I've been in a relationship for 2,5 years now, and I'd say I'm happy. Of course there are up and downs, but I dont know a person that I have a deep understanding with like my gf.
I'm in South Korea since june and will stay for 2 Semesters, while she stays at home in Europe. She can't visit before february next year because of studying and her job.
We talk nearly everyday, but the missing physical closeness is really slowly driving me crazy.
We've talked about it, and there was no solution from it other than "it is what it is".
I caught myself thinking about making a tinder account multiple times now, so I figured I'd ask here what you guys would do.
>inb4 "you just want a wildcard and us to make you feel better"
No, I seriously dont know how to solve this, you can insult me, because I thought about the tinder thing if you want.
>>18718067
lol dont do it wtf??? is a one time hookup really more to you than your entire relationship? kys.
If she's worth it, don't do shit mang.
I met the girl of my dreams like four months ago. She's literally what I would've described in a "Post your perfect GF stats"-Thread before I met her. Of course life is a damn whore and doesn't just give you good things for free. So the thing is, before I met this girl she already was planning a Work&Travel-trip to NZ. Still I went in like the idiot I am, she also, and now we're separated since two months. Still 6 and a half to go.
I'm going slowly crazy, like you describe. I guess you just can work through it. There's nothing more to it. If she's worth it, you have to do the time. At my point, it seems hopeless and futile. Another seven months? Kill me. But what can I do? It's life, you suffer and hope its worth it, thats all that is to it anyway.
About the tinder-thing - a month ago I got a new colleague, and she sometimes seems to come on to me, if I'd get behind it I could plow that grille. But for what? Guilt? She's not even half as good as my GF. Loneliness alone doesn't constitute a reason for cheating. Especially if she's worth it.
Stick through it. In the end you of course have to descide if she's worth it.