/b/ im not attentionwhoring >inb4 timestamp just help a girl

>>720447315
lol, sure you are. I don't see tits so you can fuck right off.

>>720447315
you know the rules, tits and timestamp or gtfo

Tits and timestamp or fuck right off

>>720447315
>>/adv/

>>720447315
if u look nice now, get on birthcontrol and fuck as many guys u cant
thats how popular girls got their popularity

first of all get off this website
next, learn how to conversate and act interested in people.
most conversations are just being polite and asking questions even if you don't give a fuck about what they have to say.
learn how to dress nice, no flashy clothes, keep it classy.
find out what you want to do with your life and pursue it, limit how much you use a computer, TV, and phone.
force yourself to go out and talk to people.
exercise every day

And don't use words like conversate.

>>720447411
>>720447435
These
Not offering my advice until we get past the minimum barrier

Show interest when Talking to People, ask a lot of questions about steh they Seen passionate about and Look them in the eyes. And have Patience, friendship Takes its Time to Build

>>720447806
Too fuckin' right. Freakin illegitimate, illiterate.

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>>720447315

Reinventing yourself is the best thing for you.

Just smile at people, don't do the pepsodent all teeth smile that shit's creepy, try to look them in the eye from time to time, have some chit chat, ask question about them, not personal questions, just where are you from, what made you choose this college/course. This will get you some acquaintances.

To get a bf, honestly just look cute, you don't have to look beautiful, lose weight obviously, make yourself available, by available i mean, be seen, go to cafes, sit next to boys you find attractive, do the "oops maneuver" like dropping something near them. Let them do the work but push them on the right direction.

And don't drink a lot, that's stupid and quality men will be repelled by that.
As for popular, don't try it, waste of time, waste of money, i dated a few "popular" girls they were nervous wrecks because of the pressure to maintain popularity.

>>720447743
4chan is part of my life for 7 years now, but being busy with other stuff helps

i am trying to be polite, bought a bunch cute dresses, ive going to the gym every week for last 3yrs.
i dont even need to force myself to go out, i wantttt to go out and meet someone interesting, its just weird to go out alone, and i dont think i look approachable,or have idea how to achieve that

theres just as many neckbeard chicks as dudes. just some of them run off with beta bitchboys.....

>>720448172
I've been here since 2006. I am as normie as they come in the surface. Got a house and a fiancé and a cat and a stable job. Still come on here to shitpost as an outlet.

Gym is fine, dresses are fine. To be approachable dress okay and have an ok smile, and don't arc up whenever somebody tries to talk. Being shy or awkward is fine.

Everybody cares what other people think, pretending you don't is just that. But if you're good at pretending and doing your own thing it's great.

Don't try too hard to be normal, just take off a rough edge or two. Quirks are good.

>>720448172
Well, we can tell you if you look approachable. Post pics. Start with nudes.

>>720447411
Do you have kik or snapchat? post it here and we could talk?

Do you think that one day, on your deathbed, you'll be thinking "Thank God I asked people on /b/ how to live my life, that made all the difference."
No. No, you won't.
Kill yourself, instead.

>>720448077
im practising that smile everytime i go to bathroom.
im afraid most of them already know each other and chit chat would bore them unless they somehow like me.

thanks for the bf advice

i really think im a better person when im drunk im having more fun and people wanna know a fun girl a guess

>its just weird to go out alone

things are only weird if you make them weird. Chances are when you think you're being weird you're just doing normal things and nobody will notice or care.

Normies (including myself) do dumb shit all the time. In fact, the people I know who are the most popular are the ones who do the weirdest shit and they just wear it. Laugh it off and joke with people about how stupid that thing you did was.

If you want, I can give you stories of some of the downright autistic stuff some of my mates have done, yet they are all still really popular and great people in general

>>720447315
I straddle the line between neckbeard and normie.
That's not a problem, I've got a fuck load of friends and I'm happy.

Being weird is cool these days.

Let's be honest here OP, are you ugly?
Let's get a face pic and I can give you some advice from there.

>>720447315
FUCKIN JESUS THE MIDDLE GIRL YOU COULD PARK A SEMI BETWEEN HER EYES

i feel like this approach of trying to change yourself completely is very unlikely to work. its much safer and easier to first identify some of the more normal interests you have, i dont know, music, your hobby, art, sports, whatever, and then try to socialize with people sharing those interests with you. that way you are not forced to act around your new friends all the time but can be yourself and just show more and more of your more unusual personal traits after some time. a new group of friends of probably influence your personality and you can expand into new situations that you initially wanted to experience more, for example let your friends drag you into their favorite bar or whatever new sourrounding they like to be in.

>>720448606
Or tits...

OP if you are here and wanna talk private or after if this 404s post me your kik or snapchat and i'll add you

>>720448568
i dont have many people to ask. and i dont want some mean girl to like me, i want someone like you.
>>720448603
well my bubble used to be very tiny and everything was always weird so it was safer to not do anything. i dont think im still confident enough to laugh it off and joke about something, but at least im not gonna cry and lock myself up untill it seems unreal.
>>720448606
i dont want weird cool, a want a normal oldschool cool.

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>>720448576

That's the point of chit chat, everyone knows it's pointless, it just acts as a soft binder.

Being a bit buzzed can be good in the right circumstances, just don't make a crutch out of it. The people you want in your life are the people that like the real you, or at least an improved version of you, you don't have to play the clown game to make people like you.

>>720448913
If you're trying to go from wierd to oldskool cool then you're just gonna fail.
Embrace what you are but mix in a bit of normie and you'll be both happy and popular.

>>720448913

>well my bubble used to be very tiny and everything was always weird so it was safer to not do anything. i dont think im still confident enough to laugh it off and joke about something, but at least im not gonna cry and lock myself up untill it seems unreal.

I honest used to be in the same position, it just takes a few times of doing something so awfully awkward that you are afraid to show your face to realise that nobody actually cares

to make people not like you from your actions, you have to be a special kind of awful, not even weird awful, since I know blokes who are fucking rare units, yet they still have plenty of friends because they do funny shit. To make people dislike you, it takes doing stuff that you know is intended to hurt other people, and then you have to repeat that over and over

>>720448611
>>720448980
i dont want to be anything i was. i want to experience new stuff and find myself in something else.
>>720448942
i wouldnt want to know someone who is like 'real' me. that person is shit.
>>720448748
i can add you if u want

>>720447743
>get off this website
stopped reading there

>>720447315
Tity
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>>720449127
>i can add you if u want
Add my kik its called SomethingSuggestive

>>720449127
>i want to experience new stuff and find myself in something else.
well sure, but the question is: do you reach this by just erasing every bit of your personality first? how do you plan to get into new things? maybe you could give an example of something you'd like to get into.

>>720447315

I will start off by saying you have an amazing opportunity to start off fresh in a new place surrounded by all new people. It is great that you want to improve on yourself (focus on school, eat healthy. etc.). I am 24 now and out of school but I have been in your shoes before.

The one thing that I would emphasize the most is that you should try your best not to worry about what others think of you. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself and try to figure out who you are. What are your interests/hobbies/passions? Try to join some extracurriculars or clubs that interest you. When you find people who have similar interests as you it will be much easier to communicate and build a meaningful relationship, romantic or otherwise. Don't worry about becoming popular, don't try to change yourself just in order to fit in with people who have nothing in common with you. Trust me, no matter how many friends you make, (and I am sure you will make plenty) it is always better to have a deep trusting friendship with very few people than to have a bunch of friends who you are not very close with.

So in short, my advice would be to just focus on yourself and be the person you want/are meant to be. Join clubs to meet new people - you WILL make great new friends, party hard with those friends, study, try new things, and the rest will take care of itself.

Best of Luck!

>>720447315
those peter pan collars make me diamonds
id be your friend

>>720449264
Ah fuck just add me on snapchat, StokeBlackRock

>>720449583

Thats the classic textbook teen magazine advice that doesn't work.

The "just be yourself" thing is bullshit, if someone is nerd/beta/antisocial it's he/she that has to improve to fit, not go on quest for something that fits.

>>720450108
My whole point is that you should not try to change yourself just to gain popularity. Even if you could pull it off, why would you want to be friends with people you really hold nothing in common with? If someone is "nerd/beta/antisocial" and they enjoy that lifestyle they should fully embrace it. It isn't like there aren't any other people that fall into that category. You are much more likely to deeply connect with people who hold similar interests to yourself and that is all that really matters.

>>720450108
this: if being myself leads to chilling at home all the time, i will have a hard time to meet new people.

>>720450363

Then you end up in "safe space" autistic clique.

>>720449264
>>720449955
OP add me when you can StokeBlackRock on Snapchat

>>720447315
Last girl I tried to talk to rejected me for trying to be like her fucking councillor, if a guy ever tries to talk to you about personal issues don't be a cunt about it is all I'll say

>>720450835
>this desperate

>>720450418

Good thing I specifically said get yourself out there and join clubs in order to meet people. Introverts still typically have interests or activities they may want to participate in. If literally all you do or care about doing is sitting at home and staring at a wall then you need to do some soul searching and figure out what exactly it is you might be passionate about.

Learning who you are and becoming the person you want to be will give you far more fulfillment in life than just playing a role in order to become popular.

>>720447315

show tits

>>720449252
yessup

>>720449127
>i wouldnt want to know someone who is like 'real' me. that person is shit.
Really? What did you do? You wouldnt call someone a shitperson just because he is socially awkward, would you?

>>720451064
>Caring

attentionwhore post.

>>720450883
Bad advice. If a weirdo like this poster approches you, run for your life unless you wqnt to do scatporn in a trailer.

January 27 people falling for attention whores not asking for timestamp/tits.
Whiteknights are strong nowadays.
I think Its over b is down

>>720447743
this
start hanging out in >>>/wg/ most of them are pretty normie
don't expect anything from anyone
t a l k t o p e o p l e

>>720447315
If you weren't attentionwhoring your gender would not be relevant. Since you stated your gender, you are attentionwhoring and thereby tits or gtfo

>>720447315
I hope this ends for you like it did on emergence

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i have a thing for awkward girls

>>720447315
To start 'normies' somewhat give a shit about their families. So don't cut ties with them.

You want to make friends at uni? See if there is someone who's in some of your other classes/doing the same major and talk to them in the first week or two of semester. They'll eventually become a friend if you ask them about themselves etc. (people like talking about themselves.) If you have shit in common, talk about that if not talk about the course work and they'll become an acquaintance. Ask them if they want to have lunch, no one likes eating alone.

Boyfriends, you like someone, ask them if their single, if so ask them the fuck out. Valentines days coming up, ask them if they wanna go on a date.

Wear clothes that flatter your figure/features or reflect your personality. At least put in a little effort, don't rock up looking homeless.

For overall popularity just be nice and help people. 9 times out of 10 they'll be nice back, if they're not just don't help or talk to them anymore.

mfg people this shit ain't hard.