Any tips for getting over a fear of letting people down?
I find that if I have to do something that only affects me, I can he really good at it and I have tons of confidence. Like there's a lot of cringy shit I do in real life that I just laugh off and I think my friends appreciate that. But if it's a group activity or a team sport or when I'm with a girl, I always feel like I'm not good enough, like no matter how well I do, unless I'm perfect, they will be disappointed. Part of me thinks this stems from issues I have with my parents but that's kind of irrelevant since I don't talk to them much anymore. I have gone to therapy for other things and that helped a little bit but not much.
>>18718784
Have you tried not taking yourself so seriously?
>>18718784
i really want to see billy corgan do a pitbull cover now
>>18718786
That's the thing is for the most part I don't, I'm a pretty big goof and generally really laid back and comfortable with myself. And even if i have rational/empirical evidence that people don't pay that much attention to my flaws or inadequacies in certain situations I can't help but worry about it.