I'm a really vanilla sex kinda guy that likes it when its

>vanilla
>kinky
If you're not kinky, why are you trying to get into this?

>>18730845
Because the women that I want are kinky

I don't know why I even bother replying to what's most likely some delusional sexless guy.
Basically it's about power/status. Being confident in yourself and your abilities, standing out and offering something more interesting than what an average guy would. And being able to handle it when a woman gives you power over her.
You sound like some guy that wants to learn it in much the same way you would learn to play a video game. This will ultimately blow in your face because the will to do this has to come from within you as a goal in and of itself and not as a mere pretext to sleep with kinky girls to make you feel better about yourself.

>>18730833
You're dominant in sex when you let yourself get carried away by your lust and take and do whatever you please

>>18730879
You sound like one of those guys.

>>18731152
she sounds worse, i got about 30 words in and "opinion discarded" flashed across my mind, in greentext and everything. was pretty amusing actually.

>>18731152

Which is why I can talk about it with some conviction. You're most likely not cut out to be a "dom" if you're asking for directions here. Go ahead and prove me wrong though.

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>>18731166
Woah chill i'm not even OP