How do I get out of the "She sometimes pats me on the top of my head when walking past me and is nice to me more in a patronizing way than in a 'I want to be your friend, or even more' way - zone"?
Date other chicks, if she doesn't see you as potential bf material you have to show her.
Behave more manly
>>18708816
She is not into you. Sorry, but that's it. Move on. Dating her won't prove anything about you.