I just miss her. Christmas was the best moment of the year with

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>>716450040

I just got a bj from my girlfriend a few minutes ago. Feeling pretty good right now.

>>716450040
ouch.

My ex did something similar. This is shitty advice but you need time. Thats what did it for me, you just need to wait out the pain.

>>716450380
>you're a great friend
damn

>>716450517
>This is shitty advice but you need time
She left one year ago

>>716450440
Fuck off

>>716450537
Yep..........

>>716450040
>19
>lil bro 16
>mom passed last week
>Christmas was her favorite time of year
>first Christmas w/o
Bro browses /b/ hopefully he doesn't see, but I wanted it said

>>716450655
Why? Posted how I'm feeling. You fuck off.

>>716450380
>>716450040
Fuck in losers
This thread is a cringe thread

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>>716450777

Post that bitches number and we'll fuck up her life for you OP. /b/ros before hoes.

I just battled with a lot of inner demons, but I think I've finally woken up to the reality of my existence and realized that I can change myself.
Life ain't so bad boys.

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>>716451123
>>716450928

>>716450969
/B/rotherhhod of Steel here man. We'll fuck her up good. Plus we got some good technology too. Give us her number.

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>>716451123
>>716450928
>>716451188

>>716451277
I hate women.

>>716451277
Kid has some anger issues. Nothing a little Linkin Park can't fix.

>>716451123
>>716451188
>>716451277
This is strangely making me feel better and worse about my current situation.
Fuck I hope this is an old image and you're not op

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>>716451374
>>716451277
>>716451188
>>716451123
>>716450928

>>716451399
please fuck off

>>716451277
Lmao basic whore, she's only scared that you'll tell people and you're a cuck for even considering staying and acting like you can still fuck her.

>>716451123
>TFW your name is Andrew
Makes it sting all the more.

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>>716451188
>brother dies
>guess I'll fuck my roomate's gf's ass

top kek

Last year at this time I was in a relationship, my first one, with a stunning woman that was coming to an end. We grew apart, my law school life probably did most with my general detached mood stemming from crippling depression doing the rest. I fought bitterly to keep it alive. She was my first gf (at 23), not my first lay but the first one that actually felt amazing, and the first person I expressed my love to outside of my family. She was even more affectionate during the heyday of our year+ long relationship than I was. She came up with cute names for me, would tell me she loved me more than the words could actually convey, and her eyes would light up every time she saw me. Despite my efforts she dumped me not long after Christmas. Soon after I found my current gf of 11 months, who is an amazing person and is incredibly supportive of all my trials and tribulations. That said, and this makes me a terrible person, I cannot get my ex out of my head. It doesn't help that my ex saw me and the current gf out one night and tried multiple times to reach out wanting to talk. Hurt from the break up I ignored her. She ended up right outside my dorm room and I told her o didn't want to hear what she had to say and that it was over. I did so in a way that likely burned that bridge forever. My family also hates my ex given how the break up went down and really likes the current one. Still, I wish I could go back in time to relive the moments I had with her, or to talk to her one last time, to tell her I'm sorry and to hear her voice once again. For the past 3+ months I've had many dreams about her so I can't escape these thoughts even in my sleep.

I wish there was an easy answer to this but I know there isn't

>>716451431
lmfao i love this guy

>>716451399
>in the end...

>>716451431
this isn't even feels it just sadly comical, even the gf is laughing at him being a huge cuck

>>716451526
Hey im Andrew too.Small world /b/rother.

>>716450380

Brooke!?

I can't believe you!???????

>>716451431
Just dump her and let every one know why. Theirs no point in talking to her, cut off all contact

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Hi to the Andrews

>>716451431
what the fuck is wrong with women? I literally just punched a hole in my wall bcause of this. What a fucking entitled cunt, who does she think she is? oh poor her "women aren't perfect wa wa wa."

I fucking hate women with a passion. Anyone know of any boards/forums where I can commiserate with other men about hatred for these cunts? /cunt2/ is pretty much dead

CRAWLING IN MY SKIIIIINNNNN!!!

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>>716450958
Does hamburgers look good too.
Hope papaw is doing okay.

>>716451500

Err anon.... this is a repost that's years old. Full decade old I think...


Shhhh its okay, OP really knows he's a cuck. Go back to crayons anon.

>>716450517

truth, my exgf was my life we didn't go anywhere without each other.

she left me for a dude in my fraternity.

I was hurt for the longest time ever, then... it just... stopped hurting.

it's been like 4-5 years and they're still together and will probably get married. Doesn't bother me one bit.

>>716451547
damn dude i know how it feels, just stick to your current gf your ex wont come back to you after you said that about her

Idk if she said that to you but it's pretty fkd up and I do understand and feel you on that.

>>716451668
I feel the same hatred as you. No homo tho.

>>716450440
Yeah fuck off. Wrong thread to be in fucker

>>716451277
this is all fake

>>716450958
fuck, I wasn't ready

As I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I take a look at my life and realize there's nothin' left,
‘Cause I've been blastin' and laughin' so long
That even my momma thinks that my mind is gone,
But I ain't never crossed a man that didn't deserve it,
Me be treated like a punk, you know that's unheard of.

>>716451890
Its a feels thread. I'm feeling pretty good. Go to r9k if you want a little bitch thread.

>>716451804
ill gross I hate faggots, I suspect you're coming on to me? I'm not gay.

>>716451804
I'm 100% with you on this, no exaggeration. But i won't lie man, there are some good ones, though i've yet to find one. And to be fair, a lot of men (though not as much as women) are pretty much this bad.

>>716451650
Name?

>>716451804
>>716451668
This is not at all what most women are like. You just see shit like this all the time because people actually post it. Nobody wants to post a girlfriend being awesome because that's boring as shit.

>inb4 white knight

>>716450958
and then papaw realized that millennials are fucking retarded.

>>716451650
Ownt
Your never going to get the upper hand here man, just block her/ delete her number.
Also post noods

>>716451776
I know she won't and honestly, that's the worst part. I know I'll never stare into her eyes again or stay up until 4 talking about nothing after a night of passionate love making

I makes me feel hollow thinking about it and makes me feel like I'm cheating on my current gf just from the yearning of only wanting to talk to my ex alone. I don't deserve my current gf, I don't deserve anything good in life

>>716451123

If that's not fake then I just...I just don't know what to think anymore. She let someone fuck her in the ass to make him feel better? And then they BOTH want to talk to you about it? What the fuck

>>716452217
You're dwelling in it by saying shit like that. Stop

>>716451650
women are cunts who just want to fuck with your mind and get the upper hand, say something mind fucking then block her number before she can respond like tell her you'll leak her nudes or something

>>716452156
I won't lie, you make a good argument, echo chambers are real. But sadly the claim that most women are like this are backed by both sociology, statistics, psychology, and hilariously enough even biology. Not to mention i have yet to meet a person who's known more female cheaters than male cheaters

>>716450969
These guys know what's up.

The /b/rotherhood is here for you soldier.

>>716451188
>tell them about your weed
Lol why you dating this petty botch to begin with. Dump her and expose her.
The end.

op move on it'll only get worse

>>716450440
Your girlfriend is a pillow and the feeling your having is dread

>>716452217
>>716452376
yeah dude just stop talking about her like that SHE DUMPED YOU, SHE DID IT, NOT YOU, and probably she wasnt trying to come back with you she was provably trying to friendzone you

I have a serious question. Why do you put the pussy on a pedestal? Why do you center your lives around a girl? I'm genuinely interested to know.

33, married, oldfag here

>>716451277
Fuck man sorry this hurts to read ;~;

>>716452156
>>716452408
yeah thats partially true but it really depends on the women

>>716451431
Shit fuck this is bad

>>716450380
>High quality
That's where you messed up

>>716450040
I know that feels

>>716450958
Damn those look like good burgers too

>>716451123
>>716451188
>>716451277
>>716451431
>This is why feminism doesn't need to be a thing

Also
>LET ME HAVE YOUR ASS OR ILL DUMP YOU
Kek

>>716451545
This guy gets it

>>716451751
This

>>716451431
I need a resolution to this story.

>>716452376
I know but you guys are the only ones I can tell this stuff to apart from one friend I haven't seen in person in months and I feel like I will go completely insane if I don't say it somewhere

>>716452667
i dont but the people who do are actually fucking idiots they have to know that women cant be idolized or they will abuse this "power" over you until you cant take anymore

>>716450643
Not him, but typically when people say that they don't mean "time spent doing nothing really except pining for someone," but actual time taken for oneself to readjust your priorities and move on.

>>716452109
>a lot of men (though not as much as women) are pretty much this bad
Hence the 80/20 rule

>>716451668

First off, fix the hole.

Secondly, people are cunts, it's not exclusively women.

I think female shitheads methods are harder to deal with as a man tbh so I totally feel your pain.

>>716450777
It's my first christmas without my mom too. She killed herself in August and it's not easy.
Sending love

>>716453020
Made me sad /b/ro.

Hope you find resolution.
Best of luck.

Ok well I grew up in a shit household with my mom I remember one time I was slapped so hard my nose went bloody for not carrying a glass of water "the right way"

>>716450040
Oh my god, OP. No shit, this happened to me a couple months back. I legitimately feel you. I'd show the texts, but I deleted them as a way to cope. It didn't help. I still text her at holidays.

>>716453134
damn thats harsh, hope you doing well

I'm I the only anon that says
>I know that feel
Everytime
How autistic out of /10?

>>716453317
Like out loud I'm saying it

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>>716452408
You can hide this hatred for women by hating most people, because inherently most people are awful. Then, people won't accuse you of being discriminatory!

From what i see...
>guys are dicks to the girlfriend
>girlfriend cheats on guy instead of breaking up with them...
>Both too retarded to realize they don't work together
>rinse and repeat till it all explodes

It's seriously depressing how bad people are staying with someone when they clearly don;t work. People are dumb.

>>716452874
Fine, get it out, but realize that when you talk like that, you're keeping the wound open. It sucks, I've been there, but you gotta occupy that mind with something else. If you keep returning to that, to that "I remember staying up with her" shit, then you'll never get over her.

Wipe the house, clear her out of your life. That's literally the ONLY step forward.

I dwelled for a YEAR and let that shit rip me apart before I realized how fucking pathetic I was being. Don't waste time like I did

>>716451547
You feel bad because of how it ended. You lost. That happened to me 20 years ago. 30! Thought about her all the time. Never got over her, really.

Only recently did this woman find me on facebook (I'm well off) and make a fool of herself trying to get my attention. I realized then, after so long, what she really always had been: a user and a climber. Now I'm over it.

>>716452563
No bro, I told her flat out when she dumped me that there is no friends after this. I think what happened was that she wanted the relationship to progress faster than it was and tried to exert pressure through the breakup to force me to propose or some shit. When she saw me with another girl it probably signaled that her plan backfired.

I know she wasn't trying to friend zone me because she was super cryptic in her many, many, emails and texts about "needing to ask me a question" and when I told her that I didn't want to talk to her that night she had tears in her eyes, which as much of a faggot as it makes me, still hurts me to think about

>>716453317
i dont say that out loud but i think that every time too...

>>716451668
r/theredpill

Only subreddit that isn't faggotry. Go there, read the sidebar and the top rated posts of all time. You're welcome.

>>716453118
thanks my dude
we can get through this. nothing will ever be the same but we'll get used to it again and move on.

>>716450440
my sideline chick gave me head 2 days ago. still feeling pretty good about it.

>>716453297
Like I want to kill myself not because of mom just because of how life turned out for me but it's like umm

Like I want to kill myself but like I would also like to go to Puru but I'm not going to go buy a plane ticket??? that make any sense?

>>716453365
Pretty much. People need to just end shit rather than hanging on hoping things will get better.

>>716453589
Why aren't you going to buy a plane ticket?

>>716452987
my nigga

>>716452828

>>>716451123
>>>716451188
>>>716451277
>>>716451431
>>This is why feminism doesn't need to be a thing

wtf does that have to do with feminism?

and seriously don't answer because no one needs to hear your stupid illogic on christmas

>>716453589
nope it doenst
if you seriously want to kill yourself and want to visite Puru (never heard of that place but ok) then you should buy the plane tickets enjoy your travel and then kill yourself

>>716453653
Naw it's like a metaphor or some shit

Also no passport i geuss idk if I do kill myself I'll travel a bit first I guess

>>716452667
low-key trolling or stupid af

these kids are like 16 and have raging hormones. when a girl pays attention to them they feel like a god, and when she withdraws that attention its like they are cast into the pit of hell.

so you are 33 and you can't fucking remember what it was like for you 15 years ago? or you were too busy sucking dick to put the pussy on a pedestal?

>>716453721
I'm going to answer simply:
Look how much power they have already.

>End of discussion

>>716450040

Used to date my one-itis in highschool. She was 2 years younger than me, so I figured I'd found a nice girl who was wasn't corrupted. We were going good, she told me she loved me, always wanted to hang out, and we were pretty serious. We went through some patches but everyone knew that me and her had a thing. She was a virgin and I wasn't. and told me she went through some traumatic shit as a child and wasn't ready yet. I was willing to wait for her because I loved her so she'd just give me head and shit.

Then suddenly this guy from upstate named michael transferred to my school 2nd semester. He played football and transferred to our team. I heard about him hooking up with girls once he came to our school but it was just the sloots that hook up with everyone. I was texting my gf one day and she mentioned that she had a class with him. I thought nothing of it. Then like a couple weeks later I notice she's acting distant, always making excuses not to hang out (granted she had a strict family), just generally acting cold towards me. I was just puzzled but figured its just typical mood swings. It persists to where we hadn't even hung out in like a week and a half, and finally I call her out on her bullshit. She keeps telling me that nothings wrong etc. I kept telling her that obviously something was wrong because she was clearly acting different. She just kept denying it and acting the same, so finally I cut it off. She didn't really put up much of a fight.

I graduated like a month later and found out like right after that she ended up fucking this dude in his truck either right when we stopped dating or right after (she'd probably been fucking him the whole time since he'd transferred). I was devastated. She lost her virginity to this guy after like a month of knowing him and I had been dating her for 8 months. I also heard that her friends bitched him out because he stopped talking to her afterwards. I blocked her number after that

>>716453855
Get a passport then. It's extremely easy. Funny enough I got my passport renewed to go to Peru

>>716453764
It's like a metaphor or something man idk I'm sorry like I'm ready to die but I'm not quite confident in getting that ticket/ getting it done

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>>716450040

haha faggot you're a fucking loser. you never dated her.

>>716453935
you made me laugh, good on ya bro

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>be me 18
>see the girl of my dreams 11/10
>me 7/10
>we both want to go into broadcasting
>both love cameras, mics, Pokemon and fucking everything
>get to kinda know her
>Nov. 8th comes
>shitpleaseno.png
>shes a huge hillary supporter and im a trump man
>start growing apart
>November comes
>start talking again
>start getting feelings again
>try taking her out on a date
>she said shes busy
>ask her again a few weeks later
>same answer
>feelsfuckingbad.tiff
>go down to BYU for a school trip
>starts really talking to me
>fucking getting feelings again hard
>beat her ass in pokemon on the way back
>FeelsGoodForOnceMan.jpeg
>start texting and snapping her
>doesnt snap or text back
>she starts fading
>feelings never stop fading
and thats where i am, alone, drunk, browsing /b/ and just wanting to cuddle up in her arms, I just want to see her, I just want to wake up next to her, i just want her.... sorry for the shitty green text and story

>>716451431
Hahah I'd let you fuck me in the ass

>>716453387
The thing is I did wipe everything out: I blocked her in all media, threw out letters, got another gf. For over 6 months I didn't think about her almost ever. Then, for some fucking reason, about 3 months ago, out of the blue I thought of her and haven't been able to get her out of my head since

>>716453955
Cool man I really should honestly get off my lazy ass and just check shit out

>>716453944
That's highschool. No one wants to be fucking tied down in high school, I wish people would understand this. You've seen absolutely ZERO of the world. As soon as that world opens up, shit changes

>>716453997
Haha FUCK ME, RIGHT?

>>716452921
I'll take it one step further. Nobody should be idolized like some of these people idolize their girlfriends. It's pathetic. A woman doesn't complete you. You are already whole. You are your own person. You have a life of your own. You have ambitions and dreams. Goals to achieve. Things to do. A life to live. A woman; a wife, is someone who you choose to take with you on that journey. A person who complements what you already have. An addition to what is already whole. Your existence is not to serve them. Your existence does not require them. If they decide to do things which leave your path, you leave them behind and continue forward. If you end up finding the right one who stays on your path, great! If not, your being does not cease because of it.

As a Courage Wolf meme once said, you're the product of millions of years of evolution... fucking act like it.

I've had to repress my feelings about being attracted to men for the last decade because my family would completely disown me. Now I'm talking to this great guy, and I'm sitting back at home with my family having an internal panic attack because I can't tell them. And it kills me.

>>716453941

>>>716453721 (You)
>I'm going to answer simply:
>Look how much power they have already.

Words of a cuck. A real man has never uttered anything of the sort.

And lol that you think feminism is about randomly having more power over men. "I want equal pay for equal work" -- lookout guys she is trying to get power over us! Lol.

>>716454298
I'm sorry merry Christmas anon we love you and we are sorry

>>716454106
Lemme be real with you for a second. I was in a deep depression. I had no job. I had no gf. I had nothing going. I was debating suicide because I was living the NEET life and it disgusted me. Probably would have never done it, but I thought about it

I always wanted to travel though. Ended up taking odd jobs, saving up money. Got my passport sorted. Bought a plane ticket down to Peru. Stayed down in for 3months. Rented a house down there for cheap. Fell in love with a beautiful girl (didn't last but my god I'm so happy I met her. It was never MEANT to last, but we had some amazing times together)

Came back and never felt better man. Your story sounds scary similar to mine. I won't say everything will work out for you the same way it did for me, but dude, if you have a goal, if you WANT to travel and get out and see some shit, DO IT. Make that shit happen. Best decision of my life.

Came back, got shit sorted out in my life. Went back traveling for 6months.

Can I just say it's cristmas and we are all here that is feeling bad

>>716453996
well if you are really ready to die you have nothing to lose

>>716454298
Stand on your own two feet and tell your family to go fuck themselves. What are you from some rich family and stand to get a big inheritance? Or are you just worried about them never talking to you again? News flash -- your family are bad people, and you cling to them because you are needy and codependent. Fuck em.

>>716454385
Thanks anon. Means a lot.

>>716454450
Thanks man that's really warming I'm glad to hear things are working out I'm gonna now have you in my head so thank you

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>>716454115

right, and stop talking to her!

>>716451668
Prove it faggot, send pic

>>716454450
Like a boss, proud of you anon

>>716453134
Nice.
My father squeezed my hand which was spinning a double-sided pencil between my thumb and finger, for laughing to myself about a joke when I was 7. Went down to the bone on both fingers, he gave me my first 'tattoo.'

>>716454598
Could do without the harsh criticism, but I see the point

>>716454072
know that feel the girl that i love said shes gonna travel for 2 months this holyday and where she is going there is no wifi and i should probably call her
i try calling her every single day and she never picks up...

>>716451668
you just punched a hole in a wall over what is 99% likely to be a fake text exchange for women-hate threads?

okay next time anything that looks like a "J" with a worm on it keep it away from your mouth.

lol

>>716454121
/thread

>>716450040

>playing it like a total cuck

now there's no chance at her wanting a breakup fuck. If you had kept your cool this would have been childs play. smh OP, this is your fault and it will happen again unless you start acting indifferent to women and their stupid shit

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>>716454598
Not the gay dude but it's really really hard to get away from family you might still love them even if they are horrible people like my dad and I we are opposite on some opinions but I love the dude no matter how fucked he is

>>716454373
I don't care if you take my job - fine do my work for me bitch, but at this point it's become less of "equal pay" and more of "Your rights end where my feelings begin"

>>716454621
Can't stress it enough. Travel will make you appreciate a lot of shit a whole lot more. The exchange rate is in your favor (if US). I rented a house for about 100$ a month. Supposed to have had roommates but no one showed up so I had a 5bedroom place to myself. Did so much shit, ate some great food. Met some awesome people. 3 months of just, LIVING. Doing what I wanted. Seeing what I wanted. Hard to describe but...I felt alive. Activated.

Go for it man.

Again, I'm not saying it's a cure all, but it helps.

ITT butthurt fags that don't take what they want from chicks and then move on so they get taken advantage of
You guys will learn, or you won't, that love comes and goes
So stop getting so attached, one dude's literally begging a chick to eat her ass that some guy just fucked so he doesn't have to be alone with himself..
>I can't even imagine having to look back on that one day

>>716454977
He's not wrong

4 years ago Christmas was the worst. I remember coming home from work (of course I got scheduled) and feeling miserable. My gf had just broken up with me a few weeks before after 4 years together. She gave me 5 minutes to explain we were breaking up and then she totally cut off contact.

Now? I have a zeal for life I never had even before that. You will recover OP. Now is the time to figure things out for yourself. It will take time for the pain to pass, but if you make this a time of self-improvement you will not regret this time. Godspeed to all the anons in this thread.

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>>716454725
Ouch dude sorry
All our life's fucking suck that's why we are here isn't it

>>716451188
LOL GOLD

I LOLD OUT LOUD

>>716454746
I'm not trying to be harsh sorry, I feel for you bro. I have a low rage threshold for people who wouldn't support their kid with their life no matter what their sexual orientation or any other choice they make in life.

>>716454968
Someone screenshot this Anon he is God
Makes me feel Good

>>716454913
Bi dude here, yeah my family is really important to me. My dad was also a piece of shit but I still try and see him every holiday when I travel home

>>716454913
i hear ya that is tough.

but i'd saw my arm off with a dull butter knife if it would make my kid smile once. it makes me sick that parents wouldn't give their kid the time of day if they happened to be gay.

then again, sometimes the stupid fucks just need to be told, go through their process of grieving for their son's heterosexuality, and they come out ok on the other side. and sometimes not.

>>716453401
I think you're right in part. It sucks fighting for something and losing nonetheless, especially when the other person was unwilling to fight at first and only wanted to fight when it was too late

I think another part is I miss how my life was with her; no law school to worry about and all the pressure it brings, I had a steady job helping my family, could stay up late, worked out twice a day.

>>716455163
I understand. My mom every week will throw into conversation that she'll be dead before she gets grandkids. I posted myself with the lead singer of dance gavin dance and she flipped shit, like putting up a picture of me and another guy was sacrilege

>>716455381
It's sorta sick how anyone can be a parent like some dumb fucks can't put together a shelf yet open up your legs and pow lovely child for you to beat and hate

>>716455284
Haha, thanks, not a god, just an anon who had nothing to lose and was sick of my own shit. Had to make a change, and I took it one day at a time.

>>716450958

>tfw stepdads kids are the same way
>tfw I spend more time with him than any of his kids
>tfw he says he's happy he married my mom and said I'm like the son he's never had

They just want me to spend more time with them too, fuck man I feel for this poor guy. Gotta spend time with your family anons

>>716455522
Pretty much. Fucked up too. I feel like "If you have some reasons why you'd disown your kid, don't have one"

>>716450040
Sounds like you can't take no for an answer. Get over it.

>>716455673
jesus christ

>be 30
>looking for serious relationship
>in love with a woman
>doesn't reciprocate, but also doesn't shut me down
>work on self-improvement, gain confidence
>realize I need to have kids to be fulfilled in my life
>she DEFINITELY doesn't want to have kids

So now I'm in a limbo where I have feelings for this woman, who I want to pursue, but I also know it can't work, and don't have any women who meet the criteria in my life. If I knew someone it'd be easier to get over this woman, but at the same time while I have these feelings I don't want to look because it feels like I'm looking for a silver medalist because gold doesn't meet a very serious requirement. She's not perfect, but besides the kids thing, she seems perfect for me.

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>>716451431
LOLOLOL

shoulda dumped her, not go with the whole "let me have your ass" bit... or atleast got the anal before then dump
#ThotPatrol

>>716451431
This is fuckijg hilarious, anon is a true b tard

>>716454966
>I don't care if you take my job - fine do my work for me bitch, but at this point it's become less of "equal pay" and more of "Your rights end where my feelings begin"

I don't even get this. You're upset because feminists want you not to have the right to offend them? Is there a bill going through congress to outlaw offending women that I haven't heard about? Is your life majorly impinged by feminazis at the moment? Or do you just not like them so you are using some anecdotes of people who call themselves feminists behaving stupidly (that you probably heard online and have never even experienced in person) to make the case that feminism is pointless?

I don't know about you but I live my life every day, go to my job, do what I want to entertain myself, and I'm not having any significant problems caused by feminists. The extremist ones are no different than any extremist nutjob like the PETA fags who think owning pets is slavery, or 9/11 conspiracists. What fucking difference does it make? Why so up in arms about this one thing?

Don't get you guys sometimes I think you just let your mouths go without getting the brain out of park.

>>716456036
Ok how stupid out of 10 is this woman you could sub concisely municipulate her into wanting kids after all it is in a woman's blood it should be easy

been reading this thread listening ot this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCb3rblTEds&list=RDMMuoERl34Ld00&index=27
damn im loosing it

>>716454827
lold

>>716456036
seems like you have got some of your math wrong. you appear to believe that there is one or maybe several women on earth. there are actually more like 4 or 5 billion. ftfy.

>>716456222
Fucking THANK YOU. People work themselves up over this horseshit that isn't actually affecting them.

>>716456127
make up sex, get her from behind, pull out the lube bottle and squirt some, slip it right in the ass holding her hands back and go to town. "sry i heard you like this now".... finish up, wipe it off on one of her shirts, throw it on the floor, turn 360 degrees and walk right out of there.

pretty cool fantasy -- satisfying -- i doubt most guys would go there though.

>>716456634
This guy fucks

>>716454450
super late (just jumped in)

What kind of jobs? Just got out of HS, kinda in limbo.

>>716456634
this

>>716456246
Some women just don't have those maternal instincts. And She's not like "You know, I don't think I want kids" she's terrified of the idea. I don't kow what happened in her life to fear childbirth so much, but she is adamant. And adoption isn't good enough for me. At this point I know I have to give up on pursuing her, but it'll be hard to let go. I've always been the type to romanticize, and to have feelings linger long after they should stop.

The good news is, being older and having gone through this process before I can understand it and work through it easier. Maybe I can find a nice woman at a local church. Probably my best bet for someone who is as compatible.

>>716456222
see, you make 100% sense, but you're missing a key factor. Granted i'm assuming you live in america so you're safe from this, but where i live (i'm not someone you replied to, i have yet to post itt) i can literally get arrested for using the wrong pronoun/saying something 'insensitive'. Not even required to be intentional or harassing in nature, a literal mistake has landed people i know in jail (albeit not long obviously) and mainly just stupid fines.

>>716453365
Yo that David Sedaris book is really good

>>716456700
I just went down whatever was happening on craigslist. Helped a plumber out for a bit, helped some guy carrying photography equipment for a shoot. Washed cars, cut grass. Hands on shit, nothing really skill skilled.

also check'd

>>716456931
Where the fuck do you live that a male man is getting arrested for using the wrong pronouns.

Got my first gf earlier this year at 18. I loved her with everything, or at least thought I did. I got encouragement and happy thoughts from everyone I knew, and she told me over and over again that she would love me forever, that I was special, and all this other bullshit. I know now that falling in love with the love of your life it 18 is a huge fucking meme, especially if you have as many doubts about her as I did.

But I fell for the meme like a retard, and I fell in love with her and told her I wanted to work towards a future with her. Turned out she lacked any sort of loyalty or real desire to achieve that goal, and she fucking cheated on me with her best friend. In the span of 2 days she broke down, cried, told me she cheated but wanted to work on things, and other shit. All fucking lies, but I believed her again. On the second of those 2 days, she broke up with me through text. And now I absolutely despise her and I find it hard to reconnect with any woman. I know that not every girl is like that, but to have fallen for one that hard and to get hurt like I did is fucking brutal. I know I shouldn't feel like that but she managed to fool me at every turn into believing that I was loved and then ripped it all away in just a few days.

Fuck you, liv.

>>716457096
Probably Canada. In Ontario(I think?) they just passed a bill where not using someone's proper pronouns is considered gender discrimination and is a human rights violation. Look up Jordan Peterson. He's a Canadian professor trying to fight it.

>>716457203
Again, this is why you don't look for a god damn wife when you're in HS or fresh out of it. People say shit cause they're comfortable

>>716457096
You're gonna think i'm kidding, as most people do, but i live in canada. Using wrong pronouns can be immediately counted as transphobic, which is a hate crime, insta nono. The arresting usually happens because they try to dispute it. Otherwise it's like i said, a fine.

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>>716450040
>senior year of hs
>really into this girl (A) and she's really into me
>we flirt with being serious for a while but never go beyond a couple of dates because of another girl (B) I liked at the time
>I've wanted to be with B for like 2 years at that point and don't want to risk leaving A for B if she changes her mind
>end up deciding I'd rather have a chance with B than be with A
>immediateregret.jpg
>fast forward 2 years
>just broke up with B a few months ago
>me and A still talk
>sort of weird ambiguity there
>she asks me out of the blue one night a few weeks ago if I still have feelings for her
>it all comes out, I still feel strongly about her and I'm sorry for our past and all that shit
>she still has feelings for me too but she has a bf and she's happy in that relationship

We talked a couple nights later about how she had been having thoughts of leaving her bf for me, but haven't really talked about it since. I don't know what to do now. It's really confusing

>pic related, her

>>716457348
>>716457417

Well that's about the dumbest fucking things I've ever heard. How can they even enforce that? If I use a pronoun on a stranger I've never met before, how the fuck should I know?

>>716457348
lmao this guy guessed it on the dot, i'm in southern ontario, the epicenter of libtards.

>>716457203
Dude you fell for the meme hardcore. You didn't break up with her the moment you knew she was cheating? You let her fuck Chad and still took her back when you had the chance to put her in her place and look like the bigger man?

Now all you look like is the beta who was taken advantage of.

I hope you learned a life lesson Anon.

>>716457386
Yeah, it was a big mistake. Gonna take a lot of time to self-reflect and such.

>>716457516
The argument is that if you don't immediately breakdown into apologising that you were doing it on purpose and should ask literally everyone you ever talk to what their pronouns are or just use genderless ones.

>>716457019
Thanks based anon.

>>716457516
Maybe the first time you're good, but like in American law if you continue to do the act I could be harassment

>>716456222
You're assuming /b/ tards are mature enough to grasp this concept

Also, this site is full of conservatard cucks who can't think for themselves, parroting bullshit in their echo chambers

oh i'm sorry but is this supposed to be a feels thread or a YLYL thread?

>>716457691
Go read what i said about my buds getting fined for not using proper pronouns and reply again pls kthx

>>716457624
Well.....shit man I don't even know what to say. Yes I just assumed your gender. Fight me.

butsrsly. That's ridiculous.Personally, I don't give a shit what people wanna call themselves, attack helicopter, foxkin, I don't give a shit, but if I'm gonna get ARRESTED cause I don't play ball, there's a problem.

Canada wtf

The issue is that I've never been in a situation like this before, that is, actually being conflicted about what (whom) I want like this. I've never really given a shit about girls, and the ones I did, and who reciprocated the feelings, the 'relationship' was more of just an awkward, organic byproduct. I had one textbook relationship that lasted for a six weeks my senior year of high school with whirl who lived 45 minutes from me.

FF to college, I meet E. She lives two doors down and across the hall from me. We hit it off immediately for both really liking pot, more than just smoking it, everything related, minus growing, is more or less a hobby. (Call us fags, whatever, you wouldn't know either of us smoke unless you ask, not hippies.) She's really attractive, but I don't want anything more than a friendship. I don't even know why.

Every Tuesday this bar/bowling alley has $1 bowling, so a bunch of people from my dorm go every week. They usually pregame, but I didn't drink at the time and just got baked and offered to be one of the dd's. One night while I'm there, she's drunk and on my lap talking to me. She starts asking who I think is hot in the dorm, etc. and I avoid her because I don't want to make things awkward, I really like where our platonic friendship is, though I can't deny feelings are starting to grow. Then I make what is possibly the one of few actual regrets I have in life...

Cont.

>>716456931
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>>716457348
>>716457538
Samefag

I think we're pretty much over the smoking weed=hippy bit

>>716457815
> Proper pronouns
Nice tangent. I wasn't talking about you faggots, the conversation was about women and feminism

>>716458059
This is what happens when you don't know how to please a girl

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>>716457847
Yeah, some people are trying to fight it but honestly it's hardly worth the time, i just do my best to not let any of the landwhales catch my full name and i'm golden as i don't congregate with their kind very often

also, you were mostly right but it's not like it was a secret? i was even replying as though i was the person who he was talking to????

>>716458059
Good luck finding her out

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>>716451431
I'm sorry but these made me laugh. OP you're the kinda guy that EVERY girl would cheat on. Nice little cuck
> Grandma's necklace
Kek

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I don't understand it /b/.

For the first time in my life I have freinds, a lot of friends, ones that invite yiu out without you having to ask, ones that see you're in a bad mood and text you when you get home at night to make sure you're ok

I have a family, We fight, but in the end things seem to work out, there are good times, and I feel like most of the time they care

I don't have a girlfriend, but it's my fault, I chase what I can't have, ignoring the ones who actually like me and I'm too socially inept to realize. I'm getting better at it, taking more chances, getting further and further along with them, and it will happen soon

I have a Job, a Car a roof over my head, enough money for ciggaretes and bar trips, enough where I can treat myself and not go hungry. It all could be better, I live at home and my car is shit, but its better than what some other people have

I don't understand it /b/. I have all this and my only thought when I go to sleep, and when I wake up, is why I haven't put a bullet in my brain

I want off this ride.

>>716458540
You gotta find what you want. You gotta find what makes you happy. Yeah you have the essentials taken care of, but no one thrives on JUST the essentials. You need to find what activates you

Completely unrelated but can someone play me in connect 4

https://www.playc4.com/20DB2WyMlPAI-zZIANe1

found out a few days ago the girl i loved, wasn't love at all. all a lie for attention. funny how i don't even really give a shit, but the fact that i let it eat me whole for a good 6 months, and all that time i spent talking to her and thinking and all that other bullshit was pretty much that, bullshit. i wasted 6 months of my life, 6 months i could've easily spent having a fucking blast. i took time away from family and shit, from friends, from everything, just to talk to her. fuck it, i guess.

https://playc4.com/o5-EdOQT2o1Rbx5NANfH

New connect 4 link pls come

>>716457889

Out of nowhere she leans into kiss me. In the moment, I don't know why, I decided if this was going to happen I didn't want her to feel embarrassed and regret it, so I don't kiss her back. She backs off and is like "omg I'm sorry".

After a couple minutes she goes to the bathroom with a girl who lived right next door to me. About a minute later E calls and lets me know she pissed herself. Not important, but funny.

Things were normal for about a moth after that, and then we both went to a party, she arrived first. I got there a while later and, not even in there for three minutes I bump into her and she asks if I want to make out. So I did. And then things went back to normal.

To not bore you guys with everything I'll condense the rest of freshman year.

E lost her virginity blackout drunk to one of my roommates literally right after he had sex with her best friend. Dude was smooth. Didn't care but found out, through her, that she did want to fuck me but by then saw me as just too good of a friend. I was disheartened, but couldn't complain. This is where I felt I wanted to be, I genuinely liked just her friendship.

We both get caught in a tldr scenario that never should have happened and charged with possession of marijuana, go through every court date and 24 hours of community service together and she even fronted me my court fines.

As we get off probo the year ends and sophomore year is about to commence.

Cont.

>>716454106
>>716454621
Dunno if you're still here, but if you're pushing for that trip and want some help, hit me up [email protected]. I still have friends/contacts down there.

>>716451244
Her number 3232757088

>>716458924
That's nothing, faggot. Try 3 YEARS and I'm only 22.

>>716451123
>tfw your name is Andrew
>Also got cheated on last month
>Feeling with you bro

>>716459090
Let's get it straight, you weren't where you "wanted to be". You settled where you thought you were comfortable. And dude wasn't smooth, she was blackout drunk. There's nothing smooth about that.

And yeah you fucked up. If you liked her and she moved in to kiss you, that was the huge "GO FOR IT" flag.

Take what you want dude. Be assertive. You blew your chance and you couldn't have had a more obvious sign.

>>716455673
After reading this one, all of these "boohoo I'm unloved/unlovable" posts just seem hilariously pathetic. I say that being a "boohoo I'm unlovable" loser myself. This really puts that kind of bullshit into perspective.

>>716459398
Dude, if that's a real conversation, you have to stop. Stop right now. That victim shit isn't going to fly, as you can see. She'll just hate you MORE and you'll look even WORSE

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>>716459804
Exactly. She doesn't wanna hear it. She's done. She's not going to be available to you, mentally or physically. Don't keep pestering her. She's done. You gotta get on with your life, because she wants no part in it.

She has no sympathy for you, and she most likely never will. At least not any time soon. I've been there man, like I said earlier, I did this shit for a year. And it got me no where. I tried to make her feel what I was feeling and it was a waste of time

Cut her out and move on.

>>716459804
Gonna have to go with what >>716460032
Trust me dude, you're going down a bad road continuing this way

>>716459610
I meant in general he was smooth. And I'm not asking for sympathy dude so chillax, just venting.

>>716459090

Sophomore year begins and in an apartment are myself, E, her best friend, K(female), who I am also very good friends with, and my closest friend/fraternity brother, A.

Coming from a fresh start of summer. I was back to no feelings at all for E, even at that point at the end of freshman year. Not much happened that year between us, neither of us fucked anyone. But as the months went on, I felt the feelings creep up.

At this point (Feb/April), A and I had a habit of splitting a fifth about five nights a week. Both pretty slim guys so it hits us good. Always have deep conversations with him, one night talking about girls and this chick he's been in an equally confusing, but I think less deep than mine and E's connection, situation with a girl. Then he asks if I have anyone I'm interested in. And I just say it, almost admitting it to myself, "I love E"

That year ended pretty anticlimactically, and I think this last post will be all up to date and my last one.

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>>716460310
What a bitch. Just die

>>716460310
Dude. STOP. YES SHE'S DONE WITH YOU. You're just pissing her off now.

You're prodding for answers you don't want to hear, and already know. Just. Stop.

Whatever you're hoping to achiev, every message you send, is getting you farther from it.

>>716460310
Dude, it's obvious that you're trying to make her feel bad. Stop. Learn how to end something in a good looking way.

>>716460310
You can't guilt trip someone who doesn't give a shit. Like the other anons said, just stop responding man. Save some face. The aura you're giving off to her right now is sad/pathetic/weak. None of those are redeeming qualities.

You'll NEVER catch her eye again doing what you're doing right now. You want her to look your way? Show her that she doesn't matter.

It's been 2.5 years now....but I still think about her. Every day, every night, I sit here and think about how I could have stopped her from leaving, about what I could have changed. She's engaged, and I haven't even so much as had a random hookup since she left me. Nobody would ever want to be seen with someone like me. Nobody understands me, my humor, or my personality. But she did....she understood every little detail about me, and still loved me for it.....for a while at least. Now, she's gone, and I feel like all my happiness has left with her. I want her back so bad....but I know she is gone for good. I've given up on finding anyone else, I can't take another broken heart

>>716460310
She needs to fuck off. Fucking bitch.

>>716460310
Good enough. Just move on with your life. It'll be without her. And you'll be fine. The sooner you start getting out there and socializing with whomever (coworkers, friends, online dates, shoolmates) the better.
It'll be cringey at first because of your apparent mental disorders, but soon enough, you'll figure out how to normalize properly and you'll be a better person for all the time you spent here in the dark.
Dedicate yourself to eating healthy and working out more and more each day. Taking care of your health is #1 on your list of priorities.

>>716457798
Kek

>>716460310
>>716460514
As the quote goes, "I'm not saying it's gonna be easy, I'm saying it's gonna be worth it".

I feel like I'm looking at myself during my big break up. I feel for you, I do. I've been there. Did the same shit. Poured my heart out to a girl who just wanted no parts of it. Tried to guilt trip her, tried to pull for sympathy.

It doesn't work. None of it works. It NEVER got me anywhere with her and I put so much energy and time into feeling sorry for myself.

Take the advice or ignore it, its you're call. But I guarantee that nothing will get better with things going the way they are now