I've reached a point where I just want to give up looking for sex, give up masturbation.
I got my dick mutilated at 21 because of mild phimosis, I never thought it would get this bad.
Only 2 years later, I'm sitting here with a dick that has lost easily 75% sensitivity, and fapping is worthless because the foreskin gave pleasure while fapping.
I don't know what I should do at this point, I mean my libido is high, but I just don't want to have sex, I don't feel a thing.
I might really kill myself very soon because of this.
Uncutfags, phimosis guys, NEVER get your dick cut, even if stretching won't do the job, just wait for another way the solve it, NEVER, EVER get cut, it's the worst decision I've ever made, and there's no way back. I'm stuck here with a dick that has no sensitivity
pic related.. the feeling I once craved for, lived for, now has no worth to me, because I don't feel it.
Instead of killing yourself you should take advantage of this situation. Try becoming a cardinal in the vatican, and later on the pope, neither of them are allowed to have sex and therefore it shouldnt be a problem for you.
don't kill yourself OP. just get a doll, u can take your time with them, and the added weight with thermal blanket / hot oil will stimulate you enough, so you can at least enjoy it at your own pace without worrying about any issues you may be having.
>>548903712 This is one of my worst fears. So glad I was born in Europe where it isn't the norm to cut all boys at birth. I'm not even trolling. I can't imagine how I would live when they'd cut my foreskin off.
Dat zal ik nooit leren, het is mentaal slopend om te weten dat ik 75% gevoeligheid mis, dat intense gevoel door je hele lichaam, mis ik nu gewoon. het voelt niet speciaal, je kan net zo goed je wijsvinger erin stoppen en dan proberen klaar te komen
>>548905796 Ya maybe if you have way too much foreskin, but who gives a shit what it looks like. By the time you are in the position to fuck a girl it's not like being uncut is suddenly going to keep anything from happening lol. Besides, I like the look of uncut more.
I've been actually shoving dildos/vibrators up my ass while fapping, because normal fapping just doesn't do the trick for me anymore, I don't feel a thing so yeah, might actually look for a dick in not too long of a time.
>>548905672 I don't get it, how can't you get off from masturbating, I also had to get circumcision later on in my teens(17 years). Like my dick doesn't even look anything of those that most americans post, mine is all pink, purple at the head, soft and always squishy plus it's extremely sensitive. Plus my frenulum is fully intact don't know if you got a bad circumcision.
>>548903712 You know, there is a lot of stupidity in these threads. You claim because I'm cut I don't know what he is missing. Those of you cut as adults complaining that jacking off is now the same feeling as rubbing your arm. Guys, I got news for you. If that's true, you need to sue the doctor. Because that isn't normal. The doctor fucked up and cut a nerve. He malpractices your ass. But because of threads like this, you think its normal circum sized feeling. Open your ears and start listening to those of us who are cut. I'm telling you jacking off should feel great. A woman using lotion and a light touch should be able to make you cum in around 5 minutes. If your jacking off and feel nothing at all, it's not normal. Come on and think a little. The is a male dominated world. If it removed the fun from sex, do you really think we would still be doing it? To OP, stop believing the bullshit spread by 12 year old shut ins and talk to a different doctor. From what you describe the surgeon fucked up.
>>548906481 Nope. The nervous system is more complicated than that, and you can't sever any nerves with a routine circumcision. It's to do with feedback mechanisms from the brain. Pain/pleasure is a complicated thing. If OP isn't baiting (pardon the pun), then he's got a serious medical issue.
Ja maar toch, seks is instinctief, als je bijvoorbeeld een week niet fapped, word je gek, alles draait dan om seks.
Maar wat als dat 75% minder goed voelt? ik bedoel, het is nog steeds wel geweldig, maar de gevoeligheid die je mist, is niet te vervangen, het is echt verschrikkelijk...
die gekke moslims en amerikanen, wat doen ze hun kinderen aan.
het erge is ook dat ik het gevoel ken van een voorhuid, mijn phimosis was in mijn jongere jaren nog niet erg (13-18 ofzo). de gevoeligheid is geweldig, maar het gevoel van een voorhuid zelf ook, hoe het over je eikel heenglijdt enzovoorts, dat is nu niet meer mogelijk, nu zit ik maar een beetje losse huid tegen de onderkant aan te tikken, dat moet 'fappen' voorstellen
I think I can offer a unique perspective, having had a botched circumcision at birth. Basically, a bridge of foreskin was left between my head and "scar", so I had it removed at about 10 yo. Listen, it's pretty obvious that the ring around your dick is the remnants of your foreskin because it's 2x more sensitive than the rest of the shaft and where I had it "retouched" I feel almost nothing because it's real scar tissue. I do fantasize about having more sensation, but it hasn't stopped me from seeking out and enjoying sex. The lack of sensitivity precluding orgasms is true and I try to justify it, but ultimately I just focus on the pleasure of the tip and balls (ass, if she's willing), and on the connectedness I feel with the other person during physical intimacy. Sex is so much more than slamming your dick into something and having an orgasm. Not that your orgasms would even be affected by the vehicle you use to get there. My point is that, what both cut and uncut fags miss as the point is that sex may be a slightly different animal for both of them, but it doesn't mean it's as different and earth-shattering as everyone is ranting about. Just relax and enjoy what's happening, without jumping into "what if's" and just fucking yourself over by forcing of a memory of sensation that you either never had or have grossly blown out of proportion in retrospect.
>>548907017 >nu zit ik maar een beetje losse huid tegen de onderkant aan te tikken, dat moet 'fappen' voorstellen lol'd misschien moet je toch aan de glijmiddel met de blote palm, dat doen de murican's ook. zou ik nu nooit kunnen omdat m'n eikel te gevoelig is, maar aangezien je hier 2 jaar mee rondloopt is jouw gevoeligheid misschien zover dat je dat wel zou kunnen. >die gekke moslims en amerikanen, wat doen ze hun kinderen aan. Ja en dan ook nog als een religekkie hun standpunt vasthouden dat het het meest geweldige ding is in de wereld. Mafkezen.
>>548907430 I think you're trolling but I'll bite; I think it's pretty fucking easy to observe that women have earth-shattering orgasms compared to dudes and just the act of sticking a dick in a pleasure-glove in your body feels better than rubbing a meat pole. >>548907451 >>548907464 Yup, yup.
>>548907518 My gf of 3 years has never moaned before. My ex gf who I was with for 2 months did moan though. And I give my current gf much better sex than my ex gf. That tells me girls who moan do so out of preference rather than necessity from so much "pleasure."
>Dat feel when you finally learn sex with a girl in real life is nothing like the porn vids you have seen where the girl is screaming from "pleasure."
>>548906840 It's much easier to perform surgery on an adult penis than it is on a toddlers, so chances of things going wrong and ending up with scarred, mutilated, 1/3-dipped-in-acid-looking cocks like yours is pretty much non-existent.
>>548907967 More foreplay - touch, lick, rub, tease her for half an hour or so before you put your dick inside her. Try dominating her more - treat her like a whore, slap her, stick your finger in her butt. A lot of the pleasure and moaning is psychological rather than merely physical.
She might still not moan, due to her nature as you say - but it might be she just needs a different kind of stimulation than your ex.
You should tell your doctor the truth first, and tell him why you will kill yourself. Then an hero. But first, tell the truth to as many people as you can, regardless of whether they believe it or not.
>>548908587 She is extremely introverted and even after 3 years won't let me see her fully naked lol. We still have sex, she just has a top on every time. She would never let me do the things you suggest though I will say they are good suggestions and I wish I could.
>>548903712 Kut voor je OP, ik heb iets soortgelijks alleen komt het niet door phimosis. Zonder al te diep er op in te gaan: Dokters in Nederland zijn debiel als het op piemels aankomt. Ik loop hier ook al meer dan een jaar mee rond (piemel doet vrijwel altijd pijn en is gekrompen, kan niet fatsoenlijk zitten, ook veel gevoelijgheid verloren en pijn tijdens het klaarkomen), en ik moet zeggen dat ik er aan kan wennen (natuurlijk is het verschrikkelijk), misschien jij ook wel. Ik hoop dat je hier wat aan hebt vent, ik voel met je mee. Het is een kutcliche om nu te zeggen maar je bent meer dan je lul
>>548908741 'Let' you do things? That is part of the problem.
You aren't taking charge. Give her orders instead of asking permission.
"Take off your shirt/panties/bra." "Turn around" "Lift your butt up" Give commands to her like you would do to a dog you like. No need to be rude, but you don't ask a dog if he feels like sitting down, you just tell him to sit - he either does it or he doesn't do it.
Why did you stay with this girl for 3 years - what was your ex girlfriend like, apart from the moaning?
Try my suggestions, start small and lightly. If you are fucking her doggy style, slap her butt - not too hard, if she doesn't complain, try it a little harder. Hold her hair, pull it in a bunch and keep a little tension on it while you are fucking her - then fuck her a bit harder.
Really, women like to be dominated - whether they will ever admit it directly or not.
Ja en ik was nog naïef toen ik 20-21 was. ik wist dat stretchen mogelijk was, en zalfjes maar ik ging er heen met de "Zij zijn dokters (en ziet dit dagelijks) dus weten het wel beter" mentaliteit.
Nou mooi niet dus. en ik ben niet meer dan mijn lul. ik heb altijd hoog libido gehad, en ik denk aan niks anders. Het hele leven draait om seks, sommige mensen hebben bijv. een drukker leven waardoor ze zich er minder mee bezig houden.
> Ja en dan ook nog als een religekkie hun standpunt vasthouden dat het het meest geweldige ding is in de wereld. Mafkezen.
In Amerika wordt het niet uit religieus standpunt gedaan. Het wordt daar gezien als "schoner" en "gezonder". Maar het mindert daar ook al hoor, volgens mij was het gemiddeld met 40% gedaald in de laatste decennia.
>>548905142 For cut people thy eigther have little sensitivity if it nerves retracts after the cutting. When nerves are out over they ofter grow out and tries to reconnect. Since the foreskin is gone they have nothing to reconnect to and can grow out to become sensors that overstimulate instead of giving the right amount. Therefore cut can often experience pain with orgasm.
>>548909314 Thank you for the advice. I have tried being aggressive but maybe I have not tried hard enough. Will remember your tips next time I am fucking her.
It would be nice to see her naked...
Oh and my ex was a cunt. She broke up with me because she found some other dude. In bed she was a lot more open though. Got naked, let me lick her vagina, the whole bit. But no anal though. That was a huge downer.
OP it's possible to regrow your foreskin, there is a whole bunch of dudes out there who have done it. You won't get the frenulum back if it was destroyed, but you can regrow full coverage and functionality from your remaining foreskin tissue by stimulating mitosis (directly below your glans the skin is lighter and more sensitive, this is whats left of your foreskin but turned inside out). It takes about 2 years to go from a tight cut to full coverage but it can be done if you hate it so much.
>>548912332 Yep. There is a shit load of information out there but the people who have stuck through it seem to be extremely satisfied, both with functionality and restored sensitivity. I've even seen some accounts of guys who were cut and restored as adults and they thought it was a life changing improvement.
If anyone is seriously depressed over this, I suggest googling that shit.
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