I know this is not any sort of place to get relationship advice.

you and your decision by committee way of life have compromised everything the actual relationship was based/ going to be based on and now we have somehow managed to make all those same mistakes again. thats what this is and you know damn well thats what it is

>>717075453
Meaning?

>>717075453
do you remember 'the dream' last year this time?
what is 'the dream' now?

Difficult one without knowing more about the argument.

From my experience, most relationship issues can be fixed with a mix of willpower and communication. As long as both of you only want the relationship to do well and are communicating your issues to each other effectively, it'll work itself out.

For your situation that means talking your fears and problems through with her. It might not be something you'll enjoy doing, but if you want the relationship to go on without this over your head you need to confront it.

She is trying to start that process by asking you if you're still happy with the relationship. By saying yes, you're not communicating your problems with her and you're allowing this to become dragged out and a bigger issue that it needs to be.

Again, it's hard to give advice beyond that without knowing more, but talking and being sincere is important here. You might both end up talking about stuff which is hard to deal with, but if neither of you are trying to out and out upset the other then you'll get through it.

>>717075771
I don't have a dream. I just feel trapped. All up in my feelings type shit

>>717075931
thats not true. now youre the one shutting down on me

>>717075855
She has an anxiety problem and uses me as a mental Puchong bag. She also uses me for alot of stuff like money but she's not a goldigger she's in a difficult situation herself. She's also not the person I thought she was. She also wants to control aspects of my life that don't need to be controlled.

That's a really really short version

>>717076000
I don't know if I understand what you mean by dream. I mean. Ya...I just don't know

>>717074983
once you think about leaving a woman you will never go back to the previous state. That thought will always fester and be in the back of your mind. Trust me, today my dad, married to my mom for 33 years, told me if there is any inkling of a doubt, do not get married or maintain a relationship. It may hurt but you're not doing her a favor by maintaining the facade that you're committed 100%

>>717076175
I know. And it's the fact that truly I love her. But I would rather not hurt her. This is so bad I know.

My friend explained it to me this way. Do I want the lick now or later because sometimes if you really love something you have to let it go.

I'm having such a hard time accepting that. My spiritual practices teach me to accept everything. And...I don't know this one is really doing me in. Mentally.

>>717076046
>She has an anxiety problem and uses me as a mental Puchong bag.
you have literally thrown me under the bus everytime. this shit with the job? this fucking shit now? you could have stopped it but you didnt?

>>717076046
>She also uses me for alot of stuff like money but she's not a goldigger she's in a difficult situation herself.

what else is left at this point?

>>717076046
>She's also not the person I thought she was
yeah even with this surveillence and being my only external source of stimuli im still a mystery. okay

>>717076046
>She also wants to control aspects of my life that don't need to be controlled.

this is just not true. refresh my memory do i have a flir on your bed or do you on my bed.

>>717076333
nice trips, but you're just prolonging something you know you will inevitably do. Whether or not it's now or 33 fucking years down the line, as my dad is now considering, it wont become easier, only more difficult. If you really do care for her, you'll cut it off if you truly feel you cant reciprocate those feelings of earnest love she provides.

what was the argument about?

>>717076530
Confused

>>717076530
im pretty sure this guy is mentally ill >>717075453

>>717076046
Thanks for clarifying. I've got anxiety myself so I know how hard it can be to keep a relationship going alongside it.

If it's about money, you need to ask yourself where your priorities are. Would you be happy being broke but with her? Would you be sad being rich if it meant she wasn't around? That question has a different answer for everyone. With me, my wife works to support us as my anxiety makes it hard to bring home a paycheck regularly. It means we're skint all the time but at least we have each other. Are you happy doing the same for her? I think it's easy to get worked up over this kind of thing when you're down, so try and work out whether you're projecting your other issues in the relationship onto the financial side of it.

As for her using to to vent, draw up some boundaries. Are you happy with her doing it a little as a means of coping with her condition, or does she need to find another outlet? It could be that toning it down a bit allows you to cope with it fine. If not, see if you can work out another way for her to get that same kind of release. If you can't deal with her now, you won't be able to deal with her if she bottles everything up so some kind of 'punching bag' is important. You just need to ask yourself how much of that you can deal with personally.

From what you're saying, it sounds like you're happy to support her but feel overwhelmed at how heavy that gets both financially and emotionally. You need to talk to her about that to work out how you can work around it. Be aware that if she's anxious she'll not take it very well, so come into the conversation calm and without resentment.

With the control on your life it's a lot more clear cut; you have every right to tell her to back off. Compromise is important if you want a relationship to work but that shouldn't cross over into one partner controlling the other. Again, speak to her and draw up some boundaries.

>>717076612
The argument was litteral about all of those things that I said. All within a half hour.

And it was mostly about an ex that I have not talked to in years I don't know why it was a problem but it was.

>>717076664
Think some faglord is pretending to be your GF.

>>717076752
It's funny though. We've set boundaries and she likes to push the envelope and cross them. I don't know if she does it because she forgets or she dosent care about them .

She's crossed personal lines before with my family that I've tried to forget. But I can't sometimes.

I think it comes down to the fact that I'm not sure if I can or want to be with her. This has been going on for quite some time.

I think I've partially made myself believe this

>>717076891
Nice trips. And I got that. What a Stupid fuckwad.

>>717076664
you dont want to hang out
you dont want to date
we barely talk about anything
i pretty much dont know you
you continually discourage me from getting a job
even though you are 'connected' you wont hook me up
you dont want to fuck
what exactly am i supposed to do? ask for an allowance? do nothing? ask mommy for my new toy.
im 23 years old any way of life hasnt changed since i was 17
i am beyond frustrated with this shit im sick of this fucking give me another shot at le nuclear family meme ive fucking had it

>>717077063
My girlfriend maintains a job and dosent drink asshole. Oh god I wish she would go to the bar with me and smoke a joint

>>717076761
that's not good, that's a sign of unwarranted jealousy, especially if there really was no proof of any wrongdoing on your end. Look I'd break it off simply because you seem to be losing your individuality and are slowly becoming codependent with this person (by her design, not by yours). Don't allow this to happen or you'll become a shell of a man, who you once were, it sets a terrible precedent for the remainder of the relationship. Just rip the bandaid off anon. It's gonna suck, you're gonna cry, she's gonna cry, but in a year you'll look back on it and thank yourself

>>717077004
If you've spoke about it in the past and she's still not listening, she's probably frustrated herself. It could be deliberate in an attempt to get a rise out of you or it could be accidental because she's upset and can't help it. Anxiety is a fucker like that.

Is this a problem all the time, or only when she's particularly anxious? I think a lot of this comes down to whether or not she's simply struggling to cope herself or if she's specifically lashing out at you for some reason.

Is the relationship hard all the time, or just when she's really worked up?

>>717077004
this is bad too. a sign of disrespect, if she cant even respect the boundaries you both jointly set, she doesn't respect you or is lying to you when setting the boundaries about how comfortable she is with them. either way that's bad

>>717077137
great communication there. ill be sure to remember this

>>717077200
The relationship is.... Manageable...At times. But also alot it stressful. I've told her to consult a professional about her anxiety but she refused. I think that's a big problem. She refuses to get real help because she thinks I can. Or she can keep her anxiety under control troll with lashing at me. I'm not sure

>>717077004

Oh, and in response to your 'I think I've partially made myself believe this', I think you need to do a little soul-searching.

I get the impression you're not 100% sure what your problem is or why you're feeling so frustrated. That's fine and it doesn't mean you're in the wrong for feeling that way, it just means you're currently to worked up to actually pin down what's winding you up.

Go for a long walk or do something to clear your head, sleep on it, whatever. Have a real good think and iron out exactly what the issue is and what you want going forward, you'll find this whole thing easier to deal with that way.

>>717077211
I don't think she tries to be disrespectful but she is sometimes for sure. I just brush it off

>>717077434
You're right. I can't really pinpoint why this has been festering in me for so long. And that makes it so much more difficult

>>717077359
im not seeing a head doctor

>>717077434
this is the last time i tell it like it is

Also thanks at least for trying to be alittle helpful. I wasn't expecting that.

It's hard to talk to my friends about it because they don't really try to analyze the situation. Niether does my mom.

>>717077359

I didn't realize, this is a pretty big deal. I think she's really struggling to cope with it herself and is lashing out at you because you're close to her. Keep getting her to seek help, and try not to take anything she says too personally. I've said some awful stuff to my wife when my anxiety was bad and it's only when I'm feeling better that I understand it was the condition talking, not me personally.

Unfortunately you can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. Do try to get her some counseling or something but I get how hard it can be being in the situation you're in. I don't think anyone could blame you if you couldn't handle being her caretaker, which is how this is starting to sound.

>>717077669
No worries man! I'm house bound with the same thing as your wife so have plenty of time to talk with anons. Just happy to be of some help.

>>717077694
ive never lashed out over study/work shit.
not even once. you fucks like to twist my arm. thats what this shit is.

>>717077694
And that's the way if feels. I don't want to be her babysitter. I want to be her partner. But like I said. I don't think it will come to be like that.

I also don't want to go crazy and be 20 years down the line thinking of what could have been or happened.

It's also a problem when I have friends JUST FRIENDS who are female.

This is a problem. Because I don't go out seeking other women. I don't do that because my morals tell me that I'll feel awful. But she sees it as OH you have female friends? I bet you're fucking them a.lll.

>>717077882
If she's finding it as hard as you're making it sound these problems won't last long. Either she or you will fizzle out and snap. Maybe it'll lead to her getting help, or maybe she'll realize she's been treating you badly or whatever. I can't predict how it'll work itself out but if emotions are running this high then it's gonna come to some kind of head. If your worries are for as long term as 20 years, you needn't worry. This will be worked out far sooner than that, for better or worse.

To give some perspective, I was institutionalized for panic disorder a few years ago. I'd have panic attacks and rip clumps of my hair out. My then fiance was at her wits end too and we probably had talks similar to what you're feeling in this thread.

Couple of years down the line, I'm over the worst of it. Sure she stills supports me financially, but I don't lash out at her at all anymore and I don't even really get panic attacks.

The point of telling you that was to remind you that stuff like this is short lived even if it feels like it will never get better. Who knows, a year down the line might see her in a completely different state of mind.

>>717078348
This does put it into a different perspective. Thanks

>>717078348
youre not going to last a year like this

>>717078151
That's her anxiety talking. She doesn't see it like you might be fucking them, she feels that you're hanging out with them because she's not fulfilling you somehow. She lashes out at you but she's feeling upset at herself for not being good enough, even if that's not the reality of it all.

>>717074983
If you don't break up, she will. She's feeling the same. Only with women they always prepare for their escape for months, even years. I remember when after 4yrs my girl suddenly started dressing up in public again. Sadly I knew it wasn't for me, she was already gone fishing. Relationships and love in general have a limited expiration date, it never gets better again. Do yourself and her a favour and break up, she'll respect you for it and you'll spare yourself from seeing her slip away over the course of half a year. GL.

>>717078556
I just wish she was rational and saw things for the reality of them

>>717078497
Hope I helped anon. I feel what you're going through and shit sucks. Good luck and I'm hoping it all works out for you!

Thanks for the advice anons and not being totally assholes about this.

New found (even if it is little) respect for /b/

>>717075855
>She is trying to start that process by asking you if you're still happy with the relationship
No she's asking him to break up so she doesn't have to. You can't fix relationships with "willpower and communication". It's a phenomenon that's all biology, it can't be negotiated. If the relationship has reached it's natural death it has no use clinging on for either parties.

>>717078632
Unfortunatly that's her battle to fight. I know it sucks being caught up in it with nothing to do to help, but she needs to figure it out for herself. Getting her to the doc's would be the best thing you can do. I'm sure she really appreciates your support deep down, even if she's not great at showing it.

>>717078632
youre the one who is irrational. i go out of my way to show you that i can handle it. 3 fucking weeks. not one thing wrong. but you ignore the shit that doesnt play for you and go hurr durr nhk

>>717078860
I just wish this was all easier than it is

>>717078815
I agree you can't fix what's already broken, but you or I don't know if anon's relationship is or not. I was just offering advice for him to get over what could just be a bump in the road. You don't know that this is the 'natural death' of his relationship, and if they can work through this it'll be by talking to each other and wanting to find a way of making it work. Willpower and communication.

>>717078894
You're just an asshole living in his mom's basement masturbating to dogs and shit. I don't need your shit.

>>717076046
I guarantee you she's only staying with you for the cash and prolly other perks you provide her. Never give a woman perks like money, housing or anything else that makes her dependant. If you do give her free shit, she won't be honest with her feelings even if she has fallen out of love. She'll just keep leeching for as long as she can. Sure you can get her birthday presents or small things, but you're pretty much pushing her to be dishonest if she still wants all those shiny things, whereas otherwise she would just be honest up front.

>>717079066
Damn

>>717079053
yeah i am but you made me that way

>>717079184
Let me put you through a year of mental turmoil and be a dick about it. See how you like it.

>>717074983
Dump that cunt before she drags you down into the abyss with her. You may not think so, but there's a good chance you'll be so much happier in a year. Just another chapter in the book of life, just go with it. You'll get over her once you've tasted what else is out there, as long as you can learn how to flirt again.

>>717079184
and dont fucking threaten me you fuck. i come here with open arms but youre not interested in that, you just wanted some more shit you could fuck with me with

>>717079261
been there. done that.

>>717079066
You know better than this anon OP. He only has what you've said to go on, whereas you're the one actually living the relationship.

Maybe he's right but you should decide that yourself rather than let some whoever tell you it so black-and-white.

It would suck to take this at face value when you're feeling bummed out only to find out you were wrong and threw something good away because you were upset.

Clear your head and then ask if this anon was correct.

>>717079361
No you came here to be a dick because you're insecure about your own existence

>>717079443
why dont you go clear your fucking head
make a decision for yourself

>>717079443
He's not. She's not a goldigger. I think she just wants the security

>>717079014
Yeah I believe relationships usually are best in the beginning and sadly don't get better again. Sure there are exceptions but I think we should just accept that we're all polygamists acting like serial monogamists. I still adore romance, relationships and love but people should get off their high horses and accept romantic relationships are temporary by default. Statistically people will fall in love 6-7 times in their lifetime and there's nothing wrong with that. It's just that some people still remain convinced they can chain a woman to them just so they don't have to put effort in getting puss and improving themselves.

>>717079515
weak. weak.

>>717079619
I can understand that; she's anxious and you're helping her out financially, of course she's gonna be happy for the security that comes with that. You're doing a good thing by helping her. That said the anon does have a point in that you don't want to let yourself get abused for money. I just think you'd know whether that's happening better than anyone on /b/, myself included. I guess just keep it in mind, but if you're saying she's not a gold-digger then I think you're probably right. She's just aware she can't provide for herself right now and is happy you're there to help.

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>>717079568
Is this what you wanted?

>>717079849
And this is exactly why this is so hard. Because I love her and want to help, it's just turning shitty pretty fast

>>717079443
>>717079619
Well even if she isn't a golddigger she does use OP as an emotional punishing bag. Not an emotional tampon which is also disgusting but an emotional punching bag. I don't get why people ITT are still punching OP to carry on. The relationship has obviously gone toxic and it's better for both if they split up. She'll have to take responsibility and face her demons with the power from within, he'll get out of her toxic influence and can open his heart for people who are more emotionally stable. In the end both will profit, why delay their healing?

Thanks all. I am going to go meditate on it. Ask my higher self for advice.

>>717079978
You're both stuck in a viscous circle mate. It's admirable and tragically beautiful, but in the end it's futile. Let her go so she can become stronger on her own, instead of relying on, and being enabled, by you.

>>717079978
Tell her that! Let her know you're there for her but you're finding it hard yourself. You're a human too, you're allowed to struggle and find stuff hard, even if you're there for someone. Maybe she'd back off a bit if she knew you were bearing such a massive weight on your shoulders. After all, you're doing it for her, so I doubt she'd want to make you feel shittier for admitting you were having a hard time. I expect she's not fully aware of how she's making you feel.

Just be aware that you'll have to think it through if she has anxiety. She's gonna take it like an attack no matter how you bring it up, so think about what you want to say so you don't sound like you hate her or anything. It's easier said than done, but it might stop an argument.

your little expedition backfired and you have nothing except this weak golddigger shit. sad!

>>717080378
As someone who was in his wive's position a few years ago I disagree. My wife had the same talk with me, told me she was finding it hard helping me, and I realized I was being a bit of a dick without meaning too. I think his wife is just oblivious rather than malicious or mooching off of him.

Even if you're right, there's no harm in talking it through first to be sure.

>>717080619
sorry meant gf not wife in the first line.

>>717080094
I'm not saying OP should just blindly try to keep their relationship going when it's broken, I'm saying he should make sure it is broken before that point. From what he's said he still loves her, and all I've suggested it talking it through so he has a clearer idea of where they both stand. If that leads to them breaking up then so be it, but it's clear there's more to this than 'OP's GF is a gold-digger cunt who treats him like shit all the time'.

>>717080619
Ha. I wasn't implying she did it consciously. I just stopped providing more that I could give to my girls. I could care less about money and time, I'm talking about my sanity. I can't handle a woman's emotional rollercoasters. They're welcome to come into my world for some time, but I can't come into theirs anymore. Their worlds is filled with drama and unnecessarily depressing.

>>717080691
oh no i was downgraded however will i cope with this

this was supposed to be an olive branch since the new year and shit but it looks like youre not interested in that

>>717080930
Sounds pretty broken to me. Only one who really knows is OP though. He's prolly not even here anymore.

>>717080938
Fair enough, you do you I guess. I don't feel the same thing about women so I guess it's down to the individual rather than being absolute truth.

>>717074983
Am I supposed to give a shit about your petty troubles, OP?

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>>717081300
Nope

Don't be a pussy whipped little boy. Dump her ass and the sooner the better so you can get on with life. I have found that there are tons of girls looking for just a guys like you.

>>717074983
>huge fight
>doesnt explain what fight was about
anon plz

>>717081193
I love women as much as you, I just don't want to project unrealistic ideals upon a creature as flawed as a human being. I'm happy now with what I get, I'm always happy if girls come back to my place so we can enjoy eachother for what it is. But they're not my property and once they return into the world I'm always prepared to never see them again. Makes everything more precious and honest, I don't make promises I can't keep. I'm happier this way really. At least I got rid of the nagging jealousy, anxiety and paranoia that comes with modern relationships.

>>717081469
youre a weak faggot who is too scared to fucking make it real

>>717076046

OP in the same exact situation only I'm engaged to my lady. Ask for a break she needs to grow up a bit, if she flips out and makes ultimatums despite knowing your feelings for her, break it off, have some backbone and show some character she'll be more grateful you did that than leading her on. Might want to wait a week though so new years doesn't suck.

My lady and I decided to work through our shit but give each other space setting ground rules and still communicating although not nearly as often. I'm comfortable with that it's fair and reasonable, if it all works out we get stronger if it doesn't we were never ment to be and we both deserve better.

Question is: if you're willing to keep this charade on and feel bad man.jpeg but not do anything about it, you need to work on yourself and see what your values really are, and I'm talking spiritually as well.

You need to be safe in your self esteem and who you are with yourself, aka your identity with or without this girl.

Going though the same thing anon, to me it sounds like you both need to grow up and the relationship is one sided.

>>717080378

Boom.

>>717081588

>At least I got rid of the nagging jealousy, anxiety and paranoia that comes with modern relationships.

You mean with your relationships, right? Bad experiences for some doesn't mean that relationships are always a negative, just as one night stands are not always a positive.

Like I said, you do you. I never said OP should do one thing or another, just that he'd know what was right for him better if he talked it through. Maybe that's leaving, maybe that's not, I wouldn't be presumptive enough to say my view on relationships is the only correct one. If you've found a way of being that works for you then more power to you.

You no longer love her and you should come to terms with that.

>>717081735
Damn how are you going thru this while engaged. That seems all the more stressful

>>717081978
i never even had a shot

>>717081890
I think all my previous relationships were well worth the time and effort, no regrets. But I always acted like a moralfag expecting them to have the ame honour, but they never did. A woman can become an ice queen in a second, like the switch of a button. That's how you get into nasty arguments, ultimatums, divorce rape etc. They're like cats essentially, two sides with a different temperament. If a cat scratches you it's your own fault tho. I don't do ONS's really, usually friends with benefits. I think it's the best of both worlds. Keep relationships on your own terms, enjoy life, keep enjoying multiple people instead of locking yourself up in a bubble that can potentially become a nightmare.

>>717082005
By believing it will get better after the wedding.

PROtip: it won't.

>>717082410
this is your fault

>>717082005

Commitment man, things changed because of situation but we got help and are willing to make changes for each other. I was wrong in areas she was wrong in areas. Working on myself and leaving her to do the same, it's stressful only if you want to be in control of everything. It's out of my control and I'm gonna do best with the hand that was dealt.

Protip: make sure you're ready for marriage if you're gonna propose.

>>717082618
Definitely. I'm not made for modern relationships. I'm sure many others are, but not me.

>>717082482

Unless things take a 180 and change then it will. But I'm just hoping for the best and I'm emotionally OK enough to let her go if that's what we agree upon. Can't control things anymore man.

>>717082619
In 75% of the cases it's the woman who files the divorce. You may have 100% commitment, but you can't expect the same from her. Stop projecting your own morals upon her, she has her own life and interests.

>>717082703
this isnt modern relationship. this is bullshit

>>717082846
Explain

>>717082792
i cant control anything. i have no control and knowing that i am incredibly well adjusted. a lesser man would have lost their fucking mind by now.

>>717082792
Talk to married men, ask for their advice. Don't fuck up now, listen to your gut feeling.

>>717082816

Lmao not projecting anything on anyone dude. Don't say anything unless you know the situation.

>>717083141
Meh I didn't sleep in 36 hrs and I'm just blabbering. In the end I'm just a anon on the web. But I hope my words may have had at least some merit for someone reading.

>>717082993

Truth. But I'm very VERY patient when it comes to my fiancé. It's not always a good thing. Haven't gone insane because I have a business to run and am going to graduate university in 1 semester. Got shit going for me man, regardless of a fiancé.

>>717083040

Parents and married men say we both need growing up to do I'm only 23 gonna be 24 in 6 months. They aren't saying it can't be fixed but they are saying I'm young and have my whole life ahead of me.

>>717083288
No worries anon, you need to sleep though.

something very similar happened to me and i broke up with my girl. it's been 5 months and i regret it so much. don't break up with her

>>717083487
yeah being mollycoddled by your parents will surely help you grow up

>>717083487
Maybe if you want kids. Otherwise I wouldn't even live together with anyone other than pets. Tried it, it always sucked. I need privacy.

>>717083561
You fucked anyone new yet? It's normal to keep her in your heart, but you should share your love with others. Take your time but keep making progress, however slow.

>>717083625

Nah dawg, take advice for whatnot is don't make a decision based on it. The whole relationship I've been doin the opposite and making my own decisions, some of them bad but nah no coddling allowed.

>>717083833
you have taken their sage advice for a year now. how has that worked out for us

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>>717074983
>inb4 tits or gtfo
>dontworryboiis.mp3
>leaves
Femanon here. This is the worst feeling ever, as it always is for me as I'm sure my ex-boyfriend's didn't really enjoy the feeling either. It's just something that happens in relationships, and there's no easy way of going about it, since there's so many factors and feels involved. As an outsider looking in from my past relationships, or an anon looking in from your personal perspective-- it's easy to say that *of course* the logical reasoning would be: sit and talk with her, be completely heartfelt and open with her as you discuss the feeling you're having, making sure you show her that this isn't because you don't love her. She's going to "hurt" regardless in this situation, really no way around it. But what you can do, is show her the sincere distress you're going through over feeling the way you do, so that she can at least try to attempt to put herself in your shoes and understand WHY you did what you had to do/whatever (even if you do go separate ways, or she leaves from anger/being hurt-- years down the line, she can look back with a clear head and think of you as a good person that you are). You could even ask her if she's ever felt the same way, and talk through the issue and discuss ways on maybe trying to change the way you feel and workout the relationship, or again the best way to part ways if working the relationship out isn't something that you even want to happen at this moment.

Good luck homie, you seem like an iight guy and iight guys need honest feedback sometimes even if it is on the shittiest, most vile board on this cocksucking website.
>good deed of the day: check ️

>>717084187
Go back to tumblr you pretentious fat cow, no one wants to see your saggy tits.

>>717084295
Haha okay I'll take the b8 m8, I haven't left this thread yet, faggot. I heard you think I have hoocow tumblr titties... wanna guess again nigger¿
>inb4 femanon decides to out-troll a /b/tard
;)

>>717084178
and try this on for size why would you take advice from someone who has never done any of this. this all sounds like bs anyways

>>717076175
Your dad is a wise man

>>717084487
:^)

>>717084620
Good boy, atta boy ;3

>>717084681
How fat are you? I'm actually fucking a tumblrina atm, which makes for funny convos. Too bad she's borderline obese. She has a cute face but every time she comes over she eats all my candy and snacks. Not even joking.

>>717076333
You're going to have to set aside the fact this goes against your spiritual believes at the moment and stand back to realize that this might need to happen, despite what you'd "normally" feel is the right thing to do. Cognitive dissonance is a bitch, but there's always a bit of instinct/knowledge you know needs to be true during these internal struggles, otherwise they wouldn't be so shitty to deal with.

>>717084178

I'm not OP dawg, I've been in my realtionship for 5 years now.

>>717084826
To be honest anon, I've always been called "thick" my entire life by men/women, but never "fat" oddly enough (besides like douche nigger fights with people I don't know, or petty fights with cunts and idiots I know don't really feel that way and are just being cunts etc lol)... I have a big bubble ass and tits I've wished were bigger since age 12; wasn't blessed with both but if I had to choose one or the other all over again, I would have chosen to have a phatty over big titties.

Why u ask, nigga?

>>717085706
Too bad I'm more of a tits type. post your phat ass tho

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>>717086015
It's whatev, I feel the pain. Fucking love to stare down nice titters all day long, hardly ever give a fuck about what a chick's ass looks like (I mean to be a 10/10 it's gotta fit my standards), but otherwise I'm in love with girl's boobs. Also not a dyke, just think grills > guys *a e s t h e t i c a l l y*
>inb4 your fatass could use a fuckin tone, land whale

>>717086634
Agreed, women's bodies are beautiful. Their personalities not always so though I love them even if they're more insane than myself. Nice cheeks btw, was better than expected. I though you were a nigga, nigga.

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>>717086634
Also enjoy mine, tit for tat

>>717087007
Hahaha nah I ain't a nigga, comrade ;) Thanks for the entertainment, anon. Cya on the flip side ;P

>>717087215
Thank you, sweet man!

>>717087761
>>717087803
I'll give my tumblrina's ass a slap for you. GL

>>717087976
Mmmm, I'd say post pics or it didn't happen, but she prob wouldn't like that. Just tell her it's to show a fellow ass admirer.

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>>717088594
Only pic I have, just for you

>>717089206
Creepy as fuck my man, creepy asf. Can't really say my bf doesn't do the same when I'm asleep tho... you fuckers are odd hahah

>>717089710
Just another trophy for the archive. Notice the candy wrappers and my cat who automatically was attracted to her cushioning. She does degrading things though, stuff that makes me bad for enjoying it.