I went to a strip club for the first time last night with some

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I went to a strip club for the first time last night with some of my military friends for my birthday. I got lap dances nonstop, got spanked on stage, and even had a stripper jerk me off while I played with her. Best night of my life.

But, I also have a girlfriend who I have been with for 7 years. We met in high school and we both put on some weight since then. I do a lot of lifting and cardio whereas she does nothing because "it hurts" and refuses to eat any fruit or vegetables. She weighs more than I do now and I am finding myself not interested in her anymore. We play MMORPGs together, or at least we did until I took an assignment in another state for a couple of months. She plays with her online friends and refuses to join me in the game I am on.

I was not upset having to leave her, and I still don't feel like I need her with me. I hit a point a few months ago where I noticed she does not listen to me when I talk anymore. I don't have many friends since we would game together often and she shows no interest in hearing what I have to say or what I did for the day.

I don't know if these feelings I had are just amplified because of last night or this is how I truly feel. The last time we had sex I lost my erection midway through because she just lays there doing nothing. No kissing, hugging, wrapping her legs around me, nothing.

I'm confused guys and I just need help on what to do next. I won't see her again for another 2 months and I don't know how I feel about breaking up over the phone, especially a 7 year relationship.