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Why does it feel like such a chore to be with a girl? I've

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Why does it feel like such a chore to be with a girl? I've recently met a chick, we click really well but I just don't feel like doing anything. Hate is a strong word but yeah, I hate the texting game, having to call her for shit, now we planned a trip just the 2 of us this weekend but I'd rather ride my bike alone, set up camp somewhere in the woods and fry some meat.
I know I'm an innately lonely person but I don't think it's normal for it to feel like such a burden. That's why it's so hard for me to maintain relationships and friends, that it generally tires the fuck out of me to be with people. Otherwise I'm a fairly active, happy and high-energy person.

How do I find a like-minded gf? I'm tired of this chick and I barely know her. Not even looking forward to go in vacation with her.
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>>18718209
It's not that it's a chore to be with a girl, it's just that you don't love that girl and you like being alone more
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>>18718212
It's a chore even calling my best friend. Every time he calls me he's all like "dude you never call wtf man" and I unironically love that man more than pretty much anyone (inb4 fag). It's a chore even having to talk with the cashier at fucking KFC. I just don't like being around people and interacting with people at all. I'm sure there's some sort of name for this condition but whatever.
Now, there has been a random chick I met once I don't even remember where, but she made me feel like I could be myself (like don't give a fuck about her and being with her 24/7) and she would love me unconditionally. How do I meet a girl that would love me unconditionally?
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>>18718223
you want a woman with no standards and no self respect to give you the benefits of a relationship (work on HER END) without receiving any of the benefits of a relationships.

just don't date. get a fuckbuddy. relationships require mutual work. maybe one day you'll meet someone worth the work or someone with equally low social needs.
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>>18718223
I feel the same way man. Always wish people would get to the point or shut the fuck up.

Used to be I'd always rather stay in my cave than go somewhere for or with someone, but I'm trying to improve on that these days.
Going up town with the lads is a more common occurrence now.

I myself have Asperger's, but you should probably get yourself diagnosed if you think you have a condition.

Also, as >>18718353 said, you need to put some effort in yourself, relationships work both ways.
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>>18718209
you're clearly supposed to be a hermit.

become catholic and join the carmelite monastery
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