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Why can't I stand up for myself? Like I'm literally

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Why can't I stand up for myself? Like I'm literally always full of fear and frozen. I have "friends" that used to pick on me and yell at me.

I think part of it is they only do it when I'm high on weed and weed makes me really non violent and increases my inhibitions but I think I'm still pretty bad sober. I really don't like to fight people on weed tho it's like my heroin it's the only feeling I ever want and as soon as I get it I'm afraid of killing my buzz but I had these schizophrenic ass holes as friends and they literally just bully me and I do nothing even though they're half my size and nerdy little faggots.

There's times I'm not stoned and they say something stupid and my brain says "call them a fucking retard" but I just hold back and then regret it. I'm just a really nice person but I need to stop.
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>terally just bully me and I do nothing even though they're half my size and nerdy little faggots.
just punch them
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>>18718007
Don't stop being a nice person. Them being assholes to you goes against everything you stand for, so I would just point it out to them that they're being assholes. "Don't worry about it man. If I had a face like your I'd be pissed off too". If that kind of shit doesn't come naturally to you then you should treat them the same way your consvience treats you when you're acting like an asshole. What would your conscience say to YOU for that? Say that to them.
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maybe they're being assholes because they care about you and don't like seeing you as some submissive loser. just give one of those little twirps a quick slap upside the head and tell them "that's enough". i'm a total beta male and even i could do that much
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A lot of people are gonna tell you to just do it but I think the best advice is the truth. Standing up for yourself is hard if you haven't done it before. You're going to be a blubbering mess when you start to do it, too. Pot is doing a lot to inhibit you but you don't need to quit, I still smoke a bowl every 20-60 minutes. Don't focus on achieving equilibrium on drugs, this is really unhealthy behavior. Achieve peace of mind with your thoughts, then do the drugs anyway to appease your addiction. This keeps you focused on what you're about beyond the drugs.

Or you know you can quit I guess, kill all the birds with one stone.
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