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3 years ago I came to /b/ and made an "ask a guy who's

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3 years ago I came to /b/ and made an "ask a guy who's getting married" thread in celebration of my marriage. I was marrying the woman of my dreams and life was going to be awesome.

Well /b/, this month my wife told me she wanted a divorce. This was after 3 months of a trial separation that our feminist cunt of a marriage counselor suggested, which my wife used to fuck her new boyfriend. In our house. Which I'm still making payments on yet no longer live in.

I worked a full time job for the past year while my wife worked 2 days a week. She contributed shit all to our household, but was constantly complaining to me about all the things I needed to do as soon as I got home from work tired and stressed out. Once a week she'd throw me a boring fuck, which I stopped looking forward to a long time ago since masturbation in the shower was better than she'd been. The marriage counseling started after she accused me of being neglectful, because I had started ignoring her relentless bitching and insults. But I went to counseling as a dutiful husband and got torn to shreds by the tag-team between the counselor and my wife, and I got replaced by her new fuck machine boyfriend in my own house.

And now I'm preparing to bend over for the divorce courts. She's already told me she wants the house. Which I paid for. While she fucked her boyfriend in it. Because of a trial separation. That she wanted.

Yes you warned me 3 years ago. No I didn't see it coming. That woman of my dreams? No fucking clue where she is. Maybe that bitch from counseling who calls herself my wife knows. Probably not. Oh well. Live and learn. At least we don't have kids.

You were right /b/.
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>>596208050
/b/ is always right, OP. I hope it works out. Never marry a whore.
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>>596208050
Another one bites the dust.
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>>596208334
So... gay marriage then?
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Clearly you need to teach her a lesson.
>also, are there any chance you can get the house?
you fucking paid for it?
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>>596208334
>Never marry a whore.

She wasn't one.
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>>596208050
If you have to go to fucking counselling you've already failed.
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>>596208050
This is bait. She can't get the house if there are no kids and no fault in the separation. You just split the assets earned since the marriage began and move on. In fact, as she is the one technically doing the infidelity, you can throw her out.
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>>596208572
You know it.

>>596208655
>Woman
>Not whore
There's a one in a million shot, kid. It's a dangerous shot to take.
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op, how old are you, how old is she, how long have you been together before marriage, what origin is she and from what kind of family is she?
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flip the situation around by pretending you are devastated, and not actually irritated.

I wish you the best of luck on your life, anon.
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>>596208655
>She wasn't one.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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>>596208725
Wisdom.
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>>596208725

Trial separations backed up by counseling don't count as cheating.
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>>596208050
Move to a foreign country maybe in Europe and start over your fucked anyway might as well not pay the stupid bitch and meet a beautiful European woman,good luck and godspeed anon
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sorry to hear that bro
dont worry, /b/ would never leave you
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where did u meet this meat
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>>596208725
This is stupid. House is asset. He would have to pay her for half of the house or one or the other gets house.
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>>596208928
but not slavs slavs are whores though
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>>596208928

I don't have the money for that, and I'm very worried about having to pay alimony which would ruin any shred of a life I could possibly regain.
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>>596208981
Can't pay alimony to a corpse.
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>>596208646
Do you even know how the court works if anon is lucky he won't have to hand over more than half his salary
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>>596208966

This is correct. She also already has an expensive lawyer and has changed the locks. My lawyer I consulted says by default the house is hers because she's living in it, and that things don't look good for me. Basically I'm fucked and having nightmares about her getting both the house and alimony.
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>>596208050
>I was marrying the woman of my dreams
>masturbation in the shower
>I went to counseling as a dutiful husband
>she wants the house. Which I paid for. While she fucked her boyfriend in it.
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Murder her OP, but make it look like she disappeared. No evidence, no crime.
It's what you both deserve, by the sounds of it.
There will be a lot of heat, but keep your cool and you win.
Also, sorry to hear it all went to shit anon. The entire divorce/alimony/separation system in place is totally sexist, and has no outlook of changing sadly.
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>>596209021
>Sweden
Is OP from America i suppose then?
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>>596209130
>Is OP from America

yes
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>>596209102
>My lawyer I consulted says by default the house is hers because she's living in it

Your lawyer graduated from clown college.
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>>596208050
>kill yourself
>leave a note on your corpse describing how shit your marriage was
>pity and guilt kicks in
>profit?

or just kill her, either way OP regardless of the outcome, you're fucked.
Sorry about your marriage btw.
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>>596208981
Again, why the alimony? You've been married three years - she has not had the time to become utterly reliant on you for her lifestyle. Take what money you have and hire a good lawyer. Whatever you do, empty your bank accounts and cut her off from joint ones
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>>596209010
Kek
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>>596208050
how is she in the position of giving any demands? How can she just "keep the house"?

pls answer, I'm in for a big, tall glass of rage.

thank fuck you have no children, you can actually move on with your life once your divorce settlement bullshit is completed.
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>>596208981
You won't have to pay alimony in a foreign country because the courts can't touch you,just fucking get out,its the whole point of starting over,she and the courts will bend you over for years and you will start over anyway, so just go
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>>596209102
Op needs to start a revolotion against womans who hide behind their cunts
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>>596209251
>pity and guilt kicks in

You haven't much experience of women have you?
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>>596209102
You need a new lawyer. There are no kids and so she can't do shit unless you have been battering her. You have as much right to live in it as she does.

If this isn't bait, you're a complete fucking retard
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>>596209260
This. Fuck her over anon.
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>>596208981
you will not pay the alimony you have no kids
you don`t play in defence, play in fucking attack, she fucked with another guy in your house, this is fucking argument you don`t have to lose shit.
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>>596209348
Alright i confess you got me.
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>>596209201
>from america
Basically women can fuck you over in murrica right?
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>>596208050
That sucks OP. I've been there. My marriage was 11 years though. If there is one thing positive you can take from it, you only spent 3 years married and not a good portion of your life. I know it doesn't make the shit hurt less but its true.
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>>596209102
okay look, my dad lost 100 000 euros when i was a child because of that sort of lawyers, so I had a fucked up childhood.
So listen to me, you get that fucking lawyer, you chop his right hand off and get it with you.
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>>596209233

No. It's a common law thing. Because I was the one who moved during the separation, her residency gives my wife the most claim to the house.

Of course the counselor didn't inform me of this when it was suggested that I be the one to move into a motel to "give our marriage time". I thought I was doing the right thing, but legally speaking I lost a great deal of claim on the house. A part of me wonders if my wife was planning it that way.
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>>596209117
Not Op but any anons willing to kill ops femanazi wife for him
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>>596208050
You know what to do
1. Follow the example of your posted image, make a meth lab, become a drug kingpin and intimidate that unfaithfull whore
2. Or go on the classic murder rampage, with first murdering her fucktoy, then her and if you got time kill, that marriage counseler
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>>596209201
>Land of the free
Where Cunts enslave you like Succubuses
>pic related Its OP and his wife
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>>596209546

I hope not but every lawyer I've consulted for free advice says it doesn't look good for me. I'm hoping for some way out of alimony, because that would ruin me to be paying for her to live in my house with her boyfriend while I continue having to work long hours.
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>>596209495
My god use this to rain as much hell as possible
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There clearly needs to be some changes when it comes to seperation and divorce. It seems like women wants equal rights and what not, so how are they always getting payment from their divorced man, and also nearly always gets to keep the house. Thats not equal, thats clearly women being treated like lesser people, that needs help to survive on their own
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>>596209495

It was a trial separation agreed to in counseling.
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quick question

Is it possible to sue counselor's for "ruining marriage" or whatevers?
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>>596209920

No.
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>>596208050
First, lurk here

survivinginfidelity.com

Next, take half of marital assets and move to secure accounts.

Get a better lawyer and sue the marriage counselor while your at it.
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>>596209606
You can bet she did but listen to these guys cut her off and fire that stupid prick lawyer.
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>>596208050
Where do you live, OP ?

If she fucked her boyfriend while you were still married, you can blame her in court, and keep you house, right ?

I'm feeling sad or you, OP. This is where feminists are taking us : to a society of misandry, where the man is always wrong, and the woman deserves everything.
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but you didnt really move out though, I mean on paper? You just went to a motel.
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...burn the house down
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>>596209606
She can claim the house, but she must pay you for your half, she cannot just take it. This is why in most divorces the house is sold and the profit from the sale split. Do you have a mortgage?
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>>596209606
If she's really gonna keep the house, OP, just set it on fire before the divorce. Insurance will reimburse you.
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>>596209606
she was anon. terrible bitches like this are always planning shit
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>>596208050
women are more trouble than they are worth. i descend from a long line of men who are extremely shitty at choosing good wives and you are far from alone, /b/ro. since you didnt have kids with her, the courts will go easier on you, but you'll still have to go close to 50/50 with the bitch, id reckon
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>>596208050
Wah wah wah! Life's not fair, the big bad feminists are ruining my fun of being an over privileged white male! Males in previous generations were allowed to be womanisers, wife beaters and neglectful. Why don't I? Who will save us poor white men from those big bad mean women who are making us treat them like humans all of a sudden!

Stop blaming your wife for your shot comings as a husband OP. You get what you put in.
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>>596210083
>>596210031
Listen to /b/ this time and use these
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We told you man, once you put that ring on their finger it constricts blood flow to the brain.
This is a shitty world.
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>>596210083
Good point here. Your mailing address is still your home, right?

Kick the door down and claim your shit.
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>>596208793
>Woman
>Not whore
There's a one in a million shot, kid. It's a dangerous shot to take.

that's the best advice there is, anon
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>>596210221
>over privileged white male
did he say he was white you racist bitch?
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>>596210340
Don't feed the trolls
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>>596210270
>yes
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>>596210221
baiting hard
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>>596209233
kek
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>>596209699
Don't forget the lawyer
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Does America have the option of marrying whilst keeping possessions divided? Like if the man pays for the house he owns it all.
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youre a faget and will forever be a victim of circumstances. fuck you.
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>>596208050
You just learned a very good lesson. Never trust a fucking bitch. Never. Not even your soul mate. If for whatever stupid reason you still want to marry a whore make sure she signs a prenup instead of commiting financial suicide.

Thanks for reporting the fails you experienced so others can learn from your mistakes.
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>>596210340
>implying /b/ care
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>>596210509
Yes. Pre-nuptual agreements are allowed in most states. Highly recommended.
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>>596209655
Strangers on a train. Flawless.
I'd do it OP, bring her to britbong land.
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>>596210509
Yes bit it has to be done before the marriage and he has to get her to sign what's called a pre-nup and bitches will try to get out of those they even have guide books to help them
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>>596210509
We do have such a thing, but good luck getting the cunt to sign it.
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>>596209999
neither the time, nor place, but..... check em
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>>596209705
Where the fuck do you live?
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OP just kill her. Go to prison and by happy. At least you'll keep ur house. Maybe even rent it out while ur away? ok goodluck
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>>596210510
let me refresh that.
YOU ARE ALL VICTIMS OF YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES AND WILL FOREVER BE SO.
There is no such thing as "a fucking bitch that will ultimately cheat on you and fuck you over". There is you being a bitch not telling your girl how you want things and make her feel like she needs you in her life.

Continue living your pathetic lives blaming everyone else.
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Everything in life is strategy and marrying a woman is a bad strategy 90% of the time (it's good for lesbian couples to get custody rights of the child you raise).

Moving out of a house you paid for is stupid.

You don't recover from where you are by playing fair. If I were you I'd pretend to agree with whatever she says as long as it isn't traceable. Get yourself to live in that house. Tell her you want to say goodbye to the house for sentimental reasons and sleep in it for a week to say goodbye and then she'll get it. Make sure nobody else is present.
Tell everyone that you are both trying to make up. Once you live in the house again, assert your rights. When anyone questions you be willing to lie glasshard.

You don't recover from a losing position by playing straight.
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It's for shit like this that sometimes I am happy my sex drive mysteriously vanished
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>>596208050
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When u kill her timestamp it. I'd love to see ur smiling face next to her lifeless body!!!!! YAY!!!! Happy new year!!!!
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>>596210644
Or Canada for some maple syrup I'll help you out
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>>596210735
Nice attempt to look alpha, kid. Grow up and come back, you obviously don't understand what we're talking about.
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>>596210804
Not a bad fucking plan anon
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>>596210833
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>>596208050
Think of it this way, that dude she's been fucking has no clue what's in store for him. You think your story is bad, he's going in knowing she's a cheater. Imagine his upcoming butthurt.
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>>596208050
Op go back to living in house and when boyfriend comes over just kill him for breaking into your house.
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I'd bet my last dollar she had the boyfriend long before counseling and I'd bet the counselor knew that.
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>>596210735
I don't know what kind of fantasy world that you live in, but the days of man telling his women to step the fuck in line are over.
You basically have to be a master tactician to deal with women these days and their passive aggressive roundabout bullshit.
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>>596210955
Not even illegal in murrica
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>>596210529
As if anyone learns anything
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>>596210221
>previous generations.
Your mentality is wrong, and what is wrong with the human race.
Try being a sociopath like me, you get great perspective.
>inbe4 newfag not detecting bait, but my jimmies have been russled by this!
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>>596210940
Lol he's getting pussy, that's all that guy cares about, he doesn't like her. He probably gets off fucking someones wife.
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>>596209999
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>>596210997
exactly op might be able to get away with it
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>>596210940
Warn him anon so he is on your side and will testify against her
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>>596209999

nice quads
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>>596210937
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hahahahaha
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>>596210830
/r/retiredmeme
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>>596210221
Bleeder confirmed
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>>596210083

physical residency matters in common law. it doesn't have to be on paper. hence why squatters get rights
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>>596211010
You're gonna need a bigger bait, son.
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>>596211128
Are you a retard?
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>>596208050
Sorry your wife's a bitch OP but there must have been signs. You were just too in love to see them.
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>>596210678
Dont marry her if she doesnt sign it.
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>>596209010
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>>596210992
OP, chase down this route. If you can prove that she was planning this (planned infidelity) then you can take her to the cleaners.
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If there's no chance to keep the house start a fire near some electrical equipment leave come back 10 min later to "pick up some of your stuff" call fire department freak out on phone collect insurance money put it all into paying off house so she can take it and live with relives for few days till you can find an apartment
If there are there any hole in this plan pls point out and fix
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>>596211189
> hurr durr this guy fucks your wife but he doesn't give a shit lel, I'm so trying to upset you lmdfaosmlflelel le 9fag army

No, I don't think I'm the retard here.
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>>596210846
Maple syrup is God tier.
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>>596211287
Ask the boyfriend how long they've been dating and record it,for court
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>>596208050
>>596211007
>>596210996
>>596210932
>>596210830
>>596210804
>>596210735
>>596210657
>>596210529
>>596210194
>>596210157
>>596211371
>>596211287
WOW look at you little cowardly manchildren wanting everything for yourself WHEN YOUR WIFE IS HALF OF THE MARRIAGE. She gets half of everything because she is half of the partnership and the reason for alimony is because of shitty husbands fucking up their lives with divorce and trying to kick them to the curb. Alimony is there to prevent MEN from taking advantage of WOMEN in marriage. Real men who are good husbands just give their wife what they deserve for THEIR HALF of the marriage and man up and pay up.

Left her with nothing? PAY UP. It was both of your investments, retirements, and salary. NOT JUST YOURS.

Have kids? Pay up. YOUR DNA YOUR RESPONSIBILITY

Have a house? Well lets be honest what kind of a man tries to kick his ex wife out of her home? That's sick. So yes, PAY UP AND MOVE ON. If you could afford one house don't act like you can't afford another. YOU WANTED OUT SO DONT ACT LIKE YOU NEED THE HOUSE

Remember you chauvinist pigs, she PLANNED her life around HER HALF and that half BELONGS TO HER. You aren't paying her out of your pocket. You are just giving her what SHE ALREADY OWNS. If you try to fight that then you really are just trying to steal from her.

My ASS of an ex husband tried to take MY HOUSE from me. He made 300k a year and tried to weasel out of paying me MY HALF of OUR life together. Good thing the courts understand this. They made him pay for my lawyer and I took him for any penny I could because he's the one who treated me like I deserved nothing to begin with. Maybe THATS why you hear of this happening, because bad husbands try to cheat their wives out of their half, so the wives bite back. Tough titties! PAY UP AND MOVE ON.
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>she fucked a guy in your house
>she lives in your house
>she had the marriage counsellor on her side
>she initiated the divorce

You've already lost so many battles, the only way you can win the war is by either getting the best lawyer in the state and bend over backwards to pay him, or indeed prepare to bend over backwards for her.

Also, you're a retard for putting up with her shit and at the same time being a passive little bitch. The moment she started bitching about the household you should have asserted yourself and told her she has more free time and it is logical she does more house work. The moment sex started to go to shit you should have tried more or have talked to her, instead of fapping in the shower like a little bitch.

Ultimately, going to a marriage counsellor that SHE suggested was basically you waving a white flag. She had your balls already, now she could play with them while you watched.

OP, please consider that you're a little bitch. You might be right in the assumption that your wife is a major bitch, but you're the passive, 'lay it on me, but I'll bitch about it afterwards' type of bitch.
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>>596211371
holy shit you're trying hard
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>>596211384
Thank you anon
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>>596211394
Too obvious. You need texts and email conversations. Hard evidence.
And you need to do it before she catches on and deletes the lot.
Get a good PI, or maybe there's a wizzard here who could help.
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>>596211287
This. Even if it might seem creepy try and get ahold of text messages, FB, any form of communication she might have had with this new guy, prior to the separation.
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>>596211435
I'm so glad I'm MGTOW
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>>596208050
Been there myself bro. Smoke weed everyday and fuck anything that moves. The jokes on your vunt of an ex brah.
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>>596209102
Your lawyer is fucking your wife too OP. So do I for that matter.
I am your new lawyer OP. And I say you can keep the house as long as we can keep fucking her in it.
Case dismantled.
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>>596208050
you are a dumbass

here is your answer:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g8D4AsLzlM0
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>>596211465

Yeah, it's OP's fault. His wife didn't do anything wrong.
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>>596211435
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>>596211435
And what's there to protect men from shitty women doing that?
Also, didn't read lol.
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>>596208050
Been there bro. Same thing; dream girl, married, bought house, and she dumps my ass for a cocky dude who lives in his sisters basement. She got the house, no kids.
I put some possessions in a van and drove to Cali, growing a huge obnoxious fu man chu moustache, smoked weed, got a good job and lives an easy life of pleasure. After 2 years came back and rebuilt my shit better than ever.good luck OP
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>>596211435
You're gonna need a bigger bait
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>>596211435
nice try kid
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>>596210898
I'm not trying to look alpha. I've been in serval long relationships with great women. None of which fucked me over. Maybe I was lucky.
But I do know one thing; people who go to /b/ to whine - and people who consider any girl his "dream girl" and naively think of her as the answer to all of his problem has a natural tendency to be a pathetic fuck letting other people control the outcome of is life.

A lot of you might not even know. And you prolly never will.
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>>596211435

New pasta is better when it doesn't have any part in caps, bro.
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>>596211687
kek'd
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>>596211435
If I didn't know this was bait,I would not be keking right now,however this is how woman think so how about I buy a box of bullets and give ops wife half
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>>596211480
>>596211480
>holy shit you're trying hard

Yeah OK, kid, whatever.
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Give /b/ the information to bring the whore down
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Sorry OP. I hope I don't end up in the same boat. I'm fighting the tide.


Our marriage counselor is great but not addressing the important issues yet.
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>>596211671
Fuck u. This shit is gold if it's bait. I bit and swallowed
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>>596211435
Unfortunately, marriage is one of those things that if one person wants out, there's nothing you can do to stop them.


On the bright side, they take 50% of the issues you have with them. So the issues they have now, they'll have again.
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>>596211844
>Our marriage counselor

your wife already has a divorce plan just in case
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>>596211630

>Yeah, it's OP's fault. His wife didn't do anything wrong.

Lrn2read:

>You might be right in the assumption that your wife is a major bitch

Besides, he took it laying down. This guy is basically a cuck.
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>>596211503
>>596211525
Both good suggestions
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I guarantee I was one of the Anons telling you to not get married. Marriage is fucking retarded, and at best should only be done in your 30s and 40s.
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>>596208050
Sick pasta bro
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>>596209260
this will actually work
as it cant be percieved as alienatio in fraudem creditorum, because you spend those money on lawyers
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>>596208725
greatly depends on which state/country OP lives
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>>596208050
Op give us the address and we can send her pizza to console her,for being a whore
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>>596211920
I don't think she does. She told the counselor she wants it to work. We both did. She's making reasonable improvements but ultimately the intimacy is still missing so that always feels like a punch in the gut to me being a guy and all.

I feel like she's distracting herself with so many things to avoid being intimate with me. But, thats what happens when you have a toddler.

I picked the marriage counselor so I don't think shes a vapid feminist, she's actually married too.

Although I didnt like when I was trying to talk about my wife's obsession with social media/fitbit it turned into a fitness talk.

I think our main issue is my wife never fully let go of her mom and accepted us as a we yet.

She's always quick to run to her mom when we have issues.
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BTW Cheating is a symptom not a cause of marriage issues. There was clearly something your wife wants but wasnt getting.

Unfortunately, women are fucking crazy and its hard to crack what they want vs what they have.
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>>596208050
Serious advice here. If you have any money saved ,open a bank ain't without her knowledge, and move all into there, or if possible take it all out and hide somewhere.

Quit your job. if possible, try to convince your employer keep you on, but off the books.

When divorce happens, convince courts you're a poorfag, that way, you shouldn't have to pay anything.
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>>596212151

so your own wife won't fuck you?

> She told the counselor she wants it to work.

who doesn't say that?
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>>596211920
I think her divorce plan is basically trying to be so cold/distant that I divorce her instead.

She probably figures if that happens that I can't collect money from her since I am the lower earning spouse. (Always have been, it was never an issue until now)
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>>596210694>>596209999

Quads is always relevent
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>>596212233
Also, check 'em.
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>>596212243
She gets anxiety when I try to make a move after romantic day or just in general.

She blames BC which I know happens but its combining with other issues that shes letting take control. I need the counselor to point it out to her.

My wife thinks I'm unhappy totally, which isnt true. Im unhappy with 1 particular aspect which is a major one.
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>>596208725
Depends on the state. No fault (like my divorce in MD after 23 years) states everyone gets half. Then they use a 12 variable formula to calculate alimony. My cunt stayed home and raised the kids and never worked. So I get to pay her 2500 a month alimony for 5 years so she can 'get back on her feet'. My reward for making 190k a year and her not having to work. And her fucking a mutual friend.
Now in NC you cheat all you get is the road. I have that story too, best friend tossed his wife out she got shit. All depends.
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>>596212151
wait til her mom dies! thats when shit really gets real, they basically become their mother, its absolutely awful
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>>596208050

Contact a divorce lawyer. Ask him about what I'm about to mention to you.

There was a guy at my work who wanted a divorce. Yet, when I asked him why he doesn't just file for one, he said he doesn't want to lose his house to her. He told me that if he can get her to cheat on him, she forfeits the property.

Ask a male divorce lawyer if this is a real law. If so, boom. You keep your home.

Otherwise, if you paid for it 100% and can prove it, fucking short-sell it and throw the bitch to the curb.

Otherwise otherwise, since it's still legally your house, you can legally "renovate" it as needed. Rip out all the cabinets, floors, walls, doors... leave it an empty shell. Hey man, you were stressed and things were annoying you. Then you fell hard with the divorce and just never got around to the repairs.

I once knew a guy who's wife was getting his car in the divorce. His solution? He got a cutting torch and a grinder and hacked it to pieces. She got the car. All $0 value of it.

It's your property. Nothing says she has to get it in pristine exact quality. Only that she gets it.
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>>596211465
This
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>>596212319
>She probably figures if that happens that I can't collect money from her since I am the lower earning spouse

not necessarily true. you two have a kid. she wins custody, wins the house, suddenly the tables flip and you may have to pay both alimony and child support with limited custody. reason being her costs become artificially higher and every bit can be exaggerated for worst case scenario. your income looks disposable to the courts while hers looks necessary.
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>>596208903
BS. Even in no fault states it's adultery. Interestingly enough in MD oral does not count. Cheating is cock in box period. Neither does homosex. Law says dick in vag. Period. I find that hysterical.
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>>596212424

sounds like a lot of bullshit and excuses. 1st world problems not real problems etc.

you aren't going to get any improvement. ask any guy who's been in a sexless marriage. once it stops it stops, her choice and you aren't going to change that
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Walk into house, bf is fucking her, you kill him saying you thought it was a rapist and was defending your wife, traumatized by killing another human, you are a victim, she has to admit in court she was cheating in order to convict you of murder, but then losses claim to your shit, dilemma for her.
Sorry on phone no green text
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>>596208050

We told you then and we'll tell you now, don't fucking trust women. They're like unrully selfish children who never got smacked growing up and have no boundaries or self control. They're endlessly self-absorbed, and like dogs chasing cars will never be happy or fulfilled, leaving a trail of wreckage in their wake. Be thankful it was only three miserable years and not a lifetime. You won't owe her that much shit and here are no kids to fuck your shit up.
Turn and burn friend. Ditch her, cut your losses and run.
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>>596212721
its not totally sexless, its just like once a month... Im just not satisfied at the frequency because it makes us feel like roommates.

I'm not going to cheat on her though.
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>>596212151
Are there two different divorced dudes in this topic, because i thought op had no kids?
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well i for one would like to hear her side of the story
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>>596212838
Different from OP.

I'm an anon who just saw this thread. But now I'm leaving cuz I gotta get to work.

Wish me luck with my marriage. Maybe someday I'll update with my own Walter White
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>>596208050

Another thing you can do is claim mental, emotional, and verbal abuse.

Seriously, get this... Shut up and listen.

Ask for your sessions to be recorded. They may keep their guard up for a bit, but they will gang up on you on camera. Record all the nasty gritty shit. And keep it. Keep it safe. Get a fucking lockbox in the bank if you need to, but keep that shit on record. Fuck it, Cloud that shit if you must.

Then, tell your wife but not the counselor (off camera) you are willing to compromise if she can meet you halfway. You want a second opinion. This time, you choose the DC.

Choose a male. Go to a few sessions, and see how she treats you. After a few, send him the videos.

Let him see how they both gang up on you. Let a second mind step into the mix. Get his opinions.

Then contact a lawyer with Mr. DC's statements and the video documentation.

Presto: Case of abuse.

You're welcome.
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Burning down the house!!!!! WOOOO!!!!!!! I love the heads!!!! Nice!
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Do it you faggot!!!!
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>>596208050

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iFloCgLfbE
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This is why I love being sterile, I fuck around with a few girlfriends but if any of the try to bait me into marriage through being pregnant I can just drop that bomb on them. Never going to get married and I'm happy for it.
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>>596208050
You married a cunt. I'm so sorry for you /b/
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HOW does a thread survive on b for 8 hours but only getting like 50 more posts?
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POST HER INFO OP
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>>596208050
You deserve it for not signing a preenup and for allowing her name to be on the mortgage. You should treat women like hungry Jews. Good luck anon. I really feel for you.
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>>596213248
cuz we talkin bout yo mama, and even when we just talk bout yo mama her fatness creates a black hole like gravity which slows time down
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>>596213305

>Fuck you you ignorant prick!
>Dude, them feels...
>Pick one
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You can't be charged for breaking into your own house op. Wait till she leaves, break in, change locks, file for a restraining order.
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We could kill her for u ANON. Just post her details.
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I'm sorry op. Learn this, bitches never learn. and tell her she can have the house sure. but she needs to pay for it.

Also better and preferred option is this: Grab a knife, put knife A to throat B of boyfriend A. Then insert alcohol A into bottle A, light it and insert through window A.
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>>596212777
Trips save you
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>>596212819

you're delusional about marriage I think.

>because it makes us feel like roommates.

that's what a marriage is. the hot / love period ends biologically. long term marriages only work as partnerships

once a month is permanent. you won't ever have the same frequency of sex back. you're going to ruin your marriage if you can't accept this
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>>596208050

literally cucked
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>>596208050
So my question is what are you planning to do?
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>>596211009
edgy
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OP here's what you do:
>Go over there
>put on some spiel about how you're sure you two can talk about this like rational adults
>don't lose your cool, just say whatever BS you need to say, to keep the conversation going for a bit so the next part doesn't seem suspicious
>ask if you can borrow her phone to make an important job related call , make up some excuse for why you can't use yours, I don't know the plugs at the motel are shit at charging and yours has already ran out of battery, some shit like that
>if she hands it over, excuse yourself to make the call, and go into another room
>and here's when you start searching through her phone for texts, emails, FB messages, whatever social media accounts she's logged into, and start looking for incriminating shit
>anything that might prove she's been looking to pull this shit for a while, or that proves extended infidelity
>screencap it, email it to yourself, delete any proof you did shit from her phone
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>>596208050
I don't know the law where you live, but the fact that there are no kids is really good for you.

Everything will be divided, including the home, the equity will also. If she wants to keep it she will have to get a loan to buy your half, if there is no equity and you are upside down on the original loan then let her have it.

Get your OWN lawyer, don't use one that she gets, because they will be working for her.
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no wonder why she replaced you.
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>>596209010
Im with it kill the cunt op
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>>596208050
This pasta has been posted at least 5 times within the last 24 hours. but on the off chance this is legit, ruin her.

surely if you were married for that period of time you would have knowledge of her SSN, credit card numbers, ect. spread that shit like herpies after everything is through. Find your town's local scum and find some way to subtly have them overhear her normal schedules so they could possibly break into the house and rob her of everything, possibly kill her if they run into her in the process. Get your town's local skanks to go after her new boyfriend so he gets some STDs. Make her life so terrible she an heroes

This insect tried to take away everything you hold dear in this world, it took your life away from you, its only fair that you do the same in return.
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>>596208050

> Hahahah let's post about a cheating leech of a feminazi, that'll sure get me those guaranteed replies!

It's just too easy these days OP.
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>>596210221
Ur a shitty person and his wife is too u faggots need to die
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>>596211121
>I'm sleeping in this house that I do not own or have paid nothing towards. I now have equal claim over it.

You are joking, aren't you?
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>>596215445
if no one else claims rights to it, why not? are you saying if you went to some land NO one else discovered, it wouldnt be "yours" if you claimed it? of course. so we agree on this, yes?

So why cant normal land lose its owners, if ownership is as simple as finding it?
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>>596212958
this kinda sounds like it would/could work...
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>>596215584

retard.. you cant just claim land haha. this is not the 1600s
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>>596215695
seriously? you realise they still do this today with cars. if its not registered and left on the road/street long enough, its considered abandoned, and if you dont move it in a certian time, its taken and, whatevered they want.

so if your minivan, a home in a car is stationaty, its not okay, but if it moves, it IS okay?
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>>596215584
Of course he is claiming rights to it
It's his fucking house!
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>>596215139
could also throw in a few of these.
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>>596215984
no, you see, thats not how it works. you need to have paid taxes, showed you lived in it, something. its "my house" isnt good enough. if it WAS, then why cant some indian just walk into your home and be like "my grandparents dwelled here once upon a time". if you leave, die, or abandon shit, its no longer yours, amigo
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>>596208050
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=92kDUiN1zLQ
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>>596215790

you really are the dumbest person ever. the state/bank owns the house if no one lives there. squatters dont have rights and who the fuck lives in a minivan poorfag?
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>go to house when bitch isn't there
>kick door open or find another way in
>change the locks
>toss all of their shit out
>put all of your shit in
>make sure you have the deed
>say you live there now
> get money
>fuck bitches
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>>596216310
so why dosent the us bank on property that goes vacant in japan?

oh thats because the bank only claims ownership on property it OWNS. because the land has been claimed. by them. by purchasing the rights from the original owner or what have you. dont be silly.
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>>596216100
They are married, living in the same house that I would bet my entire steam library he has documentation of paying fees towards. If it's under your logic that he doesn't own the house simply because he hasn't inhabit it for a week or so, then why the fuck would she be fighting for it?
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>>596216440
*own
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>>596216440

then the state of Japan owns it fucktard.
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>>596216470
the topic mentioned squatters, in which case i was assuming not literally the case we were talking about now. Nor am i saying i agree with these rules or think they make sense, just that thats how shit goes, yo
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>>596211435
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>>596216440

you as a normal person cant just go into a house and claim it. or take land and make it yours. you are such an idiot
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>>596208050
we had the same copy pasta last week here
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>>596216564
You're still an ass hat
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>>596208966
LIVING IN AMERICA!
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>>596216617
actually, in certian circumstances, you sorta, can. of course, its very limited and it usually takes "live somewhere for a year while the other owner has completely abandoned it, no paper trail, anything". but, yeah dude. it sorta, can.
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>>596208050
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Bad pasta.

Now you guys are really reaching in your anti feminist crusades. Just fuck a bitch and relax.

99% of people are shit. Female, male. Get used to it and get better at judging people. Would help if kids this days weren't trying to get serious of married after only knowing them a year and never discussing actual adult concepts beforehand.
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>>596216710
we are posting on b, its a given
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>>596216746

no you cant, this is not the 1800s wehre if the deed is lost no one owns it. everything is in archives and systems.
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post her full name and adress, we can solve this op
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>>596208050
You know what you have to do. You can hire a good lawyer and get YOUR house.
Or you can shot her in the face. That fucking whore.
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>>596208050
Marriage isn't supposed to be easy or fun. It's there so people don't waste time competing for mates and get shit done. It's a legal contract that the government and church officially support, to make people stay together even when they can't trust each other. You make the best of what you've got. This only works if there is no possibility of divorce and if one of the two is submissive. This is why a man should be allowed to hit his woman. At least, if you want to have marriage in society.

It's perfectly rational for a woman to exhaust the man financially if she can get away with it. And while the marriage lasts, if he can't hit her, she can just keep nagging until she gets what she wants, every time. Because women are (for some reason) not capable of honor, she will do it whenever it's the better option.
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>>596216746
YEP.
Squatters rights.
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>>596212430
she worked for free in your house lmao
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>>596209854
but anon, women ARE lesser people
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>>596217254
then why are you afraid of talking to them?
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>>596217033
no really. a quick google check might rock your world.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Squatting
the reason you havent heard this is because no ones stupid enough, generally, to allow such a long enough term to pass. but shit is real, nigga
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>>596217254
>mfw all these religions that treat women as lesser equals keep letting lesser equals trample right over them

seriously guys. "shes only worth half of me" as she fucking sits on your shoulders. what a joke you faggots are
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>ctrl + f 'cuck'
>1 of 2 results

wow /b/ is total unredeemable shit
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>>596208050
in what country is it possible for a cheating bitch ass wife to steal your house legally, especially when she didn't pay shit for it? nigga what the fuck are you on about, you're not going to lose shit if you know what you're doing.
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>>596217523
like, america. this is why pre nup gets a billion results on google
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>>596217595
what the fuck? so it's completely possible for this slut to steal someone's property? how? someone please explain
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>>596209951
This. I think it pays off at the end to pay for the high end lawyer...
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>>596217477
what are you talking about
I don't have time for women
(nice dubs though)
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Mary an asian chick. Sure they're crazy but they also fuck like champs, cook and clean. I think it's worth it. Besides they support the mens roles and females roles approach to a relationship.
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>>596209951
OP this is what you're going to do.
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Came here hoping to see tits. No revenge photos?
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>>596208050
>>596208050
>>596208050
Whats the law where you at OP? Is it that everything acquired in marriage is split in half? How can she take the whole house?
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>>596217843
fucking bitch. Fuck people. Fuck them all.
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>>596211435
But women want to be treated as equals. That bitch better be paying OP alimony. Ave
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>>596217854
well, unless you sign a pre-nup, part of the agreement in marriage is to share half of everything. of course, when your for sure to work out marriage fails and your divorcing wife points out the "half" suddenly your being ROBBED! by being liable to what you agreed, how horrible.

So yeah, when you agree to sign half of your shit away, half of your shit, gets taken away. Does it make sense people sign this contract? No. Does it happen? well, heres a thread of people soon to be yellin about how they shouldnt be held responsible to what they agreed to....
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OP Dude please tell me you pulled as much cash from your shared bank account as possible (if you had one). If she can't lawyer up she can't get your house.
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>>596217034
Goodnight sleep sand man
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>>596217364

hmm, maybe in the US then. seems like the most retarded thing ever. that shit could never work here in EU atleast
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>>596209606
Do you still own it? Are you divorced NOW? Kick her out. Call the police. Tell her she's living in a house you own and she has no claim to, and she's living with her boyfriend.

She doesn't own anything right now, so fuck her. She can get a motel room or sleep at her boyfriend's house, dude. You own it NOW, so get in it.
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>>596218478
theres literally a euro section there, man. take a look. in theory, in a lot of the world, you can literally wait shit out. good luck finding anyone that lazy to score from
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>>596210221
TFW you'll never marrysiomo
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>>596211435
Shitty bait
I remember once my wife demanded half of everything from me, while I had a laaaaaarge debt I got while I was with her which I was keeping secret from her. Right at the end of the court hearing I stated it, and ended up giving her just under half of my debt. Now, she's homeless (cause she couldn't find a job and shit went down) while I've paid off my half and living comfortably. Women want half of what you want, aslong as it's good for them. Fucking double-standardising cunts.
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>>596218173
She definitely was at least partially at fault but her new husband was more to blame I think. He used her fear of being alone to guilt her in to giving her money (half my inheritance) away for a shoddy business that im sure he wouldn't share in profits with.

The hard part for me is yes, my mom did wrong but she's practically living on the street now. Shes still my mom after all. Its hard to go to family gatherings on either side now. How do I tell my dad that she's in fucking awful shape and to call off the dogs and leave her alone without pissing her off for admitting weakness? Hes rightfully pissed and I get it, but hes got a private eye going thru her trash and shit. Shes scared and alone.

And people wonder why im 26 and have a 'fuck marriage' attitude.
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>>596218478
European countries don't even accept prenuptual agreements. How the fuck is that better?
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>>596218478
oh man land laws are crazy. they still use systems from like 600 years ago and shit to determine crap and all sorts of old archaic laws, all around the world. dont ever bother trying to make sense of it all
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>>596218893
>have one high school friend whose married to his high school girlfriend, against all odds, successful marriage, stable as fuck
>the other five high school friends, have kids but separated, divorced, currently suing each other, in vendettas

jesus fuck. had i known what sort of nightmare relationships would turn out to be for most people, i wouldnt of even tried my pathetic dating shit in highschool. what a bullet to dodge
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>Will you marry me? = Wanna pool all our shit and split ownership 50/50?

And you faggots get mad when the marriage ends and she takes what you gave her on a silver platter.
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Burn the house down with the little slut cunt in it.
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Check you`re state laws anon. My wife and i agreed on a divorce. I told her to find us a lawyer and set something. I paid him in advance to just do all the legal paperwork. reconcile divorce kinda thing. He showed up representing her. He said because she was the one that called. Long story short i hired my own lawyer and nailed her to the poor house. There are lawyers who specialize in representing the man. Seriously anon find a group in you're area that can point you in the right direction. Good luck
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>>596218893
I know where you coming from about the family shit. I'm in the same position. Although I get along with my mother's side. My father's, ehh not so well.

In my case my dad is the one who is struggling. Alcohol and bad choice of friends. Really want to help but I don't know where to start. I still feel like a kid even tho I'm 21. It's frustrating.
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>>596219604
>I still feel like a kid even tho I'm 21

You are still a kid. What have you done that's so great, you fuckhead?
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>>596219334
Use that Jimmie bro. Fuck women
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>>596208050
Well thanks for making me rage this morning op.
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>>596208050
thats all u got now op
pic very very very related
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>>596208050
ahaha is this the new copypasta? This was here 3 days ago.
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>>596208572
sorry, but they're often more promiscuous. life of celibacy, or trigger toes it is, love is a lie. better get used to it
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>>596220004
the cool thing about gay marriage is this is expected. instead of it being "your cheating" its "and i wasnt invited?" since pregnancy is non-existent. theres no, commitement
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>>596219706
Worked at 17, made 20k. Construction jobs. Spiral into depression for a year and half cause of parents splitting up and amongst other shit but that was the icing on the cake.

20, pick my self up, try to return to study. Dropped out. Back to work, still working till present. Saved up 20k now. Want to help my mother buy a house. Paying rent to help my mom and my little brothers and sisters.

And lol fuck yourself.
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>>596211435
This much bait all in one post. Incredible.
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>>596212550
they fucked during OP's trial separation with wife as initiated by marriage counselling therefore its irrelevant unfortunately
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>>596220406
>Spiral into depression for a year and half cause of parents splitting up
You're a huge bitch LOL
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If OP is still around, divorce lawyerfag is here to answer all of his questions!

PS- As a general rule, you're going to be poor. But bonus: So will she!
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>>596208050
Real fucking simple. Break open your door with crowbar. Throw her shit on the lawn when she leaves for work. Find paperwork present to police that house is yours and you just threw her the fuck out. Move to another country after you have fucked her over to not even have to deal with even one more ounce of her shit. Never ever EVER put up with a whores shit.
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Kill her.
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>>596216739
"I CONCUR" was never said throughout this entire scene. it was DO YOU CONCUR?
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>>596213824
You either had an amazing roommate or a shitty marriage.

It's true that the physical thing ends eventually to a degree (actually it depends, I know that some (in their 50s) couples still getting it on) but there is also the portion where you are together as family members, a true union. Not just a roommate.

Honestly I don't really know how it is in usa, in secular families, but that is how I grew up (in my community family is the most important thing and while you have divorces it is truly a last resort, all efforts are invested into maintaining the family unit).
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Yawn - here goes:

1 - I think you should probably look at the parts that are your fault. such as:
putting her on a pedestal to begin with.
expecting her to not get tired of your pathetic fumbling
having poor taste in women

Now that that is over and you have learned you lesson about how to choose a woman:

2 - Sell your house now. Spend the money. Actually, just sell the house. if you've only been married 3 years and bought the house after you married, you have virtually no equity in it anyhow. After you sell it, and pay the realtor fees, you might have a few thousand dollars left.

Use that money to hire a good attorney.

Please remember that this is not about "women" but about the shitty "woman" you chose.
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