>meet girl A, really like her
>haven't felt this way about someone in a long time
>we're hooking up, but not together (i'm seeing other people, blinded by novelty, she doesn't want a relationship anyway)
>she gets clingy, I let it go
>she gets distant, I get clingy, she's pulls away even more, almost completely
>she says she just gets in these moods where she's either really social and sexual, or very reserved and a loner, but i'm almost certain it's a result of my clinging
>no longer hooking up/hanging out
>been a while, start seeing other people
>meet girl B, really like her
>been having out a while now, hooked up
>she seems very into/ready for a relationship, and may leave if i don't ask her to be soon
>now, girl A seems to be coming around again
>telling me how much she misses me, we should hang out more, etc.
>still really like her
What should I do? I've never felt the same way about anyone else as I do for girl A, but I do really like girl B and she's totally into me as well.
>>18715254
Girl A is going to break your heart. Go with girl B. You cannot control your feelings for A. This places her in a position of power by default. Most importantly, she either has commitment issues, or she only wants you when she thinks she can't have you. Or maybe she's a little jealous that you're into another girl, and she's back to "claim her property," and keep you orbiting her.