How lonely are you /b?
http://psychcentral.com/quizzes/loneliness.htm
I got a 31. Wat do?
Also feels thread
get fit you fat fuck
>>714864867
25, then again this test doesn't really take into account self chosen solitude as a positive. I prefer to be alone most of the time because I'm an introvert who doesn't really enjoy most social interactions.
>>714865467
Don't get me wrong, I don't despise being lonely, but sometimes it's too frequent I find myself tired of being lonely so frequently.
>>714864867
16, Guess, i don't need this feels thread you sad sad pieces of shit.
>>714865584
I got a 33
>>714864867
28, moderate loneliness
which is understandable but i know once i finish school and have almost no reason to leave my house that'll jump up to +30
>>714865467
I agree. I got 30 but I don't feel "extremely lonely"
It happens to me that im able to make friends and shit but i prefer to be alone most of the time, which is a problem. I have a gf and all, she insist we should go out like a normal couple but i cant stand people more than one hour.
I'm a medical student, 'male, 24 years.
>>714865653
Kinda in the same boat
>>714864867
Got a solid 40.
Guess I'm pretty lonely, bros
This quiz is stupid. There isn't one question that brings up physical contact.
I have plenty of friends, but I haven't had a hug in months.
>>714865540
Well, few people can be content with complete isolation, the struggle is finding a balance. I've lost a lot of potential friendships because I often turn down invitations, even though I like to be asked. I've always favored online relationships, romantic and otherwise, because it takes some of the strain off.
>30
>>714865703
Are you aiming for pathology? How will you manage to be a doctor if you can't stand people?
>>714865895
It's because of the convenience of the Internet. You can potentially connect with someone you may never have been in contact with, and also how easy it is to end a relationship online. It's easy to just move on.
>>714864867
:(
Thirty fucking five end my life
got a 30. But I totally am used to feeling lonely, and i'm an introvert. This is just life, for me. I wouldn't call my case "extreme" because it hasn't sent me into a depression.
I mean, I am depressed, but there's alot other than loneliness to contribute to that.
>>714865854
Then you're reading and answering the questions wrong.
Either you feel lonely or you don't. You can be lonely among a table of friends. If that's the case, you don't really have friends. Loneliness does NOT mean no social contact. It's an emotion.
34
I don't go outside with anyone, have none to go with.
Left my flat today to just take the trash out, yesterday to get food and that's it.
People talk to me at uni but that's about it, they don't give a shit later on.
>>714866058
Of course, and I can make myself unavailable with the push of a button. And also this place fits me so well because for every new thread, all relations are back to zero.
solid 37
i know no one cares. even when they say they do i know they're lying
>36
My loneliness has hit a wall of apathy or something...
Got 21. I can live with that
>>714866246
That is the magic of /b. It's just enough interaction to not feeling lonely without the hassle of real interaction.
>>714866143
What do you do to initiate contact then? You can't expect everyone to come to you. Especially if you send the vibe that you're not interested in contact.
got a 14
>>714864867
i have one online friend ive known for years, go months without leaving the house(live with parents) and i dont feel lonely/depressed at all, actually feel pretty content
im sort of waiting for the depression/loneyless to sink in but its been like 5 years like this....anyone else feel the same?
>>714866356
had something similar but im depressed as fuck for it
29
>>714865432
What browser is this?
34.
im 19 and havent left my house in 5 years
>>714866319
I could never get myself to post on fb for just this reason, the thought of being associated with my posts until I delete them makes me very anxious.
Also, I can satisfy my need for external validation by posting my trap pics here without being associated with them permanently.
>>714866489
m or f?
>>714866319
Right?
I love it.
>>714866558
Give people a mask and they'll show you who they truly are.
I got 33. Neither a virgin nor neet. I have so many things in my life that others would kill for, why do I feel so fucked
>>714865854
Go fucking hug your friends you moron.
I got elite score of 13. I am the best around. Nothings gonna ever get me down.
>>714864867
WHO THE FUCK EXPECTS TO BE AN ATTENTION WHORE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT?!?! BITCH, PEOPLE NEED REST IF YOU"RE LONELY FUCKING SEND MESSAGES TO THEM WHEN THE SUN IS UP, SHIT! DONT BE CRYING ABOUT IT EITHER YOU SELF CENTERED, RUDE ASS MOTHA FUKKA. NOT THEIR PROBLEM THEY NEED SLEEP TO LIVE AND CAN LIVE ON WITHOUT YOU, NIGGA.
>>714866325
I just walk up to them at uni and that's it, the thing is people seem to like me but only for a moment.
I have to initiate every single conversation outside of uni too, fucking 99% conversations started by me, rest is about a thing i have to give them which they start.
>>714864867
>15
34. I lost majority of my irl friends due to my own illness so I usually only talk to people online
>>714866726
Damn dude. Get some sleep.
>>714866714
fuck you
>>714866714
The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
>>714866714
Wew
>>714866558
Stop posting your fooking gay shit here
Fucking 15 here, my biggest problem is people wanting to hang out too often. Ya know, there just aren't enough hours in the day.
>>714867810
>>714867959
Exactly, I have a family and a job. Alone time is hard to come by.
>>714867948
get on my level faggot
I got 40. I guess my life doesn't have meaning, I don't even think "she" cares
>>714866489
Love you kam
>>714868842
Damn dude you got rejected hard. She doesn't want you to text her.
34 - Extreme Loneliness
>You may find that you could benefit by trying to reach out to others in your life -- right now.
>A close friend or family member whom you trust and talk to can go a long way in helping to relieve feelings of loneliness in many people.
That might be helpful if such a person existed.
>>714868842
dude. gotta keep texting. bitches don't like guys who give up. they WANT the D.
32.. Eh, at least I'm not depressed. I just want a few more friends
>>714869020
No one fucking cares
>>714868842
your fucked, move on
>>714868928
But I love her. I tried asking her out but I found out she has a boyfriend. I will keep trying till chances come to me
>>714869132
People do. It's your statement nobody cares about.
25
>>714864867
36
Not so bad
>>714869227
your not supposed to be sensitive until after you fucked them dude
>>714868842
>>714869227
Are you like that guy who was texting his dead wife?
is "she" alive?
38
i want to die.
>>714869427
39
me too.
>>714868842
I'm 31 years old, I live in a city where I have no friends and all my old-friends I haven't talked to in years. I have no one around I can call if I need a ride, I have no one to hang out with or go anywhere. No one texts me or calls me, no one writes me on facebook.
I haven't had a friend in 6 years and I haven't had a girlfriend in 10.
Outside of work, I haven't even spoken to another human in 2 years
>>714869340
I give out good relationship advice. I helped my brother through 2 divorces, my sister with her boyfriend issues and I've even made my mum and dad not divorce eachother. I just don't understand why I can't tell anyone how I feel. I don't want to love someone to fuck her, I want to love her so I can spend my life happy with her. I realised when I was 14 about 6 years ago that if I don't have a girlfriend or wife, I'll grow up alone. Nobody to love me, nobody to talk to when you feel sad or happy, no child to bring you happiness and joy and to play with and read stories at night. I'll just be reaching out for someone to take my hand but that will take over 80 years and by that time I will be 100. And when that person grabs my hand, it will be death saying to me "you're not alone anymore".
You can't live a happy life if you don't start planning early.
Bump
>>714864867
34, but I'm an autistic working artist. What did you fucking expect?
>>714864867
Scored a 30. Have been thinking about killing myself pretty soon.
>>714864867
I got a 14
>>714864867
34 rip me and anxiety and shit
>>714864867
if all the questions are about "how do you feel about...?" you are "lonely" becouse you are a faggot. grow up pussies
>>714870424
Got a 31. Everything started to go downhill a couple of years ago, and it all turned to worse when I got diagnosed with schizophrenia.
>Be me
>just got screwed out of a relationship by someone I thought was a really good friend
>already have trust issues due to shitty people in my life since birth
>meet nice new grill solid 8/10 and thicc
figured she would think I'm a creep if I talked to her, so I just don't
>she starts talking to me
>the plot thickens, and so do I
>we really hit it off, have the same sense of humor and everything
>I'm already pretty acquainted with her roommate since we work together
>regularly hang out with them all week, shooting pool, playing nerdy card games (magic yugioh, etc.)
>hanging out on night, roommate grill has a guy over, grill 8/10 all by herself with me there playing cards against humanity
>thinking "this girl might actually like me, so let's try a subtle test
>bump legs, she bumps back
>move hand over to her side, she grabs it, and we're holding hands like that for the duration of the rest of the game
>she says she'll take me home
>all alone in her car, I lean over, she leans at me
>BOOM we started making out more intensely than I ever have (kissed a few grills so I'm not too inexperienced also not a virgin)
>goes on for about 30 minutes, she tells me she really likes me, and wants to take it slow due to shitty relationships in the past and how she was sexually assaulted by her ex
>I completely understand and agree to take things at her pace
>make out some more then I get to my place excited that for once a girl I liked liked me as well
Moar in a minute
>>714869766
you are probably a thinking guy, most people arent. when it comes to starting relationships the intellect is our worst enemy. Attraction is animal not intellectual.
34 pretty much saw it coming.
>>714866283
is this not apathy?
>>714864867
>>714870972
38
>>714871374
Oh fuck, where is this from, i can 100% relate, fuuuck aah kill me.
>>714864867
>37
Seems about right, eventually I'll need to see a counselor/therapist.
>Any time I make a friend I don't feel a connection, even when I enjoy hanging out
>Without fail I isolate myself from them, I know they'll leave eventually like everyone else
>Full fledged conversations to myself now
>Only reason I haven't lost my shit is because of my dog.
I even isolate from my online friends; found a fun/non-scrub gaming buddy on steam, hung out online for a month almost daily and shot the shit, similar to me but he's got real friends and a fiance.
>1 message received and unopened for the last 3 months
>34
Idk why, I have family a few close friends, a girlfriend I care about. I really shouldn't feel like this
>>714864867
>23
I'm fine with it.
>>714869227
Ok this has to be bait
>>714871042
>we start texting for a bit, making plans to see a movie in the next few days
>eagerly await the day, don't see much of each other due to conflicting work schedule
>the day is here and I'm super excited, get cleaned up, get a haircut shower and dress in a pretty nice outfit
>message her an hour or so before hand about the date
>noreply
>the time passes with no sign of her
>figured she was suddenly busy so I disrobed into comfy clothes and played vidya till the day ended
>over the next week try to message her to no avail
>go to her place to hang out with her and roommate with a couple of work friends (both in a guy+guy relationship and both super chill)
>she kinda avoids me the whole night
>message her what's wrong after I got home, noreply
>she stopped talking to me almost completely at work and always starts speed walking away when I show up
>fast forward to today, go on fb see she is in a relationship with some other guy
>feelsbadman but idk what else to feel anymore
>>714871460
Not sure bro, not sure.
>>714871080
I just want love.
>>714871374
>I have anxiety and depression, so I spent 10 minutes writing all of this down in an attempt to get pity
that's pretty contradictory
>>714869360
kek
>Did it once
>Closed the tab
>Lel what was my score?
>Think it was 25
>Did it again
>27
... Are you more honest the second time around?
>>714871627
Wrong picture, they all look the same
>>714871600
At this point idk what to do, I was invited by her roommate to play some more magic and to a christmas celebration with her and a bunch of friends, but I don't think I'm really feeling it anymore
>>714871597
It's not and I will always keep trying
>>714871600
start acting friendly to her like if nothing ever happened just to see if she feels guilty
if she does, keep doing it to make things harder for her
no one fucks with you anon, no one
>>714871600
I've been in similar situations a couple of times with girls ending contact just like that, even though we've been together a couple of times. What the fuck is up with that? If I don't enjoy hanging out with someone I tell them.
>>714871872
I think she wants that though, at this point I've stopped caring about getting back at the people who stab me in the back like that and try to figure out how to move on. I really like hanging out with her and her roommate, and I wanna keep doing that, but I don't know if I can stand being around her anymore
I don't think life is for me, it's been so fucking hard and I can't even have friends. No seems to be the most consistent answer when I ask my "crush" to go out anywhere and I also feel socially rejected. Since MIDDLE SCHOOL I've had this feeling and it's getting the worst of me. I want to die fast and O need it asap
>>714864867
I don't have many people to reach out to other than my boyfriend and father. I don't contact other relatives often and people I know on Facebook I see more as colleagues rather than friends. I have no best friend other than my boyfriend
11 - guess i enjoy being alone
>>714872252
>>714871822
>>714871674
How cringey are you?
>>714864867
Just as expected.
>>714871962
Idk honestly, I've been thinking of suicide for a few years now so it's either that or turn gay lol
got a 39
>>714872626
My life is fuckkng cringe, so 100%
>>714871610
Fuck man, this comic always makes me so sad, and don't bother with the sauce of the text it wouldnt help anyways.
>>714865584
16 aswell niggah
I got 31. But i have a large group of "buddies" with very few real friends. So I feel alone in company, as i can not talk about everything with them because they rarely understand me.
But I'm pretty blessed I guess.
>>714872920
Well if you have those 'buddies' you are blessed.
Extreme Loneliness /39
Not a Wizard
12
>>714872083
She didn't stab you in the back. She just has feelings for someone else and probably feels bad and doesn't know how to communicate that. Most women are as emotionally unintelligent these days as guys.
Get the fuck over her. Don't hang out with her, tell your mutual mates that you two had planned on going on a date but she flaked and won't talk to you anymore and now it's awkward.
level 34.... is it good or bad?
i don't know...
I got a 29
>>714873316
The fact you said level means you're a no life gamer
24 not bad. Problem is that I live alone and have very little contact with other people. I'm at my happiest when alone. I don't even play that many multiplayer videogames because I have to interact with others in some way. Should I be sad?
>>714873137
This sort of thing happens whenever I try for a relationship, and I even told her how I felt about trusting people. I understand what you're saying, but it seems like she was acting genuine for the sake of getting me to trust her
got 37 on the quiz btw
>>714864867
33.
its pretty bad.
16 master race reporting in
34.
>>714864867
29 Moderate
The deal is I dont mind to be alone at all.
I go out alone, do stuff alone.
I hate kids, relationships drain me, giving other poeple attention bores me.
The only time I got annoyed is when there is too many couples around or when there is people talking about sex and girlfriends all the time with me.
>>714873417
no life could be possible, but not a really a gamer...
more animufag and hiki...
>score 30
>I think that's pretty normal
>read through
>people with scores of 35+ talking about killing themselves
Extremely lonely
This thread is depressing
Is 24 a bad number?
>>714867810
This site is 18+
>>714874043
Thats pretty good for 4chan
I got 18, get you boys some friends ;)
>>714864867
Eh. Could be worse...
i got a 40 and that's not as high as It should be, if the options went higher than "often" maybe "majority of the time to all the time" I'd have checked that for
shut out and excluded
difficult for you to make friends
Starved for company
How often do you feel completely alone
unable to reach out and communicate with those around you
How often do you feel you cannot tolerate being so alone
And pretty much all of them.
Doctors do not care, they give you endless blockers or ssri's, then they give you leaflets and hotlines to call on the NHS and that's all. If I tell them I want to kill myself then I will be forced to have an evaluation and then be committed... so fuck that. FUck everything. high on xanax and smoking some weed right now. Sunday just like any other day. least the simpsons is on. My favorite episode "Lisa's first word"
>>714866714
fucker
>>714866449
Pretty sure its the iphone browser
>>714874217
17 nigga
...
Just a REMINDER to all you folks, just because you are along doesn't mean you're lonely.