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Fiance coworker is a dick Fiance been working at this new kitchen

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Fiance coworker is a dick

Fiance been working at this new kitchen job. Mostly dudes. One of the cooks is a total dick literally made one of the girls quit. He is being a dick to my fiance as well. She has told her managers and they won't do shit. They keep telling her they would fire him once someone replaces him. Nobody has been applying to this shitty job. She said at one instance he threatened to fight her. Now I am no bitch I showed up looking for me and he wasn't there the next day. She found out and cried out of fear for me and convinced me she would talk to her managers even more. After some more bs today I've decided enough is enough as a man I can no longer watch this and I will go and try to find him tomorrow and beat his ass. I nees your advice tho. Considering he will snitch how much shit will I get in? At my job some shit is also going on which might get me fired (another long story) I'm just afraid being fired already will hurt my oppurtunity to get a job will this make it even worse? I considered talking to a lawyer or something else. Are there any other options?

>Tldr I'm gonna go beat my fiance coworker tomorrow. To not screw my future what other my other options
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You plan to commit assault and you expect not to get in trouble?
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Listen nigga
You replace the cunt, just lie about your experience.

win/win whiteboi
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>>18730524
>You plan to commit assault and you expect not to get in trouble?
What else am I supposed to do dude Every thing in me kills me as a man

>>18730529
>Listen nigga
>You replace the cunt, just lie about your experience.
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>win/win whiteboi
I'm Arab that's why I'm having this issue my pride too big lmao
>inb4 blowing myself up or Isis shit
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>>18730534
>What else am I supposed to do dude Every thing in me kills me as a man
Do what you want, but be prepared to face the repercussions.
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>>18730535
Have you ever been in a situation like this?
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>>18730536
No, but I know that "he was being mean to her" is not a defence to an assault charge.
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>>18730538
>>>18730536 (You)
>No, but I know that "he was being mean to her" is not a defence to an assault charge.
Ok well that's true that's why I'm asking for advice. I just don't want to act out of anger and screw myself over but at the same time I do not want to let some man does shit like that to my woman. I'm just stuck seeing if anybody has other ideas or options
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>>18730543
Try telling her to apply to new jobs. Either way kitchens are notoriously hard places to work in regardless.
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>>18730547
Yeah I've been helping her apply its just doesnt happen over night. I'm just so stressed out over shit like I'm about to be a scapegoat at my job and get fired as an example and this mother fucker does this shit I just feel like I'm failing as a man I have to do something
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>>18730549
>I'm failing as a man
Jesus Christ, you are so cringey. She's an adult, she can more than stand up for herself if she needs to. You don't need to baby her and protect her.
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>>18730549
First do you use indeed.com to look for jobs? I can't imagine she makes very much working in a kitchen so basically any other job should suffice. Another thing for her to try, especially if she write, type and speak well is a temp agency. Can your GF speak, write, read, and type well? At least speak, write, read.
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>>18730552
How am I cringry trying to protect my family as a man? You must be one of those white boys who stands behind your wife let her pay lmao. Obviously she is an adult but is she gonna fight a guy? If so why even get married anymore? If women and man can handle themselves just fine on their own why do ppl get married?

Also image related; how I feel around ppl like you haha
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>>18730557
It's 2017, not 1950. Fedoras aren't acceptable headwear anymore.
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>>18730554
Thanks for that imma look into it maybe I can help her find a job much quicker
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>>18730558
I'm Arab thought u would say turban or some shit lmao
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>>18730563
>I'm an Arab
Then you would know that Arabs don't wear turbans.
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>>18730566
You must be educated to know that and be on 4chan lol
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>>18730522
Just go find the guy and threaten him to beat him up, but don't actually act upon that threat unless he leaves you no choice. At that point I'd advise you to aim for the solar plexus with your hand like the one on top in pic related.
What it does is it prevents the guy from breathing for a few seconds, it should be an impressive enough sensation for the guy to calm down, but it's harmless and most importantly it leaves no trace, so he couldn't actually press charges unless there are witnesses.
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>>18730597
forgot pic
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>>18730597
>so he couldn't actually press charges unless there are witnesses.
Why do I get the feeling you know nothing about the legal system?
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>>18730615
Believe it or not, in most countries, in order to press charges against someone for physically assaulting you, you need to prove you were actually assaulted. So the police departments medical unit examines your body to evaluate the extent of the harm that was caused to you. If there is absolutely no sign of injury on your body, and you can't produce any witness to the altercation, you won't be able to press charges.
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>>18730557
True, you gotta protect her.
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>>18730615
>>18730710
I'm not saying this is entirely correct. But it is somewhat correct.
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>>18730718
>>18730710
You know that a) the victim can act as a witness and b) circumstantial evidence is a thing, right?
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>>18730557
>You must be one of those white boys who stands behind your wife let her pay lmao

TL;DR OP is some shitskin trying to act alpha. Imo beign violent is in your primitive nature, just attack him so cops can shoot you and we have one less nigger to deal with.
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>>18730726
The victim can act as a witness but it's not very strong when there's no other evidence. Not that I'm advising for that because when you punch someone in the stomach usually they're going to fight you back. Then they're going to become much more beat up if you win. If you lose they're just going to whoop your ass and still call the cops. So, it is not usual that someone would have been battered with just 1 hit.
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>>18730726
As >>18730730 pointed out, self-witness and circumstantial evidence don't hold much weight if we're talking about an assault that left no fucking sign on your body.

That said, >>18730730 , have you ever experienced being hit in the plexus ? It actually really calms you down as you can't move for a few seconds, much like a small hit with a taser would. Most people won't actually restart the fight after that, given it's been clear that you were only defending yourself and no trying to attack if they didn't start.
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I'm not saying you should do nothing but don't be rash about it.

The easiest solution is for her to change jobs. I understand how that can eat you up inside though.

Kicking his ass is the more visceral solution and will probably feel good if done right but you have to be smart about the consequences. Like other anons said it isn't fun to be tried for assaulting someone which leaves you with a couple of variants :
- kicking his ass anonymously. Pros : will feel good; if he doesn't connect it with your wife then she's safe. Cons : will only work if you incapacitate him severely (p.e. break his hands/arms, blind him, etc) ; he won't necessarily associate it with his behavior and might resume it when he goes back ; he might be quicker/luckier than you and kick your ass ; you might kill him by accident ; you might go to jail.
- kick his ass and let him know why. pros : will feel good; he might back off. Cons : he or his friends might take it out on your wife (burns, rape, beating, be even more of a dick) ; the rest of the cons are described above.

Another way to go about it is to intimidate him. Get buddies/family to gang up on him and threaten or bully him. Pros : might work, relatively innocuous and no one can accuse you of anything if you do it in an isolated place and your buddies are trustworthy. Cons : if he isn't intimidated he might take it out on your wife; might still go to the cops especially if there are witnesses.

Another alternative is to plant shit on him and call the cops/manager anonymously aiming to get him charged with something or fired. It's elegant and more or less safe for you and your family if done carefully.
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>beating someone up for your gf
You got tricked, she's probably the one harassing him
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>>18730756
>>18730597
Thanks a lot guys I appreciate all the info I'm gonna be smart about this and think this thru
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>>18730778
Yeah we'll see what I'm gonnq do... Thank You
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