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Hey bee, social retard here. I'm 23 yo and I have very poor

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Hey bee, social retard here.
I'm 23 yo and I have very poor social skills. I have no idea how to make new friends, don't enjoy "going out", get all beta around grills and say super awkward things like a proper autistic. I don't have "ice breakers", what I have is "ice makers".

I've accepted the fact that I will probably spend my years alone, as in grills won't have me.
I do have some close friends but we just play games and meet online.

Depressed.
>ask me anything
in return, good stuff. pic related
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bimp
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Honestly, dude... Go start working out at a small gym. Get /fit/. I know it sounds odd, but I guarantee this will change all of your problems. It may not get rid of your problems, but it will change them to where you can be social and get girls.
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>>585512146
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>>585512488
>mfw training at a gym for 3 year still not talking out get any grils feel better bout self but life still suck
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>>585512488
I do got to the gym. Three times a week actually. Started in august this year after a long period of no physical activity what so ever.

Good general tip though-
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>>585512146
I have the same problem OP. But just try to make some small talk that's how I find out. But, small talk only is good for talking to guys.
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I don't have "ice breakers", what I have is "ice makers".

You have humor at least.
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>>585512146
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>>585512964
Small talking is so awkward though. Onbn the other hand I did meet one of my best friends that way. I asked him if he wanted to measure dicks after about 10 min that I saw him for the first time.

>>585513098
I'm hilarious. Problem is it's only me that get my jokes.
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>>585512907
You probably should be going to the gym more than three times a week.
I go six
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Maybe try talking to "girls" not "grills" grills can't talk. Thats probably why your not getting the reaction you want.
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>>585512146
Hi there,,,, to get social interaction.. Just start with saying "hello" to people you meet.
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>>585513526
Listen to this anon. The amount of time you spend in the gym had been scientifically shown to be directly correlated to how attractive girls find you.
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>>585513675
You are not funny
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>>585513428
Who is she?
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Ow and besides a "hello".... Show interest in the stories that girls tell you. Start with "ugly" girls
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>>585514008
And your sad.
I can't talk to girls. Cry baby. Grow up.
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>>585512146
Same, i used to bee way better at socializing and even almost lost virginity 2times(i couldnt ger hard because of fap so much) nad had a few gf's. But after spending 2 moths izolated in my house. I cant even talk to peaple normaly and i feel extremely uncomfrtable near many peaple(i even get panic attacks).

Live is fucked, dont care, i like sience and workout, it helps with my issues.

I am thinking about visiting psihiatrist.

GL OP.
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>>585513526
Don't wanna get too big though. I like being that tiny guy that is super agile and surprisingly strong. You think I might lose that if I go 6 times a week?

>>585513675
Well fuck.

>>585513922
Is it all about physical appearence though? Are there no girls that like people for other stuff? Like, I'm a decent cook. My food tastes great. Atleast I think so.
>>585514140
You don't want sauce. faggot filming won't shut up and is super annoying ruining it. I can't fap to that gif any more cause I saw sauce.
>>585514213
Problem is I don't know anything to get them to share stories. Why ugly girls?
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I am socially akward. I can't break the ice. I'm so sad. I'm gonna kill myself. Instead of going out and trying to meet people I'm gonna complain online with strangers about how sad I am.
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go outside more.. interact without being creepy
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Ugly girls will feel greatful you are even speaking to them
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>>585512146 I'm quite the same... been kinda down lately since I realized I'm 23 and still can't cross as single box in the normalfag bingo. mfw even /b/ has a great social life when compared to you...

>>585512488
It's not my looks, it's my character or something. two years ago I used to run an hour a day and was quite fit actually. While it's true that girls talk to you more, that didn't help me at all, as I just don't know how to talk to people casually
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>>585514863
True.

Maybe OP needs to lower his standards..
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>>585514737
Shit that will be tricky. because If i see a pretty girls I want to smell her tits or if she has a nice butt i wanna live between her ass cheeks. I'll just see her farts ass refreshing spring winds or whatever.

So besically I see tits and ass. no girl and nothing to talk to. I don't know.

>>585515031
This. I feel like I don't belong amongst other people. Like I'm not a part of the normal society.
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>>585512146
Mfw you are me
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>>585515080
For sure. Fat chicks. Fat chicks don't care what you have to say. They are sluts too.
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>>585515362
Maybe you should try to see a person instead of just objects.
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>>585512146
Nearly same shit here
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>>585515362
>This. I feel like I don't belong amongst other people. Like I'm not a part of the normal society.

You are doing this to yourself. You want to be different soooo badly and "not belong" that you are hindering your social development. Your not special.
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>>585512146
cheer up bro

I used to be in the same boat, all you gotta do is push yourself to not give a fuck.

if you act like you don't care about what people think of you, they'll look at you as much more alpha. chances are people dont think you're as awkward or weird as you think they do. just be yourself, man. fuck other people and how they feel

do what make you happy and happiness will follow
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Take a pic of yourself
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>>585515904
Or go straight psychopath and mimic normal people. You see people be normal everyday. Copy them. Once you find a relationship or friendship you can slowly become more strange
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>>585515362
>implying every other guy doesn't feel this way
just try to not care if you are fucking them or not- (easier said than done). Acting like you don't care makes them want you, acting like you do (doing shit for them) repels them.
it's a fine line, it's easy to be an antisocial asshole who repels them.
Try talking with average girls to build skills. if still spaghetti, try talking with ugly girls. build skills and work yer way up
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>>585512146
half of my friends say awkward things everytime, but they're enough confident to get a girlfriend, try to be more yourself rather than thinking about being a beta and having authistic behaviours, that happens when you're not yourself and you try to be someone you're not.
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>>585512146
I feel u /b/ro grills are scary
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>>585515080
>>585515427
Why
>>585515538
I know. I do this with all people. Not just girls. I'vr tried being social but I find no one has anything actually interesting to say so I don't know what to say back. Like it's no point. Talking just to talk - it's not for me. You get me?

>>585515814
I don't want to be special. I'd rather be normal like all those I see every day at work. I don't feel special. I just feel left out of something. Like I missed a crucial part of growing up and getting to know how to interact with other people
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>>585514587
Of course not everything is looks, but i think the first impression is important in people who lack social skills like us. The more handsome you look, the nore girls will be willing to talk to you and from there you can practice. Of course the first times you are going to still be akward and everything, but you will improve
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>>585512146

You're not depressed, faggot.
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>>585516118
you're probably someone great to nhang around with but you seem to be unable to set yourself free of these "social chains" you've put yourself on.
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>>585516222
Whoa trips
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>>585516240
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>>585516661
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>>585515373
I used to be you. Got my shit together, got a girlfriend, then got cheated on because she was a whore.
Picked myself up and got another gf who's not a whore, but now have no free time to play vidja or watch movies, barely get to see friends, get dragged along to go shopping and have to deal with a whole lot of emotional drama as well as her psycho family. Also she's pretty much stopped making efforts to please me sexually and now only gives half-assed hj's once in a harvest moon

Having a gf is overrated as fuck. Wish I was still a foreveralone fag so i could j/o to gay porn and play Summoner all day.
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>>585516240
Like i said go out. Watch people interacting. Go home practice copying them. Go use new aquired skills.
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>>585514484
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>>585512146

I would [spoiler] make love [/spoiler] to the girl in the middle, forcing her to [spoiler] have sex with me in a missionary position while holding hands [/spoiler] which she secretly loves to do but she won't act like it since she's a [spoiler] bitch [/spoiler]
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>>585516240
>I don't want to be special.
But you are, as everyone, being different makes us special and we're all different from each other, imagine a place where everyone is just the same person, that wouldn't be worth it at any point, plus every guy I've met who's been quite the different one (without being a fucking retard) always found a girl for him. Anyways I'll also give you the typical advice, being fit helps a lot and not being fat helps even more.
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Just be hero
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>>585513428
Hard to say what exactly is going on here. Working out helps. If you are any good as a cook take some lessons. Tons of women at those things. Just put yourself in situations where everyone is new and inexperienced. Serves as a common basis for making friends
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>>585512808
It's not about the actual getting /fit/ part. It's the confidence that come with it. Girls love confident guys and looking good is a plus. As long as you just look okay and act confident around girls they usually get interested
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>>585514484
I
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>>585515080
>be me
>first year college
>talk to ugly girl, mostly alone
>she's into animu, death note an whatnot
>kinda get along, sometimes comes to sit next to me during classes
>asks me if I want to study for exams together
>we meet at university, she's kinda stupid and unable to even do the first exercise
>try to explain at first but give up soon, not interestend in becoming her personal tutor bitch
>we split with a very awkward handshake
>next term I don't see her anymore in classes
>try to text her once. no answer to this day
>So beta don't even know where I went wrong, probably everywhere
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