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I have trouble connecting to others. When I talk to someone, I can tell that they often seem slightly put off by my blank expressions and stare. I struggle smiling sincerely, sometimes when I smile out of the wish that they like me it comes off as a weird grin.
I guess it's all intertwined with being tense or awkard, but it's not just that.
Even though I'm a major pussy when it comes to women, on the rare occasions that I did hit on them I felt it was a pretty big thing cockblocking me. When I sat down with a date from tinder or tried to get a chick in the club to dance, instead of meaningful eye contact my gaze expressed some distant cosmic terror of space illimitable.
I'm an introvert, INTJ on the meme scale, and to the best of my knowledge I don't have autism. I'm pretty good looking but I need to make myself act more human or normal.
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You didn't actually ask a question or say anything that could be used to start a conversation so I'll throw you a bone.
In your seven sentences you mentioned yourself fourteen times. Stop that. Get out of your own head-space and allow other people to demonstrate who they are instead of what you imagining they are. You aren't psychic so don't pretend you know what they are thinking. You'll be wrong more often than right. Stop over analyzing yourself and when you find yourself in an awkward situation own it and commit to it. And for the love of god loosen up a bit.
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So you say focus on others and the environment and not on yourself? I'm incredibly insecure, I worry about every fucking thing.
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