How does /b/ talk to grils? >go to club last night with friends

>>719645157
Stupid probably.

20 secs of bravery is all you need

just realize, they're people just like you.

>>719645157
He sounds like a tool

>>719645283
this. solid advice, even tho i can't follow it myself.
The struggle between alpha and beta wages on.

>>719645157

Just post more of lefty, nothing else matters now.

>>719645468
there is no struggle
alpha people have it naturally
betas keep talking about it thinking its just some attitude, that they can behave differently and become alpha, but it never happens
even if you try, its obvious that is an act

>>719645157

Ive had a girlfriend for the past 2 years and things are chill. I know when I've got it good

But when I was single, I would use okcupid and tinder, night clubs or other settings were different, really just depends on the context. I was dating this girl for a couple months, mostly just for fucking, we started talking over drinks at a party we were both at because she happened to mention a book or movie I liked

Clubs are different, the only ones I go to or did go to were ones that had DJs I liked playing, some times id meet a woman and dance, other times id just chill with friends

>>719645714
I've seen a few transfers. After a terrible car accident that i acted quickly in, i became the alpha of my family. You can't just change your attitude, it's a change of who you ARE. You have to be a pack leader. Always have a plan. Be the prepared one, the one who calls the shots. Start with family, eventually you gain confidence and it bleeds over to friends, and way down the line, pretty girls. Get to it now before you're too old like i am.

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Related: Is it possible to stop being shy? I'm pretty outgoing but when it comes to clubs and shit I'm weak. Never make eye contact with chicks looking and stuff

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>>719645157

I worked in a downtown bar in a city of over 3 million people.. You guy there has realized that he could whip out his dick, do the helicopter, and speak retardese, and STILL not be rememberer a month from then in the off chance that anyone that was there returns to the bar at the same time he does (the bar is a flow of ever changing faces and bodies.)

What you need is confidence, it's all you need.

You also need to stop being a manlet and become tough.

>>719645714
This is 100% bz. The vast majority of alphas fake it before they make it.

We're all gonna make it.

>>719646126
Yeah just realise everyone who looks smooth as shit is also sweating with anxiety but they are hard cunts who act cool despite anxiety.

>>719646395
>We're all gonna make it.
kek

>>719646179
If this doesn't take the pressure off you you need to actually demonstrate it to yourself by going balls to the wall of makig a dick of yourself then realise the next day nobody gives a shit.

>>719646615
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tac71micVyQ

>>719645714
I was a depressed kid til I was in my early 20's before I realized I had to change. You need to be comfortable with the context you're in. I pushed myself in every situation instead of backing down I jumped in. Sometimes I failed miserably, but kept going.

Now I'm 23 and when I go partying I very rarely go home alone if I'm trying. It's total bullshit that only some people "got it". You need to understand that women are as diverse as men in what turns them on. I've known the hottest girls that refuse anything but the nerdiest of nerds (that have that little bit of confidence) because that's what they need and want.

I doubt people in this thread know anything about women. I can answer if anyone needs help from someone who crawled out of the manlet cesspool, but be honest.

Have you ever gotten to a state where you just don't care? Not caring in a sense where you realize that the worst situation is a "no" and you move along? Learn to channel that feeling of not giving a fuck. Give enough fucks to be gentle and understanding, but still have confidence to a point where you can take rejection well. Spurs of confidence can help you figure out how to control it to your own will. Its all in the mindset my dude

>>719646786
how to start talking to girls in bars?

>>719645157
>How does he have so much confidence?
Xanax

>>719646126

Shy is just a perspective, its hard to consider the feelings of others when yours are the ones that seem so present

If anything it just means you're better at introspection and more emotionally competent

In a club though, just be nice but also be a little bold, just walk up and say something like, hey I noticed you arent drinking, would you care to share a drink?

As dumb as it sounds politeness will win in most situations, once youve gauged interest then open up and be a little more aggressive

>>719645157
its not confidence, its lack of care

>>719647193
Horrible advice lmao....ezcuuuuse me miss would u plz fancy a drink pretty please I'm so nice let's share????? Lol faggot

just have to believe in yourself
went from being a fat beta 18 year old virgin who thought it was a good idea to date a fat 3/10 slut. fast forward to now 23, awesome confidence which netted me a great paying job full of people who value me, 8.5/10 cheerleader gf that earns even more money than me and wines and dines me regularly, a couple of fast cars, an amphetamine prescription and a bunch of girls lined up if i become single again, just in case. lifes good now.

>>719645157
>How does he have so much confidence?
>confidence
Can we just stop using this meme-word already? He's not confident. He just doesn't give a shit anymore. Just like any of us who is on drugs.

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>>719646395
>We're all gonna make it.

Not all of us... Just keep going forward-

>>719647341
So many lies... cheer leader gf... 23..... high paying job... lmaooo

>>719646126
Depends what shyness we are talking about. I'm very shy. To the point where I blush and act like little innocent girl. But that's only when speaking to girls I think that are "higher" than me and are very beautiful. Lower ones - meh, don't give a fuck about them. I can speak freely with them.

>>719647010
I just tried (and failed pretty bad) several times, but it got gradually easier. I imagined that the girl I was talking to was this "wimpy little boy" I had to impress.

But in all honestly, that aspect isn't hard. Women don't want a cocky alpha, they want a jovial type that *listens*. I typically try 20% me, 80% her. Build rapport, bring back shit she said before, visualize that wimpy boy and seem confident when you crack a joke. Trust me, a woman thinks it's impressive just that you talk to her, so don't be afraid of being judged.

>>719647309

I don't see you offering any advice.

Conversation and interaction isn't hard.

I didn't tell him to go ask like a meek 5 year old. You look around, see if theres someone you think is attractive, and just go up and talk to her.

>>719646126
Drink something. Have you ever been drunk?
I was a completely failure a year ago and last Saturday a girl wanted to kiss me. We did it. She wanted to come home with me but I couldn't since I was going out with my friends after the party. God damn, I regret.

>>719647309
You are not good with women it seems. He is right. Some people just CAN be alpha cocky jerk, but they attract the women that likes it. Have you seen any mainstream hollywood movie? how often is the protagonist not like this. Women loves class, but also being aggressive not overly flirty.

>>719647649
Yes, u told him to ask like a needy 5 year old. Pretty much. Lmao share a drink madam? *tips fedora in politeness to 'win'"

>>719647842
This is not the movies. Those 'protagonists' in movies are fiction with fictional situations.... Lol???

>>719647975

Do schools give the day off for the inaguration?

Or did mom just leave the computer on. You should get off before you get in trouble

>>719647649
how you like you like an apple juice or some of my fruit by the foot? i was thinking maybe you could come over sunday morning for some cartoons. my mother makes a delicious bowl of frosted flakes. after that we could talk about my puppy.

>>719648118
Criticizing the example, not the point.

>>719647355
This

>>719645157
i dont, there is a reason i am here right?

>>719648195
go back to /tv/ and prattle on and on about how kino spielberg is, faggot.

No shame

>>719648254
You broke your leg at the skate park last week and Jessica stole your crutches this morning. Now you're stuck inside all day.

>>719648521
as a europoor i wouldn't want to go near a skate park, just leads to rape harrasment or worse

nah its ok, with some i can talk for hours, with others not even a minute. but internally i think all women are whores and i despice them a bit, doesn't really help getting girls

>>719645283
This. Jewish conspiracies are my favorite openers.

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>>719647477
you seem upset

>>719645547
Her name is Gemma Maree. Don't ask me how I know this

>>719648750
that's nonsense, skate parks have the best cocaine. they're not all whores. change your shitty attitude and it'll change your perception. you see what you're looking for.

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>>719648859

>>719645157
Keep the government from monitoring your online activity http://anonyourself.club

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>>719648910

>>719645157
Master body language. It's really all you need. You can read some more shit about psychology but... A good student of body language can get a woman interested in them from across the room before they have even spoken.

>>719645157
Exposure therapy.

Just take a Xanax and throw yourself in the middle of the bitches like your homie.

>>719648837
>look at all these keys

are you a janitor?

>>719648949
What pose are you recommending?

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>>719646395
we're gonna make it bra

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>>719649046

>>719648950
you can't hide being sweaty and fucked up on xanax. everyone you meet is going to know you aren't sober.

>>719648892
i dont do cocaine, i agree with the latter though. guess i'm just spending too much time on pol complaining that my beloved europe goes to hell, which makes you hate all sorts of people (woman included)

>>719648837
why so many Toyotas and which ones

>>719648949
This. Learn to control and how to maintain eye contact

>>719645157
You won't be vaporized if you talk to a girl. Worst that could happen is that they could publicly crush your frail beta ego.

>>719648910
>>719648941
>>719649046
Love this girl

>>719648837

>all toyota and honda keys

TOP. KEK.

You sure showed us collecting your parents keys.

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>>719649189
people always get the wrong idea when i make eyeball contact, especially cashiers.

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>>719649382

>>719649174
at the moment
>94 import Tercel
>87 aw11 mr2
>97 import ae111 trueno
>07 aurion

i like helping neglected cars, mainly toyotas

annons home for neglected toyotas

>>719648959
Keys to the broken down cars sitting in his front yard.

I don't believe all this "I went from fat beta virgin to chad alpha thundercock" shit

just like >>719645714 said
Sure there are people who can "change", but de facto it's almost never 180° change, most of the time it's just people that had some confidence/alphaness/whatever to start with going through a bad patch
All you have to do is check out how someone was like as a kid, that's more or less what that person will be like for the rest of their lives - if they were shy kids that stayed inside all day, you won't find them pulling pussy left and right 20 years later

In the end it all comes down to genetics, that's how it is and there's no point fooling yourself, these dreams of going from Chrischan to Casanova are just that, dreams
Either you're a natural leader or you're no leader at all

The only thing that does work is drugs
>Alcohol, personally speaking, doesn't really do a lot for me

>>719649096
>sweaty and fucked up
>Xanax
Dude, you don't have to abuse them. Just take one and get your two-step on.

Also, people get sweaty at clubs. I always hated it but that happens when people dance.

>>719649126
like i said dude, if you sit around all day focusing on negative things that make me angry you're ruining your disposition. you're programming yourself to be bitter and unfriendly.

>>719645157
>how does /b/ talk to grils?
We don't.

>>719645157
Talk to them like you would any person. Be open be funny be sincere. Be confident most of all. You can tell pretty early if they are interested in you are not. The trick at a club is to talk to as many women as possible. Once you get 5, stick with her. Then try to go home with her or take her home with you. You're bound to get laid. I got laid by 52 women in my lifetime. And I only started at 27 years of age. I'm 33 years old now.

>>719649610
Women go to clubs to get fucked. You're not a miracle worker.

>>719649382

nude pics? seems to be a slut

>>719649610
What do you mean by once you get five? Like, stick to the 5th one you talk to, or talk to five girls without the expectation of anything happening, and then try harder once you get in the zone of talking to chicks without any hangups?

>>719649807
thats why i'd never pick a women from a club because those degenerate whores can go to hell

>>719649564
im sorry but thats bullshit, life is what you make it. you can be whatever sort of person you want to be. you are a beta cuck if you think that and deserve to have your fat gf fucked while you watch

>>719645157
This guy here again
>>719649610
The guy you're talking about it so confident because he's done it so many times. The only downside that he could suffer is that the girls wouldn't really want to dance with him. Big deal. Till just walked up to the next girl. I've gotten so confident that I'm to the point where I can talk to a girl and if I feel a good vibe, I can actually take my dick out and let her feel it. If she catches my vibe, I usually get laid. This has work for me 2 out of 2 times. So a 100 percent success rate. But you have to know what you're doing.

>>719650058
settle down, this is a family restaurant.

>go to a club
>consume coke
>????
>profit

>>719649610

>you can tell pretty early

Exactly. Just talk, talk and talk. Just like with any other thing. You can't be perfect from the get-go.

Take it as a phase in your life. You're not doing it to find a spouse. You're doing it for confidence to eventually find someone worth a long term relationship. If you never get the confidence, or if you start a relationship by one of the pick-ups, you will aim too low.

I am beta as fuck, but with try and observing some alpha friend I can tell you a bunch of things :

1] Look matter. Make peace with that. Yeah there is the 1 on 100 ugly boy that banged the hot chick, but keep in mind that not the rule, but the exception. The key is not bothering with it, not because you feel more confident ect. , but because if look matter, but personal taste matter too. I have a lot of female friend and you could be surprised by the diversity and "level" of what they found attractive;

2] Trying and failing is better that not doing anything. I know it sound like fiest level stupid thing, but it's true. If you fail at least you are learning something, you are "playing". If you don't go and try nothing will never happen.

3] Don't make it a holy crusade. First thing you want is to go out and have fun, yeah I know getting laid is the top of fun, but if you start it as a work you will start to overthink it and the thought will annilathe the action.

4] Alcol is your friend and your enemy. Alcol help you lessening your inibhition, but too much and you become the 10th drunk idiot trying to hit the girl.

5] It's not big deal. If you start taking with a girl you have to start like it's nothing special, don't overdue that even the opening should really be something easy. Really sometimes when I am out of the club waiting to enter I simply start by generaly looking throught the girl and saying something like "It's cold I just hope they let us enter soon as possible" or other bullshit like that.

6] It's not big deal. If you start talking with a girl that you don't know neither of you really expect some deep and meaningfull conversation. You are just stranger that are meeting att a social event. What you do ? Where you live? You come often here? Are just good question.

>>719650178
What kind of parks are you going to? Times?

>>719650058
This is a wise decision.

You will meet nothing but troubled sluts at nightclubs. I've met most of my women at those and they were all really terrible people.

Lying, cheating, hooooors.

>>719650356
You think everyone is terrible.

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>>719650278

>trying and failing
>don't make it a crusade
>balance with alcohol
>don't overthink

I concur

Went to a casino with prostitution.
Maybe 20 dudes and 200+whores
Still couldn't talk to the women despite not needing to say anything other than 'damn youre sexy how much?'
After an hour of silent gambling finally bought a pussy.
Back to my room and fucked, think all I said was 'nice boobs' and later- 'I think I need a new condom and position now.'
Was neat to finally get a cum but just prooved to me women are a waste of money and stress.

>>719650518
the majority of humanity is terrible and useless, yep. the world would be better with a radical population cut

>>719650278
Cont.

7] Depending on social situation my average time from "Hi" to start kissing is about 1 minute. Really it's usually very clear when a girl want you to do more than kissing. I dound a key point that let you understand this. It's not big bullshit like eye movement or lips biting.

Simlpy do the gesture of you know when in the past man take the girl hand and kiss it. You have to put the hand in that way, you just don't have to take her hand or kiss. You just have to wait, if gave you the hand you can go kissing the girl otherwise better you wait.

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>>719645157

talking to girls 101

>tell them you were born in West Philly
>you spent lots of time at the playground
>your hobbies include: chillin out, maxin' and relaxin' and coolin'
>you been in a fight with a local gang
>you have now moved to (your current city/town) as requested by your mother
>you have relatives (aunt/uncle) in (your current city/town)
>the vehicle you drive had dice in the mirror
>you have been known to be disrespectful to cab/uber drivers

>>719645157

You are what you can convince other people you are.

>>719650518
No, just 99% of female clubrats.

And you.

Got one tip that's all you need.

The 5 second rule. Get in a bar. Decide immediately the table (ppl) you want to join. Join them right away after ordering your drink. Talk.

BUT if they say no, DO NOT join another table that saw that happen. They will think they're the 2nd choice. Scoot away to the COUNTER and wait for the pop to change / strike up conversations at the counter.

>>719650829
One minute? Damn, that's quick. Tell me more.

I think you should talk to whoever and just utter whatever comes natural

even "Hows the weather this bad ?" Trust me, even if its stupid you should say it because what could go wrong

>>719651120
>invites himself to join my squad
My team would roast you.

Seriously, though, whenever strangers tried to talk to me I would immediately think they were insane or lonely bastards.

Or insane lonely bastards.

>>719651120
I could see this working.

>>719645157
Girls are attracted to confident guys. Even if you arnt confident, the act is still necessary because reasons. 'Beta' is just an inability to act out of character, most guys conquer this through drink. Its just a game OP and the pickup is just the start of it

>>719651357
>Or insane lonely bastards.

The trick is to be an amusing insane lonely bastard.

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>>719651357

>insane lonely bastards

Welcome to /b/.

>>719650122
Yeah yeah, keep living in your dream world where everyone can become president of the universe if they just put in a slight bit of effort you delusional fuck

>>719651581
/thread

>>719645157
It's easy, you just talk, but my problem is the lack of good looking girls because my standards are way too high.

>>719645157

Here's the thing fam. This goes two ways and heres how. Usually,when dudes are fucking spilling spaghetti its mostly cause they either are legit shit scared for whatever dumb reason or they have an insane ammount of bullshit baggage that more than most likely keeps them 100% of the time in their head where they're judged constantly by none other than themselves. So one way to go through this is to fight yourself over it until you fucking clean your shit up.

OR

Just get loose AF somehow and have at it maybe you get lucky.

few pro tips

- you're out to have fun with the end goal being the puss

-be natural,in the sense of just fucking chill out and hit it off fam

>>719650058
They are there to get fucked, nothing else and that's all you should do to them.

>>719651801
or just mix adderall with weed?

>>719651706

Sure, everybody can't win. But if you don't delude yourself into thinking you can't, you lose automatically.

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> HOLY FUCK >

>>719650178
Yeah... you're prison at some point in your life, just letting you know that.

>>719651912
Whatever gets you loose
however i'd say the first part is more important not just in the
lol xd pussi part but you know
lol xd I actually have a fucking life and im fucking choking myself on all this baseless negativity

>>719648949
Not a pose or "quick fix" there are no quick fixes.

Dedicate yourself and truly study every aspect of body language, start with "The Definitive Book of Body Language".

I can of a few examples of ways I've used body language, to my advantage. If anyone is interested.

>>719651511
>>719651581
Shit you right.

>>719651932

*into thinking you can

You gotta fake it or you're BTFO by default.

>>719645157
In a club its super easy most of the time i dont even talk to them untill afterwards

I know this isn't exactly the topic but it relates. Confidence comes from experience. I work as a tech support agent and when I was first on the phones I just did my best to sound confident but in reality I had no confidence in my actions, even though I was usually right about the steps I was going to make. Now I'm about 95% confident in everything I do there. When people need help, I help. When a customer starts trying to tell me I don't know what I'm doing I just remind them there's a reason they called tech support and they shut it. Now every step I give I feel confident in because I know it might work, and I think that's the whole point of being a "chad". You just have to believe in the you that believes in yourself.

>>719651932
>Actually admits to being delusional
And calls ME cuck.
Lmao

>>719645157
quickly

>>719645714
fucking faggots still talking about alpha/beta when we are human beings and not fucking animals.

I get it, one of more overwhelming than the other person but there is no such thing as alpha or beta with human beings you fucking idiots.

>>719652018
use weed to get chill
use adderall to concentrate and not be a fucking idiot

It's not bad or something.

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>>719648767
Can confirm, had a Jewish girlfriend

> goto gym
> get jacked
> learn to dance
> take off shirt start dancing
> they come to you

My friends are ripped, they just hang out when we go to raves and dance and girls eventually flow to them.

I'm in the process of getting jacked and learning how2dance

>>719652195
>when we are human beings and not fucking animals.
A human-made distinction, dumbass
Just because we're human that doesn't mean concepts of the animal world don't apply whatsoever at any time

>>719652085
I'll add to this. You need to learn how to be confident without being a total dick. A really easy step to take is never criticize, there are much better ways to word things. Although it shouldn't matter, certain words will trigger people in different ways

>>719652105

Consciously perceiving yourself to be who you want to be is an act of delusion, but a common one.

"Fake it till you make it" is the bumper sticker version you'd probably manage.

>>719645157
Very simple. He has a large cock. He knows he won't be laughed at if he shows it to girls. You, on the other hand, don't have a large cock so you are afraid of the inevitable ridicule, or possibly just giggles, that come when a girl sees your equipment.
Either that or he has realized that if you ask 100 girls to fuck, 1 will eventually say yes.

>>719648837
Monopoly money?

>>719652319
how2dance tho?

how important is height...

>>719652195
Translation: An alpha stole this guy's girlfriend, or the girl he was pining after

>>719652231
>weed
>chill in a company of people you don't know and need to impress.

not working together fam.

just do coke

>>719645283
>they're people just like you
girls =/= people like you
Anon is a fucktard.
girls are 10th level stupid and materialistic

>>719651243
Nothing really special man. I mean if you go out with friends and they introduce you a girl you can't possible kiss her in one minute.

But for example at parties you don't really need all this social interaction with girls (they are there for the same reason as you). I usually start telling her something and being very close to her. If she respond and doesn't mind about you invading her "personal space" usually it's a win.

To tell you one time at a university party I am walking around alone a bit drunk with a bottle of vodka, then a girl pass in front of me and we look in each other eyes. At thispoint I simply walk back going to talk to her. I say some shitty thing like " Girls you have some Lemon soda to put in my vodka?" not even the time to do the presenation and we were kissing.

I am not a good looking guy, but sometimes I just grow a pair.

>>719652195
Humans are animals you dumbfuck
what do you think we are, demi gods that are above nature?
yes we have higher brain functions,but will still got all the lower brain functions too, which includes the Alpha/Beta mentallity

we shit eat drink fuck and sleep just like everything else

learn to biology

>>719652448

height doesnt matter, learn how to melbourne shuffle, in a month or two you'll be decent.

Most of the people are drunk or high on molly anyways.

1000 times better than Xanax and you can buy it online = PHENIBUT. Just be careful or you'll end up addicted to it as I am. It will be a social beast out of every autistic faggot on this planet

>>719652548
the adderall is to help me with the impressing part.

>>719652727
Can confirm. Was on lucy at the club last night and had no problems talking to anyone

you beat yourself up less and plays things off cool

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Also,

consider this folks.

>>719645157
i do this too
when i drink booze i act like the alpha of alphas, maybe because i have a 8/10 face attached to a 6'4" body, 204 pounds of muscle and seed strands. not everybody here have autism.

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Just don't be ugly. Ez pz.
I'm a total beta but handsome enough that it doesn't matter. Shits cash.

>>719648837
That's like $50 USD

Former beta here, start working out a little bit and shave all your hair off. Works wonders for confidence

>>719652757
What is it? Tell us more

Just walk up to them and grabem by the pussy

>>719653667
it's sold as Nootropic but is a GABA inhibitor just like Xanax. It just doesn't transform you to a sweaty zombie like Xanax does. The first 3 weeks when you take it are just pure bliss. It's like constantly being on lowdose molly without the bad sides like comeing down or insomnia. You will feel motivated to literally do everything you always wanted to. You can socialize with anyone without being weird or forced as shit. Read more about it online. It's worth it!

>>719654031
Hmm, interesting. You said you've become addicted to it?

>>719654031
>PHENIBUT
sounds too good to be true. what's the catch? what are the side effects?

>>719654169
>>719654174
It's addictive, that's kinda all of it. It's the kind of addiction you gotta be careful with. You can't stop it cold turkey. You gotta taper the usage down. That way you won't feel like shit. I've tapered it down a few times but came back to it after a month break.
I used to be the shy guy with social anxiety. Phenibut completely changed me and I got a lot of positive feedback from everyone. (I didn't tell anyone about Phenibut)

>>719649909
he means a 5/10
anon likes mediocre chicks cuz they pay attention to him when 8-10's won't.
Anon has minimal standards.

i stole my friends GF
hooked up with another friends GF
felt up 2 other friends GFs infront of them
made another friends GF fall in love with me just because i liked the attention
friends to beta to do or say shit too me

am i a shitty friend or are they just shitty GFs

copy pasted from another thread i was in

It is easy as fuck to steal your friends GFs wether your friend is alpha or beta
you have a reason to talk to them so that makes it easier, you will probably be around alot so you know when the relationship isnt going that great in the given point in time, bang on your friends bed wipe cum on his pillow, start getting his kids to call you dad as a "joke"

>>719645157

Because he doesn't care what they think. Sounds like he was just having fun and enjoying himself. That's the best way to appear confident.

Women are humans. They look for similar things in us as we look for in them, so if they didn't scoff when he came over, I'm willing to bet that this dude was also relatively well-groomed, well-dressed, and in decent shape (not necessarily jacked, but slim at least).

Oh, and working out, dressing well, and proper hygiene are things you should be doing anyway.

>>719654412
yea the problem of drugs is not mainly the addiction, it's the over abusing that ruins your body. for instance, if you drop molly too much your seratonin cells will get fucked.
now, I was reading about this phenibut but couldn't find anything about the side effects, which is weird. also it was invented by the russians which makes it more....weird...
sounds interesting tough

>>719652018
prune juice, mostly. mostly prune juice.

>>719654412
Also I'll give you some additional infos you'll rarely find... just in case you will get addicted which you most likely will. (Who doesn't like to be invincible). This is really important:

>Always take it with something anti-acidic (like bicarbonate of soda)
>Start working out if you aren't already. (realeases even more endorphines and boosts self-esteem even more)
>Take Tyrosine daily (2-4g). This one is very important. Tyrosine is converted to Dopamine by your body. Under Phenibut your body will deplete more Dopamine
>Take Magnesium daily. 700mg+

You can boost the effects of Phenibut with Carphedon & Kava Kava which will make a social madman out of you. This ego boost I call the godmode. You've become completely stress resistant.

>>719645258
20 secs = 20 seckz xDD

>>719645157
i don't

>>719653413
lmao

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>>719652834
>dude you were happy and talkative an hour ago, why are you so angry and intense right now?
>what do you mean? fuck you, i'm fine.
>no, seriously.
>i am being serious. i dunno man.

>>719654031
If you like nootropics, see if you can't get your hands on Modafinil (trade name Provigil). It kicks the shit out of Phenibut.

I actually have a prescription for it for a sleep disorder, so its nootropic effect is pretty limited for me, but it's still noticeable. There also aren't any real side effects besides headaches if you don't take a day or two off every week. It's like a better Adderall without the jitteriness.

Of course you could try both, but that sounds like a recipe for the worst headache of your life.

>>719648859
How do you know this?

>>719655556
those numbers
so close to glory

>>719653413
Lol aud=.75 to the usd... it'll be parity again soon... the trump economic effect.

>>719655693
>parity
>ever

oh you soft cunt. more goon, less petrol. save your brain before it's too late.

>>719655812
By no means a good thing, but was there in 2013.

>>719656172
Are you a time traveler?

>>719655556
I'm totally into biohacking and have tested almost every substance known to man - legal or illegal. Modafinil is a nice dopaminergic nootropic. If consumed regulary you gotta up your Tyrosine intake to produce more dopamine naturally. I'd suggest takeing 2-4g of tyrosine in the morning.

First thing you do is realise that you're not fucking special.
You're a mess of all kinds of insecurities, just like anyone else.
Why? Because our brains are assholes and it likes to trick you in to thinking you're different.
so Bam, you're pretty shitty, but hey, so is everyone else.
Playing field leveled.
Now stop focusing on the wrong things like your crippling anxiety (stop jacking off for a week, it'll help, maybe longer).
Don't filter yourself and just say what you want to say, unless you're a real psychopath, saying you love cutting open baby heads to see the mush mush inside generally isn't a big hit with the crowd.
Have proper hygiene.
Be yourself if you want to find a girlfriend, cuz it's easier if she likes you for you and not the idealized version of you.
Now if you want to just have sex?

step 1:
Be good at lying.
Everyone thinks they're good at lying, not true, micro expressions are a bitch.

step 2:
dress well but comfortably, get help here if you need to.
Buy perfume, don't choose, pick One Million, it's not that great, but it's better than whatever shit you'll probably pick, girls like it and it's cheapish. spray once or twice on your chest, on your skin not the clothes.

step 3:
learn to talk fluently and with confidence or drink booze, if you can handle your liquor.

There's a shit ton more you can do, but hey, get those down and you'll be ok and also, I'm not getting paid for this.

Approaching a girl isn't rly hard, I just go up to them say hi and introduce myself and then I talk about whatever I can come up with,
keep it light hearted, smile and look her in the eyes when talking to her, look away sometimes ofcourse, or it'll get creepy.
Listen to what she says, pick up on things you can talk about and fucking talk about them.
Bravo, you're talking to a girl.
no you don't deserve a medal, you've just become slightly less shitty.

Should I continue?

>>719656263
don't bother typing any more empty words. none of this is helpful.

I'm a 6-7/10 and I have been sexually active since 15 years of age. Literally have not been without a girlfriend or without sex for 4 months tops.

It's all about confidence and just realizing we're all human and not to put women on some sort of pedestal.

Be prepared for rejection or them not being interested in you, it's gonna happen and that's fine.

Dont be a dick and be a normal human being and you will never have a problem starting a relationship or having sex.

>>719656251
I actually have the sleep disorder modafinil was designed for (narcolepsy), so I've been on tyrosine every day by doctor's orders.

Honestly what sucks is that most nootropics I've taken have really fucked up my already shitty sleep schedule (without meds, I get, at best 2 hours of restful sleep per night). I would love to be able to do more nootropic experimentation, but my previous tests absolutely wrecked my sleep patterns. It'sjust not worth the zombie feeling it takes 3 hours to shake every morning.

>>719657061
>Dont be a dick and be a normal human being

RRRRRReddit alert

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>>719651120
I hate strangers joining my team. We don't need more people in our group, do you fucking get it? We are short on a pussy anyway!

>>719645157
Meth.. definitely meth.

>>719657284
Never been to reddit, so I don't understand the reference. Not being a dick is just common sense.

>>719657375
Then stay home. Why go out and be social just to be antisocial?

>>719657549
because he is a Beta that keeps striking out and he thinks that if he has no competition women would chose him by default
pro tip
they wont

>>719652577
You've obviously have never gotten some lol. It's okay that you're awkward and girls don't like you. Maybe one day big guy.

>>719657519
No, you stupid asshole, it's not, not here. You're in a thread giving "advice" to people who don't even know how to start a conversation with a stranger, much less an attractive girl at a bar. You're skipping a lot of steps, and the first one is basic social interaction.

>>719657675
goddammit this makes sense. thank you.

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>>719645157
Girls are fun. You can flirt with them, tease them. You can have all kinds of communication even if it's only non-verbal, fe. by rolling your eyes at her if something absurd is happening. You'll create a little "we both get it" mind. They're also invaluable for finding out gossip or other social dramas unfolding. They're squishy and relatively easy to kiss if you have some game. Sex with a woman is 1000x better than jerking off and fucking multiple woman will make you feel like a king.

Just whatever you do, don't get into a committed relationship with one of them. You'll enter their state of mind and your life will consist of emotional tantrums and unnecessary drama. Have a few FWB's, it's more honest than expecting all these things from love when in reality it's just two animals fucking.

>>719649069
69 means those are some big comfy titties. More please

>>719651357
>>719657375
Listen retard shills. He meant a table of chicks not dudes, don't get your whitie tighties in a bunch

>hurr durr grils don't go out alone

>>719657786
That's why I said it's all about confidence, that goes hand in hand with striking up conversation with a stranger. If you don't have confidence you're kinda fucked.

>>719648910
girls like this are very good at making you hate yourself.
and cuz they spend their life perfecting that.
Admit it yourself when u see them.
and they then look empty and feel shit about themselves cuz thats all they are "hate yourself emitters."

makes them feel and look dumb.

but u gotta feel that in yourself for that to eventualise.

>>719655131
No evidence real mdma causes any long term damage.

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>>719657675
yes and actually I can prove you wrong because I work with 9 women now and I'm basically only available male there and well, they are all over me. The whole place is going mental because of that lol. And I just keep rejecting them to raise my narcissistic ratings.

>>719658083
I never understood why people have such a hard time talking to strangers.

>they don't know your reputation
>you can act however you want
>if you just mirror them they'll always like you
>they're usually filled with interesting thoughts, just got to get them to talk
>potential new friends
>in general it makes you feel better if you talk to everyone, including cashiers and bartenders
>be social, it's fun
>if they don't like you, just walk away. Only happens 1/10 times anyway, most people will actually respect you for being able to talk to strangers without fear
>life is but a game, have some fun before it's over

>>719658004
>shills
Do you even know what that word means?

You're fucking retarded.

>>719658083
it's not all about confidence. social skills are skills and you can't make up for them with confidence. you need to have an idea of what to talk about and how to be interesting. what are appropriate topics to discuss with strangers to make them like you? no one wants to talk about how you day was, what you do for work, do you live around here, the weather, how your cat is sick, etc.

>>719656251
Isn't it expensive as shit though. Where did you get it?

>>719658363
You stalk about something you already share first.

>Kek did you see that drunk guy stumble?

From there it's just back and forth. It's not rocket science.

>>719658492
>no i didn't, that's crazy though. i've been walking for years now and that's never happened.
>omg me too. do you wear shoes also? i like shoes

>>719658323
bang them all

>>719649406
>eyeball contact
Bro you might be leering or staring. Go easy, imagine you're kind of smiling and soften up your eyes a bit. Practice your back and forth conversation timing. Boobs are available to anyone who wants them really

>>719658626
you like shoes too?
i think we have a real connection
lets fuck

>>719647205
This.

He could give a shit. He's already not getting laid being single, what happens when he talks to every broad in the place and they reject him? He's still just not getting laid. The worst that can happen is nothing. Who gives a shit whore number 1 doesn't want to fuck you? Sex is literally a numbers game.

>>719658626
>>719658780
Yeah if that's how it goes you might have autism. I myself am a neet, sperg and a psycho, but at least I can talk to people. The girls who know me for some time deem me crazy, but not dangerous I guess.

>>719658363
This is all true and great input. I was just adding a small snippet to a greater discussion. Take pride in your confidence, because maybe if you're a little slacking in social skills, confindence will go a long way. It should come first because with out you wouldnt be talking to that person that attracted you in the first place.

>>719645283
This. Fucking this. Most liberating feeling when I find figured it out.

>>719658213
of-course there is not, because non-offical study has been made about it(which is insane). but it doesn't mean that it's safe. what I am saying is a "theory" or "hypothesis" of doctors and scientists, which is pretty smart to listen to them. they can't really say IT IS confirmed that it is damaging because there was not offical study, but let's not be immature.

>>719658739
right?! i'm not trying though. now it's awkward because they're overly friendly and make tedious conversation with me and think i'm interested. i don't know how to make normal eye contact. yeah its the soft eyes though. how do i make eye contact without soft eyes or visualizing nailing them to a cross? i can't seem to find the middle ground.

>>719659036
>women
>people

stop

>>719645157

Pretty much the only time I ever managed to contain the spaghetti was at a coffee shop in Poland. Still with her now. Once you get past that initial moment, it's not as bad.

>>719646786
This. A good thing to do is starting to do something that will give you confidence (for me it was working out). Then you can approach people (not just girls) knowing you have something going for yourself. At the end of the day chicks are attracted to confidence. Money, looks, a big dick, these are just things that make guys confident, so those guys usually get the girls

>>719658942
like if you go into the situation with a couple topics you're passionate about and that you think the girls you're talking to will be interested in, then you're going to be confident in approaching them. so what are appropriate things to say to a girl you see at the bar or wherever? what to discus that will make you seem interesting and likeable?

pretty simple.
Don't talk to them: no chance of getting to know them.
Talk to them: you might get to know them.

Confidence helps, alcohol helps too

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>be in club
>looking at a girl
>girls notices and looks at me
>our eyes meet for a few secs
>go home masturbate and sleep

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>>719659681
Hey little lady, can I get you another prune juice martini?

Usually I'm a social kind of guy. I moved a lot as a kid, so I learned to make friends fast. However, my long term girlfriend and I broke up a few months back and that just threw off my game. I moved onto a college campus and I haven't made a ton of friends yet. I don't know how to get out of this funk

>>719645157
how i can i save this thread?

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>>719652195
>humans
>not animals

Lolwut. What do you think we are? Flora? Fucking microbes?

>>719660382
exactly. you can't even figure out how to talk to us, how are you going to approach women?

>>719660353
Join the Buttcoin Club, bitches love Buttcoins.

>>719652195
i nominate this guy for most autistic retard in the thread award

>>719660512
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
just tell me

>>719660382
https://sourceforge.net/projects/ychan/ may help you.

>>719660382
download as html

right click save as webpage

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>>719645283
>they're people just like you.

People...yes! But inferior nonetheless.

Well if you can't talk to girls.
The only advice I can give you is go to the pool every day. Your genes won't after you die.

>>719652964
>sex at the base level
>100 times harder to get than the other physiological needs

and people wonder why incels are psychos

>>719661259
>is that a can of tuna in your purse or are you just happy to see me?

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>>719660857
>>719660957
thanks

>>719651975
hows that bitches name

So what do you do when you dont have anyone to go to a club with? im not bad looking and I used to go to a ton of raves and got girls there easily, but now i dont know anyone that would go to a club with me, im pretty aspie by myself

been wanting to go out to a pub or club and try talking to women there. Something's pushing me to go tomorrow, but then I get scared af and chicken out

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>>719662968
you will never go, kys.

>protip: you know it and you won't kys anyway
>deeper protip: you want what you are getting loser

>>719662778
Easy, say you're out of town and you're looking to mingle. I do this all the time, works really good!

>>719662968
very important:
as said above, do not let getting chicks be your priority. chicks hate a try hard

if you feel like you're putting in too much work back off

I've only had luck while sitting down. When a girl decides to squish up against you, whisper something in her ear like just "what's your name?", then while you're physically close and smiling you'll probably kiss.

I guess I might be able to do something standing up if the girl already knew me.

>>719645157
a friend of mine has panic attacks and little self esteem but he always gets drunk and talks to every chick around just to prove to himself that he dares to do this. When he is actually successful he want's to get away as soon as possible

>tfw it's all a game and you can do well if you play by the rules

>>719663733

aight, makes sense.

Just need to find the courage for the first minutes, then I should be fine. I am fine with girls when they first start talking to me.

I got a friend from my class and she said if I want ever any help, I can just ask her.

>>719663733
It's annoying for guys too, we have to watch them hanging the girls who are hanging around us.

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>>719664020
This. The only ones who hate the game are the ones who'd have to admit to themselves they're losing. It's not hard once you see woman from a realistic viewpoint

https://therationalmale.com/

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>>719664159
tell her you need a hand

>>719663246
This is a great idea

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>>719659559
You can be passionate and it will help, but the general rule is that you get her to talk 80% of the time. Don't try to quality yourself to her, instead make her invest in you.

Get her to open up and by the end of the night she'll rationalise "Oh wow that guy made me spill everything, he MUST be special". If you do have to talk about yourself, remain vague so her mind can fill in the blanks. Also call her out on her bullshit. Treat her like a daughter, or a beta essentially. Because she is. Women have no agency, that's why it's easy for them to "get swept away in the moment".

>>719664207
Huh? you can't white knight a girl unless you want to be seen as the one taking her home... you'd go from having 5 girls around to 1 that you need to get a taxi for.

>>719664057
Asking a woman how to flirt is like asking a fish how to catch fish. You don't ask the fish, you ask the fisherman.

>>719664943

good analogy. not trying to catch her, though.

>>719665459
Well you can fuck a fish and still throw it back

>>719665584

with my luck I'd throw myself into the sea as well

oh well, I'mma prepare myself for tomorrow.

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>>719664943
>>719665459
NOT a good analogy losers, coz fish doesn't want to get caught. And women do want, some of them BADLY.

>>719666065
Kiss a few chicks. Doesn't matter if you've been talking for only 5 minutes. Look in their eyes, lick your lips, look at her lips. Look at her eyes again. Come closer slowly. Let her make the final push. Then caress her neck gently. Nibble on the bitch's earlobe. You know the rest

>>719666292
Yeah but they want to get caught by 10% of the fishermen. If a chick settles for you that's basically saying she can't do better. Quite sad really. To be a woman.

>>719666447

writing this down, anon. What else have you got in store for me? I'm a khv, mind you.

Do I compliment on girl's clothes/looks in the first moments? I have told that to a few girls in my class in HS/uni and they liked it

>>719666795
Just be natural man, talk as if you've known them for a long time. Like you're already friends. You certainly can make comments on their looks, shows you're interested. But don't overdo it.

Seriously tho, I'll just give you some links. Give these a look, browse around, lots of interesting things to think about.
https://therationalmale.com/
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

>>719666447
Don't lick your fucking lips, no girl wants to kiss your gross spit covered lips. Sure, kiss a few girls if you're a good looking dude and you can't hear each other over club music - but actually talking and dancing with someone is going to beat out the "go for the kiss 5 mins in." Every time.

What's the worst case? She's not into you and you move on?

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>>719666547
Are you saying that from an objective point of view there is only 1 top male on earth for all the woman if they don't want to make a sad, degrading move? Lol I bet you dream about being that one. You need a specialist mate.

>>719645157
>find them on tinder
>fuck them on first date

easy, really

>>719652063
speak

>>719667096
You can bite your lip, touch it with a finger or anything else really, just helps to signal what you're about to do. these are usually subconscious signals but if helps to be aware of them.

>>719667134
They always want better, that's why they're never satisfied. They feel they deserve the best. Not saying it's can be just one guy lol. Not saying it's bad either.

>>719667065

thanks, will have a look.

need to find a good place here, where most young people go.

>>719667222
checked
can you give pointers in conversations?
just got off a 3 year relationship and feel rusty

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>>719667362
you said it's sad they have that need, sad is bad. Fact is not all of them have. Only the ones with a higher than real sense of self worth, aka narcissistic whores.

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>>719667362
oh and yes, eventually it will be the one guy, coz you said "when she settles, she is saying she can't do better" so even if she settles with a number 2 on a planet there still will be a number 1 somewhere.

I need to confess I have a similar need and it's fucking annoying as fuck because I keep rejecting women and I don't even have a motivation to look for any coz the ones that I feel are good enough are too good in fact and I don't deserve them. Or maybe I just don't feel like trying lol.