Help me /b/ I'm in love with my 11 (turning 12 this year though) year old neighbour (pic related - snuck a pic when we went on a dinner together)... I'm 20 years old and live alone.
She came into my life several years ago and has helped me through my depressions and anxieties. I'm a manlet but decent looking and have had depression until this girl came into my life. After a few months her parents got used to me and I'd fix/setup their computers and shit. This girl would always come over so we'd chill and I'd help her with homework, walk the dog with her and we'd watch movies and play vidya together.
She's the most popular girl at school, all the boys want her but she chose me. I couldn't be more happy. We've talked about each other and she said she'd love if we lost our virginities to each other in the future. We're already each other's first kiss and we're a couple but for obvious reasons we keep it a secret.
I just don't know how I can keep it up... Every time she comes over we'd be cuddling on the couch and eventually start making out (we French kiss all the time). I'm scared if one day someone walks in and finds us out.. Should I tell her parents of my feelings towards her? They're very understanding people.
Please help me bros.. I can't stop loving her.. I can't get enough of her.. Her smell, her kisses, her whole body and when she lies ontop of me and looks into my eyes while resting on my chest... I love her. I can't live without her.
eeee this is a tough one dude, id talk to her about it first tell her what you think how you two should go about it, i mean in like 20 years it wont be a big deal, society cums over shit like that now because the age difference idk dude talk to her, she feels the same right?
LOL I don't know if you're being serious or what but its funny regardless, but everything is funny to me. Real advise, definitely do not tell her parents because you could go to jail or get a restraining order put against you at the least. Love knows no boundaries, and girls do mature faster than guys and seem to be smarter at a young age than older. But she is probably not emotionally mature enough to understand the consequences of a relationship with you according to society. So I would keep it a secret and maybe wait til shes 16 at least before you decide to risk going to jail
As much as i want you to keep your love story going im sorry to say the risk of you facing more problems is too much to ignore therefore since you asked for advice i will say the following: stop everything. Not even friendship as you are too old for her. Get someone on your level and it will be more enjoyable i promise.
I honestly say, That if you're 20 and she's 11. Then you need to get out of the house more and look for someone else. You even put "decent looking" Now imagine you in her place. Do you remember when you were 11? Now try dating a 20 year old male at that age. You wouldn't, she wouldn't. She's a kid. They watch movies all day about princesses being rescued and cuddling. She's a girl. Young kids do this. But there is no possible way that you need to be even near her with your intentions. This girl still has her whole life ahead of her. Her parents will take care of her, you don't. Honest opinion.
Look OP. WHat you DON'T want to do is post about this online. Even annonymously, ESPECIALLY with irl pics. If you live alone and she comes over, why would anyone else come into your home unannounced?
Ignore the indecency, trolls, and whatever other kind of shit is in this thread and listen up.
If it's true love then it will last into adulthood. If it's true love then you will accept her leaving, if she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Also consider the fact that she is a child; immature as FUCK. Her brain is underdeveloped as potato, so her decisions and behavior will reflect.
Im not one to judge, because my parents are over 10 years apart in age. Just keep this shit completely between you and the girl, and literally nobody else. Move ahead on that principle, and see what happens. THat's the best I can do for ya
>>606251766 had something like that with a 13yr old, it got pretty serious and ended up fucking her for a bit, but eventually she changed like teens do and now she likes girls and wants to be a man. All she told me was it was fun while it lasted, and here I am with a broken heart over a 13 yr old. Shit won't last my dude. I'm in my 20's as well and I'm an underwear model so no one really suspected anything for some reason.
Problem here is not the girl or even yourself. It is your depression. It isolated you, clouded you, made you reach out for any kind of emotional, psychological contact. Which you got.
What followed became a dependancy. Just a misplaced dependancy. I highly doubt you are a threat to either the girl or the children/tweens of the world, but there is no way for this to end well if it continues.
So you need to cease it continuing. Isolate what she did in the purest form to lift you out of the depressive rut, seek it somewhere else as compensation.
She is 11. She is dreaming of you climbing a tower to release her from her tyrants. She is not planning marriage, motherhood, a lifetime together.
How do I deal with the fact that we're always kissing and ontop of each other whenever she's over? I mean seriously she's so lovey dovey and I don't mind it, but if I have to discontinue shit with her how would I do it without her flipping out?
She helped me through my depression so I think it's only best I stay with her, protect her and love her in return..
Well, judging by the fact that you're eating at Wild Wing OP, we already know you're from Canada. And because the majority of Wild Wing Restaurants are in Ontario, which police department would you like this thread forwarded to?
I'm not sure how long you're planning on propagating this relationship, but by the time she's in highschool, she's going to realize she's dating a pedophile. I'm not a moralfag, so I don't care if you end up shagging her, but if you do, and somehow end the relationship on a bad note, you WILL get fucked in the future. You're already fucked either way, so my advice would be to go for it, tell no one, and when she starts getting older, break it off for her own good. She's clouded by childlike judgement and hormones, and that won't last forever. Do you have a plan for this OP?
>>606251766 Do not tell her parents. You can perhaps mention something like your kind of relationship to them in a conversation and test out their opinions on it. If you tell them they'd tell you to get fucked. Good luck OP, keep it a secret, wait till she's 16 (16 to fuck in australia) and you have a waifu for life (if some young buck doesn't take her). Keep her in love with you by being your best and being what she loves about you.
She's 12 a fucking child, man. Do yourself a favor and move. I'm a 20 year old man also. However im not attracted to children. While she may seem like she gets you, or is "the "one" i can assure you shes not. She hasnt even hit puberty yet. God damn she was born after 9/11 man.
FAKE. Parents letting an 11 year old girl go over and be alone with a single 20 year old guy in what seems like a regularly and sometimes extended amount of time. even going on dinner dates lmao. fuck outta here faggot
It's for your own good OP, you shouldn't be posting this shit on the internet and definitely shouldn't tell anyone about this. They have ways of tracking you down. Also imo you shouldn't be fucking making out with twelve year olds but I don't really give a shit
Doubt if Real... But if real: Listen to that most rational voice in your head. You know the one. The one that makes you do the things you have been proud of. The one your weaker primal self fights against. That voice will tell you what to do. Let it speak, write it down. And once the reasonable thing has been laid out, fucking force yourself to follow it without regress. This is the best possible outcome for you. Please, if this is real, you should head in the other direction for both your sakes, but especially yours.
>>606251766 Don't fucking tell anybody. If you and her are seriously in love, then be fucking responsible and tell her to wait until she's 18. She's too young to completely know what she's doing and twelve-year-olds have a way of telling fucking everybody about what they're doing if they're normal.
If you really love her, be responsible and don't kiss her, don't touch her inappropriately, just don't do anything but talk with her and shit. As a grown man, you need to show some fucking restraint. If you two still want to date in like six years, which isn't terribly fucking long in the grand scheme of things, then totally go for it, but for now you need to keep everything platonic.
Seriously, how the fuck could you have let it get to this point, OP? Ugh, it shouldn't be too horrible if you just do what I say here. It'll probably be a great chance to get to know her as a person. If you really do love her and want to spend your life with her, then this is a way to make sure that you actually do like her as a person. Just keep it normal until she's 18, then you two can decide if it's alright. Until then, keep everything that happened locked up tight and don't do anything that'll make it worse for you.
Not like I support your crazy pedo nightmare shit, but this is what you should do as a mature adult. Take some responsibility, keep your dick in your pants for a few years, and just be happy that you two can talk and shit. Maybe talk to her about all of this and come to a conclusion together. But for the love of god, stop where you are and keep it platonic for a few years.
>>606251766 I was in a similar situation, OP. She was 11, I was 25. We kept it from her parents until they started talking about how much of a good influence I am on her. Blah blah blah I accidentally let the words "best friend" slip to her parents when she was 16. We got married the day after her 18th birthday (the day in between our birthdays). We've been married for two years and I can't imagine ever being without her. Don't fuck it up. Treat her like a woman every day and she'll be a woman every day. If you treat her like a young girl she'll "outgrow" you eventually. Like any fem that any anon might fall for, just love her. Commit to her, give her your heart, grow with her, and let her go if she needs to go, but for fuck's sake do not cross any lines that could put you in jail and her in counseling because some faggot CPS flunkie thinks she needs to be deconditioned.
Just a quick continuation before I get back to 'Bloodborne'.
The reason you do not tell the parents is because human instinct will spread to word of mouth and lend to the inevitable unfavourable conclusion from others about you. You may try to convince yourself being honest about it would score you some goodwill, but the truth is the ears of the parents would close after the first sentence of admission.
Also, it would ruin her world, forcing a 5-7 year scenario of an existence under parental lock and key and therefore removing any ability she would have to grow up in the way every other teenage girl gets to.
My only advice is conversation with the girl, an explanation of what she did for you, what you still need from her but how it can only ever be with limitations. Just remember not to patronise her. You have convinced her psychologically she is older than she is. To talk down to her like a child would crash your world at a frightening speed.
>>606258296 This, man. She thinks she loves you, but really, she's at the age where her hormones are starting to get a little crazy. She likes the attention because she's young and she's only touchy-feely with you because, well, FFS she's 11. She doesn't understand her feelings, she just knows that she enjoys the sensation. Soon, when she gets older and can think rationally, she will realize you're beta pedo faggot. Honestly, though, it would be difficult to refuse her advances, but if you're serious about this, then try to explain the situation to her. Just talk about your relationship with her, how you feel about her, ask her what she thinks of you, then what everyone else would think if they knew, and the consequences of someone finding out. If she understands, and is on board, then go for that sweet underage tang If not, you probably should try to distance yourself little by little, because it WILL come back to fuck you in the ass later if you're not careful.
>>606251766 >>606255130 Thank you, thank you, fucking thank you. OP, pleas remember not to take, like half of our shit seriously. I'm being fucking serious right now, but most of us aren't.
Look, I'm glad she helped you out of depression I'm still implicitly depressed and get over it by drinking a lot, but I don't go overboard and drink until I vomit all over the floor and pass out in a dumpster. If I did that, I couldn't function in modern society. People would think that I'm a freak and lock me up. That's exactly how your pedo shit works. It'd be hard to find a guy who doesn't like little girls deep down inside, but most of us just suppress it better than others do. Have a god damn level of restraint, OP!! Suppress the psychological urges that you know you have!!
what a fucking loser OP. You should really consider killing yourself.
Oh look at me and my 11 year old wife. Hope society accepts me because im so much of a bitch i cant even talk to girls my own age so i have to pervert out on little girls. And ur a virgin u fucking loser motherfucker always will be so just give up and kill urself
>>606251766 This story is complete bullshit. Girl in that pic is not 11. No parent lets their daughter go over to a 20 year olds whether or he fixes their computer or not. Also. This story is complete bullshit.
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