There's a girl I really like at work and she keeps talking

>>18723606

>knows you have a crush on her
>instead of giving you hope she treats you respectfully like an adult who can handle his own emotions

who knows.

Incredibly low-self esteem plus being a shitty asshole. Easy solution, ask her to stop sharing her sex life with you and then give her no special attention. She will find some other sad schmuck to leech attention from by then.

>>18723610
You don't think its cruel in any way shape or form?

>>18723606
Instead of thinking of her as pussy on a pedestal, think of her like a human being. People like to brag to their friends.

>>18723615

Personally I think it's a deliberate dick move but that you should be mature enough to get over it. That isn't even normal conversation for coworkers to begin with.

>>18723615

its more cruel for you to expect her to conduct her self to suit your emotions every single day considering you work together and your the one who flung your feelings at her.

i dont even like women, but it sounds dumb what you're doing.

like the other anon said it is a DICK MOVE, but the whole point is that shes not giving you hope. shes not playing along to not hurt your feelings. shes living her life, making a point that it doens't include you, and hoping to hell you can process it in a way that makes you get over her instead of being whiny.

>>18723606
because a liberal society, particularly a neoliberal society, allows for total degeneracy with little consequence.

since you asked such a broad question

>>18723606

Instead of asking this question, why don't you explain to us why you would ever speak to her again?

Because either A) She's a cunt that's taunting you or B) You're a cunt that doesn't get the message and she's making it a point to tell you she's not a available.

>>18723623
I weigh 160 kilos.
Like I know I am ugly. I never threw my feelings at her, that is you projecting whatever you're carrying. I just once said after 4 days of working there I thought she was beautiful and if she would like to come to have something to eat with me after work.
Her response was she has a bf and even if she was single that I'm a "fatass" and she wouldn't date anyone so overweight ever especially an ethnic. (My parents are Indian, Telagu)

No one else at my job speaks to me like this and co workers have told me quietly she only talks like this when I am around because I "creep her out" when all I did was ask her to join me having a snack 2 months ago.

I know what I am, I know her and virtually zero women alive want me, but why continue with this behavior? I never once asked her again or ever raised it to anyone at my job especially her.

>>18723644

>all i did was ask her to join me for a snack

no, you did more than that. You called her beautiful first, and then asked her on a date, which is more than JUST asking someone to join you for a snack, its asking for a romantic commitment for at least one night.

if you know your fat and ugly then why ask out a girl you work with? i mean sure you dont HAVE to aim low, but bringing that to your place of work 4 days into one of you working there is pretty dumb

>>18723644
She sounds like a horrible human being you need to avoid at all costs. I would never treat a man like that who asked me on a date. I would say, "Sorry, I have a boyfriend, but we can be friends." In fact I have responded this way multitudes of times in regards to invitations for dates. I have never been rude to someone who was innocently interested. The fact that she makes it so apparent that she is repulsed by you and treats you like shit bothers me a lot, anon.

You are worth respect.

>>18723658
I think you have some issues you can't solve and take it out on strangers.

>>18723664
I have to work with her. A co worker told me I should make a written complaint about her, but I do not want the conflict. I just want to do my work. I would like to be friends but every second day I hear lewd stories about how this bf has a huge cock and she passes out from all the fucking, 50% of the time she is looking at me while she says it.

>>18723670

continue to delude your self instead of listening to what you are doing when you ask your co worker out.

>>18723644

Op are you retarded or do you just like it when she openly shits in your mouth? Please gain one grain of self-respect and come back to us again. You are actually being creepy although she's feeding into it.

Like honestly there is exactly one step to this issue and it's: stop talking to that mothertucking girl and don't creep on her. Done.

>>18723670
These are not normal workplace conversations. She is being very inappropriate in the work place, creating a negative environment. Your coworker is right, you should file a written complaint. If she is written up for her behavior, she will probably stop making inappropriate conversation.

>>18723610
Retarded response. OP, she does this because women get off on making Betas feel bad. You are the Beta. Become the Alpha. Ignore this slut and hit the gym. Become the guy that girls like her talk to their Beta orbiters about.

>>18723670
>>18723694

don't be a fucking snitch. just leave her alone god damn

>>18723727
t. Turbo cuck

>>18723694

Yeah I mean seriously, I don't even talk about my anal sex life 99 percent of the way to alcohol poisoning with my best friends unless it's a special occasion. She should be written up. Honestly you'd be doing her a favor because what she doing is both unprofessional and a huge assshole move.

There's a girl who I know has a crush on me, and I tell her about my sex life.

Whatever dude, I told her that I wasn't into her, she wanted to stay friends, so here we are.

>>18723623
>>18723643
>>18723658
>>18723686
>>18723690
EVERY
SINGLE
FUCKING
TIME

I see some troll find a way to make the endless chorus of incels here regurgitate rejection in the very manner they themselves have suffered from others.
And how quickly you all are to dish out the some poison is shocking yet like clockwork.
You faggots get sucked in every damn time.
Like manlet's when will you ever learn?

lmao this thread.
Write that dumb skank up OP, get that bitch fierd.
Ahhhaha who are we kidding, she will just say that you made lewd comments at her to save her own skin and your ass will be fierd.
They will fire your pajeet ass quicker than you can sau curry my friend, welcome to the world that puts women as a higher order of citizen.

>>18723785
Who the fuck are you?
How about you fuck off you queer?

>>18723785

Anon, friend, would you like some tea? You seem to be going through some shit which is causing you to pound out crazy shit on your keyboard.

Yeah this girl who repeatedly rejected op, baits him, is inappropriate, insulted him directly is *totally* going to come around and duck op. You're right anon. Me and those other 5 guys were such pessimists.

>>18723606
>Why do girls behave like this?
It could be low self-esteem, but it could also be a thing she has going on with her bf.

Girl:
>I think OP likes me, he's givin me vibes

bf:
>you should find out by messing with him

girl:
>how

bf:
>tell him or mention near him how we fuck

All op did was say she's beautiful and essentially ask to hang out

All the permavirgins itt hate on fat apu because he has more guts than they'll ever had in their shitty lives

I'm
Not a fan of curries or fatties but dammit I hate effeminate bitchy numale men more than anything
Gutless cowards

>>18723606
Women shouldn't be talking like that. Millennial roastie vermin.

Tell her you'll give her anal orgasm with your dick in her mouth.

>>18723606
Fucking bitches today are trash
Seriously fucking disgusting

She wants a threesome

>>18724292
What with a tubby pooinloo?
She must be into scat

Had that with a girl in school. Explained to me in detail how she got fucked in the ass at the eiffel tower when on vacation with her older boyfriend.

I was an idiot back then. But i jus listened, considered it porn and thought nothing of it.
She ainy hinting you, she just is giving you a hard time, and having fun seeing you cant handle her talk, in her mind she might be thinking she is doing you a favour for sharing.

If it doesnt feel friendly. It probably isnt though. Tell her that you thin its really inappropiate to talk about anal fucking on the workfloor.