I dated a girl for 2.5 years and we were in love. The relationship ended in university when she couldn't make time for me anymore. It's been 3-4 years now and I still think about her everyday.
I just don't understand why. I know she's moved on with her life and doesn't think or care about me anymore. We don't even speak. Yet everyday I'll think about her and I wish I didn't.
Can anyone give me some reasons for this or a tip to stop?
>>18717001
Have you asked ou other guys ? Nothing made me get out of the loss of a guarenteed regular pussy then having my soul crushed endlessly but beautiful women.
>>18717001
>Can anyone give me some reasons for this
The mind-virus got to her. Sorry, man.
She probably bought into the narrative that she needs to """find herself""" by fucking a bunch of different dicks. It hurts horribly, I know, but at this point you have little choice but to move on.
If she comes back to you later, remember to reject her. She had her chance, and she threw it away. Her activities have certainly changed her personality, for the worst--the person you loved is already dead.
So I advise you to start mourning, then move on.
>>18717002
I've gone out with about half a dozen women since then and none of them were interested in me. A lot of first dates where they didn't reply to my texts afterwards and a couple who just seemed to forget I existed after awhile.
I'm not really looking for another relationship (too much drama and bullshit games) and I'm sick of introductions. I just want to know why I still care for someone who probably hasn't thought about me in a very long time.
>>18717008
It's been almost 4 years, I mourned about it long ago. I just can't stop ruminating. I know the person she was back then is long dead so I think about her as if she might as well be dead. But why is it everyday?
>>18717031
Because you loved her, and her shell is still walking around as a reminder. Do you have any interests to devote yourself to?