I have a question guys. I've been seeing this girl off and on for about a year. She comes back mid November wanting to be with me for real this time. I say "we'll see how things go." Then the beginning of December she says she missed her period. We get a pregnancy test and she's pregnant. Then I ask if she had sex with anyone else in that month and she says yes. I time with a condom. She and I were doing the pullout method and having lots of sex. We argue and now she wants nothing to do with me. We went to a sonogram appointment the other day. Then after she text me saying there's a legitimate chance the baby isn't mine. I want to get a prenatal paternity test but she want to wait until after the baby's born in August. What do you guys think?
>>719984814 Was in the same boat op. Back in the day paternity tests were expensive. Then baby came. Then she seduced me back into relationship. Now I'm raising a kid that I know that it's not paternally mine. He looks just like the other dude.
>>719985176 Dude straight out tell her test now or you're walking away. Stop taking her to appointments and shit man. She likely knows it's not you but has no one else to take her places and have shit done with her. The
Paternity test can invole drawing blood directly from the baby, which can cause harm to it or even a miscarriage. Make sure you get a non-invasive test. You should get it soon, there's no reason you shouldn't be able to prepare for the baby if it's yours. If it's not, you can relax.
>>719988609 tell her to stop being a selfish bitch and shes got a kid on the way and she has to think about the kid. if she doesn't prepare the dad its just going to make the kid suffer. this woman is an idiot
>>719985718 she hasnt got a leg to stand on, in 8 months shes gunna be up shit creek without a paddle if she doesn't have a dad to help her. if you really care you should talk some sense into the bitch, letting her act like a child isn't doing anyone any favours
>>719990529 She's the one who posted immediately after the pregnancy test on Facebook. I have people coming up to me telling me congratulations, asking how she is. And because I care about what people think of her (don't want her to sound like a slut) I can't bring myself to tell them the baby's probably not mine
>>719990840 >don't want her to sound like a slut >is a slut You don't want to be that guy, I get it. But why try to protect her when she's pulling this shit? What happens when/if it comes out that it's not yours and you knew the whole time? People will think even less of both of you.
>>719990840 Shes got you baited hook line and sinker. All she has to do is be pissed at you and you'll do whatever she wants. Let her sort herself out and dont give her any more control over your life.
>>719991194 Yea but I'd rather wait until I get a paternity test, hopefully sooner than later before I tell people it's not mine. Sounds horrible to say but a part of me wishes she'd miscarry or get an abortion. Never thought I'd say that but it'd probably be best.
>>719991455 Not true. All she wants is for me to leave her alone. I have been but I need her to agree to that test. Her parents should be on top of this knowing she slept with someone else and me. Most likely I'll have to pay for it but it'll be worth my peace of mind.
>>719991761 Yeah ok, you've got some tunnel vision happening atm. All you want is that test. Forget about it for now. She's not going to give it to you, let it go. If she wants to play games then fine. But regardless you wont be helping out without the test, so she will HAVE to do what you want if she wants your help.
>>719992037 She doesn't want my help. She wants nothing to do with me. I'm torn between wanting this kid to be mine because everyone knows. My heart was pounding out of my chest when I told my parents. Her parents already got some baby clothes. I was at the sonogram last Monday. Then I don't want it to be just based on her attitude lately. Maybe hormones.
damn lad, I feel bad for you, however when a cunt tells you she only had "sex one time and it was with a condom" it's 99.9999% of the time a lie.
She most likely fucked multiple guys with no protection and then got pregnant. Women will never admit they're sluts so she most likely lied to you about the number of partners.
Now to know if youre fucked or not I need you to think very hard : when you had sex with her, did you ALWAYS pee before having sex ? The pull out method can work almost every time, despite what autists here might tell you. The thing is that if you've ejaculated before pissing there might still be some sperm/presperm in your dick, and this could potentially mean the girl might get pregnant if you fuck her raw with the pull out method (Even if you dont cum inside)
which is why there's a golden rule : always take a piss before going in raw.
godspeed anon if you need help remember that /b/ is here for you
>>719994752 Not sure if pissed or not. We had sex around the 15 of November I think. I remember in December she thought she got her period but it was light a went away the same day. She thought this was implantation bleeding.
Lawyer fag here. I've seen enough of these situations and the preceding lies woman tell.
Gonna level with you. It's very likely she did only have sex with one other person. The doubt is the condom. Very likely the started with a condom but that was not the case on round 2.
The bitch is salty at you because you now want her to take a paternity test. This makes he uncomfortable as it makes her slut status public and humiliating. Every time you ask for the test it makes her squirm.
You have no fucking clue whose kid it is under the circumstances and speculating is a waste of time. You can't force a prenatal test.
My advice. Start saving some cash and the instant the kid pops be there and witness the test yourself and give your dna sample.
Stop communicating with the woman. Only ask close to the time if the baby is due.
If it's not yours hooray. If it is well enjoy being a father.
Stop being a beta fuck. It will hurt you in the long run
Relax. You are either the Father or not. Can't hide it or deny it with a paternity test. I'm in the know here and you do not need to take blood from the baby. It's not the 70's. Fetal DNA is circulating in the mothers blood and can be tested using next gen sequencing. You need a blood from mum and blood from you, and $500. So go to the Drs (both) get the bloods taken then chill. Keep your text messages. Then, if the baby is yours congratulations. If not, you decide bro....just don't get her pregnant after that, OK?
>>719996572 >test Same later fag here. Listen bud it's a shit one but you are going to want to be there for legal reasons. You may be implicated in the costs of the birth. This is unlikely but possible.
Just be calm and get the dna test done as fast a possibile. This is not just for your piece of mind but for the huge cost implications it will have down the line.
She has already agreed to a test and I can tell you getting a court order to force a test costs alot of money. So ignore those idoit fags on the thread
I think best thing to do is just go ahead and get a court order. You're entitled to know if the child is yours or not. DO NOT wait until the baby is born because a lot of times men feel the rush of love you get when you see a newborn and your brain will trick you into thinking it's yours. Might be evolutionary or psychological. Either way she's probably waiting for it and doesnt want to face that fact that she's a hoe.
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