At least she didn't cheat on you and then dump you. Trust

Get it out, OP. Have a drink, listen to Creep by Radio Head, take a walk at night, punch something, roll credits. Then you're ready for the next season premiere of your life.

>>715076538
Go outside. Walk. Write a story, watch a movie,
Also start dating again, don't let the gap go too long.

You still have chances

>>715076680
Im thankful for that but get this, she already like has her eyes set on another dude. She tells me she wants to see what else is out there but the thought of that hurts

>>715076842
Im trying to get myself out more. Find ways to kill the time where im not alone in my room where we would spend like 90% of our time together.

Post nudes, feel better

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I know the feel bro I'm going through a divorce feels like crap Can barley get out of bed in the morning

>>715077050
I've thought about it not sure that'll help much

>>715076538
First off, don't ever talk to her again. I know it hurts, but pretty soon you are gong to either meet someone else, or at the very least, look back and realize there is a lot more to life than her. Specifically her.

Don't swoon for her, don't post shit on your social media about her, just get involved with some friends and do some shit you enjoy. Eventually, the pain goes away and she is just a lesson learned.

>>715076538
Ive found the more i have going for me the less i give a shit.. do you have a good job.. workout.. interesting.. funny.... might be time to at least get shit in gear online dating or talking to chicks at the bar or at the checkout lane is an easy fix if you want a new distraction

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>>715076867
Oh yeah, I've been there too anon.

idk how old you are, I know I'm a fucking youngin (22), but I can tell you from my fucked up relationships, that at least over time, everything just numbs out.

You won't get sad when you think about her, but you won't be happy either.

And honestly, that's when you'll be able to move on.

But, if you're anything like me when I got cheated on and dumped for another dude, you probably don't want to move on just yet.

And that's totally fine.

Give it time to numb out.

>>715076538
she didnt want what you had to offer. Either you offer so little or she wants something more. Whu you gotta feel bad by her decisions. If she regrets it's her fault and if she doesnt shes doing you a favor. You want someone who truly loves you by your side, not a woman with her eyes on another dude

>>715077126
Well post one atleast it helps us for sure

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Get used to it fag boy, my girlfriend of 2 and a half years dumped me 2 years ago and I still love her.

>>715077172
I've been doing my best not to make contact, it sucks because she like still thinks we can be friends through all this but why would i want to put myself through the torture of being in her life if we aint fucking

>>715076680
This. Consider yourself lucky friend

>>715077406
You are pathetic

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>>715077591
You don't know the half of it, nigger.

>>715077406
Exactly, I do still love her somewhat and i feel like she robbed me of what we couldve had. But if she's willing to walk away then she isnt worth my time

>>715076680
Of course she did you fucking retard. The two rules of breakups are: 1. A girl doesn't break up with her boyfriend until she has another guy lined up. 2. A guy doesn't breakup with his girlfriend, he just shits everything up until she finds someone else and then breaks up with him.

>>715077675
This im coming to learn through all the shit that's happened over the last week

>>715077642
You're right never been in a relationship even remotely as long as yours

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>>715077675
Oh god too real.

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>>715077675
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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>>715077675
He's right, you know.

>>715076538
Well thanks everyone for your responses n shit. It helps knowing that everyone else goes through this shit too and that life goes on. If im feeling spiteful enough ill deliver nudes one day

>>715076538
I feel you OP. Tomorrow is my ex's birthday and even though we broke up over a year ago I can't stop thinking about her. She makes me lose my appetite and I haven't been able to sleep. Even though I'm with someone else just this certain time is doing a huge number on me. I don't want to tell anyone I know because I know they'll tell me I'm wrong. I don't know, I just needed to tell someone. Y'all can call me a faggot or whatever, you aren't wrong.

Write a book. Use your sadness to make other people sad.

>>715076538
What you need is a good old fashioned legitimate tragedy. The last time I was rekt over a girl breaking it off I moped around like a silly faggot for a few months before my best friend hung himself. That shit put my perspective straight on the girl right quick. My advice is don't reply to this post so your mother dies in her sleep tonight

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>>715078247
I've been with a girl for 2 years. She's fine and all but she hasn't filled that hole.
If my ex wanted be back tomorrow I'd drop everything.

>>715077675
I used to think that this was wrong, that all women were like any other human, each with their own individual interests and values. I figured that the women talked about in the stereotype were just victims of culture and society, and that there would be "different" girls out there who were cool.

I'm a lot more jaded now, and I'm starting to wonder if 99.9% of women on this Earth will trade anything for greener grass on the other side. Close to the redpill.

>>715078156
Serious question, what job do you think would make you happiest?

>>715078539
Blow, followed by hand, then maybe foot

>>715078539
a job where im able to be proactive and not slave myself for 9 hours a day and hate it all when i get home at the end of the day

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>>715076538
Well, time to hit the gym and block her on facebook and all other social media

>>715076538
>>715077406

>1 year and 8 months
>2 years and 6 months
Try 4 years for my first real relationship, and another gf of 5 years. 9 years is a lot of years wasted without having an offspring produced to carry on my name. Get over it and look for another. Learn that women are shit, and try harder with the next.

>>715078709
Is there anything in particular that interests you, in general?

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>went through the stages of grief
>been stuck at bargaining for years
ayyyyyy

>>715078774
I've been thinking of starting to work out. Im 6'1 190 right now so i figure i might as well spend the time i have now getting swole so i can flex on her later to show her what she's missing out on

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>>715078156
Also, not to rub things in at the moment, buuuuut, you can make this positive in a fucked up way.

When my gf left me, I stopped eating and leaving my house for about 3 weeks. Because of that, my eating habits changed. I lost about 35 pounds of fat over 4 months because of that.

So, in a weird way, I'm happy she fucked me up.

But still, fuck you Becca. Rot in hell.

>>715079086
I went on a 3 month bender and lost a ton of weight
now im still drinking every day and eating so im skinnyfat
feels bad man

I know how it feels man. I got dumped really bad once, she dumped me for this stiff two years older than her she had a crush on in high school. She lied to me about it, I felt so betrayed.

>>715079164
Hey, skinny fat is better than straight up fat, lol

>>715078818
Honestly right now no. I enjoy playing video games and smoking weed. But those arent real hobbies or interests you know? I've been trying to find things i enjoy personally but i just cant seem to get my mind fixated on one

>>715079086
Exaclt I've been eating once a day ever since it happened last sunday. And my shits have been runny too!

>>715079276
Make shit. I don't care what. Whether it's paintings, short stories, websites, poems, music, whatever.

Don't worry that it might be shit, you'll feel better having made something, it'll help you process your emotions.

>>715079276
>smoking weed
Just stop it. Give it up and do something else worth your time. Video games are okay as long as you aren't spending 8 hours a day on them, but weed, give it up. It's only going to make you more of a degenerate. Go on a walk in a nostalgic area or favorite area in your town or something during your favorite time of the day/night. Re-collect yourself and find motivation to do something.

>>715079449
Just make sure to stay hydrated.

If not for yourself, for a fellow no gf anon.

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>>715076538
>be me
>be 53
>be married to hot girl from high school
>spawn twice
>stay at home mom
>kids go to college
>aerospace engineer 170k+salary
>she get bored
>I get her job with friend of mine as admin
>they got married this June
>mfw

>>715079622
these hoes aint loyal, old anon

>>715079705
Damn I know it now. Goddamn.

Boyyyyyy get your shit together get a jerb, get monies,buy a car or get a sexier girl show her your doing much better without her

P.s. get on dating app like MeetMe,. POF

Lost a girl after 7 years recently.

Just be a badass. You don't own any piece of her. She's an individual and if you're not interesting why should she be interested in you? Just be happy that you got to stick your tongue in that ass and your dick down that throat. And be happy that you had a connection that at least felt real. A lot of people don't ever experience that.

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>>715076538
>1yr
>devastated
lolwut

>>715079527
>weed makes you a degenerate
Wow, that's some credibility right there.

>>715079622
Take it as the opportunity it is. You make legit money. You were due to upgrade to a newer model anyway. At least you're not getting rocked for support and alimony with her remarrying.

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>>715079796
It's shit like this that makes me wish I was born a fag. Then I would never have to deal with these fucking hoes.

>>715079622
THAT took a turn. Jesus Christ.

>>715076680
Experienced this hell and I'm finally finding my way out of it. You dodged a bullet Anon. Consider it an education for your future; you got one, the rest are easier.

>>715076538
chillax bro
30 here
u'll get another one, another one, etc...
until you get someone that rly works.
peace, bro

>>715079975
>projecting hard
Lot of weed smokers in this town, and none of them have real lives.

>>715076538
You were with her for almost 2 years.
You're not going to move on until many months from now. Just go and have fun. Meet new ppl. And get all her stuff and hide it or throw it out. Stop following her on fb. Etc etc etc

>>715080247
This.

I threw out everything that I had that was hers or reminded me of her.

It helps a lot.

>>715076538
Could always be worse man just remember that, at least you weren't married or had a really long term relationship. Women do that, they'll fuck you up if you let them. We ex broke up with me a month ago and it's still gay but I really feel a lot better then I did the first few weeks. Just focus on getting your goals achieved and improving yourself. Time heals all, look around you. Almost everyone has experienced heart break, it's just a part of life. Just try to make sure you realize there's definitely better out there.

go fuck some new chicks and quit being a beta. go make money and shit

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>>715080228
and none of them have real lives.
>posting on /b/
kek keep telling yourself that

>>715076538
Also listen to music, it's really helped me a lot. First few weeks were mostly Modest Mouse, now i'm on Mac Demarco and Tame Impalas. I usually listen to fucking rap and shit like that but for some reason this music just helps a lot, imo. Don't use drugs or anything else like that, if you form unhealthy habbits during your depression, you'll be worse off in time. I've been weightlifting for years and I've been training to get into AFSOC for the past year. Trust me man, you'll find another, one that's even better.

>>715080351
I want to find someone to like spend my time with. If anything i need to find a new friend group to spend my time with. While I was dating her she was pretty much my only friend and that was a mistake to allow.

>>715080464
Not an argument, fool.
Only a degenerate gets offensive over weed.

>>715076538
>8 months

Fucker get on my level 10 years.

Feels bad man

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>>715079987
Truth. I'm dating pix attached now. Tell me that's not a hot 50 year old.

>>715080566
>listen to a shit ton of clouddead during my last visit to her apartment
>2 years later can't listen to it anymore
most of my library was kind of like this, literally lil b was mindless enough to numb me
thank you based god

>>715080840
all i can say is that i hope my tastes change in the next 20 years

>>715080664
Yeah I feel you on that, I spent way too much time with my ex, I think that's why things got the way they are now or at least have a part to do with it. Anyways spend time with your other guy friends or family if possible. I'm lucky and have always had a solid group of friend, although not many and my best friends moved out of state but hey that's part of growing up. If you don't have friends I'd just try to make a few or if you can't (I'm honestly not good at befriending new people) just learn to be alone for a while. I'm hanging/banging with a crush from highschool and honestly even though we have sex and spend time together it's still just meh... time is the best healer for all wounds.

>>715080889
Lol i can't do lil b, but I mostly listen to Mac Dre, Andre NIckatina, Nelly, shit like that but since we broke up I'm just stuck on all this chill music.. listening to Tame Impalas Innerspeaker album right now.

>>715080840
That's definitely a hot 50 yo. Got any pics from the front?

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>>715076538
You want her back? Stop talking to her. Don't see her, or have any contact with her for a month. If she tries to initiate contact, ignore it.
Get back to her about 8-9 weeks after no contact. Text works best. Say some shit about finding yourself, and apologize for ignoring her. Ask something about a good time you guys shared, (I.e. remember that beach we went too and had a great time at? Where was it again?) And end the message with a happy tone, but leaving it open for her to reply, while also not putting pressure on her to reply to you.

If she doesn't come back then, then I'm not a wizard.
And I most certainly AM a wizard.

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>>715081234
Same day.

>>715077126
It helps to know you're the one in control of who's seeing her nude.

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This little guy is lost and scared. I'm trying to talk him down but he won't stop crying about missing his family.

An elite force of trackers are on the case but they can only do so much so fast. Any help will greatly be appreciated.

If you recognize him or if he's yours please speak up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVkH_ac5dQ0

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>>715081267
>few weeks after break up
>drunk as fuck desperately trying to get her attention
>ask her if she is happier without me
>"yes"
don't ask questions you don't want the answer to. that absolutely broke me

>>715081321
damn man you got yourself a nice piece. Any more to dump would be kindly appreciated

>>715081267
Also work out. that helps the most.

>>715081473
That's what im doing now. I've stopped asking questions I dont want to know the truth

>>715081473
Probably because you were a whiney bitch.

>>715081795
probably
good attempt, but you can't make me feel worse than I already am

>>715076538
Shit op, this literally just happened to me. You just gotta realize what you did for her and how she left you and you need to realize how good you are for yourself, build yourself up and if she comes back then you can decide for yourself what to do with it. Don't let it push you too far down a hole.

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>>715081845
you stupid loser

there is billions of girls, getting hung up over one of them is pathetic
stop it

>>715081321
Thanks anon. You should be a shining beacon of hope for OP. You were with your wife for decades, she did you dirty. You picked yourself up, dusted yourself off, and now you're plowing that fantastic body regularly. Living proof that lemons become lemonade

>>715081267
do NOT apologize for ignoring her.

>>715081998
that goes for you too OP >>715076538

>>715081853
Thanks man, You seem to be handling it quite well. But its always nice to have the support of dozens of other people even if everyone is just an ID number

>>715076538
lol not even 2 years yet ... that's not too much

>>715077675

fucking this

/thread

>>715076538
I still think about my girlfriend of only 8 months. Really like to get her out of my head. I can only imagine what you're going through. Time will heal all wounds though.

>>715076538
>>715076680
Shut the fuck up and harden the fuck up you pussies.

A year and eight months is fucking nothing. Your relationship was as meaningful as my passionate attraction and sentimental dependence on my cum rag.

>>715081999
Thank you bro.

>>715082495
made me laugh good

>>715082495
tuff guy over here

>>715076538
Just jerkoff cry , jerk off some more then look the day in the eye and be confident. The more confident you are the better chance of snagging another cutie

>>715082518
Don't thank me. Thank your treacherous ex wife. I can't get enough of that landing strip. I'd bet you can't either

>>715083251
thanks man. It's been hard this past week since the wound is still fresh but i know with time ill be able to get myself out more and meet new people

>>715076538
Time to go to church, or frequent a coffee shop. Bookstore? Fuck dude I don't know.
Find someone else.

>>715083431
Finding someone else is exaclty what i want to do. Its just a matter of time

>>715076538
it doesn't get better, if you let it ruin you. try to focus on yourself; work out and find a hobby, drink and smoke weed(but not every day to deal with the pain, maybe once or twice a week), force yourself to hang out with your friends, and eventually you'll stop thinking about it as much.

also since we're millennials, we don't know how to move on from relationships, so eventually you two will start talking again, just make sure you at least fuck a girl or two, because you're gonna find out she's already fucked a few dudes since you guys broke up, it's only natural, girls always look for comfort in other dicks.

good luck OP

>>715083687
Wow your actually here.
Well, good luck to you anon. I really hope everything turns out alright.
Be sure to visit family for Christmas !

>>715083837
See the thought of her sucking some dudes dick like churns my stomach right now. Im still emotionally attached to her which is what im working on getting over but its very difficult

>>715076538
>She was my everything
Why would anyone want to be with someone who has nothing else to offer and only wants to be a burden?

>>715084263
Oh come now, anon. Surely she was admirable in some regard, for OP to feel so attached to her.

>>715084561
She had her goods and cons, but the good outweighed the bad for me. Like this bitch still doesnt even drive at the age of 19

>>715084561
>Surely she was admirable in some regard, for OP to feel so attached to her.
In every regard OP could understand, apparently, since she was his everything and he was nothing to her.

>>715084191
The pain is how you know that you're alive. That feeling in your gut is how you know you can't get back together with her anyway. No matter what she tells you or what you want to believe, even if you got back together tomorrow in your heart of hearts you'll know that she split up with you because she had her eye on other dick. As you're well aware, she's a female and she can catch a dick whenever she wants. A week has been plenty of time.
Embrace the pain. Get mad. Move on.

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>>715083381
Close up landing strip for you. Thanks bro. Signing off.

>>715085129
ty anon for all your contributions to the thread. Really appreciate the time people take out of their scrolling to reply and help a follow man out - OP

Watch this
https://youtu.be/sSt2yoCn2i4
Also watch his other vids.
It helped me a ton.

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>>715079086
She doesn't like you anymore, unless she did something wrong, get over it...

>>715085251
I hope you can see how good it got for this anon OP. His situation was 10x worse than your own and now he's got this going. That has got to be the tastiest looking 50 year old puss I've ever seen. If it can turn around this well for a 52 year old anon, it should be easy for you

i'm going through something similar. my long distance girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me about a month ago and i'm still broken up about it. the worst part is how she doesn't even pretend to care, as if our relationship meant nothing. i think you faggots are actually helping me move on. thank you niggers

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>>715086535
That's what we're here for

>>715076538
don't kill yourself over it OP, some girls are just cunts

I feel bad cause ive been the guy that girls leave their bfs for atleast 4 times and each time they really like the guy but feel they need something different or realoze their valies arent the same but the most common thing women say is that they arent happy, and hate the consistent arguments which happens alot especially near or at 2 years.

Eh you learn and move on. I was pathetic enough to get involved with a chubby asexual cicktease. Worst mistake if my life. Since there was no sex I just delved deeper into the love and companionship and when it ended it was worse than usual.

That said suddenly I'm crushing pussy now through Tinder of all things. I'm like 6/10. Maybe 7/10 if everything's going well. Not like super handsome or ripped.

When based Jesus closes a door, he opens a window and drowns you in pussy.

I'm mostly surprised at how many girls are so quick to dish out nudes. never asked cause I was always trying to get a gf.

>>715087889
How do you usually open with on tindr and can you give me a description of your profile?

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>>715076538
Everyone I know had been cheated on, including me.
There are two types of relationships out there:
1) The ones in denial.
2) The ones that expect to be cheated on.

This became increasingly common with the rise of misandry. Every since the feminists kept complaining about us men the past few decades. It's common place for women to be vocal about how men "suppress" them, and thus we are evil. This is why women barely have remorse when they cheat these days. They think we're clumsy and stupid. They constantly try to manipulate us men because it's justified to them. They think we're made to worship their vagina now.

Just you wait till you get married and have kids. Expect half of your assets taken eventually as well as all your children. Expect the law to always take the women's side because you're a man.

I understand women need rights and everything, but the women have gone too far with the cheating and manipulating us around.

>>715088402
shoulda got that prenup fam

>>715088322

Honestly, I open up with really sexual pick up lines. Unless her profile seems like shed fucking hate that. One day I just decided to open up with the same line to every Tinder girl that I matched with over the years. I just didn't give a fuck and I thought it'd be a fun troll.

Most women don't reply. Some get upset. Some think it's funny. Some will respond positively and with some charm will give you their number and nudes. A smaller portion of those women will fuck me.

But I'm getting about a decent success ratio. If I get pussy awesome. If I get nudes great but not perfect. If I get a negative reaction I get to troll and laugh.

It's a win/win.

>>715087889
man that first line hit way too close to home

>>715089369

One does live and move on. He's a fekin guru AMIRITE?

so wheres her nude?

>>715076538
Your ex just loves cock, and well found yours out dated. U suggest you to move on, work out and get in your best shape possible. I bet you pussy will rain, and also focus on making money and doing things that you were holding back from when you dated your hoe. Good luck anon, if none of these suggestions work than please an hero.

>>715077476
Oh, the old we can still be friends cliche. Yeah, that only works if the relationship was ended because both parties were no longer "in love". Of course that prettu much never happens and yet people still think it can work.
My advice, never talk to her again and barely notice her presence if you see her in public. (A polite wave and hello as opposed to a full autistic blank stare of longing)

>>715090128
thanks man ill keep it in mind. I did wanna pursue a lot of things while dating her which i couldnt because she didnt like them. So im gonna focus on doing me and making myself the shit

>>715080936
They sadly will, young one, they sadly will. You come to learn to want what you can get.