>gf of two years >no major problems up until now >she posts picture on social media with a bit of cleavage >i feel a bit uncomftorable and overprotective and ask if she can take it down and put up something else >she says of course and it goes down seconds later >friend tells me its still up >go onto her account and see she blocked me from viewing the photo >tell her i know >she says she didnt do it >show her proof she did it >she still says she didn't do it even after i have PROOF that she did do it >turns it on me and says shes pissed that i wouldnt trust her and think she would do that >but you did do that >she flips out even more and tells me to go away >alrighty then as you wish >ten minutes later she asks if we can drop it >nope confess your sins or fuck right back off >she tells me to check social media >she deleted her account >tells me i can have her phone and go through it or place some spy shit on it or whatever >she wants to earn my trust back and make tomorrow all about me to show how much she cares
she sounds genuinely sorry but she still hasnt apologized or even admitted to what she did, i showed her critical screenshot PROOF and her response is always "i didnt do it why dont you trust me"
Like wtf do i even say to that?
I know you guys are gonna jump the "DUMP DAT BEYATCH" gun but i need a good and smart way to keep the relationship but handle the situations and finish it in an alpha way, maybe to get her to confess somehow? Help me /b/ros
>>720777821 Normally I wouldn't answer, but it was about to 404.
Grow the fuck up you whinny little bitch. She has no reason to apologize and if she was smart, she'd leave your sorry ass. Girls post pictures with cleavage often, get used to it. But when you go and make a scene like that it reflects poorly on her.
She didn't do anything wrong, you overreacted. She doesn't need to own to to your bullshit, there is a line of personal space in relationships
Potential early signs of getting cucked. Forgive her, but install spyware on her phone and keep tabs on her, just in case. It will make you feel better if there's really nothing and it will prepare you for the worst if there is something.
>>720778714 >playing victim and turning it around so YOU are the bad guy
fucking hate this shit so much. I dated someone who did this for years and it just confused and angered me so fucking much. Wasn't until recently I really understood what she was doing. shit made me crazy.
>>720777821 Yeah dont be a fucking faggot you stupid fuckin faggot. Every girl in the world posts cleavage. Its her tits. If she wants to poat she can, stop beong such an overprotective piece of shit you fuckin gay nigher.
>>720777821 Tbh OP you sound like an insecure faggot. I think you need to man the fuck up and apologise to your gf for being such a jealous prick. I mean like most chicks show a bit of cleavage now and then, are you a fucking Islamist or what?!!
>>720777821 have sex and get head all day tomorrow, as soon as the she stops putting out and being your all around slave leave her for being a pathological liar Protip: youd tell her to confess her love for you through rather extravagant purchases and hopefully you can get her to pull credit card debt as well, to spoil you just shortly before you leave her
1. Don't enter her facebook account or phone. Even if you don't find anything, you still think she's hiding from you
2. It's just a cleavage, and as you said, not even a big one. Don't overreact on small things.
3. She lied to you, instead of demanding her to admit it, try to talk to her and show that she can talk to you about anything.
4. Learn to trust her without needing any proof. You might think "but what if she cheats on me?". If she does, wel... life moves on, but when you learn to trust, your relationship will be a whole lot better.
She likes the nigger attention. Her offering you her phone was a tell and a bluff. Theres brothers that share her shit at work. i see this alllll the time. The women get so much nigger attention they cant help themselves. Trust her at your own risk.
>>720778939 He didn't push her to that, the crazy cunt did that herself and still won't own up to what she did. Yeah, I admit he was being insecure about the pic in the first place, but in response she tossed up so many red flags that she shouldn't be trusted at all. Quit being a fucked and look at this shit rationally without any biases from your diddled past. They're both at fault of retardation, but her more so.
>>720779128 Nope just dated someone similar to ops chick. Showing proof of your accusations is wrong on you for not trusting her in the first place. Chicks like that will deny it even when you throw physical evidence in their face and play the victim no matter how you spin it.
>be me at age 21 >girlfriend of 1 year comes to my apartment >has guilty look on her face >"I can tell by looking at you that you cheated on me" I say. >She starts to cry >We break up >I date and fuck dozens of girls over the next few years >find nurse girlfriend who makes good money and is genuinely awesome person >move to the beach in California with nurse >have amazing adventures with nurse >check facebook one day >see ex girlfriend working minimum wage job in the same town we met in. >LOL
Maybe there's a good reason that she didn't want to delete it? Talk to her about why she wanted to post that photo (maybe she really liked how she looked and wanted validation). Try to get on her side and see what you can do to get her to admit she lied and make sure she understands how you feel about everything (the cleavage and the lying). If she won't ever admit it, that's a huge red flag.
Dude, do not listen to most of these cucked virgins and landwhales. she offered you her phone after deleting evidence. Its the same as her blocking you from seeing her pic but leaving it up. You have every right as a fucking man to expect your bitch to show public modesty. she is shady as fuck simply for blocking you. she didnt block Tyrone. she blocked you. Dont negotiate your value with her. either beat the fear of God into her or dump her nigger loving ass.
She deleted her entire facebook after you shattered her favorite technique of simply blocking you from seeing shit she posts? It's pretty obvious she was trying to cover up the rest of the stuff she's done. Sounds like she's been cheating my guy. Just my guess.
>>720779344 this its something with girls idiotic way of thinking
I have a friend (not gf) that does things like that. Once she blocked me on fb so I would see here bf of that time (I was with her when they met, or more specific, when she fell for one of those "seduction professional") I told her what type of guy he was and she would insist they love each other, love of their lives and all, of course it lastet like 3 weeks and he moved on to the next one.
anyway, she never unblocked me till today but every fucking time I ask her about it she says she did unblock me she keeps lying about it, straight to my face, every single time, even still today, months later. the lying never stops.
no idea what it is that makes her do that, she must know I can check in seconds that I'm still blocked.
You have to understand that women don't think the same way men do. In her mind all of these steps were perfectly logical and not at all shady because women think that so long as they don't get caught anything is acceptable. She blatantly lied about something directly involving her sexuality and is now overcompensating for being caught in a little lie. I guarantee she has done something worse and is hoping that going beyond the scope of normal relationship stuff will throw you off of any further suspicion.
>>720779977 >anyone who doesn't have their woman covered at all times from the gaze of other men is just a CUCK oh man if only there was some sort of traditional body covering and code of laws that we could enact nationwide to keep ourselves from being cucked
>>720779760 This is for sure what happened. Her only defense from getting caught was compromised so she scorched the earth to present the image of being accomodating while destroying all evidence she thought was securely hidden. ANYONE who would block their partner from ANYTHING cannot be trusted. Period. There are only two choices here. Dump her or dump her.
Firstly, don't be so insecure. When you say "a bit of cleavage" you'll have to be more specific as that's anything from a low cut top to busting out of an undersized bikini. Either way, your insecurities (founded or not) obviously bought something serious up.
She lied to you about removing the photo. There is a high chance there is somebody specific she wanted that photo to be seen by. When you confronted her she literally had no fallback argument other than a glorified "no u".
She can sound all the ways of sorry that she wants, but you said she hasn't apologised or admitted what she did. The "you can go through my phone" is a major red flag as she's triple jumped to the conclusion that you suspect her of something worse, without it even being talked about.
She's offered a solution to a concern of cheating that wasn't even bought up by you. Not to mention she's provided a solution that, if you go through with it, will leave you looking like a bitter, jealous, controlling boyfriend, which she can use as emotional leverage to jump on Chad's cock, justifying to her shallow friends that she was in an 'abusive' relationship and the cheating was a cry for help.
Ditch her. I'm serious. You only have pain ahead. Don't be the pussy I was.
>>720777821 OP is a stupid beta cuck who thinks he is going to lose his girl from other boys seeing some cleavage. Considering the way you are acting means that she is already cheating on you or will after this. It's her social media and she can do whatever the fuck she wants, you should kill yourself OP.
Op, ask her to reactivate her account, then browse it with her, as fun, since it was only a little lie over a bit of cleavage. Show her your account, also. Then you can both delete all your social media and be better. As for email and phone spyware, don't do it. It's easy to get another email/SIM card/phone and she offers that then she's sure you won't find anything. Also, next time you fuck up, you will hear about this.. Go with her where she didn't want you to go, dig for gold and find it, lol.
if you've never had a mrs like the one OP is dealing with stfu, your only telling it from your perspective of how easy going your relationship is, some sluts like OPs bitch don't fucking learn they will repeat and do the same shit to you , there is no chance of having her apoligize or get her to open up , if shes that kinda bitch get a new one
>>720777821 To feel uncomfortable about a small cleavage pic shows that you were already feeling a bit insecure with the relationship. However her lying and her extreme reaction to being called out are huge red flags. Ask her why she deleted her profile for such a small thing. Try to frame it if she's the one overeating and don't claim she's cheating even if you think she is. Then drop the topic and act a bit distant for a week or so. During this time talk to girls and flirt a bit to let her know you have options. If you don't have any go find some and if she's still interested in you she'll try to get your attention back. Reward her for this but if she doesn't care thats another red flag and may signal its time to go with option B
>>720777821 Don't get lied to, you did the right thing. Her deleting her fb is also fishy, why would she do that? Also she's trying to re-win trust by saying you can put spyware on her phone, well she's now prepared and knows about it so it isn't spying anymore isn't it? She can just get a burner or use other means to cheat on you. You wanna be sure? Put spyware on her unknowingly
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