hey /an/, should I feel bad for not wanting to let my cat outdoors? My family thinks I'm basically a sadist for never letting my cat outside, even though he always wanders off into other peoples' yards across the street, hides when you go looking for him. 5 years ago they let my cat out and he was ran over and killed. Another cat was was mauled to death by dogs. I don't fucking get it, it's like it won't click in their heads that it's a bad idea to let your pets out when it's clearly too dangerous until all of their pets are dead.
i have my cat for more than a year and he had no problems besides scars due to fights with other cats
>>2432973
normies are retarded and it's impossible to even discuss the problems of outdoor cats with them because they'll proceed to anthropomorphise the fuck outta them and say shit like "it's natural for a cat to be outside and murder the local fauna!" or "imagine how you would feel like!"
>>2432973
Just get a cat harness and leash.
>>2432978
Have already tried that. He's just too uncomfortable with it on him. The only solution they're willing to agree with is if I build him an enclosure outside, but they're still going to let him out when I'm traveling for work.
Their whole argument for letting him out is "but he's so much happier outdoors!" Yeah I'm sure he's going to be real happy when he's smashed in the road, or being ripped apart by dogs, or slowly dying because somebody poisoned him, etc. I think I would honestly rather give him away to a family I know and trust that will keep him safe and take care of him. Sorry for the rant guys, it's just really upsetting me.
>>2432984
Just call them mongoloids and tell them to leave you alone.
As for the harness, cats need training to handle it.
>>2432984
Do you live with this family? If not, don't let them watch your animals while you're away. Honestly a cat can do fine for 4 or 5 days with a few gravity feeders and a ton of litter boxes, and after that you could just hire someone to come by and take care of it.
My brother let my cat out who I never saw again and then a few years later let my friend's dog out that i was watching. So I changed my locks
>>2432973
Just tell them to fuck off.
>>2432973
Aren't there kennels or friends that you can put your cat in temporarily? If you are that scared of your idiotic family, just take kitteh to a friend's house or something.
>>2433001
I would beat the ever loving shit out of someone if they just let my dog or cat just run out the front door. What the hell is wrong with people?