How to meet girls at uni? Approaching randomly on campus would be weird
If someone did it to me I'd think they were weird
I dunno. I have pretty bad social anxiety so probably.
That's weird though. I don't need directions so I don't know what I'd ask. And just randomly complimenting something after is weird
Ask a girl for directions or something. Before you say thanks and leave, tell her you think she's pretty or something like that and ask her if she wants to get coffee with you. Pretty easy in my opinion.
I don't know how I'd do it. Also I know how to get everywhere. Also everyone's always with other people and I don't know if I could approach someone unless they were alone
Your problem isn't needing to know where to meet girls, it's needing to know how to talk to girls in general.
This is a problem that is only ever remedied by trying and failing, several times. If you aren't willing to try then just stop worrying about it and hope something falls in your lap.
Or find your opportunity and capitalize. Check for vulnerability.
>just out of high school
>ready to take on the world, one clit at a time
>go to a uc in cali, won't say which one but i'll tell you it was loaded with asian pussy
>head to eco classes, not sure what the fuck i want my major to be yet, still have room to adapt
>eating some dank ass chipotle
>sit next to qt3.14 asian chick, possibly filipina
>shy as fuck
>wonder "how will i do this"
>come up with a plan
>drop pencil on purpose
>"excuse me could you get that for me"
>she's wearing tight jeans, her ass is fucking huge i can still feel its presence to this day
>she hands the pencil back to me
>go to say thanks
>holy fuck did i just say tanks
>she looks at me like "did he just say tanks"
>holy fuck i said tanks
>try hard not to say anything else
>2awk, go to restroom with backpack and rest of my food
>pull myself together, try hard not to be a fucking tool again
>holy fuck she's like a few feet away from the restrooms, did she follow me?
>of course she didn't
>"fuck this i'll be a man anyway"
>walk up to her, standing tall and shit with correct posture like i read to do in a normie article
>she looks at me
>i look at her
>open my mouth
>"hey i just wanted to ask..."
>she looks confused
>i haven't said anything after "ask"
>this goes on for like 5 seconds
>she just walks away
>suddenly i have a feeling in my stomach
>oh please no
>i'm going to shit myself
>suddenly, she's walking back
>please stop go away
>inches away from me
It was at this moment, the fragrance of hour old digested chipotle had ejected itself from my bowels and had entered into the nostrils of the cute filipina girl from eco. She snorted, gagged, I thought she was going to die, she didn't btw.
Hence, OP, what I mean to say is, don't eat Chipotle.
you're an absolute faggot. If you can't just tell a girl she's cute and then chat a bit compliment her say 'lets hang out, whats your number' then you should an hero yourself. Just type in 'picking up girls at college' on youtube.
Both of these were hilarious for me
Defeat the fear of rejection. Don't worry OP I'm in the same boat. I know what to do and am slowly working on it but its usually the worry of embarrassing myself or getting rejected by someone I may or may not see occasionally.
If you want I can recommend youtubers who help a lot. Other than that, its just about manning up and entering that "fuck it" mind set where you do it and don't give a shit if you fail. Just move on and on to the next one.
its literally the easiest situation for talking to women you will ever face in your life.
1) you share classes with them. thats a built in shared point of interest. its a gift wrapped conversation starter.
2) you live on top of eachother in close communities. you see eachother on a new daily basis. even without talking familiarities are already built.
3) everyones drunk and looking to explore freedom. I'm not saying take advantage of drunk chicks. I'm just saying have a beer and stop thinking about it so damn much.
>1) you share classes with them. thats a built in shared point of interest. its a gift wrapped conversation starter.
Barely any girls in my Computer science/math double degree. Maybe a few unattractive/annoying ones
>2) you live on top of eachother in close communities. you see eachother on a new daily basis. even without talking familiarities are already built.
I don't live on campus
>3) everyones drunk and looking to explore freedom. I'm not saying take advantage of drunk chicks. I'm just saying have a beer and stop thinking about it so damn much.
I should probably go to the bars on campus. Have maybe been twice, just to walk through or find someone
posting when thread gets near page 11 as i want to read more tips/experiences
Preferably I'd like to be able to get with someone as kawai as pic related