>We didn't have sex on your birthday >We didn't have sex on our anniversary >We didn't have sex on my birthday >We didn't have sex on Christmas >We didn't have sex on New Years >Every other month I might get an unenthusiastic handjob, aka I sit there and jerk off while you watch >You haven't given head since 2013 >I haven't been inside you since March, which lasted all of thirty seconds before you said it hurt too much
It's been six years, I don't know if I can do this anymore
>>717318439 This, she's disinterested in sex with you because she's getting her pussy smashed by some disgusting nigger and has no steam left, besides you might become suspicious if she shows you her bruised battered cunt with negro seed spilling out of it. She's probably not even attracted to you, she's just using you for your house, cars, belongings and money to blow on shoes handbags sparkly jewels and XXXL niggerstrength johnnies. Divorce her and report her to the authorities for her crack smoking
>>717318375 Was same for me. Get out while you can. Biggest regret of my life, so many years wasted on her thinking, >it could get better >it's a 'mature' relationship >we are 'working through our stuff' >we will get closer with time
Nope, and I tried so fucking hard. Get out while you can.
Sex probably hurts and the thought of it turns her off. Gf was the same, turned out she had a medical issue, something to do her vagina not liking stuff going up there so it clamped up. We figured it out, just tons of foreplay worked, plus made sex last longer and more fun.
Only the thing you can do OP is talk about your concerns.
>>717318375 and the ugly people losers smell like shit and the ugly weak orge guy loser and the ugly people losers is pansy and the ugly people losers smell like poop and happy new years to my many enemies and the ugly people losers smell like poop
>be me >be married for 18 years >great, regular sex for fifteen years >our only child dies suddenly >sex stops, because we cant look at each other without thinking of our son >divorce >still compare every woman to her
life isnt fair, was never fair, will never be fair.
My first wife was the same way. My new wife is amazing. She was my fwb for years. We got married a few years ago. She's amazing. > me > stroking my cock when I first wake up > she wakes up > she says "come here baby" > spreads her legs > begs me to fill her up with cum > I cum and roll over peaceful She fucks me with enthusiasm whether or not she's in the mood. She says she wants me to be happy and tries really hard to do so. These women are out there OP. Maybe it's time to trade her in on a newer model!
>>717318375 Guys, I hate to break it to you but women do not like sex. Its a choir to them. Something they have to do to trap a man to pay the bills. They use sex to get you interested in a permanent relationship. As soon as they know theyve got you, the sex stops. You are there to pay bills for her, she only sees you as a wallet, a bill paying machine. She will have sex only if she thinks she has too in order to keep you paying bills, period.
Its a hard lesson but one every guy must learn. Women do not love men, they only love what you can provide for them. Dump the burden on your life and live it for youself. If you need some pussy, rent it by the hour. MGTOW
>>717322085 You sound like you're in a new relationship. I used to make my ex cum all the time as well. Always made sure everyone was fulfilled. Then deadbedroom happened. It doesn't always happen because of shitty sex. Men think in wayyy too physical terms. For women, it's all in their heads: feelings, emotions, stupid shit like that.
>>717322002 She's 35 and 115lbs. Been fucking her since we were 20 and still love that pussy. She even clamps down hard when she knows I'm about to cum. Loves anal too. Don't get me wrong, there were some ruff patches, but she's always loved sex.
What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fucking dead, kiddo.
>>717319553 Same here. Honestly, the only reason I haven't left yet is because I really don't want to move in with my parents again. With half an effort I am already looking for another place. But that is kinda hard where I'm from.
>>717322564 Don't post that. The government has to investigate every one who does that. Imagine how much time is wasted searching your IP history. Some guy has to sit at a desk and review your porn and everything.
listen I'm going to explain. unless she commits to fixing the problem she'll never even want it to change, she wants you to match her sexuality not the other say around. does she cry whenever you bring it up? that's her defending herself not caring about what you need. don't let love trap you in unhappiness because the other person claims to care but their behavior just doesn't match up.
>>717323125 Son, you posted a picture thinking it was smart, it made you look stupid and you got called by this anon >>717323033 You really should stop now, you're just making yourself look silly and clogging up the thread with your shit.
If you're married to her just rape her. Spousal rape is very difficult to prove and if you do it right impossible. Anyway my wife withheld sex for about a year. I tried everything and she "just wasn't interested". I go fed up one night and pretty much raped her. She wasn't crying but she just lied there silent after I was done. I felt pretty bad but not bad enough to stop myself from doing it. This went on for about a month. She went through a phase where she would fight and then finally just gave up and let me use her.
Its been a few years now and the sex has stayed pretty consistent. I asked her recently why she didn't leave me afterwards and she said that she loved me too much. She also said that after the second or third time the though of being serially raped made her too wet.
id any of you are ever lucky enough to get a gf, here is how you keep her interested and avoid giving her all yoir power.
>do not cohabitate >do not share bank accounts this will make sure she still handles her own shit, and give you both areas and means to retreat to so that all the newness of spending rime together doesnt fade as easily. it will also let her know you are her bf, not her savior. >allow her to initiate sex, but act disinterested. fo through the motions, but DO NOT MAKE HER CUM, and do not allow yourself to cum. get up in the middle of the act without a word and go lock yourself in the bathroom for an hour or so. >go back to bed without a word, and if she pressures you, say you dont want to talk about it. >do not bring it up, wait for her to bring it up. again, you dont want to talk about it, but let her think she talks you into doing so. >work yourself up to the point of tears. not wailing or bawling, just a couple tears. >tell her that you were sorry you stopped mid-sex, but you were doing it to make her happy, but sometimes you just dont want sex. >it is important to not be overly-verbose, you want there to be lingering insecurities for her to ponder. >when she says 'i love you' dont always repeat it back, just smile while looking her in the eye and say nothing
women want to control you, even if they dont realize it. they want to do whatever you will let them get away with, and use you for whatever they can.
beat them at their own game, and you will have the 'eww not in my ass' girls saying 'assfuck me as hard as you can but go in dry"
>>717323711 Be smart about it. I made sure to not leave any marks. I also used lube for the first couple of times. After a while when she would get wet on her own. The force started to become a bit of foreplay which I think helped her.
One morning she was getting ready to go to work and had a nice dress on. I told her she was going to be late. She grabbed her keys and made a run for it. I pinned her against the wall and lifted up her skirt and started playing with her pussy through her panties. She kept begging that we can't do this now as she'll be late. I told her to shut up and deal with it. She then slapped me. I told her if she's going to give me trouble I would call my friend over to help with you. She went silent and just bent over. That was the first time she came in a long time.
>>717318375 I know what you're going through. My wife and I have been married for 25+ years. Even more before we got married. She waa such a horny teenager, and I loved that about her. But after our daughter was born she seemed to switch into "mommy mode" and wasn't really into sex. I figured after a time it would come back, then after our daughter started school, we'd surely have more time, then after she left for college, that would surely be it. We've had many, many loud tearful, crushing discussions about it. She told me she will do anything, then it's good for about 2 weeks and back to the same old thing. I've told her to tak to her doctor about hormone replacement, after I read that can be a factor in declining libido, she never really followed up. Divorce isn't an option, I enjoy my wife's company, but no sex, Or very very little unenthusiastic is a complete bummer. We have so many entanglements through our business that if I did leave, I'd be one of the divorced men who went from living quite comfortably to one who lives in a shit apartment in the bad part of town. Op I hate to tell you this, but your partner is probably never, ever going to change.
>>717318375 Ive been through this which lead to me cheating on my ex girlfriend which was the best decision Ive made. I told her, we split up, Im now with someone who is sex crazy and it doesnt look to be slowing down any time soon.
>>717325366 >never ever think you as a man can predict the irrationality of a purely emotional creature your analysis of women (well, my woman anyway) is simplistic and wrong. I think after 30+ years I know her by now - she's not going anywhere.
>>717325550 No it's legit. She's too dependent on me to leave or have me lose my job. The nice house and cars mean I've got to keep the money coming in. It's silently known. I love her but I was just so frustrated from her holding out something had to give. After a while she began to enjoy it. She told me that her problems was that she was just not interested in sex. But when she had a cock in her she got in the mood and was glad she was fucked when it was over. Now she keeps that in mind that her mood doesn't matter as she always get in the mood once penetration happens.
>>717325792 >you think your data is indicative of all data No, I don't. What were the last three words in my first post?
>>717325814 >Why you still together? We like being together >Is she old? Are you old? We've been together for over 30 years - you do the maths >Too fat either of you? Too fat for what? Neither of us has the physiques we had as teenagers, but neither of us is fat and we're both pretty fit, thanks.
>>717326152 Doctor here. I would strongly advise you to seek counseling. Others here are advising you that she may have a condition that exists where the vaginal muscles clamp down etc. This is false, and that condition does not exist.
>>717325487 Don't know. I threw out all of her briefs and replaced them with thongs and g-strings because I could access her pussy easier. Less fabric to pull to the side. After she let me get away with it four or five times it was like the flood gates opened. I would fuck her in the middle of the night or while she was taking a shower. I know she had a problem with it initially because I checked her browser history and she looked up rape counseling. I was gonna stop at that point but she was also searching rape porn a few days later. I think she was really mixed about it. The sex started to become really intense the more force I would use and the more she would struggle back. For a little while she would swear at me and say things to try and get me to lose interest, it never worked.
The sex now is more normal. The rape is more of a role play thing every now an then.
I've dipped on 2 of these relationships 1 yr in if you aren't getting the kind of sex you want to you never will. Been with wife now for 6 years and we have a 3 yr old. While I don't getting a blowie every morning I do get one every other week and probably could have sex daily or weekly bjs if I was "romantic" >usually just throw on a cartoon for the kiddo and text the wife to meet me in the bedroom. She's usually down for the maintenance sex.
If you don't have kids there is no excuse not to be dripping in cum and sweat daily.
OP I don't know your full situation but it's almost a 100% guarantee she's fucking someone else. Why she is staying is unknown but that long without sex for anyone would be torture. And for her to say it hurts after 30 seconds when it didn't before come on.
>>717318375 It just seems to me like she's using sex (or lack of) in order to keep you in check.
If it really hurt, she would have seen the gynecologist already. If it hurts and she doesn't go, she's creating a status quo situation. She doesn't have to put out because you're hurting her, you bad person.
>>717318375 I was and am in the exact same situation. I thought my wife was just frigid because in a million years I did not think that she would cheat on me . As it turns out she was cheating on me consistently. I caught her by installing a key logger on our shared computer. I had a huge blow out with her but we decided to try to work things out. Time will tell whether or not we make it or not. I can tell you from experience though that what they say is true – if she's not fucking you she is fucking someone else .
>>717318375 All relationships go this way. My deal is to get my arsehole rimmed twice a week. After 4 years that's down to one a week if I'm lucky. I warmed her from the beginning if she didn't keep to the schedule id cheat on her again. I'm just about ready to start looking again
One thing I've learned is you can't negotiate physical attraction/desire. Work on improving yourself to make her more attracted to you. Play dread game if necessary. If she sees you're desirable to other women, you will become more desirable to her.
Same situation here. She loved sex when we met, it's part of the reason I started seeing her because the ex had no drive either. 2 kids later, now I get nothing. I've tried helping more with house work so she's not stressed, tried being super romantic bring home flowers and shit, I even went to the gym a solid 12 months every day, then went on a cut and had a six pack etc, all her friends would visit and compliment my body etc she was still never interested in sex. Now I've given up, I don't work on my looks or go the gym I just pig out on Doritos on the lounge cause fuck it I'm not gonna get laid anyway. I know if I leave I'll never see my kids and I live for them.
Do not just devorice her or talk about that right away OP...
You need to take saftey measures.
>"sell" off items of high value to friends or family members and make sure there is legal paperwork behind it >guns, cars, jewerly ect ect >start taking cash out of your join bank account and stashing it. >STASH THE CASH! do NOT put it in another bank account. there CAN NOT be a paper trail to follow here. >take out small sums of around $500 a month spread out over 3 or 4 trips to the bank
If you are all stupid as shit about it you are gonna get bitch slapped in court as she takes more then half your shit.
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