I fucked up.....I asked to go on a date too quickly...well that's

>>717887235
looks fine from that whats the rest say?

You... had an anxiety attack over a girl?

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>>717887388

>>717887410
Yeah, I can't help it. We met at a mental hospital, we both have the same issues. Anxiety and depression

>>717887460
either she has nothing else to say or just just isnt interested in talking right now.

>>717887235
I don't see anything wrong :O unless you did worse after that?

>>717887535
Sounds like a recipe for disaster.

Kill yourself.

There is no coming back from saying you had an anxiety attack over a girl.
You dug an even deeper and gayer hole when you said you were there for me over it.
She sees you as a little sister now.

>>717887460
You are over thinking. She's busy. Let her text u man

>>717888258
Thank you /b/ro

>>717887460
Stop worrying

>>717888358
How old are u?

>>717888461
Clearly not old enough to be here.

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>>717888258
>>717888390
She just sends a pic to keep the streak going.

>>717888461
19

> a date
> ask her to go the mall

You stupid faggot, why don't you take her to McDonald's for lunch too.

>>717887235
If she likes you, she'll go out of her way to say something. I hate to say it but if you're the one who has to initiate, she's doing you a courtesy

This thread gave me an anxiety attack.

>>717888823
I thought that and I had a convo about with a friend and told me that maybe she is on her period rn and don't wanna talk.

>>717888823
this

And also can't appear to easy or needy, bitches hate needy and easy

>>717887235
LOL

>>717888639
Dude when I was 19 I used to think the same thing. I'm 27 years old now. It's really no big deal if she doesn't reply she's prolly busy. Not everyone has time to reply asap. Give her some time to reply. If she doesn't ever reply, don't text her. Let it go a day with out talkin... maybe shoot her a txt after 24?hours or something.just don't appear needy or clingy. Girls will run faster than shit after Taco Bell if they get a clingy vibe and there is really no coming back from being clingy.

>>717888599
Dump her.

Its called the rubber band theory man. If you push too close shes going to pull away. And like a rubber band the more she pulls the more you will want to go towards her. The trick is to pull back further and put more tension so she comes toeard you. To apply tension - be an nice and also be anasshole. Takes a littlw practice. You obviously dont want to be such a dick she never talks to you. But do things like ignore her text, be short with her her, and then let her know somehow your still interested by texting her out the blue. Then wait 2 days to respond back to her

>>717890486
>implying this includes grills that aren't whores

>>717890486

yeah, this is teh vibe.

never apologize. never be the first to txt.

learn to neg her (a compliment & insult in one)

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>>717887235
if you ever have to think you fucked up because you asked too early, she wasn't interested in you from the start anyway. What if a hot girl asks you to go on a date early, are you going to say no? Vice versa

>>717887235
>>717887460
Charge your fucking phone

>>717887460
What's ft?

>>717887460
nigga, she just wanna be friends. the best thing you can do is move on to someone else. if she has any feelings for you then she'll get jealous and start talking to you more. If she doesn't have any feelings for you, well, you'll be on the same position you're in now, but you'll be getting laid

>>717887235
>>717887460

>Emojis
>A-Anxiety over a girl
>Y-you're sweet
>I-Im sorry
>Y-you there
>Heheheheehe.....

OP. She rejected you because you're a fucking beta cuck with no balls. She sees you as this dog that is easy to manipulate. Man up, you fucking pussy.

>>717887460
Everyone that replied to this is under age. Op is under age and really is a supreme faggot

>>717890781
Grips that are attractive or have multiple guys vying for her will always do this

Too many times I've fucked up and thought "she is really cool and down to earth" then I was hit by the rubber band. If you think about it, the theory works on you as well, the coworker who always wants to know what you're up to is the one you will distance yourself from the most.

If you want to be the alpha, you need to have superior social strategies

>>717890781
No doubt

>>717892585
Gotta be careful not to pop that bitch

>>717887235
>>717887460
Things are looking just fine. Try to calm down. The trick to (dating) anxiety is to NOT give too much importance on things.
If you put stuff on a pedestal, obviously you worry way too much how they're gonna go. Don't.

The only thing the above doesn't apply on is your own children.

>>717888043
kek

>>717893672

What the fuck are you talking about? OP is done for good.

>>717887460
Is this how teens text nowadays? If a woman, no matter how hot she was, texted me this drivel, I'd ignore her completely.

>>717893808
nah.

>>717894117
> Is this how teens text nowadays?

see >>717887535

>>717888051
>being this emotionally unstable about women
>not realizing everyone is an incredibly nuanced personality which may not conform to your veiws

Op is done girls especially ones with mental disorders tend to be very feminine. She's looking for someone who is very masculine. Unfortunately for you op you do not possess these qualities. Girls don't want an asshole they want someone who stands up for themselves, has something to offer, and most importantly THEIR own opinions. Feminine woman want someone who will lead and someone they can feel safe with. Just telling you this as a brother. Either leave her alone and let her come back or realize the things you need to fix and see why youre chasing this girl. Best of luck bud.

>>717887535
It's true love, two nuffies meet in a nut house and watch each other jack off or something

>>717895200
>Op is done girls especially ones with mental disorders tend to be very feminine. She's looking for someone who is very masculine.
Nah, they're just vulnerable. I.e. literally anyone can scoop them up.

>>717887460
That same vulnerability has OP sending desperate "pls responds." Cut that shit out right now boy. It's also why OP is fawnish. Just tell her you're really into her. DO NOT make it a drawn out testimony of your love and wanting her to bear your children. Just tell her you find her incredibly sexy or something.

>>717894153

Bitch.

>>717887235
you got rejected for being beta and getting mad at her for not responding if anything, but knowing females and knowing "mentally Ill" special snowlake females you just got saved a lot of time, because at least she lost interest in about 20 minutes, instead of 20 days like most of them

>>717895672
>Just tell her you find her incredibly sexy or something.
Wait, shit, I just noticed she already told you she really likes you. AND YOU LEFT HER HANGING. What the fuck OP.

What was the last time she messaged you, and what did it say?

>>717887235
>anxiety attack over that girl
Please explain OP

Tell her something like she gave me an anxiety attack but you keep me calm. And i appreciate you. I would love to go (x) with you. Hella win

>>717896956
Check the second message she sent in the OP.
OP can already reel her in, and if he doesn't she'll feel rejected.

>>717887235
Yo I have anxiety and shit , its not an excuse to be beta

>>717891109
facetime

Only fags have anxiety. Seriously why the fuck even care about what someone thinks about you?

>>717897206
Oh okay he kinda fucked up though just saying hes watching tv cause its a closed message nothing for convo

>>717897514
i have anxiety, its not based on what people think of me, you can say that all you want it doesnt bother me but i dont give a fuck what peolpe think of me my anxiety is not about social situations

>>717897854
Lol coward

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>>717897427
For real dog. I fucking hate when people say "Oh well I have anxiety so I cant talk to women", "Oh I have anxiety so I cant really get a good job".

Such little fucking faggots. You think I'm not nervous when I walk up to a girl and ask her out? You think I'm not anxious before I have to speak at a board meeting? You just fucking do it. That is what being a fucking man is about.

>>717897944
you can say whatever you want, but unless you'd call a war vet a coward to then your wrong. you'd be dead if you have lived my life pussy

>>717898169
Full agree man, also love these faggots calling us pussies. Why do you think I have anxiety? I've been through shit that shoulda killed a normal person. Even if I didn't having nerves that bad, and still functioning and fucking women better then a normie is still impressive

>>717898169
*even if i hadn't been through shit I mean

>>717897944

Sorry to tell you bud, a complete absence of anxiety doesnt make you brave. It makes you fucking stupid. Like it's actually a sign of low intelligence. You lack the mental capacity to empathize or to consider the full impact of various consequences to any given situation.

Lol sorry bro.

>>717898315

Yea man. It is about controlling your fear, not letting it control you. I know that sounds like some cliche bullshit out of a bad action movie but it's true.

Inaction is the biggest shame there is. To never advance yourself because you are afraid of failure is fucking pathetic.

>>717898213
A war vet? mhm

>>717898774
I can tell your a pussy

>>717898516
No it just means I'm smart enough not to care or worry.

>>717898897
Try me mr.war vet

>>717898723
yeah man i fully agree, lots of people don't even try then complain they're not happy. that's pure ignorance

>>717898906
anxiety doesn't mean you care or worry, it often does but not all the time. Anxiety can be a nervous system arousal that has no meaning

>>717887235
In all honesty, she said he did really like you. Then straight up ask her if she actually likes you, enough to go on a date or not. Tell her you are very interested in her but if she isn't that into you, then to cut ties because you like her and don't want to be led on.

>>717898950
you'd be dead if you were tested the ways I have been, you just seem like a kid who never struggled at all that's all. And btw I'm not a war vet, if you had reading compehension above grade school level you'd realize that.

>>717891080
Seriously underrated post. Kek

>>717899067
Cowardly

>>717899401
>ignores things he can't challenge

you'd be dead if you were tested the ways I have been, you just seem like a kid who never struggled at all that's all. And btw I'm not a war vet, if you had reading compehension above grade school level you'd realize that.

>>717896599
I got massive boner and came in pants

>>717887460
looks fine
but who the fucks asks a girl to the mall
op is an idiot

>>717899483
>you'd be dead if you were tested the ways I have been

phhshhhhhhhh nothering persnal kiddo

>>717899259
Never struggled? Mr.vet you got it all wrong of course I struggled I've struggled so much but unfortunately now I haven't struggled at all and now I miss those struggles. Those struggles made me. Now I'm no person to have gone through a war but I sure as hell would love to be in one. Unfortunately I can't go in the military since I'm a bit deaf. You on the other hand of all people having anxiety? Being afraid? Don't you understand there's better things to do that be afraid? What's the point? Seriously all anxiety does is let you down. So mr.vet mind telling me the things you've been suffering?

>>717887235
Lol OP i am 21 yrs old i also once met a girl at a psychiatric facility. i am very good looking so she was immediately attracted to me as a friend. I spend about 8 or 9 days in the hospital, due to being arrested and admitted by a medical doctor . talked to this girl she was 19 probably 8/10 purely on looks but obviously somewhat crazy. anyways got her number and snapchat and started talking to her eventually she drove 5 hours down from West Monroe, Louisiana to New Orleans, Louisiana where i live and slept over at my house very early in the morning. she fucked the living shit of me all night and gave me the most amazing and sloppy blowjob I've ever had. anyways she leaves next day and i still talk t her kinda but yeah same story kinda

>>717899731
Kek same

>>717899842
I get the angle your coming from, and I knew you'd do that, but I also knew that you wouldn't answer it directly or disagree just that you'd deflect it. But really, you just seem like a little sarcastic neckbeard giggling saracstically, and when confronted with something you can't challenge you shy away from it and deflect it. Like a pussy.

>>717899483
What bat did you serve in?

>>717899861
Bet hes just a boot anyway, not like hes been through anything hard.

>>717899842
Chill out fag i'm not even the same guy, you're just trying way to hard to prove something we all don't care about.

>>717898516
True this.....stupid brave

OP we're getting derailed.

If you're still here, let's get organized. I need you to stick with me, we'll walk you through this bud.

Now you blew it when she told you she really liked you and you shot her down (you missed the entire thing but to her you shot her down)
You can scoop her up dead easy though. Let me know you're still here and we'll get cracking, we'll have you putting her footprints on the ceiling before the day is out.

>>717899861
lol , your struggles? like having a bad girlfriend in highschool I wanna hear it - because you don't get real life. and you don't understand the real world. The fact that you think you can join a war, is laughable because you clearly don't understand reality if you can't understand why someone could have nervers. PS type faster you slow deaf faggot, also how are you asserting dominance over me you're literally disabled.

>>717899976
Also stop trying to predict other's actions, its not an anime. Its not all black and white either.

>>717900141
I'm argueing with someone nigger, don't read it if you don't like it this isn't for you

>>717900265
I was right though, so is that really a prediction?

>>717899923
>immediately attracted to me as a friend.
KEK

>>717900303
Then don't respond to me, i'm simply calling you out for being a try hard faggot which you keep proving.

>>717900223
I need you to cool your shit and not get caught up in shitposting with the other fags on this board.
Focus motherfucker. If you want to break off from seducing this chick and beef with anonymous people on the internet, tell me so I can stop wasting my time.

>>717900044
Never said he went through anything hard. The fact he went through hard things means we just need to push him more. Maybe then he'll understand.

>>717894641
It's called not being a little bitch.

>>717900360
No... you weren't because again you're talking to the wrong person.

>>717900444
I'm not the OP dude, but your right, argueing with some disabled faggot on /b is a poor use of energy.

So is OP gone then?

>>717899861
>there's better things to do than be afraid

You say that as if the person fuckin chooses to have anxiety. Obviously, if the person could pick another feeling besides fear and nervousness they would you retard

>>717889097
This is true. And it seems like u are. Just chill and be patient. If ur up her ass all the time that'll just seem clingy and annoying

>>717887460
>Pls respond
>r u there?
>I'm having an anxiety attack
>hello?

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Can we all agree on the fact that OP is an actual faggot?

>>717900223
I've got better things to do than to comment to you. Your clearly mad. But why? Is that the anxiety I see? The fact you're a veteran makes things even more laughable. A cowardly vet is the worst thing to ever be. You judge me too highly as well as if you're insulting me for being fortunate. You don't need to go through a war to be tough. I'm sorry but I'm being straight up honest now. Bragging being a veteran doesn't make you any more of a human being. No matter who you are you're the same as everyone else who has anxiety. And I wouldn't call slight deafness a disability. I find it an ability since I don't need to listen to idiots I won't. Now will you please tell me your struggles mr.vet?

>>717900796
You can just will fear away. If you can't do that you're simply just a pathetic coward who's will is even more pathetic.

>>717901208
The only thing this explains is that you're not familiar with experiences outside your own.
Google solipsism.

>>717901050
He literally said twice that he's not a war vet you dumb ass nigger.

>>717901324
I'm a war vet

op is a total faggot, first date is to go to the mall, what a fucking pleb. What do you expect her reaction to be if that's your first proposition. Honestly, KYS for that and also not knowing how to treat birches. You made her feel extremely wanted, and know she knows you are insecure, low steel cunt for asking her twice.

>>717901208
I bet everybody refers to you as "that guy" when you're not around

>>717901292
Oh but I am dear friend. I just don't care to be honest. And you can put a gun to me and ask me do I still don't care and I'd say yes without a doubt in my mind.

if dubs tell her that you want to make some fucc and can't wait to see her

>>717901501
No you're not

>>717901324
Lol
>>717901501

>>717901527
Okay so either your experiences are limited to CoD, or you're badly stunted.

>>717901519
Somebody doesn't like the truth.

>>717901552
Yes, yes I am

>>717901619
Neither. How about you mr.vet?

>>717901527
Okay Mr tough guy, go to the closest nigger ghetto wearing white sheets and screaming racial slurs. Live stream it for us while you're at it since you're not scared of anything, and if you were you could "will it away"

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>>717887460
>you there?
>Lol you're not gonna answer me?

>beta detected

If you were looking for when you killed attraction, it was right here.

>>717901734
Other guy. And I'm sure you *think* you're normal. But either you're missing some neurological faculties, or you're overestimating yourself based on videogame experiences and thoughts about how badass you would be in an action scene. You've never actually had to endure anything comparable and have no frame of reference.
Honestly the latter is most likely. Normally, anyway. There's a lot of autism here. Not "lel autist" but like, real asperger syndrome.

>>717901772
>nigger ghetto
A bit redundant?

>>717899259
>and btw I'm not a war vet
>>717901732

>>717901772
It's in the middle of the night here so all the niggers would be impossible to see as well as that I also live in a very white neighbourhood.

>>717901946
>real asperger syndrome.
Which would give you that solipsistic perspective, btw

>>717901732
fighting off the urge to suck cock is not a war.

>>717901962
Well if he's in Europe I wouldve said Muslim ghetto

>>717887235
It's cause you're on T Mobile like a faggot

>>717902069
They would ignore him.

>>717901946
Then I'd go but I simply don't care. And boom he'd blow my brains out.

>>717887235
firstly, you messed up by not telling her you like her back looooool. "well you still wanna go to the mall?" facepalm. secondly, you need to relax and not get impatient. shes prolly busy

>>717902149
Probably because he's muslim

>>717902291
Not a Muslim though. I hate sand niggers.

>>717902209

>I-i like you too

That's even way more beta you fucking faggot.

>>717902291
Nah, they're pretty passive.
I hang out with them sometimes. Don't do much except smoke weed (they don't dig local hashish) drink beer and player table soccer.
You send some firebrand retard at them to do a little show and dance, they laugh it off.

>>717887460
she keeps asking wyd because she wants you to know she is interested in talking to you, but she clearly can't really pay much attention to the convo because of facetime. Don't overthink it. just text her later or when she texts you. make sure you tease her about
>she asks what you doing
>"nothing, you?"
>"on facetime, what are you doing?"

obviously didnt realize you just answered that question.

>>717902044
It is if you're a raging homosexual

>>717902044
I'm a war veteran

>>717902439
Proof?

>>717902492
Its on my license plate

>>717902384
how is that beta?
you are fucking playing a game
you fag
you say "i like you too, lets meet up and fuck" easy
you dumb piece of shit

>>717902704
Proof?

>>717902720

t. A Virgin who has never got laid

Anyone with common sense knows that OP was done from the moment he asked the girl for help because of his meme illness, you fucking mouth breather.

>>717903009
you gotta know how to play the game before you can say anything.
OP's situation was fixable.
my advice was for him, not you. so stay out of it and go back to asking /b/ what vagina feels like. faggot

>>717903249

>you gotta know how to play the game before you can say anything

Yeah, because having an anxiety attack over a girl is part of the "game", you fucking retard.

>OP's situation was fixable.

No it wasn't you cocksucker. Real life isn't like porn where a situation is automatically fixed by telling the girl "ayy bby u want some fuk?". OP was done for since the start, fucking idiot.

>my advice was for him, not you.

Good. Your advice is only keeping OP from getting laid. Also, keep your shit advice to yourself this time. Fucking faggot.

this thread is the most aggressive ive seen in a while. people are actually getting offended and pissed...i would know because well im a war veteran.

>>717904198
kek