I've only had sex once, and had to pay for it. I have no special skills. I'm not fat but I'm not built either. I look weak. I'm 5' 6". I wear glasses. I'm not attractive. I'm average intelligence at best and I tend to be more beta than alpha. I get scared when I talk to females. I get nervous easily. I have trust issue and social anxiety. I dot have many friends. I daydream a lot about living a happy accomplished life. I complain a lot but never do anything about it. I also frequent 4chan and reddit a lot.
How do you guys make yourself feel better when feeling down?
I don't like super-fit broads. I like women with curves yet can still go hiking with me to my cabin in the deep dark woods where we have lumberjack sex while drunketh and high on pils and weed... maybe shrooms. But that will never happen so I am stuck in dream-land. See... I am a realist. >REALISM
>>611606727 I've been doing that for over 4 years now. I fap 1-2 a day. I sometimes watch anime too to help me kill some time. But right now its killing g me that everyone around me is busy living a normal life while I just wither away in my room. Id smoke weed but it just makes me even more self conscious. I've even tried talking to girls but I don't know what to do and just end up becoming friends. I recently started buying anime figures from my favorite anime's (dude figures) but they don't fill the void especially since I can't share them with any one.
>>611605948 Do you want to change your sad, doomed life? I hope so. If you don't want to change it, don't ever expect it to. Assuming you do want to get more alpha, confident, and happy, a good place to start would be by avoiding 4chan and Reddit for a longggg time. The majority of social medias, 4chan and Reddit included, cause more sadness than not. The people you surround yourself with significantly affect the way you see yourself. Get hobbies, go outside. You don't have to get jacked, or become amazing at something. Just go out and EXPERIENCE SHIT. FUCKING DO IT. Fresh air and sunlight seriously make a world of difference, and eventually, exercise will help even more! Find things you're passionate about, do them, do them a lot... just getting up off your ass right now and getting a good night's sleep is a step in the right direction and every tiny step counts.
TL;DR sleep, never come back here, figure out what in your life makes you sad and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. I know, easier said than done, but it's better to die on the road to self-improvement than die alone crying.
>>611607498 Dude I've done that. I bought name brand clothes before. I went to the gym and worked my ass off only to get minor results. I get a bit ripped but not built. Then what little girls actually talk to me realize I'm boring. I don't have the alpha badass attitude theyre looking for so they lose interest, let alone spit game.
>>611605948 my hot bi 19 year old girlfriend set up a threesome between us and a girl she's railed a couple times in the past. we have another threesome planned with the girl i was fucking up until i started dating my girlfriend.
my girl goes out and hits on chicks and sends me their pics and lets me fuck them with her. in addition to already getting to fuck her tight little 110lb body.
i don't ever feel down because my life is fucking awesome.
tl;dr get a hot ass girlfriend and then you can fuck chicks
>>611606515 I am around your age. First blowjob at 18-19, titties sucking. First actual sexy time was with a blue eye light skinned mexican broad or so she said. Very curvy but short and pretty firm. She could have possibly been an alien. Illegal or not it was excellent. Made good margaritas. Routine sexy time 22-23 with one gal. We would go hiking and fuck like mad monkeys wherever whenever. Blew loads in her when she was on her period *redwings* routine. Should have married her. Drive me around and bought me food and drink. From 24-28 fucked random and many a broad, young college chicks to milfs. Burned my candle out folks. Nothing left to give. Not sure what happened but now I find women to drain my very spirit. Total I had around 32 partners. Now nothing. Nada. And I doubt I am relationship material. That is ok though. Divorces left and right. Hell with custody and money people I know my age have. I do not. I am missing out on life they say. Oh well. *lights joint* No debt really, own my car, rent my own apt. Work, exist, eat, sleep, shit, smoke, drink, work, on and on. Just a different avenue than the status quo.
Be persistent! Don't give in so easily and fade into the night so quietly, man! You have one life, even if it fails, at least you gave it your best shot and went out burning in a blaze of glory, right?! Give it everything you have and brave the world. Don't get caught up on successes, achievements, or even how many times you need to get laid by a certain age.
I was and still am a major dork. I was a skinny kid who sucked at every sport he ever tried and got bullied on a regular basis. Not this sissy cyberbullying shit, I'm talking I used to get jumped and beat down. I took martial arts, overcame my depraved self worth, and just started feeling better about the little things I did.
Wanted to learn more about science, I read some books and ended up going to college for biology. Wanted to learn to flip since I was a kid, took up gymnastics at 18. Now I'm a gymnastics instructor. Wanted to be a ninja since I was kid, got my black belt 2 years ago in my mixed martial arts school and I'm competing this weekend in a grappling tournament. Wanted to make friends, I talked to everyone at every bus station, every party, every convention, and every job and now I am have a unique perspective on the world and no one to call an enemy. Wanted to express my love for a friend, shaking in my voice, I confessed and she said no but a week later she changed her mind. NOW WE'RE MARRIED! I wanted a cat, we adopted a fucking cat.
Fuck, life just flies by when you aren't hung up over where you're supposed to be and just just be. Take it one step at a time and be persistent. You don't need to change anything drastic but take this advice that changed my life and perspective on the world.
>>611608148 I like soccer. No one likes it. I like anime. No one I know likes it. I like video games. No one I know likes video games. I like golf, tennis, hangout, traveling, gambling, drinking. But no one around me likes it. I've tried to find friends like me but most strangers think I'm weird and don't want to be more than acquaintances. I hear you loud and clear man, I really do but I feel like I was just born unlucky.
>>611609795 I don't, but I'd gladly talk if I didn't have a paper due tomorrow morning. Honestly though, I doubt I have anything to say that's any better than you can find in motivational posts or speakers, so I'd go there. Although I understand the value of one-on-one talks. Regardless, best of luck anon, sorry I can't help you.
1. Learn to play 2 instruments; something you can play anywhere like a guitar or violin, and an exotic instrument. 2. Get into shape but don't rush. Start by eating bananas throughout the day - this will curb hunger. Skip lunch but not breakfast. Don't drink soda or alcohol. 3. Get a new, more modern hairstyle. If your facial hair is thin, don't try to have a beard or mustache. If your face looks really (too) young after shaving, go outside and tan. 4. Have a career plan. IT is a good, inexpensive career choice and you can start by studying for the CompTIA Network+ certification, getting an entry level IT position, and you're practically set for life. 5. Learn spanish in your spare time. If you ever intend to work internationally, pick another language. Arabic is good for those who want to work in the middle east or northern Africa. 6. Volunteer. Show your community your selflessness. Soup kitchens, building projects, Habitat for Humanity, etc. 7. DON'T buy a sports car, but make sure your car is the best car it can be. 8. Learn songs on the guitar in whatever language you picked. 9. Go to a park with your guitar, and sing/play songs in your second language. Girls will commonly stop by, so be ready to ask them out. When they say yes, your car will be ready. Thanks to your job, you will have the money to take her out. And you will, finally, be happy.
>>611608974 Not long ago I was drunk and called up this fat mexican broad, 19, at the local small college. She was a lot fatter than the pictures but I said wtf. Been awhile. She drove me around. I handed her some pot because she said she liked the herb *legal here*. Go back to her dorm in the middle of the night. *remember I am in my 30's* We she was pretty hot and bothered but a little off upstairs. Nice big ass and tits but giant burrito gut. She starts jerking me off and I am pretty decent once stimulation occurs. I am finger banging her massive vagina while sucking her tits. Then bamn. I have no way to describe it but my once throbbing cock which was about to enter her mouth became sad. A literal emotion from my dick. I became sad. She drove me home.
>>611610441 its ok thanks anyways (y) im going to start by stopping using 4chan that much lol last 3 days ive only been into 4chan and computer builds i cant afford one but ive learn a lot! ... going to move foward and focus in the damn asvab.
>>611609669 No one around you likes soccer, video games, golf tennis, drinking...? Regardless of that, don't pursue a hobby just to please others or because others like it. Do it for YOU, focus on bettering yourself and cultivating your positive qualities. The social side of things, while less straight forward, become astronomically easier once the prior is done.
I've got to head out anon but I hope something I said helps. Best of luck to you.
Just a reminder. Nothing about your situation will change if you don't take action. May sound simple, but really think about it.
That's what I do every time I start to feel like shit, I go to the gym, or I go running, or I go swimming, or I take my dog to the park and chase him around, also, I have a dog, that helps a lot.
You just have to find a way to make you feel like you're making you better, whatever it takes.
I get pretty beta when my life gets stagnant. So I have to keep introducing new things into it so it seems interesting, which makes it more intersting, and makes it more interesting to other people, including girls.
If you think you're pathetic, then other people will to. Fake it till you make it.
You complain about your sex/social skills and how that is sad and bad, but all you want is ways to make you feel better and not to actually fix your 'issues'? This is bullshit.
If you don't change your attitudes you won't get a different result. That's basically it. Man up and stand up for what you want. Go for it and don't be a pussy, otherwise you'll never know true happiness.
You guys got it all wrong. The gym can't fix stupid. The minute you open your mouth spaghetti flies out. What you need to do is TRAIN YOUR VOICE. I'm a vocal instructor and using improper speaking etiquette is the guillotine in any date. Sure you can be hot enough to gurgle saliva and still get laid, but aside from being an organic dildo you want to have a partner. Partners communicate, you must train yourself to be able to communicate it is a skill you learn, not something given at birth. Start by reading books out loud and mastering your speaking voice, this way once you have an attractive speaking voice you'll be easy on the ears and women can tolerate you. Once you're tolerable learn flirting techniques and mastering a sexual tone rather than cheesy phrases, the message will be more successfully conveyed.
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