Help me make sense of this situation. Here's a condensed

rebound

>>716952981
Stop being such a faggot and be glad she's happy

>>716952981
That's her rebound and he's smashing her better than you will ever do.

>>716952981
Who cares? You weren't compatible. Move on fag.

My guess is that it's to make you jealous. She probably doesn't give a fuck about this dude and will come crawling back to you in a few weeks/months.

Side note, why do people feel the need to inform the world how happy they are on Facebook? It kinda seems like the opposite when you constantly need to assure yourself through social media. I haven't been on Facebook in 2 years and I don't regret it a bit. Such a cancer site and mentality.

>>716952981
She knew you wouldn't want to get married and wanted to get some new dick.
This was a win win for her. She knew she could scare you off and have the freedom to fuck other guys.

You just don't understand how women actually think.

>>716953100
>quit being such a faggot and be glad she's happy...
You genuinely sound like a retard

>>716953212

This is the BEST fucking answer in the whole thread and will not be surpassed.

tl;dr: /thread

>>716952981
she's either rebounding to try and make you jealous or she's moved on. either way she's fucking a child, don't fall for the bait and get back with her if you can't see yourself getting married and having kids with her. 4 years is a long relationship but its a small part of your life, don't give up what you want for her

>>716953449

Okay, this didn't surpass >>716953100 but it's about on par.

>>716953230
Thanks for your level-headed answer. If she does ask to take me back like you said, I'm not going to do it. I agree with Facebook being cancer. I was just curious as to why she feels the need to post this all over Facebook. I'm also seeing a girl but nobody but my close friends know about it. Women are like that I guess.

>>716952981
Dude tbh u dodged a bullet
If the bitch cant handle the idea of not getting married to you, she probably only wanted to get married for the sake of a wedding and she would have divorced you anyway

Do yourself a favour, buy a motorcycle, do some cocaine, and rent an escort to take photos and make her mad too if you feel spiteful

>>716953532

Then OP, you already knew the answer all along.

Best of luck and safe travels. :-)

Women get the privilege of that shit until they're like 30 then you can't pay people to take them

let her waste her time with idiots and then watch her settle hard or stay single forever when its too late

>>716953532
>>716953559

Stay safe these holiday OP, u are now single and have time to focus on what makes you happy

>>716953664
Women have about as much privilege as a man is willing to give them.

If you arent willing to take shit from them they will know not to cut out of line

Don't be with that hopelessly delusional cunt ever again, OP. If she's capable of doing such a thing, then she doesn't deserve you. She's a spoiled brat in a grown up woman body that still seeks for a purpose in her miserable, unfulfilled life, but fails in doing so.

>>716952981
i didn't read your faggot bullshit, just came to say that the ring wouldn't have killed her

>>716952981
Here's a fucking secret. If shes telling everyone how happy she is on facebook all the time, then she's depressed and trying to convince herself that she isn't.

Your job now is to remain stoic and uninvolved. Don't respond to her games. If she talks to you remain civil and amicable. If you're prompted by her, then say you're happy for her, or glad she's happy, thats it.

Pretty soon she's going to get tired of the charade and start messaging you more frequently hinting that you guys should hang out sometime. Don't. But don't turn her down either. Make her be the one to advance the conversation. She'll start saying specific times like "hey this friday maybe we could get something to eat." Tell her you'll see if you have anything planned and you'll get back to her. Don't.

Never agree to anything, and never disagree with anything. You are the epitome of indifference and lack of concern.

Your end game is to wait until she turns into a sobbing screaming lunatic.
>"you know, ive thought long and hard, and I do want kids. But with how you've been acting lately... it just doesnt give me a lot of confidence in you being the mother of my children."
>break off all contact permanently

>>716954172
This. Fucking this right here.

>>716952981

brilliant reply

> both prongs welded directly to metal ring
> current takes path of least resistance
> excellent conductance causes high current, tripping breakers instantly
> mechanical rigidity makes it difficult and unlikely to catch only live contact for any reasonable length of time
> few grounded, exposed conductive surfaces around make it even less likely to be in any danger whatsoever


nigger, do you even electricity

>>716954169
Srsly bro?
>Nobody said that it will kill anybody
Shut off your anus

>>716953917

theres always another guy waiting in line to give her shit if shes still young enough

>>716954172
This.

Finish her.

Turn her into a creepy cat lady

>>716953100
Why would you be happy? Inappropriate emotional response, much? Not everyones a cuck.

>>716952981
Literally just broke up with 3 year gf for essentially same thing..

>>716952981
been there almost done that. with ex for nine years. same thing as OP.
two months after break up she is married soon to be pregnant.
the love wears off when the kids start talking back.
her mom died last year. she had a picture obit on the funeral home website. it was a little spooky looking at what my life could have been.

>>716953966
OP here... Damn! I didn't know it was that bad. I shouldn't be looking at her Facebook but I couldn't help it. I have no intention to try to win her back. I'm starting to feel like she just wanted a wedding because all her friends were getting married. Who knows.

>>716954172
OP here, thanks for your reply. I feel a lot better about my decision to refrain from contacting her despite being sad when I found out about her dating that guy.

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>>716952981
She felt rejected, she posts that shit online because she hopes you or someone who knows you is reading it, so that you'll find out, try to get back with her and marry her.

Lame attempts at jealousy, she can't even handle being single so she's weak as fuck, and the fact that she wanted a super young guy, is just to throw it in your face and because she probably knows young/dumb/full of cum.

Meaning she's just using him as a fling to subdue the painful feelings of a breakup.

TL;DR she's an impatient, immature woman/girl, who you're better off without now anyways.

Obviously getting married was a deal breaker, best thing for you is to stop talking about it and move on, the more you talk about it, the more you think about it, the more you think about it, the harder it is to let go.

She's doing it to make you jealous. She's in a rude awakening when he gets her pregnant then leaves cause he can't afford a child from crippling college debt. After 4 years why didn't you marry her? She wanted more of you but you didn't want more of her so I'm sure she felt very hurt you wouldn't marry her

I've watched a number of either ex's or girls who were giant cunts to me via dating sites tell me how their gravy train would never end.

I'd say at least half now are mid to late 30's and will never get married or have a kid.

I'm years into the best relationship of my life.

If you're even a half decent guy the waiting game will often let you passively win. Only the best women hold any value past early 30's as most cant even hold much value till mid 20's.

>>716955099

that is women logic

IF YOU WONT BUY ME SOMETHING SHINY IM OUT

if you actually loved someone you're never breaking up short of abuse the ring or party you get is just a bonus

>>716953100
>>716953212
What kind of 4chan has this become?

>>716954485
Idk, always just fuck em and chuck em cause cbf dealing with needy bitches all the time myself. If someone else wants to cuck themselves because the girl is so vapid that the only promising thing she has going for herself is a moist hole between her legs, and he is so vapid he wants to cuck himself for a piece of that. Good on them

>>716953075
This
/thread

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>>716954395
"It's the thought that counts."

>>716955320

posts like that are either bad bait or tumblr thinking they're being sneaky and disrupting the site

that's not even white knight shit, white knights would defend her actions more

>>716954395
Jesus christ, I'm so glad I wasn't the only one that realised this!

>>716953917
I know. Just kind of sucks that a relationship with a woman has to be a constant warzone, a constant game. It's like they're a dog or something

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>>716955341
Yknow love does exist for some people, and some men can look beyond just a fucking hole. That doesn't make them a cuck, you MGTOW sounding shitlord.

>>716955320
This is /b/ not 4chan, dont mix us up with those /soc/ whores or those raging cancerfags from the other boards. Should stick to /tumblr/ m8

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>>716955320
Tf are you talking about, it used to be worse! Miss the old days.

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>>716954395
Topkek

>>716955524
White knight detected

>>716955439

> the thought that counts

I don't know if I'd feel insulted from the insult itself or the honest notion that this insult would actually work

>>716955442
are there really people spending their time "raiding" this site to make some kind of revolution?

>>716955754

nice

>>716952981
Who is the ducking retard who thinks that ring would hurt you? Direct short, breaker pops, you don't even get a shock since the current prefers the zero resistance through the metal to your body's resistance.

Now, if you had a one-prong ring on each hand, now you're talking.

Also, man up faggot. Move on. She has.

>>716955946
Yes

You didnt notice?
Are you new here?

>>716954172
This is my post.

I'll add that I'm extremely well to do business wise. I own my own company that Ive built up since I was 18. I had success early on with it and continue to do so.

Women have come and gone in my life and they all do the EXACT same thing. They break up with you for some asinine reason theyve blown out of proportion and then when they come to their senses try to manipulate you into getting back with them making you think its what you wanted.

When you don't play that game the keep upping the anty giving up ever increasing amounts of ground until they realize you have no interest whatsoever, and then they snap. They turn into lunatics and thats when youve won.

They'll try telling everyone you're an asshole, they'll spread lies about you. They'll do everything in their bag of tricks to get you to snap as well or to engage them in an argument. Because thats THE ONLY way they know how to behave.

You be the bigger man when this happens. You don't badmouth her, you dont say anything about her other than "shes obviously upset, and id rather not discuss whats going on between us out of respect for her feelings"

You come out smelling like roses and she destroys herself. Im 37 and its happened to me 8 times and its all gone down the same way each time like clockwork.

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>in relationship with cool chick for five years
>me 19 to 24
>her 21 to 26
>her career goes well, not so cool anymore
>wants marriage and kids, gives 3 year deadline
>say no thanks, let's wait
>says do it faggot
>I say no
>she leaves
>just over a year later she's married and has a baby with some other dude
>less than a year after that they are seperated
>been with new chick for nearly a year
>waiting for her to want marriage
>ain't gonna happen

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>>716955894
I just go with the notion that some people are so fucking stupid they would really plug it in.

>>716956236
What business?

>>716956457
Not yours?

>>716952981
you two weren't meant to be together. she wanted a ring, you were not ready to give one. lucky for you that you didn't cave to her wishes. move on my friend.

>>716956045
no I've noticed to an extent, and heard this idea repeated before. But I thought it was just the increasing wave of sjw-ism and feminism taking over, converting people nationwide like some cult. I didn't know it was sjws and tumblr literally "raiding" the site. For what?

>>716956747
Ok asshole

>>716956236
Appreciate it, man. Good to hear it from someone with lots of relationship experience with women. I'm genuinely curious if she contacts me in the future.

>>716956236
what you do when they spread bad lies about you? It really sucks to constantly defend yourself from stuff that isn't true because you're playing their game then

>>716952981
Fuck bitches, get some new pussy yourself if you want. Most of them will forever be crazy.

>>716956236

on the other hand I have 3 personal friends who had their lives ruined with false accusations when this shit went down

I've had a former friend come to my house to fight me because his girlcrush told him I almost raped her when the real story is we were at a party and a guy she was leading on was there so she grabbed me and we made out for a couple minutes on a sofa in plain view

and I worked at a summer camp and watched 2 girls getting caught cheating accuse the boys of rape. They were 13 and 14 and just kissing.

Women smearing your name get taken seriously even if it's clear it's mostly a lie.

>>716953075
Yep.

Posting on facebook to make you jealous while she gets immature dick

Understand that the 19 year old has no intention of staying with her unless she is putting out.

She may get pregnant and he is ignorant enough at that age to marry it.

>>716957215

next time theres a feminist hate threat just go look and see the dozens of screenshots where they plan to raid here

they started with laughable ideas like posting gore or gay porn

they've learned and now just post sjw shit on normal threads

>>716952981
Let me guess: you really suck playing chess.

You've been checkmated after your third move

>>716957802
How did I get checkmated when I got up and walked away from the game?

>>716957393
You don't do anything if they're spreading lies about you.

You don't counter it, you don't deny it, you don't even tell the truth.

>"Dude, Samantha was telling everyone that you punched her one time."
>"Do you believe I could hit someone I love?"

That response does multiple things. It deflects the question. It asks the person to actively consider the claims with their own experiences and knowledge of you. It makes them an active participant in the determination of the truth instead of a passive participant when you say "I never hit her"

If you say "I never hit her" they just have two people's voices in their heads saying two different things. But if they come to the conclusion on their own accord that you didn't do it, then her voice becomes meaningless.

>>716958188
I like your thoughts

>>716957494
And yet, every one of those examples will STILL NOT be improved by playing into her games. In fact, playing into the games can only further the damages her claims are making.

If you are seen screaming back and forth at her by anyone that gets entered into evidence at a trial against your character regardless of whether or not she's the one that instigated it.

You never play into the games. Whatever you do you must remain impeccably clean in the eyes of observers, witnesses, friends, and unfortunately in some cases, the courts.

>>716954172
Nice post. This is how men handle their business.

>>716956457
Real Estate.

Throughout the years I have come to conclusion that, at least for me, relationships are just a waste of time. I had only 2 ''serious'' ones, and they've ended because of their immature behavior and general lack of common sense, and the most important aspect - logic, which women tend to not have a connection with. My longest relationship lasted 3,5 years, and it ended just like that. I was feeling like shit, angry and whatnot.
We fall for their beauty, charm, and other, and later on you find yourself in a quicksand, of shit. I'm better off without a girlfriend, at least I can fully concentrate on my career, my hobbies, and not wasting my financial and emotional resources on them bitches. It's not hard to find a girl to occasionally drain your balls, and that's enough. Stay out of any deeper bullshit. Peace.

>>716952981
He's better at fucking her than you were. She wanted to settle down with you and love you and only you for the rest of her life and you went "lol, nah, let me waste your time". So she's gonna slut it up for a good 6 months or so, then she'll find a man who doesn't have serious commitment issues like you do. You know, someone who has grown up and matured. Good luck finding a better girl worth marrying, cause you're going to need that luck.

>>716959039
You sound really bitter

>>716959039
>She wanted to settle down with him for the rest of her life
>broke up with him when he wasn't sure if he was ready for a kid

Instead of talking about his insecurities or his reticence she broke up with him.

>>716958412

none of the stories mentioned had people 'playing into games' mostly it sounds like her fake claims were taken so seriously the cops got involved. well except the 'almost rape' which was functionally similar

>>716959039

lol girls throw themselves at you once you hit like 29, the tables turn so hard

this good luck finding someone else good faggot only works when everyone is 21ish

>>716952981
Went out with a girl like this. Dropped hints about engagement all the time. I give in and ask her to marry me... she says yes... relationship goes downhill because I wasn't ready and it changed her some how. She went more obsessive and once she got what she wanted it wasn't enough. You dodged a bullet there. Definitely a rebound guy, she's either upset and feels the need to prove she's happy by making you feel bad about 'losing her' or... she's just that much of a dick who doesn't value the relationship you had together. It's not easy but it might be best to move on.

>>716958412
>impeccably clean

what if you don't want to be Mr Clean all the time?

>>716959414
That's not what I'm saying you putz

What I'm saying is that, yes, women tell lies and try to get people in trouble and even inprisoned.

What I'm saying is that you must always remain stoic and indifferent. Because ANYTHING you do that she WANTS you to do will only hurt your character.

>>716959518
Yeah dude's either trolling or a jackass.

>>716959640
Then you give her all the power.

>>716959039
More like she's trying to convince herself she isn't 4 years older and less attractive than she once was. That 19yr old boy will just pump and dump her tho. her best bet is to find a chump who just graduated or something, someone who can provide a future. If you're asking me she's the one wasting her time. Also you sound very jaded. Btw I bet you're 25-30 some woman because everyone knows the people most qualified to make claims about growing up and being a man are women.

The real joke is that if OP's girl just had some patience he would have prolly changed his mind anyway. That's how it goes. But instead she felt entitled to more so now she can hop from chump to chump without any real security. Her loss I guess. But I do hope she finds somebody and for the sake of the coming generations, I home she sticks it out and doesn't remove the father from her kid's life.

>>716959039
Stfu... like marriage solves anything. What difference is there being in a happy relationship for 40 years with one person or being married for 40 years. There's no difference except a piece of paper and a name change.

>>716959039
>serious commitment issues
>grown up and matured

not marrying a woman is a sign that you're immature. Not believing in a 'true love forever' fantasy

>>716959715
life wont be any fun that way

>>716952981
She had him on the side all along

>>716952981
simple steps
1 get back together
2 act genuine
3 dump her as soon as she starts asking for marrige

>>716952981

Basically, younger guys are easily manipulable. She has a bit of princess syndrome ("my way or else") and you had the nerve to stick up for yourself.

You are going to be very happy that she left. It may take 10 years, but you will realize that this was for the best. Weddings tame the syndrome, but then amplify it. You will either have been divorced, or broke from giving in repeatedly.

Jesus fuck are you still going on about this

You know the problem OP ?
Women are so blinded by Hollywood that they think marriage is some kind of saviour. Marriage does nothing to a relationship. You have every right not to be ready. What a bitch, if your relationship wasn't worth staying together for until you're ready then it doesn't sound like a marriage that would last

>>716952981

Yeah, she's trying to make you jealous. She could be trying to make you feel old so you'll settle down.

>>716959807
>not marrying a woman is a sign you are immature
Wut?

Do you actually believe that shit?
Just cause you have one preconceived notion about what you should do if you grow up doesnt make someone mature

Been in a relationship with current girl for 4 years. Have a kid together, she wants marriage. I dont, i see us breaking up before daughter turns 18. Does that make me immature cause i wont marry her?

>>716960136
>implying it's the marriage they care about
It's two things. First the wedding itself, where they can hopefully outperform their friends. Second is the security that whatever happens, they'll always have the option to cash out and just divorce the chump. There's a reason women are usually the ones to file for divorce (+70%), there's a fat paycheck waiting for them.

Why people date around their whole youth and essentially practice serial monogamy, yet also expect things to change and become happily every after ... It baffles me.

>>716960318
Don't fall for a woman's shaming tactics kek.

>>716952981
That rung would just burn her finger for a second.

>>716960450
it's cause they're squares. For a lot of guys out there, they REALLY think the only pussy they're gonna get in life is married pussy. You wouldn't believe

>>716960874
But I do believe. The ones who push the most to make marriage traditional again are the betas who seem to think it's a way to chain a woman to them. Essentially all they want is a second mother tho, with equally unconditional love. In reality women could care less for these types. You gotta be your own man first. Anyone who puts others first is bound to get burnt, especially with creatures as finicky, immature and entitled as Western women

>>716961114
This.

Im the one posting about how to counter their games.

I ended up going out with a guy from my gym. I don't know why i did. I never really thought about guys that way. But he was a good looking guy who wanted my dick in his mouth....

We've been together for three years now. Its the most laid back relationship ive ever been in, and infinitely more rewarding too.

>>716956236

>anty

Your entire post is bullshit and you are a liar...

...or you've just never played poker.

>>716956236

Those were girls, not women.
There is a difference.

>inb4 nuh-uh

>>716961114
i've always noticed that. It seems like the most "progressive" leftist degenerate freaks are also the ones who push the most for marriage, and shame anyone who doesn't live their life along a marriage trajectory. Like guys who have one night stands 3 times a week for example.

Of course, these are the people that will marry you and cheat on you with a chad the next day. Picture that. A girl with the side of her head shaved, blue hair, piercings everywhere on face, an array of buttplugs, identifies as a "man" etc., cheating on you with the chadiest guys they can find.

It's pretty obvious at the end o the day what these people want. It just basic attention and power. Stupid people always return to their core animal selves at the end of the day, no matter how they try to convince themselves differently

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>>716956747

>>716961755

You're everything that's wrong with this fucking planet. Please cease to exist.

>>716952981
block her, move on.

>>716962110
agreed

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>>716956267

You let the terrorists win anon.
(((You))) let them win.

so.... did you want to stay together or does it really matter that much?