>>717214353 Three years, shits okay I guess. Thought about messaging her, but she'd probably give me an angry reply and or block me. It's crazy how you can go from almost marrying someone to being complete strangers.
>>717214353 About 2 months and I'm probably never gonna see her again if I can help it. Thinking of breaking up with her even though in a lot of ways I don't want to but think it is for the best.
Currently keeping my distance from her so that when I break it off she might hate me more and so it wont be as painful for her.
My dad keeps playing 'You're Gonna Lose That Girl' by The Beatles on repeat downstairs, not knowing about what i'm going through right now. It's making me fucking sad. It was ok the first time but then he just put it on again right from the start, like, fuck off already.
>>717214762 I'm kinda in your situation right now. GF of 4 years and I have been on a break for about a month. She wants to be friends for a while and see if our romantic attraction comes back even though I love her. She's the one that was having doubts. Kinda blind sided me, was planning on proposing around April or may of 2017. Really hope i don't end up in your position because it would destroy my soul.
>>717215231 What the fuck kind of hollow decrepit human being are you? Lowlife inhuman piece of shit. People like you are shitstains on modern society, your parents must have been failures too considering this is how you turned out. Your shitty ass existence has to be taken out on others.
Do the world a favor and drink yourself to death tonight. Everyones better off without you.
>>717215173 I had already proposed and she said yes, I sent her flowers and the plan was to set a date, but it was too late by the time it got there she started dating someone else. She wanted to be friends, but we never were 'just' friends, it was love at first sight so I didn't go for it. I died inside after she left me, I didn't do anything for three months straight. I was reborn into someone better, it took years and I traveled to different places, but it was worth it. Still wish she could be here with me, but maybe it was for the best. Good luck to you anon.
>>717215279 >>717215300 I'm taking it better than it sounds in my original post so I'd say I'm respecting myself. Its not like I begged her to not do it or something. However considering how out of the blue it was I found it super strange. If she wants to ride the cock carousel I guess that's fine but I'm not so sure that's what she wanted. It was more about her keeping issues pent up inside and blowing up instead of talking to me about them. I'm just as ready to pound sluts so don't get me mixed up for a whinny cunt who will sit on the sidelines if she does end up wrapping her legs around some guys shoulders.
>>717215942 It was love at first sight for me and her as well. We've given each other the best four years of each other's lives. Both her and me found each other exactly when we needed to. Four years of awesomeness and now this. I don't think she's talking to anyone yet but neither am I. I told her I think it's not worth a scrap because things are better than worse most of the time. Thank you anon. Maybe I can see the other side of your story. She's really important to me.
>>717215867 I wish, we were never close enough to fuck. Tried getting it on but I'm a fat, ugly fuck whom she sympathized with.
>>717215799 You never do, anon. Over time you just build up this fantasy of what would have been, what COULD have been. It's not good for you, but you do it anyways because you want to relive those moments with her.
>>717216322 everyone saying im going mad. I know im not the only one who cant get over something like this. I wanna rise and become someone good. Good body, good job, good life. But what is the point of being good when she is gone?
>>717216247 Keep in touch with her, if she really does love you she'll come back. Sometimes couples need to spend time apart to appreciate what they have. If things don't work out it's not the end of the world even if it does feel like it.
>>717216322 I actually hooked up with my childhood sweetheart last week. Felt like I was having a dream/outer body experience. She took her breasts out in front of me, would have to guess a 36DD, and we gently kissed for almost an hour while she held my hand against her impeccable tits. We both wanted to fuck so hard but said we should wait for a more romantic setting. I want his girls hand in marriage and her babies so I'm playing this suuper careful. Not so careful she slips away though, that ain't happening!
My point is; you never know whats around the corner. Fat can be lost, and confidence will be gained. And let me tell you, confidence can be more of a turn on for a girl than a strapping chip or full lips.
>>717216610 That's what I'm doing right now. She wanted a total break but we've gone on two dates in the month we've been apart because her main issue revolved around not feeling wanted, but rather simply there because it was convenient for me. I admit I did things wrong but she wasn't totally blameless either. We also usually talk at least once a day. I'm on vacation right now but when I get back I plan on seeing her for more outings and dates. I just really want her to look at my like she used to because she's still that person for me. If things didn't work out I'd probably be okay...But if things stayed shit for long enough I'd probably just use my ar15 to calm my mind.
>>717216232 Look at all the fuckers tryin to hop on the bandwagon too cus they see someone that's not a pitiful wastes of human potential. Like a bunch of feral barbaric uncivilized children, lacking any sort of friendship or connection for so long they just numb the fuck up and get online and fight.
I almost feel pity, but then again I don't. They all deserve where they're at. It's penance. This website really is the cesspool of the internet, rejects, morally bankrupt faggots, you name it they end up here.
I don't know how the fuck I've associated myself with you people for so long. I'm above each and every one of you that tried to attack me for putting my grievances out there. Bunch of subhuman fatass friendless losers.
Fuuuuuuuuck this shit, fuuuuuuuuuuck you /b/. And your mothers. And your sisters.
>>717216876 Nice one, dude! Maybe this year you'll get lucky and end up marrying her.
>Confidence Agree with you on here. Since we parted ways, been trying to lose weight and gain confidence. Worked out pretty well on the confidence part but lil difference on the weight part. But I'm still young, I know I can fix myself. Thanks for your advice, anon.
>>717214353 Ten days ago, when she came to pick up some stuff that she left here. We'd been long distance since September because she'd gone to live 4 hours away for University. End of November she dumped me because things weren't working well, then followed that up a few days later with angry, bitchy and rude messages about why I was terrible to her when really, she just seemed bitter and without reason to be mad. Looking back now, it's safe to say I'm glad to be apart from her since she's shown me her true colors with that bombardment of needless hate, but for sure, I still think about her, and was deeply, deeply depressed for the first two weeks or so.
>>717214353 13 hrs ish? I am seeing her this afternoon to celebrate today with her family. We spent all day yesterday watching movies and having sex while we drank wine. lifes pretty awesome for me these days.
>>717215173 When a woman you call "girlfriend" says she wants to be "on break", what she's saying is that she wants to be "on dick".
OF COURSE she's fucking someone else. She probably had him lined up weeks or months before this "break" thing first came up and the minute it was on, she went straight to that new cock.
She's probably riding it this very moment.
And if she isn't getting miles of strange, she's trying to.
So look, you're not Amish and this isn't rumschpringe. Are you so pathetic that you'd sit in a chair in the corner and watch this woman get pounded by a dozen other guys... almost certainly the kind of guy who you could consider a Chad / Douche / Wolf / Gorilla? Those are the kinds of men who are dropping loads in "your girl" as we speak.
Here's what you do. Call her up and say "Hey, I hope you're enjoying yourself on break because that's your life now. Don't come back to me and never speak to me again. I'm moving on."
Then put all her shit in a box and drop it off with whoever you know that she does then sever all communication with her.
Women need to learn that they can't have the nice guy and ride the cock carousel at the same time and men need to know that if a woman is getting fucked by someone else, she's not your girlfriend any more
>>717217480 I mean this kinda sounds like a copy pasta troll that's supposed to get me triggered. I could be wrong, she could be secretly searching out cock right now, or maybe has been already riding a new dude once or twice and finally decided to put us on break, but considering how well I know her and how anti social she is I can't imagine that was her true purpose. >If you're actually invested in my story read the other things posted here about it.
>>717217605 Hope it does too. I'm probably gonna try to at least me friends with benefits and make romantic gestures here and there. If she decides to see another guy I'll let her go, very bitterly, but I'm not one to bow my head and wait around for someone especially after I've practically given her everything.
>>717218569 sorry for your loss. I am 24 and met the woman I plan to marry and raise kids with. I can't wait to be a father and the thought of losing her, let alone our future children, breaks my heart. I am extremely sorry for what you have gone through and I hope your holidays are going well.
>>717214353 about 10 months and 1 week... my fiancee and girlfriend of 4 years. she left me for another man when she went on an exchange trip to europe. never heard from her since and never seen her for about just over a year now.
8 months. We're in a long distance relationship [spoiler]inb4 >ldr[/spoiler] with 36 hours of travel between us. I visited her once earlier this year, and once last year with about 6 months separating the two. However, her current living and working conditions would make it difficult to spend much time together if I were to visit again, and she can't get any vacation time to visit me. The closest predicted date we can see each other again is [spoiler]April 2018.[/spoiler]
3 months. She comes in to the bar I work at sometimes to see my coworker, her best friend. She's willing to stay friends and I want her in my life but I don't want to have to deal with having to see her with any other guy. Or flirting with another guy, or knowing she slept with so and so.
I'm such a cuck I even got her a Christmas present, haven't figured out whether I should even give it to her or not
Faggots get over yourselves and move on. Boo HOO your chubby 5/10 Asian girlfriend in high school broke up with you after four weeks because she realized you were a beta loser. Get off the fucking Internet and go to the gym or eat a steak or at the very least muster up the courage to say hi to the barista at Starbucks when your order your fag drink instead of looking at your shoes and crying
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