>>579253491 I feel as though I'm already there, the crushing part, I mean. I go outside, and I don't even feel the need to speak to others any more, nor even look at them. Of course, I make sure not to step on anyone's shoes or anything, but as far as communicating with people, I talk about as much as a Zen monk.
Dress appropriately, look after your hygiene and wear good shoes.
Women don't love men. That's the first thing you have to learn. They're just immature males without a firm body or logic upgrading to whatever they can.
Women want me in real life for no reason because I'm tall, white, green eyes and I stay active. I've had to push black women off of me. If you feel so alone then go talk to black women. They're the lowest valued. You will get pussy regardless of what you do.
>>579252447 All to familiar. Ironicly it is girl related. Story is always the same. I meet girl. Fall in love. Get in relationship. Be super happy. Slowly she starts acting like a bitch. Come with excuses like: stress, not her day, things I did wrong. Think whatever I love her and she makes me happy. This slowly but surely gets worse. Then she fucks up my life before she dumps me. To prevent being hurt shut down all emotions. Hurts less but can enjoy fun stuff less. Be lonely but okay with it. Decide never to have a gf again. Get more lonely. Meet girl. Fall in love. Spend several weeks thinking I should not go in to it. Finally think: not all girls are the same so sure. Get in relationship. Start to show emotions more. (Not as much as it was but more). Shit starts again.
I lose more and more of my ability to feel after every relationship.
You can be a complete homo and you can act socially inept all you want. Doesn't matter. As long as you're not physically dangerous.
All you have to do is look like you could house a female with you. Don't have emotional attachments to your GI Joe collection. Don't wear T Shirts with cartoon characters.
Look like you've taken a little bit of losses during your life emotionally. That makes the woman feel like she could get the upper hand on you.
Women want a man to give them free quality of living and not be too threatened.
I've done every type of relationship. I've talked to women who I later found out wanted to keep up contact with me. They were from Europe, completely stunning women. I just talked and did myself and we fell asleep together. I didn't know it was their custom not to have sex.
I've had black women punch me in the head for rejecting their sex.
It's not difficult at all to get women interested in you. Just don't look like you have attachments yourself and like you're dependent on your mom. There's nothing to do with "being an asshole." I've never been an asshole in my life. The asshole thing is what you tell yourself to kick yourself into gear to start acting like a man should. In the end you're not going to say things to offend women. Just poke at them if you feel like they're not progressing fast enough.
>>579256265 At least you actually managed to start up another relationship, I couldnt even get that far. Been almost 5 years since my ex fucked my life up and now I cant even speak to the person behind the register at the shop without all the words coming out in the wrong order and having a panic attack
All words you discovered on 4chan, I'm assuming? The only one that even remotely (and I do mean remotely) applies here is autist and that's a HUGE stretch.
The guy who said you were projecting is correct. You are, it's painfully obvious. Although given your knee jerk reaction to his accusation, I somehow doubt that you actually understand what the word means, instead choosing to toss 4chan vernacular at him because you're just so edgy.
>>579256396 Very much possible. Despite what people say about man I know many who invest the most in their relationship. I invest all my time and energy in it but am always blamed for not investing enough.
>>579257739 >which is why in reality, they cheat more than men.
The woman is constantly flirting and sending gestures to other men. Her security depends on being able to lure the next dick
>>579257323 >I invest all my time and energy in it but am always blamed for not investing enough.
Ditch that person and stop putting relationships as your focal point
Does anybody else need help I'm about to close this stupid ass thread. I've never shared my feelings to anybody once in my life and I don't understand the motivations behind these feel threads. If you're sad go buy a cigar.
I just can't give a shit anymore, but only on the inside, on the outside I appear as a friendly person.
when people talk I just cant pay attention because it bored the shit out of me reguardless of what they are talking about, I wish I could be more interested in things but I simply cant.
The only way I can imagine this came about is from years of people both friends and family not taking me seriously or just not looking interested in me or the things I had to say so this has just made me exactly what what they painted me to be. I cant seem to break the cycle.
>>579259142 I kind of know the feel. At school (in Uni), I wear a mask of happiness and being "that happy guy" all the time, but whenever I'm not around people I know, the smile's gone, and I go back to not talking/caring.
>feel restless >yet have no motivation >feel overwhelmed >feel overwhelmed when thinking about doing one thing at a time >want to go out and do something, ANYTHING >too scared, tired, anxious >sleeping all day >awake all night >stay on internet all night >reoccurring thoughts as to why I suck, am lame, am a loser, screwed up, etc >constantly tired
Am I depressed? I've always been a happy person and can always see the bright side. I moved here 2 weeks ago and am happy with where my life is, yet I feel like complete and total shit lately. I moved away from home because my family was suffocating me and I realized that none of my irl "friends" even remotely cared about me in the slightest. But of course now I don't have the support of my family and have 0 friends in a new city.
>>579252447 Hey Op. Sending some feels your way. Ima give a little greentext for comparison:
>always thought I was a crazy asshole but people liked me anyways >lies, secrets, deception, manipulation, the whole nine years but they are disguised >get seriously involved with girl >"Love" nigga >divulged all secrets all lies everything >feelsgoodman.jpg >she accepted me for who I was >feelsgreatman.png >i felt she started trying to control me >but she accepts me entirely >bitching all the time >but she accepts me entirely >broke up with her because she was annoying
I don't try and pretend I'm a psychopath, but there are definitely times when I can be cold as fuck, like when we broke up. Felt nothing. Then there are the times when I'm emotional as fuck, like after she moved away and I realized I was all alone. Again. How I l-liked it...But that experience really changed me.
tl;dr - OP, you've become an asshole from neglect, have you ever imagined what's it like to become an emotionless void, intentionally? I know it may sound contradictory, but its the best explanation I have.
>tfw crying reading this thread checking my phone to see if she reply >favorite childhood video game (tony hawk american wasteland) menu screen theme playing on my tv in the background >tfw suicide tonight
>>579255218 I have a cat that has problems with kidney and others that can't be treated. Used to play with him a lot but he is more a problem for me than a part of family like he used to be for me. Fuck, now i can't imagine putting him in a never ending sleep after ignoring him so much.
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