Okay /b/, I'm lost, I have no idea. What the fuck does it take to make a girl cum during sex.
I have a gf of eight years, only girl I ever had, and I've not once made her cum by fucking.
I try, I fucking try. I try all positions and angles, I know her anatomy better than my own by now, I know how to angle myself, I can fuck gently, I can jackhammer her non-stop for 30 minutes and everything in between. I make sure my hands are never idle, I include her whole body in the act.
And it's still not enough, I can't even get her to move, she just lays still, moaning or biting her pillow, but never feels good enough to move into me.
What is left for me to do anons? I'm at a total fucking loss.
She's probably not comfortable enough around you. From what I've learned, females tend to have an orgasm while they're on top. They like it deep, not so much in and out. Tell her to get her shit together and to stop being so god damn lazy.
But, it's your job to make YOU cum? Where the fuck did the logic go? You're going to have to be more assertive, anon. Sex is a team effort, if she's not willing to go at least 40% than you should find somebody else that will.
ive made every girl I've ever been with cum and I'm working with regular equipment.
Make out, tease the pussy, don't insert anything right away
Fore play matters, finger bang her for a while, if you don't know how to properly finger a girl, google that shit. It involves the summoning motion
The best position is gonna be her on top, she's gotta ride u in what feels best for her, leaned back squiggly whatever. She should have a spot that feels better than just having a dick in her, once she finds that spot, exploit it
Communicate with her find out where her sensitive areas are, nape of neck, ears, feet, find them and use them, but don't overuse them. Also you might wanna ask her if she feels like she's building towards orgasm or even feel like she's coming close, if that's the case you may want to focus more on foreplay or use a condom
Honestly every woman is different and it usually takes me a couple of tries to figure out how the next one works, once you do get it it's easy.
>>675647526 What are you 14? You don't know what you're talking about.
>>675647233 Get her good and wet. Slide your middle two fingers up insider her, curl them upward hitting the G-spot; its right where your faggot ass should already know its at. Start rubbing it. Don't slide your fingers in and out of her like a faggot. The hand doing the dirty work should look like a spider-man comic. Curl those middle fingers in like your trying to shot web. move them side to side a little. As she gets more into it, apply pressure to that motherfucking g-spot. Extreme fucking pressure, like you're trying to rip her fucking pelvis off. She'll let you know if you hurt her. You won't, because you're a week-ass faggot. You will eventually make her cum tho.
>>675646270 if she cant cum, thats her problem not yours,
it could be many things, ranging from your dick size to her confidence, comfort, feet being cold(it happens socks fix this), her being lazy, not that into you, being a whore with a worn out pussy, or used to bigger,
easyest way to find out and fix is to lay down boner up, tell her to get ontop and make herself cum, if she cant ontop keep switching positions till she finds a good one she likes, but she has to do the work, she needs to know what makes her cum and learn to stop being lazy, you have to fuck eachother, not one person laying there -kinda into it-
From my experience there are a few women who just don't get off. I can relate being a real life Aspiefag my junk is desensitized. a condom for me resulted in 3 hours of boring sex and a dick that wouldnt stay hard. most women I have been with except 3 I could get off multiple times. and i am working with 5 1/2inch girth and 6 1/2 inch length
>>675648014 >She says it's not her job to get her to cum
If she doesn't give a fuck then why should you? Do whatever makes your dick feels good and until she starts caring, how she feels doesn't matter.
Seriously, there's no point preparing some prime piece of steak for someone who's just going to cover it in ketchup and leave half of it on the plate. Not only do you feel bad, but it doesn't make the slightest bit of difference to her.
>>675646270 If she's not doing her job, nothing you do will do anything. For girls, it's a mental thing, besides the fact that most girls don't get off on vaginal penetration alone. Of course, you could go and strap a bullet (the sex toy, don't go and use a real one like a retarded shit) to her clit and pound her while you're at it. But if she's a dead fish, there's not much you can do.
>>675646270 Most girls don't cum from intercourse alone, this is a universal fact. You need to eat or finger. Stimulation of the clot is how to get a girl to cum. Ive had it happen a couple times during sex and every girl is like "wtf was that feeling"? They've never had it before from sex and they all said it feels a lot different.
Jesus Christ you have a fat lazy gf who expects you to do the work when she isn't even into it. Are you even attracted to her sexually? Or is she with you? I mean, my ex was about the same, lazy ass in bed and starfished a lot but she still came really hard. It fucking sucks having that pressure never making someone cum i imagine. Honestly i would evaluate your relationship by yourself and then with her and find out what's going on. If not I would move on, not just for the basis of sex but with how that sex life will ruin you both into hating eachother. God speed OP
imagine this op, if you both had the same mindset, she doesnt care about cumming or making you cum, if you did the same how would your sex life be? if she cant be arsed to do herself or you, why should you care?
tell her to sort it out or you will fuck her off, stop caring or even trying untill she starts to make an effort, lazy bitches arnt worth it
>>675646270 Do you touch her? Foreplay? You need these things. They want this. Touch her clit, lick her pussy and grab her tits all at once. Put your fingers in her pussy angle them up a bit and rub quickly and vigorously. Also A certain percentage of woman can not cum. So look up the percentage and tell her she is SOL.
>>675651069 Get a pocket pussy. Start using that, and eventually she'll find out. If her reaction is bad, tell her to stop acting like a dead fish in bed. If it's good, dump her and keep the pocket pussy.
>>675651334 >tie her up >fuck her as you please >creampie >leave room >landwhale screaming at you to untie her >"not until you cum you fat bitch" >problem solved she has to eat sooner or later. probably sooner considering shes a fat selfish bitch
>>675646270 It's not you, it's her. Sounds like she not only has difficulty reaching orgasm in general, but is also lazy in bed. The average sized cock is only like 5.5-6" hard, so your fine in that department. Best thing you can do is get a new chick. Preferably one who isn't a fucking starfish in bed. Tell her to shape up or ship out.
Rub her clit while you fuck her. Might cramp your hand a little, but it'll work. Just use a thumb in quick circles in rhythm with the fuckin'.
Truth be told, she obviously has intimacy issues. It's not normal to refuse to move around or enjoy yourself while sexing. Maybe she has a bad past or something as simple as body image issues that keep her from being able to enjoy herself. Don't take it personally, she's got to get her shit figured out.
Worst case - get some molly. That'll do the trick.
>>675646270 don't listen to those virgins OP. i've been in the same situation. The truth is around 1/3 of women is unable to reach orgasm through the penetration. just deal with it, you can make her cum with rubbing her clit etc. but no matter how hard you try, she probably won't ever cum while you or hypotetically someone else fucks her. i've had a gf of 3 years and i thought there's something wrong with me, but now i fucked 5 girls and made 3 cum, even multiple times. that's just her anatomy, not much you can do here. also 3/4 of women admit that orgasm is NOT the most important thing about sex. if she's 8 years with you, you probably do a good job, get over it.
>>675646270 My gf is a fucking puzzle. To get her off, I start fucking her really slowly with like 2 inches of dick, meanwhile rubbing her clit and gently licking around her nipples. When she starts to clamp down on my dick, I stop thrusting, increase clit rubbing, give her nip a bite. As soon as she makes the first O moan, slam balls deep and fuck her as hard as you can. It's a fucking challenge, but it works every time.
>>675646270 Motherfucker I'm packing a 3 inch cock when rock solid. I have had multiple sexual partners of multiple weights and every one of them has come from intercourse.
You gotta get in there and bury your pelvic bone on her clit and grind that shit like it was going to save your life. It helps to get the angle right to be tickling her Gspot, too. I'm sure it's easier with more length, but 1) it's not like I picked this thing out and 2) you work with what you're given.
>>675647738 def big enough.. i'm 7.3x 5.2 and I made this tinder girl cum last night LOL. And we only fucked for like 25 min, ate her out and back and forth jack hammered from the back and front. It's probably just her anon. Try being more rough with her, chicks love that
>>675655116 I don't know dude, I do exactly what you said, she enjoys herself and I leave her speechless at the end, but she never cums.
>>675655285 I did, took me a year to pry out of her that she likes a knife to her throat, or being tied up. She claims to have no other kinks and absolutely refuses to even discuss mine, she feels my kinks are just for me and my fantasies, not for reality.
Still, even with a knife to her throat and in cuffs, she can't cum.
I'm 200 lbs and my husband can't make me come and our sex life is still great, because I'm not a total bitch about it. There is absolutely zero indication that she cares about you from what you've said. She's entitled, resentful, and it sounds like she has some serious mental issues. She might have legitimate physical issues too - there's a physical reason I can't orgasm.
But bottom line is there is nothing you can do to please her and she doesn't seem to care whether or not you're okay. If you enjoy being with each other every way except sexually (which, given her attitude I doubt) simply ask for an open relationship. Do the stuff you like together, together, and agree to fuck different people. If she says that's unfair or cheating just... yeah. Stop fucking her and start SAYING 'fuck her' and get the hell out of dodge.
>>675656272 she has aspergers, dude. i dont know what else to say at this point. youve already heard all the "shes selfish, mean, doesnt care, etc." and you just sit there and bask in your own self-loathing, asking yourself whats wrong. whats wrong is youre with a piece of shit abusive human being, no other way around it. who gives a fuck about making her cum when she doesnt give a fuck about you or what you think, and treats you like shit if you do something she doesnt like. you know what normal people do when shit like that happens? they talk about it. they dont get violent and talk shit to you. the inferiority youre feeling is a symptom of the abusive relationship. im being dead serious. look up the symptoms of being emotionally abused and tell me it doesnt fit your relationship and how you feel exactly
I guess it's not your fault from what I've read above xD If she doesn't try as hard as you do, she'll never ever reach it. Tell her not to ne so lazy to just lay on the bed and get fucked, she has to be doing something as well.
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