Am I in an abusive relationship, /b/?
Been with this girl for like a month, and she's pretty chill and nice when sober, but once she gets drunk she throws temper tantrums pretty much, like just says the rudest things about my family and walks away from me. I think she's just testing me. I really don't get why she acts like her. I've been nothing but kind to her, given her things, made her dinner when she comes over, tell her how pretty she is. Why the fuck do I get this shit?
>>722639306
why she acts like this*
But yeah, I didn't really elaborate on the walking away thing. She does that stuff only when drunk. She like turns into a monster, and there's no getting through to her when she's like that.
>>722639306
People are more truthful when drunk. You should get out while you can.
>>722639306
she's bad and should feel bad. leave her.
She's probably been in abusive relationship before, and is either testing you to see if you'll become an abuser OR is messed up and thinks that it's normal to be abused...
Because she's a human being, not some weird waifu-like fantasy creature for you to put on a pedestal and expect divine validation from.
You know what love is? Love's what you make it. A relationship is like an engine. You get out what you put in. You craft it and tend to it and fix it when it breaks. But it's only as good as the sum of its parts. If you haven't bloodymindedly built in trust, respect, boundaries and reinforcement into this engine, then guess what? It ain't there.
Leave while you can OP, in time she will become the monster while sober
>>722640142
Yeah she's told me about the abusive relationships. What should my response be when she starts being cruel to me? >>722640225
Baby don't hurt me.
>>722640270
Not letting that happen. When she starts demanding things, I say no. I wouldn't demand things from her. I would ask, but I wouldn't just expect something. I'm not just gonna be some little bitch that gets kicked around.