How do I stop using degrading and horrible porn, and switch back

Watching BDSM made me able to talk to girls like a normal person. What the fuck are you jerking off to that is so bad?

>>18722997
>Watching BDSM made me able to talk to girls like a normal person.

I'd love you to explain the mechanics of how this happened.

I don't have trouble talking to girls, I just go a long time between fucks. I fuck sex workers once a month, usually. Between those times, I fap.

>>18723006
You see, I viewed girls as these clean, beautiful, innocent, angels. Seeing BDSM videos where she begs for 4 cocks at the same time while being handcuffed, spanked, beat, etc, made me realise that they're mentally fragile, if not mentally ill creatures. They're just as dirty, if not more dirty than us guys. Nothing of this has to be real, it was just my take-away from it all. It made me fucking charismatic. People pay thousands of $$ for that shit.

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>>18723032
That's the abridged 3:00 AM version of the story, though.

>>18723036

>they're more fragile

We're all human, ain't nobody more nothin' boi. This is just you worrying that there's some magical difference between humans other than the physical stuff.

Porn is all degrading. It's literally almost all contract work these people get paid to do. It's work. There's nothing assuring or degrading about it; it's what they're paid to do. Garbage men get paid to haul trash. It's not degrading, it's work.

Or what, did you think Candee Lace and Jay Rock were actual people sharing actual lovemaking as an actual married couple? Nigga probably named Charles or Edmund or something. She's probably named Caity Mills. Or something boring.

Porn is all just porn. It's shit they send down a line at you. If you think it's degrading you're basically talking about all of it; if you think it's not, same thing.

The real problem here is the sex workers, because you're fostering the idea that sex is just something you buy. You're probably lacking the human connection you actually desire.

>>18723032
That's great.

I just want to not have to get off to stuff like a fat girl shitting on two old guys, or drinking a tall glass of piss.

>>18723058
You seem really confused, you're answering two posters, one of whom is saying that they AREN'T more fragile, the other of whom didn't say anything about fragility - that was me, OP, the one with the sex workers.

I don't really want a human connection right now, the kind of woman I could get would be mediocre at best.

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>>18723058
I'll post a proper reply tomorrow, Ms. pseudo-intellectual.

>>18723058
>>18723069
To address the parts of your post that seem to be about me - it's what's depicted that's degrading. Nothing's degrading to the person if they want to do it. It's the scenario.

>>18723069

Oh, I thought you broke the story up into three pieces?

Anyway, fragility aside, what seems to be the problem? Porn is porn and it's either all arguably degrading or it's not. (we'll leave amateur hour outta this since something something indeps)

>>18723062

This on the other hand is even less degrading. These people again all want this; if degrading is the appeal that's one thing, but I think these people are just contract workers.

Besides the human connection is the problem really just that you'd rather get off to soft stuff? Why not slowly work backwards, wean off of the deep-end shit and come back to missionary over time?

Just having a tough time determining what the problem is at the core. I thought you were the fragility poster which woulda made this real easy!!

>>18723078
The problem is not being able to get off to anything else.

>>18722993
nofap is an option and it's how you do it. don't be an idiot.

taking a break will increase your sensitivity to the porn stimuli and then you'll be able to get off to softer porn

not gonna waste any more time in this thread

>>18723097
It's not an option, I nofapped for a week before a really good day where I fucked five sex workers, but that's not a routine thing and I couldn't have done it if I hadn't wanted to be sure of being potent for the big day.

>>18723104

>a week

Nofap usually involves monthS, not a week. Or even a month.

I thought it was like 120 days or something? You may get results going longer than just a week.

>>18723078
Fragility poster was saying that he DIDN'T think that way.

>>18723108
It's cult bullshit. I have no intention of doing anything as unnatural for an adult male as not orgasming for a month.

>>18722993
Stop porn. Try it for a month. You can still fap.

>>18723159
This is good advice, thanks man!