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How does one stop giving a fuck about girls, friends, pretty

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How does one stop giving a fuck about girls, friends, pretty much everything , /b/ ?
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>>717310882
Do you want easy mode dispassion or are you willing to work for it?
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>>717310951
Both would be nice. One short term and one long term. Im willing to work
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Careful there man, you might hit critical levels of autism
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>>717311167
Its ok
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>>717311035
Short term Benzos will work wonders. Long term you should look into an ascetical tradition that is appropriate for your cultural background. You could pick something foreign but most people who do that end up as hipster fuckups.
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>>717310882
Fuck you OP
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>>717311317
What did I do fag
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>>717311317
Thanks anyway
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>>717310882
Also you can try to be like these guys:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x537Cqg5nEI
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27 virgin friendless loser here

stopped giving a fuck around 26 and gave up on pretty much everything.
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>>717311317
Honestly a pretty good chart...I can't really find any major faults with it.
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Dude, I wish I could care more about girls and friends. Hearing people talk bores me especially when they get to details like what they do on weekends, or holiday they planned, or whatever's going on in their life. How do people manage? I tried to look like I care and as soon as people notice me I look bored or not even listening, they stopped. What do normies want, really? I couldn't even bother to get friends since they tend to bother you with hanging out on weekends and what other bullshit they came up with.
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>>717311362
>>717311388
You say you don't want to care about anything, that's a terrible choice.
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>>717311415
It's not easy being at the bottom and realizing it.

I do hope you do stuff you think is fun for yourself though
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>>717311428
I'm sure it can't be complete but it's a nice summary of major philosophies.

I also gained some insights into myself by watching a lecture series by Joran Peterson:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL22J3VaeABQAOhH1CLMNnMl2R-O1abW1T
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>>717310882

Why do you want to stop giving a fuck senpai?

A girl broke your heart?
You got fucked over by your friends?
Life is unfair?
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Is it really a bad choice to be completely emotiomless?
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>>717311822
Some things like that
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>>717311823
You are assuming you can "choose" to be emotionless, while emotions are not managed rationally in the first place.

So what do you mean by being emotionless?
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>>717311955
A state devoid of emotion
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>>717312005
And how do you think you are going to become that?
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>>717311729
Haven't heard those lectures before but looks to be a solid intro level package just looking at the titles.
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>>717312057
I dont know. Thats why Im asking
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>>717312137
Its just that feelings hurt too much. I honestly would like my emotions to die
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>>717312217
Your emotions are not going to die, you can learn to not let them control you though.
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>>717312137
>>717312217
Well, I'm telling you it's impossible to live without emotions. So we're back at the start again.

Emotions are a way of your instincts to tell you what's going on.

You sound a bit depressed anon, are you all alone in life or do you have family/friends you can trust?
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>>717312297
To elaborate a bit more:

I was trying to say that emotions are important even though you might feel shit now, you can best use it as a motivation to make changes in your life.

Do you want to keep feeling bad? Don't hide away your emotions because that will come back and haunt you. Learn to deal with them and use them to your advantage.
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>>717312421
Thanks anons
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>>717310882
What you are asking is impossible. If you are trying to lose desire for all things in life you will come to realize that you are desiring not to desire.
/thread
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>>717312288
Double dubs
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Get a motorcycle you cunt
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I have somehow without knowing fucked my life up in 3 years. I was in love with a bitch for 1 and a half years, then we were together for about 9 months everything was fine. Then she started cheating on me and when I realized it I left her. You see, the problem is, I can't find anyone as perfect as her and even if I TRY to feel love, it just won't work. I used to have butterflies in my stomach, I used to act anxious, now.. It's just fucking and doing lusty shit with no desire of wanting to see the girl tomorrow anymore. I have to say, it hurts a little that I can't find anyone as perfect but hey, at least if they break up with me, I won't feel shit for them
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go listen to fucking crywank
then learn playing crywank's songs on acoustic guitar
never learn to sing them
because you can't sing
you fucking pussy
give up
start procrastinating
you're free
good job you

oh, and don't forget to be an edgelord
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>>717312488
np anon, nice dubs by the way

Also I was coincidentally watching Trash Humpers:
http://putlockers.ch/watch-trash-humpers-online-free-putlocker.html
It's about a group of people who doon't give a fuck.
>I recommend watching them and really asking yourself the question if you don't want to give a fuck at all
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>>717310882
just stop caring.

I know its difficult but you will realize it when life hits you even harder. there's no other way, suicide or stop caring. notthing matters, we are all gonna die.
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Thanks anons. I realise my emotions are necessary, and in destroying them I destroy myself. How would I prevent being controlled, though?
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>>717312618
oh come on anon, fucking up your life is a learning experience.

You say it hurts that you don't give a fuck about girls anymore
>somehow wants to shut out emotions while your already doing this
ISHYGDDT tbqh fampai
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>>717312925
I meant that I feel too much, getting rejected and shit
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>>717310882
By interacting with them.
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>>717312618
As for friends, well it's simple. Trust only one man (not woman) in your friend circle. Make sure he is your oldest buddy and then just keep him close. The rest, even if you are the most popular faggot in school, don't trust anyone else. Make sure this guy can confirm a better social life for you though. For example I am an overweight senseless motherfucker that 5 years ago had only 1 friend and was a kissless virgin. Now with that blonde hot party-boi I am actually popular and people just like me for who I am. The thing is, this guy will change you into what society wants that good you might be better than him. When you get there, never ditch him. Ever.
>>717312925
Dude, being 27 and still not having a longer relationship than 3 months in 7 years makes me wonder about family, about having a woman I love etc. For now all that I grab are one time bitches and I have no trust in them. Then again, in other times I feel like having a wife and kids just doesn't interest me.
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>>717312905
Because you're that afraid of being controlled?
I guess discussing (your) life with friends and people helps to analyse yourself.
Sometimes realising you are controlled a little bit is not a big problem, but the problem is where to draw the line.

If you genuinely feel uncomfortable by the other person's behaviour or see it becoming a serious problem in the future you should take action, based on the situation, people involved etc. In this case again, trust your emotions.

>I am not a psychologist or anything so take my statements with a critical grain of salt
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>>717313326
Dude I'm 27 as well and am really doubting my realtionship at the moment.

You are getting the pussy, the next step in your game plan is to learn how to keep the pussy around and actually having emotional interactions with it.

I guess I would embrace the learning experience. Also the anon who said to buy a motorcycle might help. I started hiking myself for example.

The advantage for guys is that you can father children until you're old, for women this is different.
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Me and my ex broke 7 months ago, we had been together for two years, she was my first true love. Now we don't even text, nor for Christmas or shit. I miss her so much but she dosen't miss me anymore. What should i do?
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>>717310882
become an alcoholic
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>>717312905
Also do you listen to the Joe Rogan experience?

It's just some guys talking bullshit, but it can be really serious and these guys come across as really friendly. It's on youtube.
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>>717313649
What do you think you should do?
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>>717313023
Felt the same once anon, was depressed for a year and tried to kill myself, now dealing with the shitty aftermath don't do something retarded like I did its total fucking aids afterwards
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>>717313649
you should stop thinking about her.

you wont fall in love anymore. relationships will never be the same.

now you are enlightened. you understand people are shit
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>>717310882
get real problems.
death threats
mom committed suicide
drug addiction
bulimia addiction

i dont know when you got real shit going on and you stop giving a fuck, girls friends pretty much everything just comes to you
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>>717310882
heroin
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>>717313792
I would like to talk to her, but i tried one time and she doesn't even answer me. I miss the feelings, i miss being loved and love someone or even something.
I though that i would have find someone else, a new girl, but I realize that i'm not interested in girls (like i don't feel that sensation that push you into talking to someone) and if i try to act i just act nervously and retarded cause i don't know anymore how to approach
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>>717314014
you win the shittiest life competition so at least that is something you can be proud of anon.

>it is easy for me to talk because I don't have these problems
I hope you can go for the path of hard work and little reward but a clean life, anon. It is your one shot at life so please do something nice for yourself with it.

You can always escape to latin america or something
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>>717313948
How can i forgot her? Every time i think i'm happy i realize that i need her to be truly happy. And if every relationship i may have won't be strong as the one with her, how can I consider myself happy?
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>>717314163
Do you think you're missing her or missing a girlfriend in general?

Don't you think you need to practice talking to girls and that practice takes effort?
Do you think that the approach is difficult or is it staying in touch with the potential gfs?

Are you giving the new girls truly a chance in your mind?

Do you even lift? It might take your mind of things until you are ready for dating again whlie also improving your physique.
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>>717310882
Senpai, how are you doing now?
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>>717310882
>>/b/
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>>717314574
I totally forgot to add that you should start a meme collection.

>the meaninglessness of saving poorly drawn frog pictures from an anonymous mongolian knitting board is part of the fun, making it meaningful again ironically
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>>717314163
You were not answering the question by the way, you were telling how you feel not what you should do
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>>717314506
I think i miss a gf in general, the feeling of care about something..

i have difficulty about get in contact, while staying in touch is easy, i can act like a friend easily but doing so i'm not going so far.

No, i don't.

And yes i lif, i started this summer after we broke up and i put on 15 kg, mainly muscle, but now i don't feel anymore the anger that fuelled me, now i'm just depress and it dose not help
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>>717310882
With a rope and something strong enough to take the weight.
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>>717314915
I think I should find someone else, but i'm afraid that i'm too linked to my memories and i'm scared about my incoming failures
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>>717310882
weed
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>>717310882
Step 1: find something you love that can't be manipulated without someone taking extremely deep interest in you. I chose old novels because people are fucking faggots and will write some shit specifically just to fuck with you.
Step 2: disconnect from all electronic devices. unplug your internet, not the fucking wifi router, the goddamn modem. Turn off your phone and take the battery out. Turn off all tablets and place in a box, then place that box inside of another box and inside of another box in order to sound proof the inside of the first one because tablets have microphones just like everything else and the object here is to tell the world to go fuck itself by removing it's ability to eavesdrop on you. Gather your amazon fire stick, roku streaming shit, chromecast, laptop, desktop, unplug your TV and anything that runs on electricity that isn't just a fucking lamp and lock that shit away in a closet or a safe, or a series of boxes and go read. Don't read outside, you don't want people to know what you're reading, because then before you know it, there'll be a movie about it that you'll have complaints about because they deliberately took a shit on the film just to fuck with you.
Don't buy books from anywhere that's a large book store, find small ones and never plan a trip to go, only go when you're already out and feel like going. If you own a car, remove the GPS if it's one you bought and mounted on the dash, if it's built in, I'd suggest removing it entirely and dealing with no radio, that's only going to be used to try to affect and manipulate your emotions. If your car has a built in bluetooth microphone, trade your shit in for something older and boycott newer models until the car companies get the hint that not everyone wants all this shit in their vehicles.
>Continued in a few seconds.
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>>717315161
Pretty impressive, but sad about the depress part.
Maybe it's also because it's winter man, sometimes emotions work that way.

>>717315271
How do you deal with failures in other aspects of life?

You should cherish your memories though, maybe she is a bit harsh by not wanting to stay friends but on the other hand what are you going to do if you're no longer a couple, talk?

I think you can handle it tbqh famalam and you know it deep inside as well.
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>>717315776
great advice anon
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>>717310882
Realize that your existence is literally the only one you will ever experience. The minute you realize that you'll never feel what another person does, you'll stop giving a fuck
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>>717315894
>Insert dank Max Stirner memes
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>>717315779
It depends, usually i work in order to not fail, when it happens i may just don't care or get angry about it and work harder, it depends on my mood at the moment.

And yes during winter i'm usually depressed, probably is that
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>>717315776
Step 3: Don't listen to music at all, all devices are fucking watching you and they're even manipulating the shit you get to listen to. Wanna hear some oldies? Curated. Wanna hear some Hip Hop? Curated. Wanna hear some acoustic guitar? FUCKING CURATED.
The reason they do this is so they can manipulate you emotionally by either pissing you off, making you sad, making you care about something you otherwise wouldn't, or making you happy. I know happiness isn't supposed to be a bad thing, but it's like...if someone can stand you up, they can damn sure knock you down. DON'T GIVE OTHER PEOPLE POWER OVER YOU AT ALL.
Step 4: Don't watch ANY form of media. Movies are meant to fuck with your head and they're littered with subliminal messaging as well as metaphorical references to events and occurences that have taken place in your life while maintaining a vague generality about them so as not to appear to be speaking to any one individual. Television shows do the same and in fact can be worse because it is dealing with the same character, setting, and story every week, which means they can base multiple seasons off of just things they observe through your various cameras and microphones in your house.
>anyone who tells you they wouldn't do that is either lying because they're trying to keep you shrouded in fantasy and is actually part of it themselves, or is just oblivious themselves and has no idea how anything works.
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>>717316568
Step 5: This is all going to sound paranoid, but you don't get to pick and choose what will and will not be acceptable to be used against you. Work out more, but don't let people watch what you're doing. People are faggots who try to out do you at every single turn. They're shifty and coniving and their only interest is their own conquest over others because in this world you are either the hunter or the hunted and that may seem harsh but in one form or another it always holds true. You want to make sure you're as healthy as you can possibly be and that you associate with as little amount of people as humanly possible. People are mostly trouble; they bring addiction and literal poison disguised as a good time, they consume every inch you give them closer toward annihilating you and still make sure you're not willing to give more, they will split hairs and come up with every excuse in the book for disloyalty and malicious intent and yet still try to "apologize" and make a mense as if a reconciliation is to be made just because they've made the effort. If the initial act was wrong, they knew what they were doing and ignored the fact, DO NOT GIVE SECOND CHANCES.
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>>717317213
Step 7: Don't look up.
Bilboards will have messages that will either hit home immediately or sometimes will take time for you to understand what was trying to be said, the end result is usually either an insult or a message meant to warp your perception of something. They're rarely ever just advertisements, even if it's just two words.
Advertisements are everywhere, and they're one of the main sources of all this shit because they're not limited by whether or not you sit and read or watch them. You don't have a choice with them. If you walk down the street and hear someone's radio, it's not your choice whether or not you hear what the commercials are selling, it's being broadcast directly into your ears. Visual ones are in magazines, the sides of bus stops, on various posters, bilboards, and even sometimes people's clothing. There's really no escaping these, so the best you can really hope for is to hone the skill of seletive observation. Ignoring someone, something you see, or something you hear is key in the path toward inner peace.
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>>717310882
you tried horse?
if you go shoot some horse you won't care about anything else cept shooting more horse
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>>717311264

So catholicism?
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>>717310882
Realize everything is temporary.
And that the act of living in one sense is to create your own experience.
>It's all just a ride.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wJ-js_NLV8
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>>717311317
I fucking love this
beautifully summarized
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>>717310882
self confidence. if you seek validation from outside sources it's because of something that you lack.
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>>717310882
Opiates
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>>717317954
Who are they? I've been told I've been watched and been able to parse the messages on new tv media and have it go bizarrely personal and ultimately haywire
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>>717317954
Usually mass media manipulation is just that, mass, you're saying it's done on an individual basis for individual people, why? Why is so much effort being put into me?
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>>717310882
Distance yourself and overtime it just naturally happens.
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