I ran into an old flame this past weekend while I was visiting college. We share the same birthday so we ended up spending the night together. In the past I was kind of a piece of shit to her even though she is really cool. I got her number and we have been texting but the thing is I don't want to lead her on/text her everyday. She is still in college and I graduated in May and I am trying to get my shit together, and I honestly don't have time for her or really any women right now. How do I explain to her that I am not trying to ghost her or treat her shitty but I don't want anything serious right now? She is already telling me that I am a rubbish texter but to be honest I don't want to sit around texting someone and for feelings to develop on either side.
>>18715769
were you guys in a relationship before?
>>18715800
no but some feelings were starting to be established especially by her. i just don't want to lead her on like last time. I don't expect her to wait for me to grow up and be an adult but she is still in college for the next year.