/b/ i'm marrying the biggest piece of cuntshit on earth,

>>720355548
Quit being a beta bitch and just leave...

>>720355698
/thread

kill her

>>720355759
/thread

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>>720355548
why haven't you just left already??

>>720355548
What country do you live in where it's legal to marry yourself?

Tell them to hit the bricks

>>720355834
No

>>720355548
back story?

>>720355548

Do NOT get married, ever, period. No shit!

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>>720356146

>>720356013
because like said, i've always thought it might get better. it's not always that easy.

>>720355548
Cheat.

She'll catch on

>>720356365
i've thought about cheating a million times.

>>720355548
Cheat

pic of fiance? story?

Greentext it

Make her cheat on you, just be lazy, don't contribute to anything. No presents or flowers or any of the shit. Also while your "saving" for the wedding just spend all the money so you can't get married.

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>>720355548
>i'm marrying
STOP
>how do i get out of this quick and easy
Say we have irreconcilable differences & you're a cunt
> i always think it's gonna get better
It wont, bail now

>>720355548
Film yourself getting fucked up the ass while sucking BBC (or BWC if you are black) to completion, the turn to the camera and say 'Fuck you <insert bitches name here>, I am cum-dumpster when you are not looking!' as cum drools out of your mouth.

Works 95% of the time.

>>720355548
Just drop of the face of the earth. Fake your death

>>720356685
>just got out of old relationship
>known him for years
>always seemed awesome af
>one month into it he gets abusive
>beats the shit out of me 'cause work was hard
>stockholmsyndrome.jpg
>i think it might get better
>4 years later still the same but beating has stopped
>still verbally abusive
>my parents fucking love him
>don't wanna disappoint
>what do i do oh god

>>720356323
You're retarded.
You're literally making your own shitty situation and then whining about it on a japanese image board

>>720357061
Did you try killing yourself?

>>720357277
yes and i dieded.

>>720357061

Define "beating the shit out of".

Also, wtf don't go on a rebound relationship, take time to sort things out then go for fresh start.

>>720357061
leave the country
go to europe

>>720355548
are you pretty, OP?

>>720357061
>move back in with parents
>"mum, dad, I have something to tell you..."
>break down in tears and explain
>get your dad to tell him to fuck off and cancel the wedding

being a women is easy as shit
no dad will rest easy if he finds out someone is abusing his daughter, no matter how much he liked the prick before

>>720357629
beaten in the face, head, stomach, hair pulled. runny lips and nose, you name it. Humiliated and spat on, dragged across the floor by my hair. I know i'm retarded. Called the police almost a year ago because i thought he was gonna kill me (hands around throat til' i saw black). I know I'm not alone about staying in relationships like this.

>>720357679
i'm norwegian and live in norway.

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>>720357061
>tell him he is verbally abusive and you are sick of that shit
>say you want to go couples counselling.
If he says yes:
>Great. Work out your problems.
If he says no:
>Threaten to leave.
If he still says no:
>Leave.
If he starts hitting you at any point.
>Leave.

What do you say to your parents?
>be as vague as you can to them.
>say shit like we are working through some stuff right now.
>We are just having a bit of trouble.
>Its just a rough spot.
>We just need a bit of help.
Basically make it look like you are trying. But do everything to let it fall apart.

>>720356323
If you don't have kids, then you have no reason to stay. You sound like you are just a fucking idiot. I'd pocket whatever valuables you've got, put it into a Uhaul, and depart. Terrible chicks will always be terrible.

>>720357753
that's what people say, i don't really think so.

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>it's another "OP complains and then refuses to listen to any of the solid advice in the thread, instead making excuses" thread
anyone else getting bored of these reruns?

>>720358299
thank you so much.

>>720358348
there's been ONE good advice in this thread. so fuck off.

>>720358504
>everyone tells you to leave
>"but i can't leaves cause muh parents"
>implying your parents wouldn't support you if you told them the truth
no fuck and your victim complex
the situation is cut and dry, leave
the only reason you don't is because you want the financial stability that comes with staying with him

well enjoy your own self-constructed nightmare

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>>720355548
Are you fucking retarded? If you don't want to marry her then don't fucking marry her...

>>720358698
i have financial stability on my own you asshole, this is not 'murica or some third would country. fuck you for everything else you said. i hope one day someone does the same to you, then you can speak.

>>720359060
>i hope one day someone does the same to you
what says mean things to me and abuses me and, for some mystery reason, I decide to stay in a relationship with them and get engaged?
you see how fucking stupid that sounds on paper right?
dumb bitch, no wonder you're being abused. you're stupid as shit

>>720359338
both men and women experience shit like this, and it takes a lot of desperate effort trying to get out of it. only stupid fucking idiots like you think leaving is as easy as said. i hope people like you experience the same thing in order to truly understand how fucked up it is. fuck you cumstain.

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>>720359060
He might be being a dick about it but that doesn't mean what he said is wrong. If the only thing that is hold you back from leaving his is what people (your parents) might think of you is really a problem you have in your own head.

I made this >>720358299 because I'm not involved. All you needed to do was remove yourself from the situation and think about it like its someone elses problems.

>>720359060
now you're just trolling
nothing about what you've said shows any stability
now we know you're either an idiot or full of shit, but for anyone else out there who may be in a situation close to this whos come to the thread for perspective here we go.

Getting married never makes anything better.
Now I'm not one of the pricks who just says never get married. But when you do know, that any problems you have aren't going to go away. After marriage things always slowly get worse as you get more and more comfortable. Now for most, there's far more good than bad so you can ride that downhill slope for 30 years and be okay. But if you going into it with massive problems and you think getting married is going to fix it you kinda deserve what youre going to get.

OP is you're not full of shit, have fun ignoring good advise and wasting more years on your life because you're afraid of confrontation.

I'm sorry about your situation.

You clearly aren't going to just leave on your own-- if you were capable of doing this, you would have done it long ago. Accept this.

To leave, you need help. That help will come from your parents. You need to tell your parents what is going on.

They are your parents, they will support you, they don't give a shit about him. Any parent only likes a child's partner because they think that partner is good for their child.

Tell them. Don't try to figure out the whole process of leaving, just call your parents and tell them what's going on, and tell them you aren't capable of solving this problem on your own. I hope you can resolve this, and I wish you the best of luck.

>>720359538
you're pathetic
when you were born, I wonder if your parents knew that they were giving birth to a whiny weak-willed cumdumpster? is that why you don't tell them, because they think you actually have some strength and you want the lie to persist?
i don't really give a shit, make a million excuses for why you can't act autonomously and then retreat to feminism because how dare you be unable to exercise willpower? fucking patriarchy amirite?

Why should we give you any advice at all? You're just going to think about doing it, make excuses not to, and not do anything. If you really wanted to leave you would. It's not fucking rocket science.

>>720355548
Hire a nigger to bust into your house and take her.

>>720358037
this, dads will kick the fuck out of their ass. even shitty dads (who actually consider themselves your father and respect that) won't stand for someone abusing their child, its in their blood

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>>720359845
I'm not OP but:
>I don't really give a shit.
Then why are you posting?

/b/ please help! i just love being abused! i love, love, love, being abused! give me attention and pity! if i leave i can't get that!

lady, from one girl to another, please stop embarrassing yourself and learn to be self-reliant. needing to ask other people for permissio-i mean, if you should leave a relationship where you feared for your life is exactly the reason you're getting abused by men. this is why people fucking think women are subhuman. have some agency.

>>720360323
to make her feel bad and reconsider her self-defeatist lifestyle

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>>720360411
So you do care then?

>>720359932
This definitly

>>720360473
define "care"
i can't care really because even if i was successful i could never know it. i care about the responses i give somewhat

>>720355698
yup

>it's an OP fucks off after everyone points out what a retard they're being thread
every time i swear

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>>720360637
>asks me to define "care".
>does it himself while at the same time admitting that he does.

Fucking leave OP. You're a moron if you stay. You have literally 1 life. Don't spend it with some assdickface.

>>720358099

Yeah... This is bate or you're just stupid. You don't need any advise; wanna die? Stay and marry the fucker

>>720358299
This is terrible advice, you're just telling her to give him another chance, that's not going to work, it'll just start the cycle all over again.

OP, you have to understand that what's happening isn't your fault, he's abusive and he isn't going to change. If he hasn't gotten better after 4 years, he's not going to. At what point do you say enough is enough? When you're married? When you have kids who are also receiving his abuse.

Don't stay with a bad person because other people think you should, don't worry about disappointing yourself and don't worry about the repercussions.

It will be hard at first OP, but you have to stop hiding from the unknown, or you'll be stuck with someone who abuses you for the rest of your life. Break the cycle OP, get away from him.

>>720360345
if you think this is for attention then you got it all wrong dickbreath.

>>720357232
You're retarded.
You're literally insulting someone for whining on a taiwanese fisherman forum.

>>720361011
i know you're right. and that i am scared of being alone, somehow i think i'll never find anyone again.

>>720361079
>it's not for attention
>but im gonna ignore every response that says anything other than to give the relationship another shot
what did she mean by this?

>>720357061
Tits and/or gtfo

>>720361466
obviously i didn't ignore though.

>>720361260
yeah, that's true
may as well just marry the guy in case

>>720361260
Aw c'mon.. you're probably a very attractive woman with nice tits who should post a picture of them or gtfo.

>>720361552
making up shitty non-excuses is the same as ignoring

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>>720361011
Lets follow your logic with my advice of her going to counselling then.

>They go to counselling.
>He remains abusive.
>She now has proof of it in the form of the counseller.
>She leaves knowing she did the right thing and can move on easily.

Lets follow your advice then.

>She rips the bandaid off and just leaves him.
>She wonders if she has done the right thing.
>She at worst rebounds onto some guy who doesn't really care about her.
>She at best remains emotionally scarred and is unable to form relationships effectively after the fact.

Nigga what I said had nothing to do with giving him another chance. It was about giving her all the options with none of the risks.

All you are doing is proclaiming all will be right with the world and then throwing her in the deep end.

>>720361260
I know it's scary OP, I really do understand. But just try to realise that that isn't true, your partner has deliberately torn apart your self esteem for this exact reason, so you'll be afraid of being alone and will never leave him.

It's up to you to prove him wrong, for a while after leaving you might not have a partner, but you won't be alone. Tell your parents what has happened, I guarantee they will be on your side.

Believing in yourself can be hard sometimes but you have to change things yourself or you'll never get away.

The first step is telling someone you trust, someone you know has your back, after that it will get easier. You may not believe in yourself, but I believe in you.

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>>720361079
>yfw

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>>720361260
you don't need to find someone again to be happy. why don't women have any fucking hobbies or dreams or goals besides being a pussy to fill, to the point of settling for someone who will fucking kill them

women are the ultimate misogynists

>>720361832
>but I believe in you.
why? she's proven herself to be a weak-willed idiot who just wants to be loved by the bad-boy who's abusing her

>>720361832
thanx. i'm posting here 'cause im desperate and just want someone to know. way easier than telling friends.

>>720361943
i do kinda agree with you.

>>720362071
my gf has a million hobbies she'd do and keep herself busy if we broke up. she hardcore gardens, bakes bread, brews alcohol, makes cheese, makes vinegar, butchers, makes sausage, hunts, i don't understand these other women

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>>720361832
This nigger is just "Fluffing" you so he can fill his white-knighting quota. Don't listen to his advice its there to make you feel good. Not to actually help.

>>720362003

Exactly.

You dont want a solution you just want to whine to improve your emotional situation rather than solve the problem that causes said problem

This really is proof that you are female OP...

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>>720362256
>hardcore gardens
is she watering the flowers with her own period?

OP is retarded, just leave and tell your parents, it's not fucking rocket science.

>>720362256
>makes cheese
My dick can also do that, there aint nothing special about it.

>>720361805
I'm not saying all will be right, it will be hard and it will suck. But she's been with him for 4 years and it's clearly not gotten much better, she said herself that less than a year ago he strangled her until she lost consciousness. This is clearly a relationship that has gone on for too long, Sometimes tearing off the band aid is the best thing to do, even if it's the hardest.

Furthermore, your presumption that the best case scenario is emotional scarring and the worst case is another abusive relationship is just not true. Going to someone who is being paid to keep them together isn't going to help, it can at best temporarily improve things temporarily.

If you haven't left her/him yet what makes you think that you are going to now.

You probably told yourself millions of times before that you're done with 4chan and I bet you came back.

>>720362353
not 'live feminist art show' hardcore, just that we have enough to skip grocery store shopping in the summer/fall

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>>720362353
Nah bro. You tie a plow or a hoe to the end of your really long hair. Then you start spinning it around your head with headbanging while listening to Metal music. You use that to tend the gardens.

Take real skill to do.

>>720356996
This.

>>720361966
>>720362260
Look, I know it's cheesy, but she obviously needs some support.

>>720362003
Don't misunderstand, I'm not saying take the easy way out, tell your family and your friends, otherwise you really won't get out.

>>720362256
i'm sure she does. and i play piano, sing, paint, and about to publish a book. i wouldn't fucking say this for lies, you don't know who i am and there is no reason to bullshit. yet i find myself in this situation with him.

>>720356996
I wan't to hear about this other 5%

>>720362797
>Look, I know it's cheesy, but she obviously needs some support.
no she doesn't
nothing we say will do shit

she'll suggest couples counselling, he'll say no, she'll say ok and then he'll fuck her dry
she just wants to tell herself that she tried to get help. but she doesn't want any of the required effort involved in actually helping herself, nor does she want to interrupt her relatively stable life

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>>720362490
Nigga have you ever been to couples counselling?

Them asshats are there to assess and provide advice. Not influence directly.

If the partner is abusive then the advice would be to leave + infomation on how. Unlike you who is saying:
>Jump off that high board blindfolded bro. Trust me (random guy she met on the street), there is totally water in the pool 10 meters below you.

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>>720362913
so why do you need him then? why do you need a man to 'complete' you? because you need a man to tell you what to do to be happy. you are scared of agency, like most women

>>720363414
to be fair, when women attempt to attain agency, they tend to go extreme feminist and complain that they're not millionaires

Call this guy. He sells animal porn!
(613) 880-5645

>>720355698
/thread

>>720363414
because human beings don't want to spend the rest of their lives alone, and i've had bad luck as fuck.

Pack your shit and just leave. You will regret the rest of you life marrying someone that even slightly annoys you.

>>720363158
>jump off that high board blindfolded
I think you have a warped idea of what breakups are like. It's been 4 years of abuse, somehow I think she'll probably be alright. Maybe you're just a little bit retarded buddy.

He's gonna get worse if you ever have kids. He will beat them, beat you in front of them, and you'll have to live with the guilt of raising abusive pieces of shit or allowing them to be murdered in front of you.

>>720363613
make some fucking friends like normal people do, or call your family

>>720356698
Don't spend the money. Hide it in an account or cash she doesn't know about.When you split up you have some cash to spend on hookers, blow or just a decent girl or whatever. Tell her you got mugged or something.

Clear example of cycle of abuse and the narcissistic/codependent relationship. Marry the guy and have his children. You certainly want to have children with him and allow him to use them to control you. Beauty and the Beast isn't real life, anon. He will never "come around" and become your prince. People don't change like that without traumatic brain injuries.

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>>720355548
tell us the details, with greentext