Hello anons, My mother just abandoned me. She has bipolar disorder,

Please

Please anons. How do I get her to come back?

>>719492985

Where are you from OP, and what is your family situation outside of your mother?

>>719494070
I'm from Australia. I only live with my mum, haven't seen my dad since I was at least 5. I do have other family but most of them hate me.

>>719492985
Give her some dick.

>>719494210
Cunt. I genuinely need help.

>>719494164

Why do they hate you anon? How much are you expected to pay for university?

I mean... grandparents? Cousins? Anyone at all?

>>719492985
kill yourself will save so much trouble

>>719494276
And?

>>719492985
Did she leave any underwear behind? Put them over your face when you jerk off and then cum in them.

Congratulations on getting into a uni op, sorry to hear about your mum, that makes me sad as shit, can't imagine how you feel. Just know it's obviously not you, it's you mum, well, your mums mental condition.

>>719494318
As terrible as this is, i kek'd

>>719494277
I can defer most of my fees, but I have to pay accommodation costs upfront. It's $960 AUD. It may not sound like much, but I can't afford it. The rest of my family just hate me because..I'm me. I have anxiety and depression and as a result don't talk very much so they think I dislike them all, so they hate me in return.

>>719494307
Believe me, I've thought about it.

>>719494341
Kek. Yes, she left everything behind.

>>719494401
Thanks anon.

>>719494341
lol wtf man, though i wont lie this post made my cock twitch

>>719494552
Post pics of them.

>>719494552
are you on centerlink? You can get assistance off them, even a payment advance. Other wise its time to get a job man

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>>719494833
Yes I am, but I've not been on it long enough to get an advance. The real problem is I have to accept my offer before Monday, including paying the fees otherwise I miss out. (Pic related just in case you wanted proof). I can't really get a job here because I'd have to move within a month.

>>719494795
No.

>>719492985
OP i feel your pain.
Noone understands how you feel except you. So only you know what is best for you.
If it were up to me, I would reply to this post or your mother will die in her sleep tonight.

>>719492985
take it to /adv/ you FAGGOT

>>719494552

You should seriously reach out to family if you don't have a place to stay (but it sounds like you got some form of on-campus housing--do you have to pay for that in addition to the $960AUS?) and to update them about the situation generally.

Consider getting a job and/or sell some of your things over the Internet, depending on how desperate your situation is. Also consider Centrelink: Newstart Allowance or Youth Allowance may be able to help.

The key is not to panic in these times.

@719495030
You wont get me.

>>719492985
hey OP, sorry to hear that. My mom is mentally ill and moved away when I young. We'd see her about once a year.

I'm really proud that you got into university. I would talk to the school and say that you lost your financial support, and find out what options are available to you.

It might set you back a year, but don't lose hope.

There is no way to "fix" your mom, or that situation. All you can do is take care of yourself. I'm sorry you are going through this - but you can find a way to the other side.

>>719492985
>You see anons, I'm not at all rich, I'm not particularly smart either

well sir, your credentials check out. Welcome to liberal land!

>>719494968
Bro, talk to them about, i'm sure you can work something out with them, even a payment plan ect. otherwise try wallet wizzard or one of those rip off credit places that will loan small amounts to people with no jobs. better than missing out on uni. then i'd suggest getting a part time job to pay it off

>>719495080
yeah it sucks balls, but Id maybe ask family for help. Just explain the situation, and see what they say. Don't try and guess how they feel about you - especially if you also suffer from stuff ( anx depression ) . I like lots of my nephews and nieces but they are sort of antisocial dipshits and look at me weird when I try and talk to them... so who knows maybe they think I hate them too.

>>719495181
either that or sell some shit you own

>>719494968
No... And?

>>719495170
i can't tell is this a liberal slam? being poor and aware of your limitations seems like an ok thing to be.

>>719492985
you should rape your mom.

>>719495347
What a disgusting thing to say, even for /b/

>>719495347
Agreed he should rape her shitty ass dry and have her suck her own shit off his dick.

>>719494552
have a garage sale and sell all her shit

>>719492985
you should take bikini bottom and push it somewhere else.

>>719495145
Thanks anon. I can't take a year off, I'dd loose all the motivation that I currently have left, and quite frankly, that's not a lot.

>>719495301
And I won't post pictures of my mother underwear.

>>719495181
I looked in that direction, none of them will consider me due to my lack of stable income (they don't consider Centerlink payments as income)

>>719495347
Thank you very much for this. She's back now.

>>719495080
The $960 is the fee. Everything else can be deferred.

>>719495248
Yolo. You miss every chance you don't take. If your family hates you anyway, you lost nothing. Ask them and you will know.

>>719495460
This

>>719495485
I actually agree with this. Also try to do basically whatever jobs to scrape up money. Even if it might be questionable. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

>>719495555
checked and rekktz

both threads I'm in just got quads... weird

>>719495555
quads
/thread good luck OP

>>719495248

OP, there's a difference between family members not necessarily liking you (if that's even the case) and actually letting you become homeless/rejected from university life over a relatively small fee. Offer to pay them back plus some if you have to sweeten the deal, but don't count them out just yet. If they're aware of your mom's mental condition, they may be even more sympathetic to the situation.

$960 AUS is a pittance in the grand scheme of things. It shouldn't be a reason for someone to literally become homeless or live in an abusive household.

>>719495555
>>719495555
come see the incest thread at

>>719494444
>>719494444
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>>719492985
Yeah, stop whining about it and act like an adult now that you're in charge. Also, I didn't read your shit. Also also, get out under age b&

>>719495724
I'm 18.

>>719495560
Your mom was right to leave you. You seem like a piece of shit op. Make it up to your mom and give her some dick and I'm sure she'll forgive you.

>>719495317
i'm saying liberals are poor and stupid, but yet their in college, which has become an institution of making scalpels out of butter knives, mind you.

>>719495560
And...

>>719495792
Thank you, that makes me feel a lot better.

>>719492985
You know how to fix this? You need to stop being a needy little bitch. I find people nagging at me an annoyance(which includes texts, phone calls, plans, requests to go out, requests to go to a social gathering, requests to go shopping, requests to requests; eventually I just threw away my phone because the anxiety was getting to me.). Just do you and stop bothering your parent.

>>719495705
Alright anon, since you're the only one giving reasonable advice, I'll do this.

>>719495898
It wasn't meant to faggot. The last thing we need is another /b/tard getting indoctrinated a some faggy ass liberal shithole college.

>>719496112
My advice is very reasonable because I have bi-polar faggot. I know what it's like. Those who have mental issues can not take care of themselves let alone be bothered by someone who wants to be taken care of emotionally.
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>>719496209
I'm sorry. But the thing is, I didn't bother her. I let her be, and she hated that I did that.

>>719496399
Bro send pics of her panties

>>719496484
Fuck off.

>>719496399
No. It's a reaction. Genuinely she likes being alone and wants attention when she feels like it. They are still women at the end of the day. This is an honest advice I assure you of that.

>>719496529
Send pics and I will

>>719496399
>Return

OP, do you think that part of your anxiety stems from the time you've spent in fear of your mother's unstable behavior?

Has her behavior prevented you from engaging meaningfully with peers your own age, or in your trust of other people?

>>719496588
No.

>>719492985
She is mentally ill.
There's nothing you can do, she'll never be able to support you emotionally - you will have to find that connection somewhere else.
Call friends and family, find a way to live with them - all the best, I know how you feel. <3

Sell all your mums shit, fuck that cunt
She got bank cards? Rack em up kek

>>719496667
I'm not that guy but how old is your mom?

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>>719496667
Then guess who isn't fucking off.

>>719492985
Student loans
Don't you have any of that over there?

>>719496748
40.

>>719496654
That's a pretty deep question. I don't know if it stems from her. I was in foster care because of her condition. I was taken away from her so she good get herself back on track. When I cam back to live with her, whatever connection I did have to her as her son had completely vanished. I don't feel like I can trust her more so than I can't trust other people. The only person I really trust at the moment is my girlfriend, but that's falling apart too.

>>719496860
Yes, but they don't cover my accommodation fees, only the course itself.

>>719496826
Why the fuck do you save .gifs of stupid ass attention whores? I'd love to beat the shit out of her perky ass and see if she's still smiling afterwards with her makeup washed away by blood sweat and tears.

>>719496945
Yo is your mom hot. Like is she a MILF? Have your friends ever commented to you and said "Anon, I'd really like to bang your skinny hot bi-polar mom"?

>>719496999
So I can fantasize about doing that.

>>719496945
Don't they have campus accomodation?

I know how hard it is once you have nowhere to stay, but many first world universities have at least that much

Else, do as the other anon said to pay the fee, then work night shifts for the rent
At least that's what i'm doing

>>719497074
Asshole.

>>719497148
They do have campus accommodation, that's what I can't pay. I can't afford to live by myself renting either.

>>719497180
I think it's more of a compliment bro. You get advice in exchange for our lust right? Nothing in the world is free mane.

>>719497235
Student loans cover that shit. Don't want to take out loans, well too bad. Loans do help cover everything you need in college though.

Well... wouldn't it make more sense for you to kill them instead killimg urself? But then your cousins would be correct about hating you, cause youre then the murderer disliked cousin then.
Or... Do what ever you can do. Be a wild man who has no emotional feelings, you didn't born to be killed by your own hands. Like your personalities can't seem to be fixed to fix ur family. First fix urself, become more social guy, go to gym do some workout. It has been probably hard on ur mom too being single mom. Like jeesus. do thimgs with ur little brain. Don't ask advice from psychopath anons fucker ;-)

>>719497235
Join a fb group for your uni and ask around for roommates
Rent a flat on the outskirts of town

I know how hard all of this might seem, but as long as you focus everything should be just fine

Does OP have PayPal?

>>719496945
>Return

I don't mean to be intrusive. It's certainly a deep question, but because it relates to your station in life and how you seem to perceive yourself as an "anxious" person, I think it's a necessary one to consider.

There's no silver bullet for anxiety, but part of your process onwards should (in my opinion) incorporate serious introspection from the point of view of you as an affected person, rather than as a source of your circumstance. It isn't your fault your mother turned on you, and it isn't helplessness to ask others to help support you in your time of need. In a storm, a lost ship needs all hands on deck to be vigilant and working together. It's much, much more difficult to go it alone for fear of offending others or because you fear being a burden in some capacity. Your extended family, if they're decent people, should support you because they know what would happen if they didn't.

What is falling apart with your girlfriend? How does her family feel about you? (And, hypothetically, could you stay with her temporarily in exchange for something?)

>>719497303
No, they don't. Not here. There is a loan from the government to cover the cost of the course only. I can't get any help to pay the fee.

>>719497415
Don't even go there unless OP is willing to post pics of mom. If it makes you feel any better, your mom is probably still sexually active and fertile enough to give you a brother.

>>719497520

Kek

Sell all her shit

>>719497415
Yes.

>>719497424
Well, she too has anxiety. It's getting in between us, we're both too anxious to do anything. We get along perfectly fine and talk heaps, just not a whole lot in person. Almost all of our conversation happens on Facebook or SMS.

>>719497520
Would you fuck off. I am not posting pictures of my mothers fucking underwear.

>>719497415

Let's all just donate 30 AUD or something

>>719497677
Forgot to answer the rest of the question. I'm confident that at the very least her family don't dislike me.

>>719497520
Or a son or daughter

>>719497677

Give address

>>719497677
okay okay enough with the undies but would you consider a gofundme?

>>719497677
Op, I was the one asking for panties. You've got the wrong guy but I like his style though.

>>719492985
>Hello anons,
>My mother just abandoned me. She has bipolar disorder, and she just up and left, didn't say where she was going, didn't even say goodbye. She left when I was away. I found out where she was and rang her, four days after she left. I'd just been offered a place n university and told her, her response was “and?” You see anons, I'm not at all rich, I'm not particularly smart either, but I somehow managed to get into university. I thought she would be more excited, but all I got was “and?” It's a terrible feeling. I have to move to another city to go to university and I'd been offered on campus accommodation, but when I ran my mum, she refused to help pay. I've got no one to tun to. I'm only the second person in my family to have finished year 12, let alone go to university, but because of this I now have no where to stay.
>Any advice on how to fix this situation?
I greatly feel sorry for your situation. Does that University have cyber security, if you like computers, see if they gkt a two year cyber security program, so you can at least get an entry job as IT in a hospital or school about a year in College. Sadly, you can not get someone to come back, nor control someone else. Very rough situation. I do hope everything goes well for you.

>>719497857

This

>>719497677
Also find her dildo and send pics.
>>719497882

>>719497857
I don't know what gofundme is.

>>719497854
You mean my PayPal address?

paypal.me/byza1453

>>719497940
Thanks anon.

>>719492985

Join the club, buddy. My mom abandon me and my little brother when I was 12. Haven't seen her in over 8 years. Don't even know where she is or if she's even alive.

>>719497857
If you're telling the truth, you will have no problem getting a little bit of donations your way to aid you. Even write a letter to Bill Gates for scholarship and explain why.

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>>719492985
You are an adult now welcome to the real world. Get a job and start paying bills the free ride is over.

>>719497677

Is this a recent development? Maybe she feels unsure of her future with you due to your turbulent family situation. Or maybe she feels helpless in "supporting" you emotionally and is anxious because of that?

Given how I'm just anon, I don't know. If you can think of conversations that may point in one direction or another, that would be solid. I would ask her if she feels these things and reassure her that no matter what happens on your end, she brings comfort just by her presence.

Little things like that, even when they seem like they should be best left unspoken, are crucial in strengthening your relationships. Worst case scenario, she answers negatively and you aren't blindsided later on when you need her in more dire circumstances. But I think she would appreciate feeling like you genuinely care about her well-being and could respond well. You know her best, however.

>>719497733

You should also talk to them. I wouldn't beg or anything, but just talk candidly about how you could use emotional support (which they may extend further). Even the knowledge that someone is sympathetic can help your morale quite a lot.

>>719498100
Did she leave her panties or dildo? If not, how is that relevant to the conversation?

>>719497857
Or what about a 'gofindmemum'

>>719498234
Please post panties or dildo. OP won't and I'm dying over here.

>>719497677
Sex could help relieve some of the anxiety and it would help kill some of the stress.

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>>719498106
There's not a whole lot that I can do to prove that she left, but I can prove that I was offered a place in university.

>>719498156
I wouldn't say its a recent development, we've always had a hard time talking to one another. But we've definitely been getting better. I just don't know how she feels about the whole situation because I'm too scared to ask.

>>719498283
I don't have pics. Why do you think I'm asking op? I wanna busanut!

Sucks OP but this
>>719498117
is the legitimate answer. Not everyone can afford college, which is why student loans are around. It really sucks but this is what you might want to look into. Your parents not signing with you is going to suck but you'll have to keep grades up and show that you can pay the debt back.

>>719498375

Perhaps you both are equally frightened of talking about it because you're both afraid of the other reacting badly.

Anon, the people who you are close to in this world are there to tether you when you're at risk of falling into despair. You shouldn't be afraid to talk with her because, if the situation were reversed, you would be willing to comfort her if she came to you upset over her future. Even just hearing someone confide that they're scared and that they're glad to have someone listen can help with existential loneliness.

Unless you're afraid of finding out that she isn't interested in your burdens--which I don't think is the case, as she could have left already knowing what she knows--what else is there to be afraid of? You don't think she wants to watch you drown without so much as extending a figurative hand, do you?

>>719494552
if you cant sell a house full of shit for 960 au fake dollars then you deserve to die in a ditch
she abandoned her shit SELL IT ALL

>>719498984
I guess not. Thanks for your help anon.

>>719498375
you Sir are a sissy faggot who deserves to die in a ditch. This is all b8 isnt it?

>>719498375
I recommend scholarship and grant seeking. Include the sob story and people will donate. Also include the fact that you do not have loaners that will borrow you money or else you would be happy to in debt yourself for your future because only 1 other sibling in your family has graduated high school. There are a lot of grants out there. You can even write to corporations and they may even sponsor you.

>>719499629
No. Why would it be?

>>719499819
Please consider posting your mom's pic.

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>>719499530

No problem OP. Weather the storm, for this too shall pass. You should consider updating us a week from now at a specific time to let us know what happened (and partially to give yourself additional motivation to confront your problems and get additional advice.

Hopefully it all goes well, especially with your girlfriend.

>>719499976
No.

>>719500019
Do you have Steam or anything anon? I'd quite like to keep talking to you.

>>719500090

Sure thing, OP. Steam ID: teraprosa

>>719492985
Sell all of your moms stuff and try and sell the house. Live in a room share and get a job. I've done it before. You can too.

>>719500090
Keep us updated. post steam...and mom's pic. plz

>>719500303
I'm not posting any picture of my mum.

Steam ID: annonymoose

>>719500460
Ok but realistically if i won the lottery, would you reconsider? I will add you on steam in case I win lottery and want to donate to your cause. Unfortunately atm I'm just as poor as you are but I am sympathizer of your case.

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>>719492985
Move on. She will die soon. Then u will 2 hahahah

>>719496723
Yep. He's right.

>>719500663
Not posting her pictures.

>>719500816
Bro you from the US? If you are, student loans are there for the taking mane.

Haha your mum is probably gonna get raped and murdered by abbos.

>>719494318
underrated