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>2 years since we broke up >haven't spoken since >neither

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>2 years since we broke up
>haven't spoken since
>neither of us know if the other is alive
>going through my closet
>see bag of stuff in there
>knick knacks I got from her with our time together
>standard shit : plushies, bracelets, etc

>find a book, hadn't seen it before
>heart fucking drops
>it's Norwegian Wood
>remembered that I saw it with her
>she cried through that movie
>flick through it
>she has outlined and highlighted the entire book
>little notes, like how the book is different than the movie here
>flicking through, a note suddenly falls out
>pick it up and read it

"(Anon), I hope you find as much enjoyment out of this book as I did. Remember when we watched the movie together? This time, please read it to me. I love hearing your voice reading to me. I will always love you, no matter what."

>mfw I died on the inside
>mfw I'm still dead on the inside

Appreciate what you have, anons. Appreciate it while you still have it.
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>>705049587
It's time to an hero when you're that low
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This OC?
You'll get over it. I did.
Things could be worse. You could be a 30 year old wizard like my friend.
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>>705050217
Err... I mean.
Buck up buck-a-roo.
Things will be okiely dokely super duper in no time at all.
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>>705049587
right in the feels
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So naive.
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>>705050217
I wish it was copypasta.
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>>705049587
why you two broke up
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>>705049587
yeah i was gonna tell you to fuck off, but goddamit you got me. that shit hurts so much
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>>705050633
Relationship went down the shitter after 5 years.
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>>705049587
Feel u man
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>>705049587

>been 3 years since she left me
>only person I ever loved
>only actual friend I had
>she went to a mental hospital
>came out and refused to speak to me
>occasionally read through the notes we passed during highschool
>have to occasionally ask her family how she is
>she developed schizophrenia

Fuck my life.
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>>705050836
Why don't you call her?
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you gotta throw all that shit away
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We all deal with heartbreak fag, don't let it consume you. Worry about you and work on yourself before you start stressin over a bitch
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Find her, anon. Anything is possible
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>>705049587
Burn it, all.
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>>705050949
wow you made a girl schizo
nice
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>>705051003

Spoken like a true poet.
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>>705049587
Anon, May be is a good time to call her... seems that you guys got really close, what can you lose at this point?
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>>705049587
Don't worry bro. I be maken sure she well taken care of.

t. Jamal
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>>705051059
this or throw that shit away asap
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Here's a picture, since you all like proof.
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>>705050949
impressive
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>>705051280
Totaly agree
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>>705051254
I'm like judge mathis, I spit that truth in a language these kids can understand
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>>705051280
don't do that
just move on /b/ro
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>>705049587

I'm always surprised how lightly we use the phrase "love you forever"

It doesn´t means anything in the end. Just try to move on and cherish the happy moments you both shared
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>>705051408
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>>705050951
>>705051021
>>705051280

Can't. Changed numbers and moved away.

I could find her via Facebook or Twitter, but I won't. I've lost and given up.
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>>705049587
I threw that type of shit away a couple years ago and still can't get over it
life sucks major dick
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>>705051059
THIS
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>>705051218
>>705051429
Thanks
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>>705051408
oh god, i mean right in the feels. even though she has ugly ass handwriting, cause i mean she really does
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>>705049587
>Appreciate what you have, anons.
>Appreciate it while you still have it.
I still have my virginity and let me tell you, I don't really appreciate it.
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>>705049587
>was in high school
>lovely gf
>was sweet, caring, and gorgeous
>sophomore year my little brother committed suicide
>that same year when I needed her most, she dumped me
>failed at all my suicide attempts
>went to mental hospital
>got out just fine
>stupidly went back to her for some reason, even though we have broken up and got back together before
>eventually couldn't take it anymore and sent her a note saying I never wanted to speak to her again
>never heard from her since

I don't know if I should hate her. It's weird because I feel like I should hate her, but then again I don't want to...
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>>705051443

You're doing the lord's work
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>>705051878
Means you might give it to someone worthwhile.
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>>705051627
any common friend? I'd been in a relationship for to much time then we broken up for 1.5 years, now we're married, sex is awesome
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>>705051598
except when you do mean it, its just that the other person doesnt
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>>705051956
At this point I'll probably just fuck a whore.
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>>705052203
that is not what you should do, anon

that is what you MUST do

an ugly whore, with one titty bigger than the other. that is imperative
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>>705049587
Jesis fucking christ, two years? Get the fuck over it already
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>>705052340
yeahh fucking whores is totally imperative, dont be a fag
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>>705049587
Sigh, thanks OP. I hadn't thought about her in a while.

>lonely jerk off
>get drunk and post a male for female post on craigslist
>get a response from a girl who lives close to me
>shes into shit that I'm into. Even likes the fucking tyranids
>start out as fuck buddies and work up to dating
>shes in college and crashes her car twice coming to see me
>her parents hate me. Obviously I'm the reason for her doing badly in school
>we grow apart and instead of understanding what she was going through, i got greedy and said if she wasn't with me as much as I wanted I couldn't be with her
>break up with her
>realize my mistake, become a depressed alcoholic, finally dig myself out of my hole, move on after 2 or 3 years
>moving out of my roommates place and move my dresser, find a drawn picture she made for me
>cream.jpg
>the feels come back
>after that the scab never healed

OPs got the right of it, you don't know what you have until its gone.
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>>705052502
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Why did you break up?
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>>705052483

you quit being a fag

the man wants to fuck whores, let him fuck whores goddamn
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>>705049587
Why you broke up?
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>>705052758
>>705050836
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>>705050949
>>705050949

know this is genuinely sad, bacause this is nobodies fault...

the only thing I can say is that she made you a favor mate, she knew what was comming and I tell you, you dodged a bullet
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>>705050836
Should've read the book to her faggot
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>>705053035
> you dodged a bullet

THIS ANON.
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>>705053132
I should have.
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>>705050406
>Buck up buck-a-roo.
>Buck up buck-a-roo.
>Buck up buck-a-roo.
BUCK
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>>705051893

Nah /b/ro, girls like that can fuck right off. If she left you when you needed her the most, and hasn't responded back, then she has no real desire for it.

Girls like that are total wastes of oxygen, but sooner you realize they give no fuck, the better you shouldn't either.
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>>705053132

lawl
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>>705050836
I dunno man. Relationships are messed up these days. It used to be that you'd have a brief courting period then shit or get off the pot. Now people just hang around in "dating" limbo for years then drift because there's no more tingles left. Never mind commitment, starting a family or anything or God forbid growing up and becoming adults together. Just float around in perpetual adolescence with now real purpose or meaning in life. It's depressing. There would have been a time where being together for 5 years without having been married yet would seam absurd. And really it is absurd.
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>>705053035
>>705053209
Thanks guys. I'll try to think of it this way.
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>>705053354
>no real purpose
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>>705049587
>17 years since we broke up
>because she's dead
get over it faggot
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>>705053490
I'm sorry for your loss, anon.
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>>705050518
A shot from that angle probably wouldn't be instantly lethal
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>>705053247
It's not that she didn't respond back, it's that she was practically whoring around when she wasn't with me. Literally the same day she broke up with me, she "happened" to get asked out by another guy, and of course said yes.
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>>705053354

It takes 7 years to supposedly get to know someone, yet ya look at it, most these days don't usually last more then 4. People get in a real hurry, and worst, you got parents fucking pressuring to marry and have grandkids asap.

It's a confusing rabbit hole, I say I'd rather be single then be played a fool again.
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track down her number and when she picks up dont even say hi, just start reading the book to her
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>Yeah and a half after we split
>Get random phone call from out of province
>It's her
>Small talk, catching up on stuff
>Nice to finally get some closure
>FF a year
>She comes home to attend her grandmother's funeral
>Messages me at 3am
>We agree to meet up
>Walking through town, taking the same I always took when we used to meet when we first started dating
>Flood of memories come back to me
>Repress emotions, but deep down I'm dying
>Meet her in our old meet up spot
>Damn what a beautiful creature
>Why did I ever let her go
>Smell whisky
>She's drinking a flask of Captain Morgan straight out of the bottle
>Ask her why
>We go to her place, actually her shed since she's staying with her parents
>Turned into massive alcoholic
>Full blown crazy
>Dropped like 60 pounds since I last seen her, probably weighed like 90 pounds soaking wet
>But yet, I still wanted her back
>She's borderline crying the entire time
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>>705053606
>I say I'd rather be single then be played a fool again.

Me too. The thing is I think the reason so many of us are played like that is because of a cultural collapse at the hands of horrible cultural marxist / feminist long march through the institutions of our institutions. It's made people jaded, selfish and nihilistic. When the world is running down you make the best of what's still around.
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>>705053749

no bro. just no

this isnt a goddamn 80s movie
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Get the fuck over it. Only advice worth a shit ITT
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>>705053749
That wouldn't end well.
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>>705053581
That sounds familiar bro. Almost the same thing happened with me. I won't go into the boring details put pretty sure she was out fucking the night after she dumped me. Cold man.
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>Live and depend on someone else to feel anything at the worst point in my life
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>
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>Get cucked
>Cant feel anything anymore
>Develop Panic Attacks and many other severe mental illnesses
>Huge downwards spiral and im broke as fuck
Time to kill myself?????
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>>705053606

you and i both know it doesnt take 7 goddamn years to know someone

5 years of dating and no engagement screams no commitment
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>>705053849
>Eventually breaks down and starts bawling
>Talking about how I'm her first for everything
>Her first real boyfriend
>The first person she ever fell for
>The first person to really make her feel anything
>The first person she ha sex with
>The first person she thought she would marry
>The feels are too much, repress them again
>We walk for a few hours, interrupted by sporadic breakdowns
>She's fall to the ground sobbing hysterically
>Also hammered drunk
>I'd grab her arm and help her up
>She's hold me tight like she did those years ago when we were together
>We eventually depart
>I still think of her a lot, even almost 4 years after we split
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>>705054034
Sounds like me and my recent drunk messaging. That shit will fuck you up man. Gotta get a shred of dignity back at some point.
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>>705053529
hey you know

it only took about 17 years to pull all my pieces back together and I only seriously hurt maybe a dozen people in the process

and now it will hurt forever, even as I go on with my life and maybe find someone else
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>>705049587
So very much pic related. Look forward, OP, not backward.
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>>705054122
Commitment is subjective. It isn't about time spent.

You could spend years with someone yet never be committed or you could spend 5 minutes with someone and give them your all.
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>>705053354
>>705053606

> met her at 16.
> married her at 18.
> had only kid at 22.
> been married 8 years.

I guess I'm weird.
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Y-Ya gotta listen to me /b/. Love is nothing more then a chemical reaction that happens inside our bodies that compels us to mate. It hits ya hard, then slowly fades, leaving in stranded in a failing marriage. Break the cycle /b/, focus on science.
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>>705054045
Yeah... We'd been together for 3 years. The most I got from her was a bj. Not one to mention something like that all the time, but it turns out not even a year after we broke up, she actually had a kid... Which is really fucked up... I went on a blind rage that night and had to drink some wine to calm my shit. I will never forgive her for what she did... I want her to suffer, but then again I don't... The more I think about her, the more I hate her.... She literally manipulated me through our entire relationship... and I was too blind to see it...
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>>705054528
psh I bet your parents weren't even alcoholics
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>>705054528
No you're sane. Good on you for avoiding the cultural dystopia.
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>>705054623
they drink a bunch but don't get drunk.
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>>705054577
You can't spell science without conscience.
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>>705051408
Call her, start reading book.
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>>705054577
says the guy who keeps his deformed wife cryogenically frozen while he's crippled with alcoholism at his inability to help her in any way, knowing that even if he travels through time to undo his mistake he could just go back to the timeline where she was mutated and find her still there, suffering after he abandoned her.
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>>705054783
>>705054034
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>>705054528
Shit nigger

>met at 16
>dated at 17
>kid and marriage at 22
>we're 25 now with another on the way
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>>705049587
holy fuck this broke my heart, dude you fucking hold on and try to give yourself a better life, go working out, anything, Idk if I'm just high as fuck but this brought me to tears, the saddest shit I've EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE.
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>>705054750
my parents are still children

once they're both retired maybe they'll go full circle
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>>705054607
I know that feel. But really you need to stop giving a fuck about it. And so do I. Just a matter of learning to pay more attention to red flags along the way. Lord knows I ignored some shocking ones. For that part we have only ourselves to blame.
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>>705054500

okay, but after spending several years with a woman 9 times out of 10 shes waiting on a proposal or else shes thinking the relationship is not one for the books
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>>705049587
I really wasn't expecting to feel anything when I came on to /b/ tonight. Damn
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>>705054849
>this anon just used a Rick and Morty quote
>he must be Rick incarnate
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Why do we always fall for the girls with shitloads of problems /b/? Why can't it ever be a well-adjusted girl with ambitions and hobbies?
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>>705054995
You're assuming that I didn't propose.

I gave her my mother's ring in proposal. In an mall full of people. On my knees. She accepted.

She still has the ring to this day. Never gave it back.
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>>705055156
Because everyone is slightly broken, in one way or another. Those who aren't are just pretending.
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>>705049587
Iktf so much OP. It sucks so bad. It took me almost 4 years to finally get over an ex I dated for 6 years. Despite having 2 serious relationships after the fact and yada yada. It took me so long because I'm the one who fucked everything up. Forgiving yourself isn't easy. You will get past this though. Ily /b/ro
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>>705055156
>girl
>well-adjusted
>ambitions
>hobbies
riiight
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>>705055156
Ambitions? That can be a bad sign in a woman if it's career shit. Ambition to be a good submissive wife and mother who accepts that you're the boss? Now that's what I'm talking about. Probably have to be Amish to find that these days though.
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>>705055135
you do know what a quote is right?
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>>705054949
Sadly true. Doesn't help when you have the lowest self esteem out of all the people you know, either... That whole experience made me not give a flying fuck about a lot of shit. I don't give a shit about probably 90% of the things I hear or read about. I'm mostly emotionless. I feel if I choose to.
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>>705055248
yeah. like this guy:
>>705054528
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>>705055156
because you know all those women are too good for you
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>>705054528
Life is a long time, you never know what'll happen.
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>>705054607
I had a very similar situation, though not quite as long a relationship. But you know what? It gets better. While I was drinking my sorrows away a good friend of mine stepped up and we have been in a happy relationship since. And my whore of an ex? She got knocked up and had a kid at 22 with a guy she had been with for only a few months. Meanwhile, my lady and I play music together, go camping and fishing and generally just enjoy life. She is the best thing to ever happen to me.

Things get better, my /b/rothers, although sometimes you just have to try and grit your teeth and be patient.
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>>705049587
Do something to signify you've moved on. I don't mean dating or anything, but it's in your best interest to get rid of things that remind you of her.

I had a similar situation. 4 year relationship, year 3 she moved away and we were good for almost 18 months, but things fell apart.

We kept sending each other things through the post, and I had so much of her shit when we decided to split up. We ended up donating some of the important stuff to the Museum of Broken Relationships in Los Angeles, and our shit was a temporary installation there.

I gave a tin of balm she had pressed her lips into. She gave (I shit you not) a pair of my boxers she liked to wear as pajamas.

A while after we found our shit was on display, we went to the museum together. It was cathartic, and we're on good terms now. She's married with a kid, and I'm concentrating on my career.

Do something to signify your new beginning. Give the book to a public library, leaving the note in. Send the book back to her. Or just throw away the whole bag.
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I empathize, OP. It's not easy seeing someone you love everyday because you work with them, knowing they won't try to talk to you, knowing they're with someone worst than you, but you can't stop it.

I'm on medication because of her and she doesn't care.
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>>705055402
Sounds like you might find some help here.

https://markmanson.net/not-giving-a-fuck

Lots of other good advice on that blog.
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>>705049587
The feel man <3. Time will make it better anon. - good friend once told me when I was in a bad place with something similar. Just focus on yourself and what your doing don't dwell and think about the other person, it's all about you now mate and yeah it isn't easy but life is what you make it. I bet your still young man trust me there will be some1 else out there for u dude! Life is what YOU make it. Grab life by the balls and make yo self happy
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>>705049587
feel it. grieve for it. cry like a bitch if you have to. i dont know the cause/details of your breakup or who did it. but if you think it's at all possible to talk with her one last time without it being ugly, do so.

don't be a psycho about it, let her know you miss what you had, respect that it's done, and that you are thankful for the time you spent together. tell her it's important to yourself that you do this. if theres something you need to apologize for, do it but not with the expectation of forgiveness.

>dated a girl for 8 years
>slowly drifted apart. started being just friends/fwb at the end.
>moved to another city.
>she broke up with me. i didn't care. we stayed friends
>she started dating someone else. didn't care, was happy for her
>she got engaged
>suddenely thinking of all the things we were going to do with our future, all the stuff i let slip through my fingers. all the things we never got to do
>told her i couldn't be her friend anymore
>stayed salty about it for years. treated my current relationship like shit because of it
>have small downward spiral for other reasons
>recovering. self reflection. think of her. think of her being married and happy. realize i'm not mad, i don't miss her, but I have a lot of regret and I need to say goodbye.
>write her an email, admitting how immature and manipulative i was. telling her I'm just saying goodbye, thanking her for being with me in some real hard periods. genuinely wishing her well.
>she replies with just "thanks".
>doesn't make me mad or sad, it finally feels over. finally feel i can move on.

2 years since then. im engaged, i'm wildly in love. im happy with myself, my relationship, and don't feel sour about what once was with somebody else.

i know it sounds like some made up fiction bullshit, if you dont wana believe it thats fine. just get yourself to hurt, let it go, be glad it happened.
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>>705050217
> like my friend
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>>705049587
AT LEAST SOMEONE HAS FUCKING LOVED YOU BACK FOR ONCE IN YOUR FUCKING LIFE

YOU OVERPRIVELIDGED CRYBABY
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>>705055471
>is jelly
It took me a very long time to even be able to talk to people normally after that. My future looks bleak and lonely... I guess I'm probably better off alone anyway though. I'm kind of an ass hole. Not to people I care about though. And some instances outside of people I care about.
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>>705055832
Have you ever even loved someone else? You're probably just too selfish to ever receive anyone's love.
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>>705054783
This
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>>705055582
Thanks. Will give it a read.
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>>705051408
stick that shit, along with any other sentimental shit that reminds you of her, into a box. label it something like "her" (so reading her name doesnt trigger you) and store it in the attic, closet, under bed, somewhere out of sight.

i know what its like not having the willpower to throw it all away, but you need to remove as much chance as possible of accidentally stumbling across that shit, because this is exactly what happens ("this"being the emotions that spurred this threads creation)
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>>705055167
i feel like there may be something to it if she never gave it back. is she the type of chick that would sell it

if not, i feel like you should reach out
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>>705049587
time to vocaroo yourself reading the book and get some anon to send it to her
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>>705049587
well you know what to do with all that stuff.

If it is no longer relevant, you should throw it away.

Just remember the things that made you break up.
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>>705056011
There's even an audio option if you're feeling lazy. That blog has been helping me a lot through my post breakup drunken stupor phase. Ordered the book as well.
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>>705049587

>dating a girl 7 years younger than me, angel face, pirate mouth 10/10
>we spend all day together, actually enjoyed being with each other
>spoke all day, text all the time (back in the day when every text cost you money)
>first girl I introduced to my parents
>used to talk about our future together, kids and stuff, true love
>slowly but surely we drifted away after 5 years
>I used to say i would never let her go, now I can't remember her birthday...

When I think about it I realize how futile are words and that the only thing we should long for is to find a small measure of peace in company of the ones like you.

Hope you can find it in your memories and in moments to come Anon.
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>>705055866
Me again.

I'm an asshole too, but you gotta pull yourself out of it. You know how I fixed it? I found a girl that was just as much of an asshole as you, but in a good way. Probably does not make very much sense in text, but we joke about the same fucked up shit and have the same semi-bleak outlook on life, though we are the absolute sappiest towards each other. Just remember that allowing yourself to be miserable accomplishes nothing. Funny that I used to hate when people would tell me that shit, yet here I am spouting it off like a jabroni.
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>>705051408
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>>705054783
>>705055921
Absolutely not this. She is gone, OP. Accept it and move on with your life. There are 3.5 billion other fish in the sea, and I assure you there are quite a few that are bigger, tastier, and easier to catch. Just keep casting your line and moving forward.
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>>705056274
Hah. Sounds like what I had but somehow it still went to shit. Probably a lot to do with me being a drunk and her being suicidally depressed though. That can get ugly. I will miss the laughs and sharing of a cynical and jaded sense of humour though. Oh and the sex.
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OP here.

I'll throw in some details as to what happened in between her and I.

>she cheated on me twice
>she threatened me with suicide if I left her
>I wasn't that great either after that, couldn't trust anymore
>eventually relationship got salty, argument almost everyday
>finally managed to sort shit out, proposed, got a non-shit job and an apartment
>shit you not, she breaks up with me a day before Valentine's by text
>didn't hear from her, she changed numbers and subsequently moved away
>a few months later, she contacts me, only via Twitter DM
>we talked, eventually decided to remain friends
> I was okay with it
>when I started dating another girl, she freaked out
>"I can't stand seeing other girls around you"
>dumbass me broke up with the girl I was dating for her
>a few weeks later, found out that she (original ex) has been living with her new boyfriend the whole time.
>I ended up severing all contact after that
>no Facebook, no Twitter, no nothing

Now you know why I don't want to call her, or read her the dumbass book.
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It's okay to feel sad sometimes. Never feel guilty for having emotions, however, you must not let it consume you completely.

It's okay to feel sad sometimes but not okay to feel sad at all times.
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>>705049587
Wow. Not ready for those feels. Soldier on champ.
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>>705049587
Record yourself reading it, and send it to her FB.
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>>705052502
shoulda dated a chick that likes the tau.
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>>705056543
>>705051059
He's right. Burn it, all, and record it, so you'll have the memories of destroying your memories.
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>>705056543
Fuck me dude you dodged a serious bullet. The threatening suicide thing is often a tactic of psychologically abusive people. They can berate and criticize you all they want but don't dish it back out at them because they're fragile and might off themselves.
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>>705056543
For kek's
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>>705056570
Or it's a matter of when you are sad to just think ok so I'm sad. Who gives a shit? That way it isn't the be all end all of your existence.
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>>705056178
I don't get much out of listening to things. More of a visual person. Plus I don't like being lazy anyway.

>>705056274
I don't know, man. I have some pretty bad insults... For the most part, I keep everybody the fuck out if I can help it. Minus friends and some family of course. If I found some girl that's as big of an ass hole as I am or even bigger, I feel like I'd want to know said person... Only problem is most people don't take too kindly to being called a failed abortion or a dumpster child. So after they hear that, they ignore me. Nobody has ever spoken to me after I say that to them. Probably better that way. Although I don't go around insulting random ass holes...
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>>705049587

What a shame. She was a good woman...what a rotten way to break up.
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>>705056570
That's funny because I feel perpetually sad and depressed.
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>>705056906

have you ever considered, oh I dunno, not being such a fucking piece of shit?
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>>705056543
Burn it.
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>>705052203
how old r u
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>>705057262

then just kys faggot nobody on this website genuinely cares about you
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>>705049587
can feel you.. but, and I guess this will not be the first time you hear this, you will get over it, don't make youself miserable about something that happend and you can't change anymore, build up your own life again
here take a little laugh on the way
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>>705057179
Not OP

What about when the colors change? Are you still going to want to look back at the shit that did not work out for obvious reasons? I know I sure don't. My first gf broke my heart. I spent a while pining over her, but now I am with a new girl and happier than ever. I don't even think about my old relationships until I stumble into some feels thread on /b/ like this one. I don't pretend that my first few failed relationships never happen, but I never go back looking to recall the few good feelings they provided at the time
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>>705057420
20
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>>705056543

cheats on you and says she will off herself if you break up

She sounds like a cunt, OP. Get over it.
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>>705057420
>>705057619
21 next month tbh
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>>705056201
I think you should watch the last samurai
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>>705057469
I know I'll get over it. I'm not worried about that.

I only posted here because, to be honest, I didn't have anyone else to say this to at this hour. I just wanted to get a little weight off of my chest and I'm surprised that there are still some kindhearted people on here.

I can't thank you all enough for spending a little time with me.
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>>705057679

dude your still so young calm yourself down man up and enjoy your sexual peak its not that hard
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>>705057677
A raging thunder cunt.
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>>705055478
gg
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>>705049587
quit being an asshole. comn buttercup
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>>705057742
no problem, know this times, when you just have to get something off your chest, so why not here if there's no one else.
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>>705057363
Hah, I tried once. I failed horribly. I can't stand being nice to people for too long. I insult everybody I know. They don't give a fuck. My best friend and I sometimes just sit and try to think of the most horrible and offensive insult possible.

>>705057458
Tried a few times. Doesn't seem to work. I don't care if nobody cares about me, I'm only here to see what people are saying and what I can maybe get people to say. (sarcasm) Good insult though 100% original. Never heard it before ever. (/sarcasm)
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>>705057807
>enjoy your sexual peak
Not every man thinks with their dick, anon. Some long for something more lasting than a one night stand and a "Holy shit, anon, your dick is huge"
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Just get an imaginary they always work wonders around the house BECAUSE THEY DONT FUCK UP
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>>705049587
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akKnJbFCS8E
Embrace the pain OP. It makes you human.
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>>705058012

how do you fuck up killing yourself

Jesus Christ
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Yeah, get over that shit, if you kill yourself over pussy, you'll go to cuck hell
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>>705049587
I feel ya, when that spark really is there nothing can really fill the void. Just gotta keep going and try not to sulk about it
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We hurt and we get hurt. Better to feel something than nothing. Get the fuck over it. Faggot cry baby cunt.
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>>705058077

Not everyone does, but holy fucking jumping Jesus it's better than crying over the same manipulative girl for two goddamned years

Unless you really enjoy being such a beta which is probably why she cheated on OP initially
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>>705058300
I KNOW, RIGHT!?
It only makes me feel like more of a failure.
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>>705049587

boofuckinghoo

Mine g/f, after a decade being together, stole my emergency savings and maxed my paid of credit card, then ditched me...the day after I got laid off during the great recesson.

Took me 6yrs to fully recoup. Had to move in with family on the other side of the U.S. (lost 2/3 of everything I own because couldn't afford to move it.

Then she sent me an email a few years later with hi-res images of her wedding...on Xmas.

All my life I never trusted anyone because I knew people will fuck you over if they feel they have to. I had NO excuse. I shouldn't have thought she was my best friend.

I won't make that mistake again. You won't either if you know what's good for you OP. If you do, and you get fucked like me, you will be surrounded by people who either feel nothing but pity or laugh at you for it.
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>>705049587

Faggot
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>>705058477
I agree, OP needs to move the fuck on. But fucking every girl with a vagina while his dick is still hard is probably not the answer he's looking for.
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>>705057704
?????
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>>705049587
well op, i just started dating again with my ex, 3 years relationship that went down the shitter, she dumped me, i was destroyed, unemployed, living with my parents again (at 31), started pulling my shit together, got a job (shitty one, but i need the money), started working out, and for some reason I posted on facebook about burning down every one of the things that had a meaning for the relation, she texted me the next day and we have been dating again. we were apart for 6 months, but in this time i realized i dont need her to be happy, if she wants she is welcome, but if not i will keep on doing my shit and being happy
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>>705049587
What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. You’re fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fucking dead, kiddo.
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>>705060465
tldr?
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>I love you
>I will never leave you i couldn't imagine life without you
>We are probably gonna get married
>Your like my soulmate and my best friend
>I love you more than anyone or anything i've ever come across in my entire life
>I promise i'll always be yours
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>>705049587
Hadn't spoken with my long distance ex for three years. We never met in real life, but we had a blast playing games and Skype calling together. Needless to say, messaged her on her Facebook profile I found telling her to take care and how much she meant to me. Felt good nigga. Seek her out and tell her that she's special.
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>>705061148

Except that's terrible advice considering she was abusive to OP. Let the feelings die just like this thread
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