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Did I go overboard in this situation? >have gf for just over

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Did I go overboard in this situation?

>have gf for just over 2 years
>lives with me
>be last week
>see messages of her flirting with some guy on fb
>insecurity lvl 9001
>confront her
>see instant guilt & regret in her
>be mad, not tolerating this
>never let her back inside once I found out
>destroy everything of hers she left here (clothes, furniture, girly shit)
>find out she's staying in her sisters garage
>fill my car with the destroyed rubbish
>drop it all in her sisters driveway
>blocked/cut off all contact with her

last time I saw her was when I unloaded her last lot of stuff, she was crying that she's sorry. I completely ignored her. Now it's a few days later & over 70 missed calls, I'm starting to question if I went a bit too far with how I reacted. What does /b/ think?
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Why would she be so guilty over just flirting? How dare that whore live on your dime and desire another man
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Mate you did what you had to do
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That would have been acceptable if she legitimately cheated on you, so yeah you went overboard. Ring her and pay for her destroyed stuff dumbass.
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Don't question your actions; fuck her.
Trust me on this one mango: bitches who flirt behind your back are not worth your time. Now get to the gym, eat healthy, get alpha and slam some nasty cunts
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Is flirting even cheating?
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It'll all blow over eventually
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>>675613072
She's a fuck around mate, she only wants you back because she can't have you and you acted like a man.
She'll be upto her same shit if she get's back with you and she'll use it as an oppurtunity and game to gain your trust while trying to crush whatever confidence you have all while looking for new meat to play with.

Bottom line is you lose if you take her back, go fuck her sister or friend or something.
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Sounds like you had a good reason to do it. No such thing as overreacting if it seemed like a good idea at the time. Break ups are never easy m8.
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sharpie in pooper op
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>>675613271
Beta faggot
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>>675613417
Is a ducks ass water tight?
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No. You didn't go overboard. What you did had to be done. Otherwise, what she did would escalate.I wish I would've done what you did years ago.
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>>675613271
Ring? You really are fucking stupid anon.
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>>675613417
Is the pope catholic?
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>>675613072
The only way in which you overreacted was destroying her things. Everything else is as it should be. Good on ya mate
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You did overeact. I mean imagine if the rolls were flipped. You wouldn't want your girl destroying your shit just because you were talking to some girl and then throwing it all on the ground in the only place she has left. I mean you don't have to get back with her, just apologize and acknowledge that you went overboard.
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>>675613387

kek
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>>675613072
destroying her shit was a little overboard. the fact she was guilty means she probably fucked the dude, which means destroying her shit wasn't in fact, overboard.

you stopped an ember before it became a forest fire.
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>>675613417
Was Helen Keller bad at archery?
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>>675613860

no, guilty does not mean she actively cheated. When I was in a failing relationship that I knew was going to end anyway and flirted with some guy online, and I mind you, it was light flirting (nothing sexual), I felt guilty as hell.

So feeling regret/guilt does not always mean cheating.
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>>675613417
Is my cock small?
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>>675613072
I wish I could be as strong as you OP.
Not even kidding.
Think of the many who have not the courage and willpower that you do.
Remember this, it is wrong to question whether or not we have gone too far.

If there is indecision between two things, just flip a coin. If you don't know already what you want as the coin is landing, then you will know what you want when you see the side it's landed upon.

Steady waters my friend.
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>>675613417
>>675613569
>>675613681
>>675613867
kekking
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"any emotion of sincere is involuntary"
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you're my hero
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>>675614056
>probably

you don't know how to read, do you?
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>>675613072
no
pretty based actually
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>>675614056
Tits or gtfo
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>>675613072
You went too far. It's understandable for you to dump her after that, but completely smashing her into a broken mental state so that she will probably never be able to trust anyone again is too much. Talk it over with her.
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>>675613072
Just like Hitler, you did nothing wrong.
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>>675613271
said the virgin
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>>675614056
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Most of the woman-hating /b/tard will tell you you did nothing wrong.

The answer is simple: It's your relationship, you draw the lines. You say flirting with someone else is too much? It's something you wouldn't do if you were given the chance? Well, then you're free to end your relationship over this.
Will it ever be your right to "destroy" her personal stuff because you go jellymad over some faggot on facebook? No.
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>>675614367

would be fine if you stopped your sentence at "probably fucked the dude", when you keep writing after that, the "probably" turns into "she must have fucked him so you are ok with destroying her stuff".

but we can not expect you, an autistic, to understand that
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>>675613417
Is ISIS a terrorist group?
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>>675613072

Right move, I say.

Zero tolerance on this. Saves you a lot of pain and turmoil.

To each his own, but this is my personal stance on it. No time for wish wash.
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>>675613072
It was the right thing to do. You have to assert dominance. Show her who runs the relationship.
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>>675614404
>girl cheats on guy
>guy reacts badly
>girl can't trust anyone
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Op you fucking stud.
You did the right thing m8.
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>>675614404
>she will never be able to trust anyone again

Seems to me that she was the untrustworthy one here anon.
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>>675614404
are you an idiot? this has to be b8
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>>675613072
yeah you went overboard, but don't doubt yourself when it comes to that thought that you saw "regret & guilt". it's very unlikely that it's honest.

you've saved yourself the trouble. only thing you really went overboard with is probably the "destroy her shit" part. you could have remained composed.
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>>675613665
Like call her you ignorant twat.
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>>675613271

I've been with only one girl in my life and I know this is beta as fuck lul

Why would she be guilty over just flirting. She clearly was interested and trying to talk to him.

Fuck her op, I'm like you

I get very angry and often go overboard but it's my way of not being taken for a pussy or being cucked
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finally op is not a faggot
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>>675613417
is money non-neutral in keynesian theory?
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>>675614742
well, he will surely have problems as well, but part of a relationship is also accepting that the other might make mistakes and that, even if you can't forgive them (in this case it shouldn't be) you can behave normally, or at least not like some savage.
Smashing her stuff seems a little immature to me, I know, destroying things helps a lot with anger, but next time, go chopping in the woods and take her with you.
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>>675614056
Yeah but you were still in a relationship. Why are you saying it like we should be surprised that you felt guilty.
You a whore like OPs girl.
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>>675614658
no, by saying probably fucked the dude would mean he was in the right for destroying her shit. like the first sentence indicated, it would be overboard if she didn't actually bump uglies.

but the solid fact she was showing her goods off to other buyers is a pretty solid indicator that she'd eventually (or already did) get down with other dicks. so preemptively destroying her shit lays the ground rule: don't fuck around.

try to keep up.
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>>675613072
You have my approval
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>>675613072
You're obviously incredibly juvenile and insecure, which is probably why she was bored of you and flirting with another man in the first place. I hope she sues you for criminal damage to her property.

Sounds like you would be better off with a dog than a girlfriend
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>>675613072
grils need attntn
if you didn't give her enough, she'll thankfully take it from guys like me
and in no time i'd be banging her
and she'd be all like "anon i wish i'd get that much attention from my bf but he just doesn't care anymore"
and i'll be like "you don't deserve this"
and in no time she'll be my little sloot that lets me do things to her that you can only dream of
just bc she craves for attntn like an addict
and i'll be nice and all and treat her like a princess and thus turn her into my own little bitch that's always down for a fuck

it's easy and works ever time.

> you did the right thing anon.
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>>675613072
You set boundaries for her, OP.
Women like boundaries and authority. They date their fathers, or seek out what they feel was lacking in their father figure.
Give it another couple of days, then take her back or don't. You have control of the situation and she knows it, now. She'll be well behaved.
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>>675613072
if and only IF she did more than flirting , then you didnt go far enough , men get punched for less always remember that
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>>675613072
Bitches they come, they go,
Saturday through Sunday monday,
Monday through Sunday yo,
Maybe i'll love you one day,
Maybe we'll someday grow,
Till then just sit your drunk ass on that fuckin runway hoe...

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Send her a message saying you never loved her and she was just a fucktoy of yours, then block her again.
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>>675613072
>bitch lives on your expenses
>at your place
>been lying and playing games for 2 years
>stayed with you because obvious financial/material comfort is obvious
>i bet she dared to ask you countless times to pay her stupid shits
>took you for granted
>played in your back for a while just to test the waters
>suddenly felt way too comfy in the relationship
>she had undercontrol: no way he's going to find out my adventures with Chad... Anon is such a beta cuck
>gets confronted with facts of the issue
>gets into panic mode
>QUICK! QUICK! THINK OF SOMETHING CLEVER
>her body language communicates that she's deeply guilted with the potential possibility of losing all of her perks she had from being with you

No fucking mercy should be allowed, maybe breaking her shits was overboard but you did the right choice

With how society is turning nowadays, cunts uses emotional manipulation as a tool along with their cunt friends that they always bitch behind each others and gossipmongering

Fuck bitches anon, literally
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>>675613494
This
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>>675615221
Found the Manlet in the thread
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>>675614676
Does someone runs really fast to the nearest toilet when your body communicates to you that your coffee has been laced with laxatives?
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>>675613698
This
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>>675613072
I can guarantee you one thing OP - whoever she was texting has fucked her by now
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>>675613072

Nah man, once there's even the slightest interest then there's always the potential to cheat. Fuck her man, you taught her a lesson she won't soon forget.

I know this because I've cheated on every girlfriend I've ever had and it was the confidence in the early days where I'd get away with flirting that lead to it.

Don't tolerate that shit bro.
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>>675613072
Destroying her property was a pretty fucked up thing to do.

Also, I don't believe this story at all.
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>>675613072
>flirting
>fb message probably "nice cake how did you make it?"
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>>675613072
You did the right thing, OP.

Dump the bitch, and don't look back. She isn't worth your time.

Don't let "guilt" and certain beta faglors discourage you.
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breaking stuff completely was a bit insane, OP. But you did the right thing to kick her out.

Also, work on your anger issues.
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>>675614260
Underrated post.
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>>675615496
>>675615882
>>675615988
listen to them op

otherwise, you'll become an omega cuck
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>>675613072
Im exactly on same situation dude, i did the same as you, except destroy his shit, she told me tonight she was going to kill herself, 3 years fucking wasted, but in mine case she was talking with him for phone
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>>675613072
you shouldn't of destroyed her stuff you idiot. You should of just told her that you don't want that in a partner and that it's best you 2 break it off.
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>>675615150
found the femanon
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>>675613494
really, this
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>>675615150
shut up cunt. If a woman is already interested in someone else that means she has lost respect for you as a man. Cheating or getting dumped comes soon after. A woman in love does not do that shit. OP went overboard with destroying her shit, but dumping her was the best route. Saved himself from a lot of bullshit in the future.
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>>675615150
Sounds like op was the one with the dog as a girlfriend
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>>675613072
No you didnt over react
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>>675615496
this guy explains how your ex-gf felt

while this guy explains how that state can be exploited
>>675615221

not judging here. it's in their genes to behave like this. lots of guys out there that don't have their dicks under control and are driven by testosterone but also loads of females out there that let their emotions have full control over them.

the emotionally driven ones make a good fuck but are only troubles in a serious relationship. you'll want one that is in control of her emotions if you are looking for a long term partner. unless you are into drama a well (which i consider an insane waste of time but that's all up to peronal preferences).
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>>675615783

Been following this thread and gave my input before. But I forgot to say this.

Either out of a genuine need for wanting to feel cared for and desired or out of spite,

97% chance she's had sex with the guy she was initially flirting with.
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>>675613072
I mean, destroying her shit is probably a bit childish / crazy. Cutting off contact for cheating, that part is the right thing to do. Otherwise small cheating / flirting ends up with you kissing her after she blew two different guys at work that day.
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>>675613417
Is masie 10/10 ?
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>>675613387
>mango
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>>675613665
>American English is the only English

Fuck right off ignorant knob.
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>>675613494
this
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>>675613072

>insecurity lvl 9001
>destroy everything of hers she left here (clothes, furniture, girly shit)
>fill my car with the destroyed rubbish
>drop it all in her sisters driveway

OP's girlfriend sure was in the wrong. Big time.
But I suspect OP is no level-headed angel behind closed doors.

No wonder she was cheating on you OP.
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>>675613072
hell no son, never talk to her again unless you want to guilt her into sex
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>>675613072
you're an idiot. i guess anyone deserved her more than you.
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>>675616980
I agree with this anon, OP should take some anger management classes. Unless the shit that he destroyed was stuff bought with his own money.
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>>675615079

fucking LOL
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>>675613072
everything but destroying her stuff was good anon, destroying her stuff made her know that you cared about her, you should've just coldly and nonchalantly dumped her
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>>675613072
She probably didn't cheat on you, but it was going to lead to that. You need to stop this shit before it becomes like pic related. Don't cave anon. Be strong.
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>>675617089
Even that would be fucking nuts.
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Everything is good man. Destroying her stuff may have been a bit much. Not for her sake but it just makes you look like a psycho but all in all you're good.

Now talk to her and act as if you're coming around a bit. Don't flat out tell you want back with her. Have no strings attached with her for as long as you want.

This is more or less what I did to my cheating ex until she moved far away. She wanted me back and she let me fuck her whenever I wanted. But for this to work you have to not have any feelings for her what so ever or it'll fuck your head up
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>>675617189
no matter how many times i look at this one it always strikes me right in the feels.
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>>675613072
I've been in the same situation. I just kicked her the fuck out of my apartment and told her baptist parents. She was from some god box family and was using me as a escape, I took her in for a good fuck and she cheated.

Last time I saw her she was basically married off to some tragic autist with huge glasses and she sobbed for me to save her, and I told her to fuck off.

Off all the alpha shit that half these niggers will post but don't live up to, a if someone cheats on you they aren't worth your time and you cut them the fuck off.

My best friends gf once grabbed my dick when on a sofa and I told him in the kitchen within 20 mins. You don't tolerate that shit near or around you, only breeds mistrust.
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>>675613417

Does the pope shit in the woods?
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>>675613072
You did the right thing op

I've been in that spot before, its never just innocent flirting.
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>>675613072
ultimately i think its her that will benefit from getting rid of a total raging douche bag
yes shes upset, just because her world been turned upside down, but eventually she'll see the lucky escapes shes had, and probably will end up dating who she flirted with, man she will look so good in her new clothes, win win
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>>675616764
This, so hard. Don't feel bad OP/b/ro, it wasn't you. It was her. Just let the relationship go and move on.
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>>675613753
>rolls
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>>675613698
Truth
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>>675613072
You reacted just fine. Next time she will think twice about betraying someone who loved her unconditionally.
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>>675614402
>I don't understand the rule but instead just regurgitate tired old shit.
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>>675613072
This bitch deserves worse, fuck people like that.
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>>675617189
That picture is the most fucking accurate picture I've looked at in a long long time. Why is it like this..
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>>675617416
The sequel is much worse.
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>>675613072
>see messages of her flirting with some guy on fb
We dont know her and dont know how she flirted on fb but maybe a little overboard, but doesnt matter did the right thing.
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>>675613072
You behaved like a female, but at least you're not pussywhipped.
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I wouldn't have gotten that angry. All women are whores. Would've told her to leave and probably left her stuff outside and not bothered to destroy it. But I mean, like, whatever she had it coming.
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FUCK IT EAT YOUR OWN VOMIT!!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X__8ffa5ANw
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>>675613417
Does the Tin Man have a sheet metal cock?
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>>675613698
word nigga
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>>675615150
>bored of

Does anyone even speak English anymore?
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>>675617862
fuck you anon, now i am scared of having a gf and a stable life altogether.
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>>675617964
Fuck you. Why does this exist. What is happening. I wish it were the 1850s. I want those good ol' Christian values again.
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>>675617189
This pic is so true. Jesus Christ.
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>>675618163
Just don't marry. There is literally no reason I can possibly comprihend giving entitlement to half your stuff for a special "we're together" sticker.
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>>675617862
is there a 3rd part where he finally an heros?
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>>675615496
>played in your back

What the hell does that even mean?
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>>675613072
>did I go overboard?
You went full woman. You could have, you know, talked that shit out. I hope she goes after you for destroying her property.
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>>675616626
Overreact is one word. Now you don't have to appear Illiterate in the future. You're welcome.
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>>675618285
Over here you only have to be with your partner for 2 years, then it's automatically "what's his is hers/hers is his"
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>>675613387
>mango
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>>675613494
This! Fucking her best friend or sister is the best way to get back at her
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>>675618357
probably meant behind

its not that hard to make the connection
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>>675613417
is 35$ CAD equivalent to 9154.10 Kazhakstanian Tenge?
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>>675616511
kekked
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>>675613271
Wow, how much of a pussy do you have to be to go back to your bitch, (who was secretly jerking it to Chad McThundercock anyway) and then apologize to her for being an ass...

Not only will she lose respect for you, you're gonna get trodden on for the rest of the relationship for what you did. IMO, OP did the right thing. Cut her off, move on.

As for the "Ring her and pay for her" faggot, well, there's always gotta be the cuck, right?
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I think you all are chauvinist retarded women-hating faggots. Just imagine yourselves in her situation. Wouldnt you think that she is a desctructive crazy bitch if she did the same to you for just flirting?
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>>675613072
Fake and gay
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>>675618163
Nah, it's not all this bad, pretty sure this comic is done by MGTOW. It's a cringy movement where men say the don't want women because they drag them down. We just need to change the law to not favour either sex.

There's an infidelity statement (I think that's the right word, I'm not a lawyer) that you can sign at marriage where if one person cheats on the other, then the person who gets cheated on gets compensation and basically all legal favour because they weren't degenerate.

Honestly, I'd prefer to just throw out marriage all together. It means nothing nowadays. It's lost its holiness, you can cheat and divorce and no one seems to give a hoot, it's gone from being frowned upon to something 'normal' in a very short amount of time. Not only that, but the jews behind jewelery stores charge you $2k for a fucking mineral Marie, and if you don't get one you're a cheapskate (clearly it's not true love if you aren't willing to spend $2k on a mineral with no intrinsic value, however let's forget about the bitches who are in love with you but also won't accept a ring worth less than 2 weeks salary). Diamond rings aren't tradition, jewelers made that bs up, and men have been paying for it ever since. The best way to be MGTOW without being a cringy fuck is to reside with a perma gf who understands that marriage means nothing anymore.
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>>675618657
I made the connection, I just hate reading pidgin speak.
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>>675613072
If you don't flirt with chicks out of respect for your gf then she in return should do the same.

Perhaps you two aren't compatible.
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>>675618810
Thing is, I can flirt with other girls and it's okay. My key will not open their lock if I don't want it to. However, as soon as little miss whore opens her mouth to flirt, she pretty much greases up the ol' slip and slide and that lock pops open so much easier.

A key that opens every lock is a master key, a lock that is opened by every key is a shitty lock.

Also, you're the biggest SJW faggot on this page.
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>>675618810
Flirting is ok in my book.
But if OP has stated from the start that flirting is not ok, then it really doesn't matter which gender did the flirting. Smash their shit, and their face if you ask me.
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>>675617835
because women don't know their place anymore.
they just take and take, they aren't interested in making you happy
they think you're the lucky one because she stays with you.
you can love her as much as you want, they are stupid, lazy bitches.
there was a legit reason why woman were treated much more worse in the past
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>>675613698
Reasonable response
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>>675618808
Ring means call in British English slang. All he meant was apologize for breaking shit but not get back with her. The reading level on this board has sunk below grade school level.

But at least you got to call someone cuck for the four thousandth time, so you have that going for you.
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What do you mean by flirting?

If they were talking dirty or some shit yeah kick her to the curb.

I dunno op need context
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Wow asshole did over react I mean seriously you are so insecure you can't even take a girl flirting it's not like she cheated on you.
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>>675619337
If a man were to do it she would have done the same
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>>675619076
If she knew from the beginning that its not okay with him, then it is okay to talk it out and eventually break up with her. But with cold head, not like a crazy angry ape.
>>675619043
gr8b8m8
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>>675614121
Top kek my mango
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>>675616129
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>>675613162
Kill yourself
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>>675613072
Sounds about right. Good job.
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>>675619575
Nah bro I don't think she would have girls just don't chimp out, if I caught my girlfriend doing that I think of it as Open Season to cheat on her at best but I wouldn't break her shit and throw her out into the cold.
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>>675619575
I had been cheating on gf while being abroad as an exchange student. I confessed it on my own and after some time she forgave me and we are together again. Women are humans too and each of them react in different way.
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>>675613072
I think destroying her stuff was a bit much (legally)
I think what your doing tho is the right move

As 2 chainz would say "cut that bitch off"
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>>675618548
>Just don't marry. There is literally no reason I can possibly comprihend giving entitlement to half your stuff for a special "we're together" sticker.

where are u from?
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>>675619604
Talking was telling her it's not ok to flirt.
Talking clearly failed.
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You only caught her flirting, chances are she did a lot more. Fuck her.
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Equal rights. And lefts.

OP had his reasons. Well done. More pussy out there, no fucking shortage whatsoever.
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OP, do you think the 'look of guilt & regret' meant she legit fucked some other dude?

if so; you more than absolutely did the right thing.

But i think that if this bitch is still fucking crying and calling you probably means she has shit to explain (like that she didnt fuck another dude) because else she would have gone to that other dude imo.
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>>675620132
NZ. I don't trust teh wimminz and this "law" puts me off wanting anything long term
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>>675613072
If you take her back you'd be a cuck
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>>675620154
That still doenst excuse ape-like behavior. Grown-up males react calmly. I would give her a chance to explain, a chance for her to defend her actions. Though she would probably fail in it.
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you been with her for 2 years and didn't want to marry her then dump her you're not even cheating it seems more likely op just wanted an excuse to get out of the relationship so bottom line and probably both better off.
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you are a psychopath, who cares who she texts... If she hasn't stopped fucking you, she is still with you emotionally.
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>>675615079
>maximum kek
actually spluttered my tea.
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>>675613072
listen nigger that if your bitch is flirting the relationship won't last long anyway save yoursself some trouble and cut that bitch ive been in the same situation gave her 3 chancer because im a huge faggot and got reckt
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>>675613072
In my experience, flirting *usually* indicates a desire to cheat in future. If she hasn't already.. Women are like monkeys, they'll make sure they have another branch to grab on before letting go of the first one. She might have just been talking, but eventually left unchecked she would quite plausibly latch onto that guys branch-in every hole

Sometimes you can make a huge shitshow and let her know it's not okay. You need to really give her a scare and let her beleive she's lost you, and then give her a chance again. It's crucial after this stage to also look at yourself. If there's a genuine reason she went looking for attention elsewhere beyond the fact she's just an attention whore or slut- then try to change yourself too.
this isn't always easy and you need to be able to look atyourself objectively from an outside perspective and see flaws in your relationship or the way you treat her too. Don't be too quick to listen to her reasons as often it could be total BS about how you don't give her enough of you and she doesn't feel special, but likewise don't be too quick to dismiss them because sometimes theres genuine truth in them. This is hard to do

sometimes* that works and she'll never mess up again. I'm currently in a relationship that has been "fixed" for the last 4 years. this way I know because I'm paranoid as hell by nature and constantly find evidence supporting that, but no evidence supporting any shenanigans on her half. but right now she's absolutely loyal and she knows full well if i catch her doing anything she's gone in a second. And she doesn't want to go. May not last forever but it's certainly working now

Also like other have said you went overboard trashing the stuff. It's ALWAYS the best option to simply cut contact without any fanfare, and if you want to be crueler, treat her like a princess then suddenly split with no contact. Her mind will be more fucked than ever, because theres no anger, no closure and it's so sudden
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>>675613417
Are niggers going to chimp out somewhere in the usa within the next 30 days?
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>>675613417
does jet fuel melt steel beams
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>>675614056
women are snakes op dont trust this shit plez
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>>675613072
te has pasado colega
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>>675613072
Also you didn't explain how serious the flirting was or whether she's previously given off any red-flags or done anything to deserve mistrust.

70 missed-calls is a fair amount. I'd say have a cooling off period. Wait to see whether she crawls up to a new guy or she keeps trying to fish you back.

If she's strongly persistant, and the flirting was minor enough. Consider a second chance but make it absolutely crystal clear she's on a trial period. She'll need to apolgize and treat you like a king. She needs to know if it EVER happens again she's out quicker than she can say "he's just a friend"
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>>675613417

Does Josh wish Megan was dead?
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>>675617768
This isn't a place for progressive mind sets. Flop those white things out.
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if she did once she will do so someday.
You did great, fuck her
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>>675621363
Jesus use some punctuation. That hurt my head.
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>>675613072
Good on your for dumping a cheater. Destruction of her things might've been too much though.
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All you stupid fucking cucks saying OP is wrong for ending the relationship are too beta for your own good and should honestly kill yourself if a girl after two years is shady enough to do that shit its only the beginning of the end and you're all fucking autistic for nor seeing it
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>>675622649
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>>675623082
well actually we think you're too beta
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In the present. Believe it or not I wouldn't marry or date any western woman anymore unless they are from a good family cheating and hurt happens way too often. It completely kills love and creates asswipes who will ruin their own lives with alcohol and drugs. Or mass sex guaranteed STD. I think best option is to date Asians, eastern like Russia, isolated west. Hell even niggers might be better. Within one generation as swipes will just be bound to each other and probably die out.
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>>675613072
Ya did good anon. It hurts but what you did takes nads. I applaud you
>pro tip
Women always THINK they want control of a relationship. And they'll fight to get it. But when they do, everything turns to shit, and like children they will look at their man and say "This is your fault!" Blaming you for their mistakes. In reality it IS your fault, but only by letting her get the upper hand. This shit is in the Bible son, women want to be controlled. They crave it.
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>>675623082
You're probably right. Hurrhurr she would never cheat on me after I raged.

You will just lose respect. And get std a month after. Due to her fucking black guys.
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>>675613072
Destroying her stuff is too far, but everything else is right
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>>675613072
You overdid it by destroying her shit, but fuck it now. Stick to your guns.
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Surefire headache cure.
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>>675624451
>>675624654
edgedgegdggggy 100000000000/10 well done
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>>675613417
Dus mine butt get smak rowdi las nit?
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>>675613072

Do you miss her or some shit?

You had to get her out, you don't really know the extent of her infidelity, you might have caught it at the root, but maybe not. What you did got her the fuck out, so who cares what you did to someone who burned you so long as it worked.

With that said...

Your insecurity was already up since you decided to look up her phone and text history. Flirting is not cheating, and since you are obviously jealous and not very confident to begin with, her flirting might be a natural response to your possessiveness. Your jealous ass drove her to seek attention from more secure men, she might've not even been planning to act on it, but she lacked the security a confident man brings.

You sound like you suck. But she doesn't sound great either.
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>>675613072
YOU CANT TURN BACK FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE: EVERYTHING YOU DID HAS BEEN RECORDED AND SAVED IN HER EMOTIONAL DAMN AGAINST YOU, DONT GIVE HER A CHANCE FOR REVENGE:

If you want to test the waters, do it after 6 months or a year at the minimum.

>speaking from experience.
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>>675624992
quoted anon here

>nothing beta about throwing her a cheque for the material damage into her hand. That would make you actually better in her eyes
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>>675613072
>>lives with me

Here's the problem. You want a FUCKTOY and not a roommate.
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At least listen to what she has to say
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>>675613072
You know she's with the guy she was flirting with right? Good job, you played yourself.
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>>675613072
Fuck no, women need to learn that there are consequences for their actions.
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>>675613072

tard, she is home free. makes you look like the bad guy kicking her out and destroying her things. tyrone be tapping that pussy now.
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>>675613072
>Absolute mad man.

Fuck her, if you can.
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>>675613271
>That would have been acceptable if she legitimately cheated on you, so yeah you went overboard. Ring her and pay for her destroyed stuff dumbass.

Literally the most autistic, beta shit I've ever heard some ultra faggot say on here. Have fun being a wizard.
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>>675613072

Kek, if this isn't fake, then you did the fucking right thing.

She'll come crawling back to you in no time. Don't listen to the other anons who said you're a dick or whatever.

Just trust me... she'll fucking beg for your sympathy.
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>>675625618
>She's a whore who is getting fucked by Tyrone
>You're a tard for breaking it off

I don't follow. Sure it may cause others to support her and give Tyrone an easy on, but who gives a fuck?
None of that is his problem anymore.
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>>675613417
Is there any character who could beat Madara Uchiha?
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>>675613753
Yeah if the roles were reversed her friends would have joined in on admonishing Op.
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>>675625618
>be anon
>has gf
>said gril friend is fucking tyrone
>bitch be actually cucking the shit right out of anon
>yet according to your logic
>get this
>anon is tard for going all alpha on the bitch

You're literally a retarded faggot. Kill yourself.
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>>675614404
..so she won't be able to trust anyone?
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>>675614616
Females have assaulted and murdered men for the same and less and gotten off Scott free due to pussy pass.
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If you could walk out so easy it wasn't serious anyway. Stick to your guns. Plenty more sluts in the sea
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>>675624068
>>675624279
They may not be dubs, but they speak the truth. Go forth and find a woman. Not a grill, a woman that you can trust. Make family, live good life, and laugh heartily when you see her in 10 years with 100 extra pounds working a shit job.
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>>675615967
Financial Rape apologist
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>>675613072
Fuck no you didn't over react. You did the best thin you possibly could. You caught that shit before it even started. She would do it again. You saved your self a lot time and heart ache. Good job op maybe you aren't a faggot after all.
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>>675626750
Walllllaaaaahhhu takbir akbir

That literally made my dick hard, and that's coming from a toaster with bagel in it.
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>>675616714
You say that like genetics is an excuse for socially unacceptable behaviour, so rape is ok then?
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>>675616792
No, average, cute side of ugly.
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OP, she was probably cheating on you or at least seriously considering it. It's not difficult to stop yourself from flirting so yeah you dodged a bullet.

Honestly though I wish more faggots on this website had the guts to do what you di.

I found out my bitch was stealing money from me once and lying to me, and she was living with me along with her 10 year old. So i kicked them both out and tossed their shit off the balcony down to the ground.Then she tried to steal my phone and take it with her, so later that day i went to her own place, took my phone back and slashed every soft fabric i could find including her bed.

She was out of the house at that time.

But yeah, moral of the story op, if bitches be fuckin' wit you, fuck wit their lives.
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>>675613494
True life wisdom here op
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>>675615058
You are insecure
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>>675613072
Like a fuckin boss
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>>675617988
We clearly saw that he had no genitals in the 1939 film.
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>>675618432
I hope you have to deal with a duplicitous scheming cunt some day.
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>>675613072
You didn't do anything wrong. Nothing else needs to be said, but here's the truth.

People don't wait, get married and then move in together. That's 1930s bullshit. People couple up, date exclusively almost immediately and move in together. Marriage 2.0 because we're serfs and the economy is fucked.

She broke the agreement. She depended on you for financial security, and everything that goes with being in a closed, committed relationship.

Then she got bored, decided to see if she had a high enough social value to trade up on you. Find your superior.

You just saved yourself from a divorce in 5-10 years, and even more loss. Flirting? No, she was testing the waters.

DO NOT FEEL BAD. That's her only weapon. She feels horrible because

1. she exposed her game, making her a joke in her social circle.

2. She feels the immediate loss of security you provided.

3. She sees that her social value isn't as high as she thought, you're the best option she has, and that is destroying her ego.

4. Face it. You'll never, ever trust her again.

She fucked up. How you reacted doesn't matter, it's in the past. What matters is what you do next. Go find someone who actually respects you as a man and is deserving of you and what you provide.
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>>675618810
And if the genders in this situation were reversed there would not be a crowed of hair dyed harpies screaming "YOU GO GIRL!" & "GIRL POWER!", men have had enough and are not tolerating being shamed into complying any longer.
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Well done. Almost pure alpha save for coming here and second guessing yourself.

Next time, punctuate with a throat punch and dont look back.
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>>675613072
take her back but dont take it seriously. she's literally in the palm of your hand, just take it for what its worth. keep her shit on lockdown while you talk to other women.
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>>675613494
Winner of the thread. Anything else is wrong.
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>>675613072
You cuck. You let her off far too easy. You should have tied her up and let dogs fuck her, and posted video on Youtube.
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>>675619078
Yeah, "Making your man happy" = out dated concept, "Providing for your wife" relevant and necessary.
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>>675613072
You did the right thing. No sarcasm seriously you did.
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>>675613698
yup
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>>675625387
His problem now. Not OP's. He was almost played by her but nipped it in the bud.
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1.If a girl flirts or cheats once - she will do it again
2.If a girl flirts with another guy - she will take this further eventually and some day you will catch her in your bed with someone else
3.There are no exceptions to statement 1 and 2
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>>675628194
The best thing to do with cheating women is to cut them out of your life, forget them and get a better class of partner.

And if you see her pretend to not remember her, cunts don't like being ignored and hate being forgotten.
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>>675627996
Bismuth are you posting your edges again?
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>>675613072
>have gf
stopped right there
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>>675613072
You're retarded and dont deserve a girlfriedt. I hope she gets together with the fb guy.
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>>675613072
Destroying her stuff was maybe a bit unreasonable
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>>675613072
BRO. IF YOU FORGIVE HER IT'S OVER. SHE DOMINATES YOU. YOU ARE A CUCK. ARE OYU A FUCKING CUCKOLD? DONT LET SOCIETY MAKE YOU THINK YOU'RE GUILTY FOR CUTTING OFF A LYING CHEATING WHORE. THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU FAGGOT. FUCKING HELL MAN! DON'T BE BRAINWASHED
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>>675627815
So true. So rekt.
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>>675629651
Beta cuck right here
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>>675625839
>>675618808
>>675615058
He didn't say "get back together with her", just pay for her shit that he destroyed. Honestly destroying property isn't really justified no matter how big of a cunt someone is.
Unless they fuck with your property first, but this wasn't the case
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>>675615091
fuck off you manly man
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>>675613417
Did Hitler do nothing wrong?
>>
You legend
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You did the right thing op. You showed her that you were not made to be fooled.
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>>675613072

You took the wrong road to your destination, but is IS the correct destination. You don't want to be with a girl that is not going to be loyal.

Doesn't matter if she was just flirting - flirting always escalates. A girl doesn't show interest and never let it go beyond that. When she finds a guy that says all the right things, she is on that cock fast. It's best to get out before it gets too involved.

So, yes, you absolutely over-reacted and you look like some fucking raged out juicer. But, you still did the right thing by getting rid of her. Just take it down a bit next time, chief.
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>>675613072
You reacted like a hysterical bitch.
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>>675613072
Good job OP! The only guilt and regret she has is that you found out about her flirting.
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>>675630844
I think what other men are overlooking is the message this event is going to put out to the female friends of OPs ex, OP has done you all a service, females are very much a herd type community, if they think this is a potential outcome for their philandering, they will think twice.

Why do you think girls act in such horrible cuntish ways to men? , they believe their actions have no negative consequences.

Whilst the destruction of the ex's belongings may have been a bit much, this sort of thing needs to happen every once in a while to remind women that men are people with feelings just as much as they are.
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>>675613072
I will speak from experience OP, gather round and let me tell you of my tale...

My ex girlfriend was keeping in contact with her ex secretly for years behind my back, even though I gave her absolutely everything. I regret the five and a half years I spent waiting on her to get married, only to be destroyed with no warning and had her lie to my face about wanting her ex back.

This all happened after I gave her chance after chance; I do however disagree with destroying her stuff though. It's important to keep a cool head and refrain from lowering yourself to that level of indignation.

Now after my year long heartbreak, I'm a new man. I'm slicker than before with a stone cold front and have girls wet for me because of my hardships (Basically I'm apathetic about everything but ooze hardcore indifference). It changed me as a person too but it's not without its benefits. I now have a very attractive submissive bisexual girlfriend who cooks, cleans, and shares other women with me and I couldn't be happier.

You make your own happiness OP; make yours happen too.
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>>675626348
That doesn't mean you have to stoop to that level nor does it mean this particular female is responsible for that.

But I'm a moralfag so what I say doesn't count anyways
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>>675613417
Are there dicks in gay porn?
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>>675613072
>overreacted
yes
>wrong for giving her the boot
no

move on in the knowledge that you got the right result
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>>675631658
You sound like a feminazy regarding male rape
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>>675613417
>Is flirting even cheating?
in my opinion, no, but it rarely doesn't lead to cheating
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>>675616792
hell no
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>>675613072

You did well now forget about her like a man
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>>675627308

Youre just a cuck. Probably has a wife that is out at "friends" everynight but she is sucking some niglets cock
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If she didn't actually cheat, yes you did. Even if she did cheat, kicking her out was right but destroying her stuff was wrong and immature.
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>>675632783
Ok white knight Sir Cucksalot.

So you are not ok with men treating women like women treat men?
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>>675613520
That is retarded logic. It's like saying we can't make mistakes of we believed in them once. We all fuck up. Emotions override judgement easily.
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>>675632783
I am the victim of female rape, I am a male rape survivour.

Not joking or lying.
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>>675613072
Nah you did fine. If she's flirting she either cheating or about to soon. You'll get over the guilt in a few days. Just drink and party with your mates and good riddance to bad rubbish brother.
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>>675632461
He did not assault or murder her, he threw the cunt out.
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>>675621655
What about a dedicated hooker
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>>675627509
It's retractable
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>>675633679

Using excessive force will result in a loop of buthurtness between the two parties
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>>675613072
>see messages of her flirting with some guy on fb
>confront her
>be mad, not tolerating this
>never let her back inside once I found out

not overboard

>destroy everything of hers she left here (clothes, furniture, girly shit)

overboard

but hey, I've been there, I know that when shit like this happens you do not think or act rationally, so don't beat yourself up bud.

I hope you find happiness again without that dumb cunt
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>>675616171
>shouldnt of
>of
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>>675613417
are bears catholic?
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>>675613417
do jews love money?
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>>675613417
is the middle east a prehistoric country full of unevolved savages who we should seriously just nuke right out of existence because it would honestly solve tons of the worlds problems and save the lives of countless civilized people who actually matter?
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>>675635507
I know the middle east isn't a country but you faggots know what I'm saying
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>>675634674
Except in this case there is no loop, the relationship is over, it was property destruction, not physical violence.
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>>675617515
Where his holiness does his business is his business
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>>675617508
>My best friends gf once grabbed my dick when on a sofa and I told him in the kitchen within 20 mins
>20 minutes
>after u bus a nut amiryte
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>>675635611
Yes, the region you are describing is full of backwards violent people that are more than willing to send children to die for a false prophet.
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>>675613417
It's not rocket surgery
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>>675614131

wow
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>>675635644
Men:
>All womyns are the same, selfish cheating whores , bubu bubu


Women

Women:
>All men are the same , selfish cheating scumbags bu bubu

Repeat with all the topics you want

This is for everybody... Stop playing the victim
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>>675613417
Did Benjamin Edison invent electricity.
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>>675613417
Is a bear Catholic?
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>>675615589
lmao! kek'd
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>>675613698
This sounds reasonable.
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>>675613494
aussie spotted
>>
Hey there people of /b/

Im a relationship freshmen.

> be me, 20y
> just got gf (about 3-4months)
> gf be: 27y, asian (looks like 22 for me), sexy, cute, and has thinking like a man; means: no unnessecary quarreling etc.etc.

> Have fun together
> actual EQUAL relationship (well, more or less, since she could theoretically provide more than me, but I do more, because I get money and she doesnt)

> overall, I think I love her, and think shes the perfect women as a mother, lover, and having a happy life together

But we havent had sex yet.
Not because she doesnt want to, we both want. But it seems like she has vaginismus, and we need to fix it somehow.

So. People of /b/.
> Any suggestions, tips, help for a relationship freshman?
> maybe u know how to get rid of vaginismus or have experience with it?
> have another thing to talk about, but would like to know wether I get responses on this at all or not


> thank you in advance /b/ros
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>>675636852
anal
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>>675636421
nice try fag
>>675635301
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>>675614056
TITS OR GTFO
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>>675613072
yeah, you went overboard by destroying her stuff, it wasn't necesary, for the rest you did well, don't let some regret or shit turn you to a king cuck
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a bit overboard with destroying shit, besides that good job
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>>675635507
This is best
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>>675636852
has she had sex with others?

Try making out with her while she's using a vibrator until she really needs you inside her.
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>>675613072
Maybe a little but you gotta kick her to the curb if she's flirting with other dudes
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>>675613072
Go fuck her a couple times then never talk to her again.
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