What's got you down /b/?
I'll go first
>play football and rugby. Generally good with ladies
>drunkenly ask out qt. Says yes. We hit it off until I find put she's super against hate speech
>break it off. Use another chick to get over her
>end up getting attached to new chick. I really like her /b/
>get friend zoned after making out with her. Found out she used me
>drunkenly ask for a second chance with original qt. She says yes
>wake up two days later realizing why I broke it off before
>kms I'm gonna have to do it again
>break it off. Feel like shit but better than dating a feminist
>all her friends start hating me making up rumors
>whole highschool hates me now
>even my friends are starting to hate me
>walk past qt and friends one day
>qt doesn't look, friend 1 looks at me disgusted, friend 2 coughs in my face
Doesn't feel good having an entire school gossip about hating you /b/
>another rejection from a film festival for my short film
>gf loves me, i don't feel anything for her but I don't want to hurt her
>we have to break up in 4 months anyway
>my main board is /tv/ and it's constantly spammed with /pol/-b8 and cuck threads
>can't find enjoyment from anything other than film
>wondering if im actually just a hack
You broke up with her because she doesn't like hate speech???
I think I made the wrong choice in schooling. going to school for law. have no fucking clue if I'll be any good at it, I seem to be pretty good at polsci courses which is what I need to major in but I don't know if that has anything to do with actually being a lawyer. Rents say I would be good at it but I'm not sure if they actually believe that or if they do but they just say that bc they're my parents. Classes are getting harder and harder for me, I'm not sure if I can keep up. sometimes I take vicodin to knock myself out to deal with the stress. any tips? I feel bad for bitching about my life and I know people have it worse than me
probably not even real, but on the off-chance...
This was after the whole election thing. The day that trump got elected she posted things on snap chat and ig talking about how only cis white males are safe and how she is so dissapointed that she has to live on a society where trump could get elected. That's mostly why I broke it off. She seemed crazy
lots of people need second chances, i went to school to become a chef and that passion eventually turned into hate, people dont really want to pay and want you to live for the job if your first try doesnt work out it doesnt mean its over for everything
I constantly feel like I'm headed straight to being pic related
I dont understand how you dont see yourself in the wrong. Then again you're underage.
>dreamt about my highschool sweetheart which i havent talked to in 7 years
Its like my brain wants me to feel like shit
I'm in love with a girl who lives on the other side of the world and has a boyfriend.
We were both on exchange in Japan and were in the same class. She still writes me
almost daily, and she is so friendly, kind, caring and beautiful.
But I will never have her.
On the bright side, I have managed to turn my frustration into pretty good fuel at the gym.
I'm jealous of my best friend and I really hate it. We look completely different, he's taller than me but skinny. I'm shorter than him but more muscular and toned we spend a lot of time shirtless at work. But he gets girls and I can't, I think he just has a better personality. When he does something it's "oh haha, so flirty and playful" when I do the same thing "ew, that's so creepy", I know it's petty, I know its sad but I can't stand always being shown up. Him ALLWAYS being the better one, I fucking hate it. I hate it because he's the kindest person in the world to me and I love him like a brother. I just can't help feeling jelous every time we're around other people. It's really grinding me down every time we have a social interaction all eyes are on him just... Fuck. I'm sorry for ranting And I know how stupid and petty and fucking silly it is, it just gets me down always being #2.
Guys haven't you noticed a kind of "quality" drop in feels threads? Back in 2015 there was one every day, they lasted for hours and people were telling stories and dumping loads of pictures all the times and everyone was supporting eachother and then those threads just stopped, there's barely any feels threads no w and they are, well, mostly empty
I feel you bro, try to be different, don't try to be as good as him, don't play his game, make your own rules and people will like you as much
Think that, for example, "quiet hot guy" is quite as popular a sterotype as "blonde blue-eyed woman"
I'll dump some that I saved back in 2015. It's not much, but it's a start
I wish i could get a gf at least once.
Just to know how it feels like.
Bringing in the 2015 stuff
>be 17 year old
>lead normal life
>suddenly mum gets lung cancer
>leaves a small but decent amount of money before she went, said "it's not enough to live off it but maybe enough to materealize a dream"
>step-father who promised mum to keep me untill I'm done with school suddenly throws me out as soon as she died
>can't move in with my dad because he has a single room apartment as is barely living off welfare
>fail at school, they let me "take a year off"
>do my driver's license in the meantime, was a petrolhead for all of my life
>go ahead and buy dream car
>barely able to afford it, have to unregister it and drive something more economical instead
>meanwhile apply for welfare so I have a bed to sleep in and am able to buy myself food
>the car works like a miracle
>I don't even need to drive it. Just sitting in and looking at it is like therapy
>suddenly being ripped out of childhood brought all sorts of problems with it (lawsuits and stuff) but I managed it all somehow without killing myself
>fast forward 1,5 years
>eventually drop out of school completely, start a job, kiss a girl, have a road trip by myself, decide to re-enlist in school
>Ding dong, it's the German state
>"we've noticed that you have a nice car and simultaneously claimed benefits for liek a year before getting a job and funding youself"
>"you'll have to pay us back every single penny"
>mfw depending on how much of the time I recieved help from the state they want to be paid back it could be that even if I sold the car I wouldn't be able to pay it all off
>tfw I'm being punished for having money that my mother worked and paid taxes for
>tfw I gotta sell the only thing in my life that brought me joy
My girlfriend has terminal cancer, she was just readmitted to the hospital again on Monday because of kidney pain, find out the cancer has spread to her kidneys, the Dr.s have her on a potent cocktail of various painkillers which have her in la la land, in between sessions of nodding out she asks me "if we can rent a beach house when she gets better so all of her friends and family can be together" I say "yes anything you want baby" but we both know they probably won't be releasing her from the hospital this time, I hold it together until she nods off again then just lose it, bawling like a child, I love her so much (pic related)
kinda gay but i don't care.
Thinking more about my highschool gf than the one I have now.
Feels like I can't be the purest form of in love anymore ever, we're just great friends who fuck, but am I in love? I don't know /b/
Ah thought you were from somewhere else. I have a friend who acts like you described. And I just wanted to say I am sorry if I made him feel less than he is. Because in all honesty. Yes I am a tad better at social interraction. But in research, science, job related things etc. he is the supperior man by FAR.
Keep it up.
Sometime I feel like that, I'm in a similar situation. I'm the more academic of us. But there's some sort of charm he has that I just don't have, I'm not socially INEPT at all, I'm an actor in my spare time so I'm not autismo levels of awkward, but he just has a way with people I don't have and being over shadowed by him constantly just grinds me down. I'm just getting this all out tbh because i would never say any of this to his face
>we're just great friends who fuck, but am I in love? I don't know /b/
I feel you, as I said in my other post I feel like I'm on the verge of missing out on teenage love and all that shit, I'm one summer away from university (which is also made worse by the fact that I'm going to study in the USA so bye bye to all the friends I have here in Spain).
I've been told lots of times that I should just go ahead an pick a girl that's interested in me but man, I don't want a fucktoy you know? I want someone to go to the beach with on a summer night and lie on the shore looking at the stars and talking about stupid stuff that only we care about, and I can't have that with someone I don't love
For some reason still unknown to me I got a qt3.14 gf back when I was 15 and to this day I'm still convinced that it was as good as love can get. Not that I can prove myself wrong though, as I'm a beta faggot with zero chances of getting another gf.
Idk man, I could just hop on the train of random girls and enjoy the physical stuff but I've had a small taste of what it'd be like to have a soulmate as a girlfriend and it kind of spoiled me
Lately I've been having a lot of shitty experiences in my social life. An old friend I wanted to start seeing again refuses to acknowledge me, the first relationship that gave me genuine joy was broken, one of my closest friends ended up turning me down. This isn't anywhere near as bad as losing someone to cancer or getting evicted, but it bothers me. And in my mind the only person I can find to blame is myself. I don't know what I did wrong but I fucked up somewhere.
Honestly nothing, I don't want him to change at all. Him changing how he acts would make me feel fucking awful. I just needed somewhere to vent my frustration
Then why not hop in that train my dude. Maybe you're lucky and end up finding what you want in there. And if you don't, well, at least you get to have some fun.
>I still check up on her
>seeing the things she's saying and laughing about
>remembering how much fun her and I had with eachother
>seeing how happy she is with her new boyfriend
>they deserve eachother. he seems nice
>watching her try her best to grow as a person
>loathing myself more and more as every new day passes
>i lost her
>beat myself up every night I think about her
>laying next to me asleep
>sob into the soft toy she gave me years ago
>she had planned to lose me just so she could get with somebody else
>she was getting cozy with another guy for months before we split apart
>they're together now
>hate her and her boyfriend with every fiber of my being
>want nothing but the worst for the both of them
>hatred in it's most pure form
>months have passed and the hatred boils hotter than magma
>thinking way too much
>she always hated how much I overthink about things
>I wonder how she's even doing
>is she okay?
>I still check up on her
>rinse and repeat
I broke a scereen at my job yesterday so i was put on leave. I might get fired and I'm incredibly done with everything. I moved where i live now about a year ago and have no friends except a few online. Life sucks for me at the moment and im not sure how to make any of it better. If i get fired im probably ending it all. Around march.
>acts like a cunt
>surprised when people start treating him like a cunt
similar but not the same
>>like grill (not sexually as she was just 10 last time i saw her)
>>don't see her for years
>>mate says she's all grown up wi big tits
>>see her on fb
>>she's got a kid
>>make a complete ass of myself
>> ohgod jpeg
>>click on gogle she's replied but i don't see what she wrote
>>sick as fuck with nerves
>>imagine it was good message n maybe she wants to get intouch
>>grill hardly speaks
>>comedown from high i was on is terrible, cry like a bitch
>> this was some time ago
>>see some nigger is chatting to her
>>urge to smack niggers balls in so he dosen't breed with her and leave behind jerome as all niggers do
>>i still have feelings for her
>>i still want her
sometimes i feel like i've lost the will to live and all the other things in that box
try to be positive bud, sometimes we need to change our outlook in life and who we desire
maybe the problem is he's attractive to the women you also like, who aren't attracted to you
spend a bit of time away from him and look at other types of women
I can totally relate on this. I used to be like that,the guy who is always the Robin instead of Batman. One day, I asked my bestfriend what's the feeling be like him who is good at sports,intelligent,popular,etc. The only thing that he said is "I don't know? I feel like I am me haha." At that moment, I realized that I'm a fool who wanted to be someone else instead of being me because I want to be main character.
Instead of imitating someone to get better and get that leading role, I started to be who I am and worked harder to surpass myself because no matter who you are,the only number 2 is your old self.
This one gets me every fucking time. I even have a dad who was just as awesome and raised me alone, so I can definitely relate. Just me and my dad. q_q
I love you.
Just for being a friend in these times. Somebody more understanding than the hundreds I've met face to face. You are the only person who truly knows how to make me laugh, smile, and feel. Differences clog our points of views, but I always find a way to come back and treat you as a friend once more.
I love you, and I don't even know you, Anon.
I love you so fucking much, bro.
have this one.It is alot better
i'm still trying to accept the fact that i'm never going to get a gf because i'm ugly and awkward.
i've tried focusing on other things, but there's just a dark cloud hovering over me reminding me of that fact all the time. sometimes i even stay up late and cry myself to sleep by thinking about how lonely and miserable my future will be.
sometimes i feel like that
then i remember that theirs always someone out their who'll like me
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she's just so gorgeous i just choke on my words when i try to talk to her.. at this point im pretty sure i blew it
How does it feel to have filthy colored skin, and knowing that white people will forever be superior? Your nigger skin literary shares the same color as human shit and apes. I recommand grabbing a knife and slicing your mothers throat because she got fucked by a nigger who left her and then reproduced. After that give yourself to the police and rot in jail where you belong.
neh keep tryin (preferably when she's alone)
talking to someone you want sexually, is tough
as we have to brave the nerves
talk to her like you would a friend, not a potential lover
don't focus on being with her just yet
sometimes grills are bitches and are best left alone
you'll learn to read them as you get older and wiser
Niggers spread like cancer among the human race. They are a misstep in evolution. Think about it, if we ban their reproduction and collectively lock them up, the nigger race will slowly be eradicated from the planet. It is a step by step purifiction of the human race
>relly like someone
>They know. They ask me to be in a relationship with them
>So happy. Each time I do anything with them; even just talking: is the happiest moment of my day
>5 years later
>Tells me they only pretended to be in a relationship with me, because they thought I would enjoy it
>Last year, they got married to somebody else without telling me
>Say they "just don't want me around."
>Say they still want to listen to how much I love them, but doesn't ever want to let me touch them again.
>Tell them "fuck that shit," and get the hell out
>write this, and do laundry.
>friends of 4 years doesnt get on ps4 for weeks
>contact a friend of theirs, he says he'll find out what's goin on
>get a text from one of the friends who didnt get on, find out that he actually is on
>i've been deleted, they didnt tell me, and didnt tell me why
>hear that my grandma died shortly before that
>my cold sore is flarin up a week after all this
you are confused my man.
Being black != nigger
stealing, killing people, robbing stores, being a shithead = nigger
Being a normal contributing member to society is all that is asked of everyone regardless of skin color, nationality or creed.
As other poster said, be the difference, not the statistic.