got a weakness for redheads/brunettes with pale skin, freckles and bright eye colours.

She has a few more pounds on her waist than average I think but I'm also a bit above average. She said she like men who have a few more pounds and stuff like that.

>>722682237
Just reading this gives me a even better perspective at the whole situation and makes the whole having sex thing even more fun. While fucking this morning she even had such a strong orgasm that she could barely move. I wonder how unable her bf must be

>>722674557
>the most gamma shit ever.

It took you 2+ months to get over it? And now you're acting like she's the last person on earth with a vagine. Get out once in a while hipster.

>>722682401
all men have different likes but holy shit
this is slapping the south pole for me entirely
my dick crawled back into my ass

>>722682648
lbs on men is not the same as women. Women don't give a fuck as long as you're confident and can fix and build shit.

Women provide looks, housecraft, and blowjobs.

Men provide security and safety.

>Yer fucked.

>>722682401
Her name Levi?

>>722683552
I'm sorry for that, anon.

>>722683559
As long as she said she's fine with it I dont really care.

>>722683652
Nope

>>722683652
>Nope

Jason?

>>722674557
remember: jealousy is fear of loss, envy is want of gain.
talk openly about your jealousy. emotions build and fester until they're validated. think about what you feel, and why you think you feel it, and whether or not you agree with what you feel.

open relationships are fair, when the opportunities are so prevalent. monogamy is vestigial. we must learn to deal with our emotions and not let them control us.

Dump the chat op

>>722684116
I see anon, but I'm not envious either. I stated before well more than once that I didn't fall in love with her or that I'm pissed because she has a bf.

Just the fact that you don't mention such a fact and only say it afterwards to clear things up. It kinda confused me why you wouldn't do that in the first place.

I will make sure that I won't fall for her, it's even easier now that I know the current situation she is in.

If anything goes out of hand I'll simply stop seeint her.

>>722684470
You're on /b/, it's not out of hand?

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>>722684412
It's in German I don't think you'd understand much.
I could give it a rough translation in the next post if you want to

>>722684609
German fag here. Thanks Bro

>>722684553
I don't really think so, seemed fitting to me, have seen similar threads already so I thought why not

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>>722684730
A bit more.

>>722684609

> bleiben wollen würde
Use she as dumpstation only

Hey OP. This thing happened to me recently. Almost verbatim. I was heartbroken and then met this gorgeous (and not by your definition of attractive lel) girl that was super into me and we were fuck buddies.

Don't get attached. You'll get feelings and make it seem like it's more than it really is and ruin a good thing.

Take it for what it is and don't fuck it up. You'll end up fighting about boundaries and wanting more. She'll break it off with you. You'll be depressed, and a month or two later you'll realize she really wasn't that great and you ruined a good thing.

Don't be a faggot.

>>722685352
Grammar isn't really one of her strenghts, yeah.

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>>722674557
dude, just pull the fucking plug already. No women worth a barely headache
you will find another bitch soon or later, just don't be a faggot about it
chill man, enjoy life, don't make simple shit complicated

>>722685456
So your point is I should keep banging her without developing feelings?

Well it is getting easier and easier the more I'm reading in this thread and I think it will be good for me.

I can't fall in love with someone I only met twice to fuck. I'm pretty good at sticking to my reality and keep reminding myself where my boundaries are and what is supposed to be happening and what isn't.
The more I'm reading here the less I even want to feel something for her

>>722685488
>>722685102

Nough said

>>722685667
I think I am making it all way more complicated than it actually could be for me. Came to /b/ just to have a general overview on how fucking someone who's in an open relationship is or could be. I didn't came here to solve my love dilemma.
But thanks for your advices, I'll keep myself cool.

>>722685954
What do you mean tho?

>>722685978
seriously. i've done this multiple times.

don't fuck it up. don't ruin a good thing.

if she breaks it off with her bf then maybe go for it, but even then, you're getting laid frequently. enjoy it.

>>722685789
Had something similar last year or two years ago, dunno. She had different Fuck and sm friends and I did not care. Why? Just Fuck her and stay away from feelings. Eventually she felt in love and dumped her other buddys for me. Still just fucked her. I Lost the interest and found someone else so I reduced the contact. Maybe I will Fuck her when I am back home (she lives now with her friend in open relationship) .

>>722686085
Her grammar is Shit as Fuck. I would not even think about feelings if I had to read this Shit daily.

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>>722686399
Yeah thats the good thing about all this. I can keep banging her and when I find someone else remotely more interesting than her then I will just drop her.

Also more of the convo, with me stating that it would be okay for me to see her too just as long as we don't develop deeper feelings for eachother and just like ourselves as people (went for fuckbuddies but this is the harmless version)

>>722686675
Yeah I kinda mentioned that I didn't care much about grammar because I was trying to be polite when we switched from tinder to whatsapp

claim her cunt

>>722686973
Already put my flag on it. What should I do next?

>>722687037
Stick it up her ass.